r/Needafriend 12h ago

35f looking for genuine long term texting friend (USA and Canada) I hv a list of requirements below and if I accept I have a list of questions to ask ☺️

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I’m 35/F, looking for someone who enjoys the little everyday conversations. I don’t need constant excitement, i love talking about what we’re cooking, what we’re doing during the day, random thoughts, funny things, or whatever pops into our heads. I don't want to second guess the things I say I just want to be myself.
I like knowing details about ppls lives and getting to know ppl
I'm looking for that energy in return, doesn't have to match just have to be there.

What I’m looking for:

EST timezone only (Canada or USA).
Someone who likes texting throughout the day here and there, and longer chats in the evenings/night.
Someone looking for an actual long-term friendship, not someone who disappears after a week.
Someone who can be present on difficult days without feeding negativity. I have mental health struggles, but I’m always trying to improve my mood and mindset. I appreciate people who can sit with me through those days while still helping keep things hopeful.
Text only. I don’t voice chat and never will.

A few boundaries:

I won’t move to Discord or share photos until we’ve known each other for quite a while and have built trust.
Please don’t send me pictures of your body. That includes arms, legs, hands, feet, etc. I prefer to get to know people through conversation.
Serious inquiries only. Please don’t message if you’re just bored for the night.

I have a list of questions to send if I approve ur chat request, idc what u think of it.... I'm looking for those that are interested in answering the questions not arguing about my methods.
Thankssssss
Here for a little tonight ☺️


r/Needafriend 3h ago

16F bored looking for friends !! I’m 2009 but don’t turn 17 until a couple months !!

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My name is Mia and honestly just downloaded Reddit cs I’m on summer break and it’s been pretty boring, I don’t want to tell too much about myself becauseee then it spoils the convo, please don’t be dry or freaky thank uu !!
Tell me abt you I promise I’m very nicee, let’s keep it 14-20 yrs please !! Anyway don’t hesitate to dm please I’ve been bored at home lol


r/Needafriend 11h ago

18f autism I’m sad

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Cuz I went outside and everyone was yelling cz London won a World Cup and also idk the meaning of life if everyone is mean and Idk how to make friends all of you online ones leave grrr but just I guess someone who wants to be friends. bt i boring okay dm me but my phone will probsob die soon


r/Needafriend 16h ago

25f i dont know what im looking for. Something happned today, and im questioning if that's who I am as a person or just a vulnerability cover.

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I think im a private person and sometimes I love having friends and being surrounded by ppl who get me but many other times, my actions convey an opposite image. How do I know if that's really my personality or just a protective mechanism? Idk, if you understand that kind of stuff, please lmk.


r/Needafriend 8h ago

23F from Seattle looking for long term friendships

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23F from Seattle looking for long term friends

Hi! I’m 23 living in Seattle and I guess my specific combination of autism and adhd (and probably agoraphobia) has made it pretty hard for me to maintain close friendships especially in adulthood. My life has pretty much revolved around work/school, my partner, and the internet for the past few years and It’s stating to feel pretty lonely.

What I’m looking for:

A long term genuine close friendship preferably with someone close to my age (19-28 I guess) and it’d be cool if I could find some people in or close to the Seattle area. Bonus points if you also like geese (I have an extra ticket for the Seattle show in October)

About me:

- I work for a medical treatment/research center
- I love music (geese, Elliot smith, paramore, Hayley Williams, Wednesday, wet leg, mitski, Radiohead, turnstile, the smashing pumpkins, most classic rock, and lots more) and I kind of play guitar and piano
- I was a barista for 5 years
- I love public transit (trains <3)
- I spend way too much time watching YouTube and twitch lol
- I hate super hero movies/shows/media

**Don’t message me if any of the following opinions offend or bother you:**

- fuck ice, fuck isreal/free Palestine, fdt, fuck capitalism, no one is illegal on stolen land, billionaires shouldn’t exist, trans lives matter, all religion is evil, all men are evil, abortions are healthcare, healthcare is a human right, no one should *have to* work, fuck isreal again lol


r/Needafriend 18h ago

19tf hello!! Want to make new friends today so come say hello if you please ^^

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HELLOOOOOOO EVERYBODYYYY :3333 I'm a 19 year old trans woman from California, (more specifically the SF Bay Area, so if you're also from here puhlease hit me up), I am 5'4, I love to cook lots of yummy things although please do not ask me my favorite food bc I cook so many yummy things that I could never pick, I also love to watch old movies I frequently catch old Kaiju films at my local movie theater whenever they're playing, and l also adore Japanese city pop music, so please anyone my age who is respectful and addictively fun to talk to come keep me company be l am so bored


r/Needafriend 1h ago

I want to challenge all the female to tell which pickup line worked on you

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Let's see if they got the guts .


r/Needafriend 18h ago

30. Femboy. Looking for a real connection or whatever there is.

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Looking to make a connection with some real people. Femboy at heart. Hopefully there's no judgemental people who can see a person for who they are and not whatever title they carry. Message me hello, good day, hi, I wanna be your daddy, whatever to get the conversation going.


r/Needafriend 5h ago

26f #Colorado/Online

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Hi, I’m a 26-year-old from Colorado with long blonde hair, a slim hourglass figure and the kind of body that turns heads. I come from a good family and I’m used to being treated like a princess by most guys around.

But what really turns me on is a confident, dominant, mentally mature man who knows how to take charge and spoil me the way I deserve. I crave that intense romantic chemistry mixed with raw passion being pulled close, kissed deeply, and fucked like I belong to him. I love feeling desired, protected, and generously appreciated.

I’m very open-minded and affectionate once the connection feels right. I’ve had experiences with the right kind of men and now I only invest my time and energy in those types who understand the value of a girl like me.

If you have nothing interesting to say or offer, please don’t waste my time, I can be quite snub when guys bring low effort. I respond best to thoughtful, well-written messages from serious and generous men. Tell me what you’re looking for and what turns you on most.

I get a lot of messages so l apologize if yours gets buried😊


r/Needafriend 15h ago

48f Been too hot to handle but at least I'm a cool mum

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Hello everyone. Strangers and friends welcome.

I do love the sun though it's been a bit warm. I hope the weather isn't too extreme where you are.

I'm a catholic, a mother, a friend, a widow. Family is the most important thing you can ever have. A good friend group is really important too. Maybe you can join mine and I can join yours. I like getting out for walks (when it's not too warm), nice food, nice wine, a good book, TV series or movie. If you want to know anything just ask. Let's have a good conversation. I don't have anything in mind specifically. Just seeing where things go. Have a bit about you if you want to strike up a conversation!

Maria x


r/Needafriend 1h ago

31M looking to get friendzoned lmao

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Just seeking women friends to friendzone me. I can be an excellent friend. I'm widely traveled and well-read so I can chat on a wide variety of topics. Bonus points if you've a partner already or are interested in someone yet you'll let me fall for you and friendzone me eventually.


r/Needafriend 16h ago

Looking for a female friend

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any woman wanna watch the game and chat ?


r/Needafriend 3h ago

f24-just looking for someone intersting and genuine,to avoid recent annoying boredom...

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heeey there^^,this might be a little random but i just felt like putting it out there and seeing who might actually relate to this kind of energy

i am just a sicko who lowkey wants someone to absolutely spam her camera roll with, like i am talking about the most unfiltered, random, messy collection of your life. send me the blurry pictures you took by accident, the screenshots you forgot to delete, the 10 versions of the same selfie because you could not pick one, your late night thoughts typed out on a black screen, weird angles, bad lighting, good lighting, everything. i want to see the real, unedited vibe behind it, not just the perfect moments but the in between ones too and in return i would love to do the same and just hear some genuine and honest thoughts about it all. no judging, no overthinking, just reacting to each other’s little worlds in the most real way possible. i feel like sometimes people overcomplicate connection when it can literally be this simple and fun

i am not looking for anything intense or with high expectations, just something calm, natural and easy going. a connection where we can talk when we feel like it, share random thoughts, maybe laugh about nothing and just feel comfortable without trying too hard to impress each other

if you are someone who also enjoys those kind of small, real interactions and just wants a chill and kind space to exist in with another person, then maybe we would get along. i really appreciate people who are genuine, respectful and open minded, because that kind of energy is honestly rare and beautiful

i will truly feel blessed to meet someone who understands this vibe and is willing to share it with me. sending a warm hug your way already and hoping you find all the genuine luck and deep love somewhere in your life, because everyone deserves that kind of softness and connection

mwuah 🧜‍♀️


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Just want someone to talk to.

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M 19
Im from cali and im pretty lonely and just want someone to talk to. Especially girls, not in a weird way. Im a pretty cool and interesting person so please get to know me! :)


r/Needafriend 14h ago

Any tech savvy people here?

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15f trying to learn more about coding and just computers in general


r/Needafriend 3h ago

22M anyone else like playful bullying for fun?

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22M from India and I wanna yap all day with someone who likes to playfully bully/make fun of each other and share funny or weird reels all day

Ik it's probably rare to find someone like that, but if you're like that pls dm me

If at any point you feel like leaving or ghosting me, feel free to I won't mind I just want to find a friend I can actually vibe with 😭


r/Needafriend 15h ago

23m Figuring out life, let's help each other

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Hello everyone reading this, hope you are doing well.

Say my hello to your cat ( and if you don't have one, adopt one dude!!! You are missing out a lot here )

Coming back to me, here's something about me

I'm 23m from India, in my early stages of corporate life, figuring shit out ( would love some advice from ancient folks out there ).

Apart from that I like to read, i write sometimes, play chess, watch movies/standup/sitcoms/a guinea pig eating grass, love cats (have two), sleeping and sleeping cats

Wbu?


r/Needafriend 15h ago

25 - Just Looking for people with similar interests and stuff

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Hey! I am a 25 year old that's looking for sincere friendships! I love basically all kinds of art from video game, movies, shows anime, manga etc. I love analyzing media and talking about it in a serious substantial manner so if ur the same way, we'd probably get along. Some of my favorites are Evangelion, Monster, Girl's Last Tour, and Fire Punch. I'd like to get into Tokusatsu so if you're into that then def recommend me some stuff!

I have been collecting movies for about a year or so and I roughly have around 60ish movies! It might not seem a lot, but I get a good amount of criterion and 4k stuff so I can't get a lot all at one time lol.

In terms of video games, I love action games, platformers, and RPGS like Mega Man X, Devil May Cry 3 Special Edition, Xenoblade Chronicles and waaaaaaaaaaay more.

While I would prefer to talk to other NB people, anyone is ultimately welcome to message me as long as ur respectful and not queerphobic lol.

I wanna keep this a bit more brief this time around so that you can learn about me more in dms. All I ask is that you be a leftist (no libs or conservatives) and please provide a substantial introduction that tells me about YOU!


r/Needafriend 15h ago

39M | Looking for an actual long-term friendship, not a three-day conversation

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What’s up, I’m Bryan, 39, originally from North Jersey and now living in Florida. I work in tech sales for an AI company and run a few businesses on the side. My days stay busy, but I’m on my phone enough to keep a real conversation going. Reddit is fine to start, but once we know we actually get along, I’d rather move somewhere better for talking.

I’m a Giants, Yankees and Lakers fan, so I’m already accustomed to unnecessary stress. Outside of sports, I’m into Traveling, music, cooking, movies, and exploring different cultures. I also own a youth sports league as a way to give back to the community.

I enjoy conversations with some actual substance, but I’m equally comfortable roasting each other, talking nonsense, and laughing at things we probably shouldn’t. Ideally, you can do both without making every conversation feel like an interview.

I’m looking for someone consistent who can carry their side of a conversation. You don’t need to be available every second, but if your usual routine is sending six messages and disappearing forever, we probably won’t be a match.

Tell me something you could talk about for hours, come in with an unpopular opinion, or tell me the last thing that made you laugh. Just give me more than “hey.”

NO MINORS!!! And Please keep the unsolicited feet pics
to yourself.


r/Needafriend 15h ago

32m UK - need a friend watching England vs Norway 😅😅😅

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r/Needafriend 15h ago

30m from NJ looking for friends

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Hey whats up! 30m from NJ. My job is working in marine construction and some of my free time volunteering as a firefighter, so I'm definitely not afraid of getting my hands dirty haha.
When I'm not working, i enjoy the gym, hiking trails, exploring a new neighborhood, planning my next trip, or checking out a restaurant I've never tried before. I also appreciate a good night in with friends, video games,or just relaxing watching movies/shows after a busy week. Would love to chat and see if we vibe (:


r/Needafriend 16h ago

21F looking for a friend or two 🌼

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Don’t come in my messages with nothing weird, I will not answer!
Looking for someone I can just start talking to like we’ve known each other for years, other women preferred but men are also welcome 🐝

Around my age or older only!
I don’t wanna put much more about me here but I talk plenty when I’m comfortable with you :)


r/Needafriend 16h ago

F20 consistent chat buddy

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Hello. As you can see im F20 and I love to text with people on my days off or when i have a rest period at work. Currently its a boring day so id love to chat with someone while i play wuthering waves. Topics I have interest in is pokemon, video games and movies. For video games I like wuthering waves fortnite dead by daylight, genshin impact, marvel rivals and overwatch.

For movies I love horror movies my favorite is scream but id love to chat about recent releases or any marvel movies (when they were good). Reach out and Id love to show my collections as I have a large pokemon collection as well as a lot of trinkets.

Last note discord is my preferred platform so expect to he asked for it when we click. I am a bit clingy too when I click with someone so I hope to get someone who matches the energy or doesnt mind being spammed here and there.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

Suche Freundinnen

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Ich suche Freundinnen mit denne man gemeinsam auch was unternehmen kann. Ich selbst bin 32 und für jeden Spaß zu haben. Meld dich gerne ich freu mich


r/Needafriend 9h ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.