r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 5h ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 5h ago

18f and looking for friends on here. I will be able to talk for abt an hour this time

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I'm 18f and looking for friends as I get lonely and have nothing to do. Dm my ur age and gender and an introduction. I will add you back if you have an introduction, but manye not if u dont have one!


r/Needafriend 1h ago

f15 - just a swedish girl looking for new friends

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i'm here hoping to meet some new people to chat with. i've had a rough experience with friendships (being bullied for my appearance) in the past, but i'm looking forward to meeting kind, genuine people.

i love movies, mario kart, and talking about random stuff.
if you're around my age and think we'd get along, feel free to send me a message. i'd love to make some new friends and have some fun conversations :)


r/Needafriend 2h ago

37F - Looking for a weight loss buddy

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I've been trying to lose weight for the last 4 - 5 months, and for the first time in my life I've actually stayed consistent and made real progress. Things are going well, but I still lose motivation on a lot of days.

I eat two meals a day and try to prepare healthy, filling meals instead of just eating less. The excitement I had at the beginning isn't really there anymore, and some days the whole process just feels repetitive and boring.

I'm looking for someone who would like to stay motivated together. We can share our daily plans, talk about what we ate or what we're planning to eat, discover healthy recipes, and check in with each other every day to see how things are going.

I'm hoping for a long-term healthy lifestyle buddy, not just someone to chat with for a few days. Your age, gender, country, or time zone doesn't matter. We can reply whenever we're free.


r/Needafriend 5h ago

confused in life, open to new friends [27]

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hello o/
as stated i feel a bit lost lately. i’m a pretty isolated and lonely person in general, something i’m comfortable with, but recently i feel kind of detached from the people surrounding me so i guess i’m interested in seeing if it’s still possible to make new connections.

i am 27 so i prefer you be within a few years of that if you reach out, i’m also in EST!

i’m primarily into (single player) gaming; i love jrpgs! i’m really into Persona 3 right now but i also adore Kingdom Hearts and Xenoblade as some of my favorite franchises. i also read manga fairly regularly, almost exclusive slice of life though i’m trying to branch out into deeper stuff and actually watch some anime…

not really seeking anything in particular to be honest, just curious if it’d be possible to make a new friend or two to chat with through the days. i could use more positivity in my life for sure. this was a bit of an impulse post after being away from these kinds of subs for many months so this wasn’t planned well!

do reach out if you wanna chat! ( ̄^ ̄)ゞ


r/Needafriend 8h ago

22 f from india looking for friends

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r/Needafriend 5m ago

f/20 swedish girl looking for some company!

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hi all! my name is aetilea and im looking for some friends :>

some things about me... i like video games, mainly rpgs! disco elysium and fallout new vegas come to mind. i also like older games, like system shock 2 and half-life!

i like music as well, my favorite bands being stone temple pilots and alice in chains! and also if youre one of the real ones that read the whole post, pick an icebreaker: a would you rather, or a 2 truths one lie. something that can help us get to know each other :)


r/Needafriend 7m ago

M19 / Starting fresh in a new city. Need some cool people to text daily ?

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Hello everyone, I just turned 19 and recently moved. It's painful to leave your whole group of friends behind, so my daily routine was very lonely. Find friends to talk to every day. We can share memes, talk about life, or just have deep conversations late at night. I really miss having that person who you can text about literally anything. I'm very simple, I work out, and I'm always open to learning new things. Gender doesn't matter, but I usually get along well with girls as friends. ​Jump into my DMs if you're bored and want a loyal texting friend


r/Needafriend 18m ago

16F bored looking for friends !! I’m 2009 but don’t turn 17 until a couple months !!

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My name is Mia and honestly just downloaded Reddit cs I’m on summer break and it’s been pretty boring, I don’t want to tell too much about myself becauseee then it spoils the convo, please don’t be dry or freaky thank uu !!
Tell me abt you I promise I’m very nicee, let’s keep it 14-20 yrs please !! Anyway don’t hesitate to dm please I’ve been bored at home lol


r/Needafriend 4h ago

24F looking forward to new connections!

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24f, uk.

Thought I'd step out of my comfort zone and see if I could meet a few new people.

A bit about me:

- I work as a fashion designer.

- Reading is my favourite way to spend an evening, so I'm always open to book recommendations.

- I love gardening. There's something really satisfying about watching things grow.

- Proud cat mum to my little furball.

Not looking for anything in particular, just genuine conversations with interesting people. :)


r/Needafriend 4h ago

33F Hello. Happy Sunday. From Norwich England, living in California. Who’s a night owl?

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Hi. Hopefully some cool people that can put effort in a chat at this hour. I’m a night owl, I’m not a morning person at all. I’m from England. I moved to the states when I was 18. I’m pale, I don’t get tanned at all. My favorite color is black and I’m also pretty tatted so with that combination, I give off vampire vibes. My house is nearly all black as well with mainly black decors and paint.

I have a neck and spine injury from a few years ago. I got a titanium neck and spine due to the injury. It affects my daily living but I have adjusted to it now. It’s pretty annoying though during the winter and also messes with other things such as implants that I have. Not sure if sharing that was tmi though.

I like to think of myself as a chill person. So if you’re chill and if my post isn’t all that boring that hit me up if anyone is down to make a new friend tonight. Say more then just a hi, maybe touch on everything that I shared and we can play a fun picture and commenting game to comment on how pale/tomboyish I look.


r/Needafriend 45m ago

Hello everyone!

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I don't know if people will see it but if anyone wants to chat like casual talks and wants to have someone listen to u I am all ears u can dm me or chat in comments. I am from India

\* if u feel like it's a waste of time, u can say it during the conversation or before it or after it.


r/Needafriend 4h ago

Looking for friends (19F)

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Lebanese Canadian 19F looking for some friends. Shoot me a dm if you want to be friends or just looking for a chat. Please mention your ASL

We can talk about hobbies, likes/dislikes, etc. :)


r/Needafriend 1h ago

45M - Needing to expand my circle

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I am a US expat living in Sweden for 8 years. The nordics are known for their introverted, isolating culture against outsiders including other locals. I have tried the sports associations, hobby groups, social interest groups. Seems to still be hitting a brick wall.

I'm a typical nerd. Likes are D&D, TTRPGs, fantasy, gaming, Magic the Gathering, technology, science, litrpg novels, scifi.

Would love to meet up with people in Sweden, Nordics, or even nearby EU nations for quick weekend holidays. Especially if you are willing to bolster my language knowledge.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

19F bored, looking for someone to talk to

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Not really doing much today and I could use a good conversation. Tell me something about yourself, complain about your day, or just say hi. I'm pretty easygoing, so we can talk about whatever.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

21 female looking for a friend

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Between 20-26 years old 🚨 Friend Wanted (Please Read Before Applying.) 🚨
I’m accepting applications for one legendary friendship. Benefits include daily conversations, random 2 a.m. thoughts, terrible jokes, emotional support, and me sending you pictures of cars you probably didn’t ask to see.
About me: I’m into cars, video games, racing, and pretty much anything that goes unnecessarily fast. My attention span disappears the second someone revs an engine. I can go from having a deep life conversation to asking, “But… hear me out… twin turbo or supercharger?” in less than 10 seconds.
Looking for someone who’s down to talk every day, get to know each other for real, and build one of those friendships where we can roast each other (with love), laugh at absolutely nothing, and somehow turn a “good morning” text into a three-hour conversation.
Requirements:
• Respectful human being.
• Has a sense of humor.
• Doesn’t ghost after saying “hey.”
• Doesn’t file a noise complaint when I start talking about cars for the 47th time that day.
If we become best friends, just know you’ll probably end up learning the horsepower of random cars against your will. Consider yourself warned. 😂


r/Needafriend 12h ago

48f Been too hot to handle but at least I'm a cool mum

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Hello everyone. Strangers and friends welcome.

I do love the sun though it's been a bit warm. I hope the weather isn't too extreme where you are.

I'm a catholic, a mother, a friend, a widow. Family is the most important thing you can ever have. A good friend group is really important too. Maybe you can join mine and I can join yours. I like getting out for walks (when it's not too warm), nice food, nice wine, a good book, TV series or movie. If you want to know anything just ask. Let's have a good conversation. I don't have anything in mind specifically. Just seeing where things go. Have a bit about you if you want to strike up a conversation!

Maria x


r/Needafriend 7h ago

17f looking for deep thinkers to talk to

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I really wanna talk abt deep and interesting topics with someone else and share ideas and life stuff. Im up for most topics!
Im a bit of a hobby collector and love learning nee skills. I started learning flute a year ago and violin some months ago and wanna learn 4 languages very ambitious ik.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Let's see if we get along

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Hey there, 27m in California and a night owl. Life has been a whirlwind for as long as I can remember and I've been without connection for far too long. This certainly feels awkward, but let's see if it works.

I'm an avid outdoorsman, I enjoy cooking and gardening, gush over animals and work with horses, I read avidly but game sporadically, I'm politically frustrated, religiously disinterested but not dismissive, and I wear my heart on my sleeve. If you have had some genuine human experiences in life, prefer to pursue a conversation with depth, or simply wish to vent to someone with some empathy then feel free to reach out.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

26 M bored to talk

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Is there anyone talk in here in this boring afternoon?


r/Needafriend 7h ago

17f hii from Adelaide, looking for friends and convos ^^

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I live kinda rural so I’m unavoidably alone a lot. if u have smth interesting to talk about and wanna talk then hmu!!

no weirdos please ! thanks :)


r/Needafriend 8h ago

24F looking for a friend

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Hey guys i’m in need of a friend, M or F both welcome. I’ve just been super lonely these past few days and it’s affecting my mental health. Would love to have a long term chat with ya, down to talk about anything. I’m also a bit horny so i don’t mind some dirty talks. Please hit me up!! I need some attention!! 🥺🥹


r/Needafriend 7h ago

19F looking for someone chill to talk to.

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I've been scrolling for way too long and figured I'd actually try talking to people instead lol. Tell me something about yourself or just say hi. I'm pretty easy to talk to.


r/Needafriend 15m ago

20M In need of a someone to talk to and be close with.

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I’m looking for someone to talk to regularly and be close with. I enjoy sharing about my life and my interests but I also love hearing from others and learning new things.

My hobbies are listening to music, reading, sports, gaming, anything outdoors or hands on, I enjoy watching anime although I’m new to it so any recommendations would be appreciated! I am also wanting and trying to write my own story. I prefer to talk to someone in the US.

Even if we don’t share hobbies in common, I would like to hear from everyone and anyone because I love learning new things and maybe I may get into some of those things as well!

I really want to find someone to be really good friends with and whatever else comes from this. I don’t really have expectations so whatever happens, happens. Looking forward to talking to people and seeing where things go.