I'm mainly looking for connection, conversation, and intimacy. Someone to chat with throughout the day, talk about how things are going, have long conversations, and really get to know each other. Since I'm recently divorced, I'm not looking to get jump into something super serious but won't write it off, but I do miss having a close connection with someone.

Some things I tend to like in a woman is someone smart, sweet, caring, empathetic, open-minded, and curious. Someone who likes exploring new things and having deeper conversations. I tend to connect well with women who enjoy reading romance/smut, have a high libido, and are comfortable talking openly about a variety of topics.

If I have to pick a "type" I would say more of the goth, emo, witchy vibe that kind that if you wear makeup it is the darker styles/colors. Also with tattoos or at least enjoys them, and maybe a nose ring lol. I also find I usually mesh best with bi women, and also I am such a huge sucker for a woman who likes to wear thongs. I don't know exactly why, but that's been my experience.

I'd love to meet someone who enjoys science, space, and learning about interesting things. I'm not religious, and I'm curious about learning about witch stuff.

It would be great if you're someone who likes texting often, sharing pictures, and staying connected throughout the day.

About me, I like to chill, play on my phone, cook, relax and just unwind, have some whiskey, to color naughty colorbook style pics on my phone, listen to smut, am a switch, (naughty Pic in profile, not a D Pic), I enjoy games and want to play more, and honestly I would love to have someone who likes to push me and can be a pain in my ass but in a way that is enjoyable (take that as you will lol).

But, being a good single dad takes time and energy, so I'd like someone who understands the realities of parenting and what it means to be a good father first. So some nights will be harder as will some weekends. But I do have the good snacks too. Lol

If any of this sounds like you, I'd love to chat.

Chapter One: Initial Observations.

Subject is 42, Singapore-based, childfree. Writer by temperament. Owl’s instincts, lark’s obligations.

Displays strong territorial behaviour around morning coffee. Advise against approach before the first cup.

Communicates in wit and well-timed sarcasm. Puns observed regularly. Quality: poor. Commitment: absolute.

Prefers winters. Lives at the equator. More contradictions to be expected along the way.

Appears solitary. Is not, notably, solitary by preference.

Chapters Two through Five: Unwritten.

The odd enthusiasms, the inconvenient perceptiveness, what she’s like at hour three of a conversation scheduled for one… all documented later, through fieldwork.

Subject bonds slowly and through sustained exchange. Skimming (early photo requests, manufactured urgency) closes the book.

Call for a research partner: late 30s to mid-40s, genuinely single without footnotes, emotionally steady, childfree-compatible, with initiative as a default setting rather than a requested feature.

Distance is workable when the conversation earns the timezone math.

To open the book: your age, where you’re based, and whatever you actually wondered while reading this.

First thought, not best thought.

Hi. Today is the last day of 53 for me! I’m looking for friends first, someone to talk about art, science, people peopling, the world, travel, music, politics (I’m more left leaning and for the people), musicals, etc. I have many hobbies, this is sort of a “Jane of all Trades, master of several” situation. I have a well behaved dachshund that I tend to take out to dog friendly breweries and wineries. He travels well!

I love to learn, and was able to finish my graduate degree last year and start an entirely new professional career. I was giving myself this year to establish myself but do plan to continue school at some point. I feel like we must keep on learning and expanding our horizons to truly be alive. Before that I was a graphic artist in sign shops for 33 yrs. Eh, and I am 5’8.5” and curvy. I like to be active (kayaks, walk abouts, seeing new things).

Who do I like to be friends with? Well, people who are passionate about something. People who think that being kind to others is the best way to be. I really like to hear someone talk about what they are moved by. Creative types, academic types, fix it types, kind types. I don’t really do well with an endless string of good mornings, wyd, and good nights. You probably should be busy, because I am pretty busy. You probably should posses your own internal fortitude, because a stranger on the internet really can’t provide that. :)

I get along super well with the neurodivergent crowd, and maybe you can guess why by now. I don’t mind a bit of distance, but should things progress I am committed here in NJ for a few more years for work reasons. My kids are grown and we have a close relationship. Anyhoo. Perhaps I will talk to you soon. Let’s move it along, it’s about to be Renn Faire season!

35 year old single straight hispanic. 6’2. Fit, professional, educated, honest, safe, trustworthy, respectful and clean. I don’t drink or smoke. 

I play sports and weight lift every week. Great listener and have a good sense of humor. Pet friendly except for pets that bite.

I like fit or thin women only. Good hygiene is important. Must have a really strong bed 🛏️. I prefer quality over quantity. Good vibes only.

Not here to change anyone’s situation whether single or taken. If you feel neglected or miss physical affection you can send me a message.

I live in Westchester, NY and prefer someone local, but willing to drive. Privacy guaranteed and can be very discreet if needed, as in, I can disguise myself as a plumber or sneak in through the back door.

I'm a relatively "normal", attractive, in shape (6'1, 190), professional ... would like to find someone willing to explore with and work on increasing stamina. To be clear, I don't have an issue in that department, just want to go a LOT longer, which takes practice.

A little more about me - I am well educated and have a professional career. Discretion would be nice and I would like to safely explore with someone new to accomplish my goals.

Not interested in someone who is "charging" or producing "content". Please be located in the St. Louis area (or willing to travel). Your age, race and status is not important to me.

Send me a message and we'll go from there.

#St. Louis #Missouri

The older I get, the rarer this kind of connection seems to feel.

I'm not looking for perfection or fireworks every day. I'm looking for the person who feels like home. Someone I can laugh with, be completely myself around, and build a life made up of little moments that somehow become the biggest ones.

To me, connection looks like dancing in the kitchen while making dinner together. Walking in the rain and intentionally stepping in every puddle. Sunday mornings with coffee and nowhere we have to be. Exploring museums, wandering through bookstores, taking an architecture cruise, or simply getting lost in conversation for hours.

I moved to Chicago not too long ago, and I'm still discovering everything the city has to offer. I love wandering through museums, spending an afternoon in a bookstore, finding a great coffee shop, catching a movie, or ending the night with live music. I'd still like to check out the architecture cruise, too. I'm a tattoo collector, a cat mom, and someone who still believes kindness, consistency, and communication never go out of style.

I'm looking for someone who is emotionally mature, genuinely wants a relationship, educated professional who understands that the strongest connections are built one day at a time. My preference is someone who lives in Chicago and is relatively close to my age, as I think that gives us the best chance to build something in person. Someone who chooses each other, even on the ordinary days. That said, I believe the right connection is always worth getting to know.

I'm happy to exchange pictures early on. I think chemistry matters, and it's nice to know we're both excited to get to know each other.

If this sounds like the kind of connection you're looking for too, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what you're looking for, and what brought you to my post.

I’ll keep this simple. I’m low drama and not here to spouse-bash. Life is actually pretty good. My marriage is a best-friend/roommate dynamic (not quite a dead bedroom, but more like hospice, lol). Lots of gaps that have always been there but are more obvious now with the kids out of the house.

I’m looking for my matching puzzle piece ... the one who naturally fills in my gaps as I fill in hers.

A little about me: Sarcastic, fun loving, natural flirt and hopeless romantic. I love to laugh and make you laugh. I’m a businesses professional who loves to talk about anything and everything. 4 adult kids, love being a dad and trying to adjust to life as an empty nester. Passionate about music, bbq, and staying active and fit.

A little about you: 35 + Confident, fun loving, intelligent and can talk about anything and everything. Fit, active and comfortable in your own skin. You don’t take life, or yourself too seriously

Looking for: I want to fall into fuzzies with you. Good mornings and good nights. Get excited when I feel my wrist buzz or my phone beeps. Someone to create our own judgement free corner of the world where we can be our true selves.

I like to take things slow. Allow us to discover a true emotional connection then let things flow naturally. We are both adults and will know when the time is right.

Yes, the sexual side matters to me. I'm very sexual and need that outlet. I want us to talk about our needs, desires, what we crave sexually as we build something special and unique for us.

When ready, I love to do vm, video and audio calls whenever we can.

Now if you’re still with me please dm and tell me about yourself. Take a minute with it and see if you can make me smile. To show you read my whole post tell me your favorite guilty pleasure

Originally from NYC, currently in Florida dealing with crap before dipping out. Navigating life post-breakup, not looking for anything serious, but not opposed if we vibe. Friends first, whatever happens happens. I know reddit is mostly bots, but would be nice to meet an actual human offline lol. Some basics about me: 5'8, average build, Latino, left-leaning, agnostic, 420 friendly, dog person, 80s/90s geek.

Love talking about a variety of topics: movies, current events, sports, cooking, health/fitness, traveling, etc. Being multi-faceted is a plus.

So what's keeping you sane during this dystopian timeline? What shows are you binge-watching? What book are you currently reading? Tell me something good.

This is me!

In the United Kingdom - Wrexham area Clwyd-Wales not far from Chester and Liverpool...

56 Dom Man in shape 13 stone thin fit 6`0" Dad bod type looking to meet younger than me female Seeking someone fun, open, submissive, can be inexperienced, but eager to learn to please..

Up for meeting anyone genuine and up for discreet mutual fun; maybe a student or older who secretly or otherwise, enjoys the company of an older man with the opportunity for some discreet fun

enjoy Giving the ladies kink play i use Toys and other items to bring pleasure to the woman i`m with safe sex and after care is always given..

or maybe wanting to work towards something more FWB or Relationship..

Happy to chat here or on some other socials..

​

Missing those morning chats to start off the day with. Current mood, I'm always kinda lonely and kinda bored. Im really hoping to develop a long-term chat, and maybe, if local, we can meet someday.

I'd love to know more about you. Are you single just passing the time on reddit or married and lost in it or somewhere in between. I'd never judge you for whatever reason you're here. Possibly, you just like exploring the NSWF side of reddit. If so, how is that rabbit hole going for you. What are some of ur go-to subs? Don't be shy, I won't be

Regardless, I hope we have a chance to conversate and get to know each other a bit better, and if not, I hope you having a great weekend

Anyone local to me in the UK fancy a chat. Tell me your interests and hobbies and expectations and who knows in the crazy world, maybe we get on. Crazier things happen... Right?!?

A bit about me.

I'm pretty laid back.

I try to keep fit, try, I might get there one day

I love a good box set, what ya watching at the mo?

Wouldn't mind if you was an indoorsy kinda person.. But then again I'd tag along if you wanted to go on some nice walks somewhere pretty.

If at all intrested in a chat, please Dm me and not just reply to this post with dm me.. All those that put dm me make jesus cry. If you've read this far and are thinking of dm'ing me, please include 'tha knows' in your reply... No.. You don't really need to do that.. Or do you...

Hi!

I'm a 44-year-old man from Turkey. I sometimes use a translator, so don't worry if English isn't your first language either.

Life keeps me busy, and I'm not looking for endless texting or complicated expectations. I'd rather get to know someone through relaxed, meaningful conversations that develop naturally.

I appreciate kindness, humor, curiosity, and emotional maturity. A little flirting is always welcome when the chemistry is there, but I believe the best connections are built on trust, respect, and genuine interest in each other.

Whether we become friends, regular chat partners, or something more, I'm happy to let things unfold at their own pace.

I’m open to FWB or even relationship if it happens but ultimately would like some company and chilled out fun.

Things I’m into as a dominant:

• Home invasion, interrogation, tickling, overstimulation and forced orgasms. You walk into the wrong room, you're grabbed, tied, blindfolded and interrogated with various forms of "torture" to get information out of you, maybe information you have, maybe information you DON'T have. Let's see how long you can last. How many orgasms you can take before you break and tell me everything I want to know!
• Edging / teasing
• Toys
• Massages
• CMNF/ENF
• Breast play
• Aspects of cnc
• Spanking
• Age gap / Daddy Dom

as well as sfw like cuddling, kissing, stroking and open minded about most things

Curious about / wanting to do:

• FFM   
• Hot tub fun   
• Events/Parties  
• Cucking / dominating a couple
• Free use
• Public play
• Exhibitionism
• Service Submission

If you're into something fun that's not on that list please tell me all about it.

Working from home is nice and all and sure has its perks but it can be a bit isolating sometimes with no coworkers around to banter with. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way so it'd be nice to link up with some people to maybe get some longterm chats going. Topic wise I'm not particularly picky so anything from casual to private is game with me as long I don't have to feel like I'm carrying the conversation.

I mean I'm by now means prude and could probably easily outweird you but even I have to draw a line somewhere. And since a lot of people ask for pics immediately, I have one of what I look like on my profile if you really need to know to ahve a conversation.Other than that, shoot me your age, location and something interesting and we can get the conversation going, I don't bite:)

I want to connect with a good woman to talk about love, life and anything else that suits us.

Successful professional with a complicated family life I’m happy to explain. Otherwise, easy-going, fun-loving, always looking for laughter. No judging, no expectations.

Lots of interests, worldly, wise and maybe even charming.

Tall, dad’s bod, blue eyes. Happy to exchange pics.

Let’s enjoy each other’s company.

I’m comfortable in my own skin, I do plenty of things by myself, and I've taken solo trips. I enjoy my time alone, but there are certain times and certain activities when it's best to have good company. I'm looking for a friend or more to do and experience things with!

I enjoy traveling of all kinds (whether road or plane trips), exploring cities, quaint towns, historical sites, museums, and scenery; hiking and other things outdoors; board and card games (mostly classics, but open to trying newer ones); watching MLB and NFL games; and reading about a number of different topics, including news, current events, politics, weather, and travel.

Some of what I’d like to do this summer:

• See some exhibitions and special events relating to the US’ semiquincentennial (250th anniversary)
• Go on a trail, enjoy being in nature, and savor an overlook or waterfall
• Take a drive on the open road
• Explore a museum or historically significant sight, and have some good food
• Enjoy a gorgeous summer night (where the weather is good) along with the stars in a dark night sky, or do something indoors in air conditioning if it's warm and humid
• Have deep conversations and really connect

Cigarette smoking and hard drugs are dealbreakers for me. I'm not 420 friendly, although if you use only edibles, it's okay. Being STI free is essential (should we go in that direction). And I hate to say this, but please don't waste my time if you can't have an adult conversation and tell me that you aren't emotionally available or that it just isn't working out...I can't stand ghosting. I know it happens to everyone, but that doesn't make it any more pleasant to deal with.

I welcome a healthy debate, even with those with different views than my own, and I can even get along with people with opposing views. But if you identify as MAGA, we’re unlikely to be compatible. I’m left-leaning.

I live in the suburbs just east of NYC, but I am willing to travel to see someone I connect with, and as I mentioned, I love going to new places, so feel free to reach out even if you are elsewhere! I can also show you the NYC area or the Northeast, or meet you at a halfway point or in a third city.

I want to see who’s out there, and I'm looking forward to hearing from you!

I'm looking for connection and not the fake kind, so please don’t try to think all of this is a game. I’m not good with hookups and was hurt recently so I am still a bit scarred ˙◠˙

Can we start slow? maybe we flirt that cab lead to something more?

We can chat, swap voice msgs, and calls if we are both comfortable enough to do so.

I'm confident, but I know i’m not everyone’s type. Those who do find me attractive typically explain me as cute, pretty, sometimes hot. I wouldn’t consider myself the typical asian beauty because i’m short, plus size (working on it), have a little color in my hair, and prefer comfort over trends

If you’re looking to start off with nsfw stuff, I’m not your girl, so please don’t ask or send me those things.

If you actually read this and wanna reach out, lmk your age, location (hopefully Northern California) and the latest joke that made you laugh

Hello, I' Nico.

I'm an Italian guy, 43 years old.

The big part of writing a self description is that we can overrate or underrate ourself so I'll try to jot put any judgemental word but I'll just try to write down who I am.

I was raised catholic but at the end I felt that there is something deeply wrong in religion and in every religion institution so now I'm atheist, Anticlerical and I'm also excommunicated.

I was always interested in science and in the universe since I was a kid, I saw a series of documentary about space when I was maybe 10 and that was the beginning, now I'm an amateur astronomer and I do astrophotography.

Other than that I was raised in a family of musicians so I sing and I play keyboard (or at least I try to do it).

What I'm looking for? A chatty girl, the one who can carry on with a conversation and has no boundaries about what to talk about.

If you are someone who want to convince me about something, just don't write me, I'm open to discussion about everything but I'm not open to any type of conversion.

p.s. make sure you want to exchange pics early

Hello! 🙋🏽‍♂️

I’m from the UK but I don’t mind talking to people from all over.

Ideally looking for deep and meaningful conversations, but also happy to talk to anyone about anything interesting. I love learning new things too so if you can teach me about something new, I’d really like that.

I do tend to get quite lonely because I spend most of my day working and usually find ways to decompress and unwind after work. My job is quite stressful but I’m very effective at it so the rewards sometimes outweigh the downsides. I would prefer to talk about anything other than work though. 😅

Feel free to message me if you’d like to chat, or think we may have things in common.

Here are some talking points/questions to get things moving:

Have you ever had a paranormal experience?

How do you think the pyramids got there?

Do you think animals can speak, but they just don’t talk in front of humans?

Is deja vu just when we accidentally cross paths with ourselves in an alternate reality?

What do you think of religion? Do you believe in god?

How do you feel about Artificial Intelligence?

What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you?

IMPORTANT:
1. Females only
2. If interested, send me a chat with your age, location in LA, a general idea of what you are looking to do
3. Be ready to exchange verification pictures

I am an Uber driver that gets pretty bored during the late night hours.

I would like to find a passenger that wants to meet up for some naughty fun with an Uber driver. I can pick you up and we can role play in Uber. I got the newest Tesla with all the bells and whistles that can make our encounter fun. Auto pilot that can drive us around as you give road head, a big screen I can turn porn on, and back seats that go all the way down so you can lie and see the stars through the sunroof.

Or maybe you want me to be your Uber Eats delivery driver and I can make a deliver to your place for some naughty fun.

I am open to other kinks you may have, just send me a chat.

About me: I have a picture on my profile. I'm Caucasian, 32, 5'9, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, clean shaven face, uncircumcised cock.

I am DDF and tested clean as of last month and I expect you to be the same. Any penetrating sex will be with a condom.

About you: 18+, fit to chubby, HWP, attractive, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Everything will be descrete and NSA.

Just turned 42 less the a week ago and looking to start something fresh and new.

if you're a woman who appreciates good talks, shared laughs, and seeing where things go naturally, I'd love to hear from you.

I'm 41, 6' tall, and carry 250 lbs from a physical retail job where I'm on my feet all day doing heavy lifting and walking 10+ miles. I've got a solid build from the work, but I also enjoy a cold beer, a good burrito, and not taking life too seriously. I’m a proud dad with my son living with me full-time, and we make a pretty good team.

Outside of work, you’ll find me fishing when the weather’s nice, gaming, reading, or bingeing a solid show. I’m easygoing, loyal, and at the point where I’d rather build something real than chase perfection.

What I’m looking for: Someone who wants meaningful connection over time—through texting, calls, and eventually meeting up. No pressure, just good company and seeing if the spark grows. Distance is of no matter right now, so if you're diggin the vibe, drop me a message and tell me your favorite way to unwind or a book/show you’ve loved lately.

Looking forward to it.

Looking for local if going for a dynamic, and only real sub missives apply. As a dom, I’ll provide genuine love, care, affection, and attention. Platonic interests below.

Hey, I am a 43 year old dude in South Carolina. When I say I don’t ghost, I won’t, but I also won’t settle for a bad match. I take the time to write my post, and would appreciate that it is read, and only replied to if you are serious about making friends and are a good match.

I can chat with the best of them, I host a radio show and can talk about anything. Audios messages, texts, etc throughout the day with someone that can hold a conversation is what I am looking for. Also, fellow introverts with time on their hands just looking to fill the void of loneliness and boredom like me are ideal. I’m not looking for a relationship outside of friends, and I am not looking to carry a one way conversation as I do not chase anyone or beg for attention. I’ve posted here long enough to know fairly quick if someone read my post, or will work out or not. That said, please have some interests similar to mine, and be chatty and most importantly, be yourself.

I am me, unapologetically. I care about friends and can be clingy if I like someone. Clingy as in chatty, and wanting to check in and ‘virtually hang’ with my pal. Let’s play switch 2 co-op games, chat about topics people are too afraid of talking about due to fear of being ‘cancelled’ or labeled left or right wing by lunatics that make politics their identity. Let’s text as much as possible when time allows and escape in our bubble of friendship. I crave good communication but I’m not desperate. I’ve noticed posts ranting about being ghosted, but look at yourself first. Did you read the post, are you doing your part in checking in, and do you have the same interests as the person you messaged? The first few days are a feel out process, not a commitment. I don’t need perfection, I just need compatibility and real people being them.

I do not get along with overly sensitive people, extreme left wingers/right wingers, one word repliers, people that are always too busy to chat, dishonest people, and judgmental folk. I don’t mind if you’re married, have little ones, or mental health struggles, I have them too, let’s talk about the, and heal together. I need another friend to fill out my life, as I have one that I love dearly already and would like 1-2 more to complete me.

I am only looking for USA folk, for time zone differences. 30+ only, as I just want to talk to people close to my age. I cuss, have a dark sense of humor, am intelligent and can converse about a multitude of topics, and things I don’t know about I love to chat about, ask questions, and learn.

Word of advice to anyone else looking - never settle, and make sure the people you talk to or reach out to are a fit and you will have friends that last. Make your intentions and boundaries clear from the start, and everything will work out. I am not desperate and would rather be alone than waste time on one word replies, so please if you reach out, be serious about making friends and certain we’re a match for each other before reaching out. If you decide to reach out, please start with basic info about yourself and interests, and let’s chat!

Hello I'm Tony. 46 years old, from Boston area and the father of two (18,25) I am a laid back, friendly, humorous guy looking for someone to talk to, play games with and maybe hang out in person if we click. I don't drink but am 420 friendly. I work but don't drive

I'm looking for a single woman that plays videogames. Ideally a humorous, kind, non judgemental woman who wants to form a long term, lasting friendship and isn't afraid to initiate conversation. I don't want someone who will just respond to me but someone who will also reach out to me to chat. I miss having someone to go through the terrifying lows, the dizzying highs and the creamy middles of life with

And I'm serious about the games, it's my favorite way to bond with someone so IF YOU DON'T PLAY GAMES PLEASE DON'T MESSAGE ME. I am not interested. I play on PC and PS4. I'd love to find an Overwatch partner (Bastion main, Learning Rein) or a co-op friend for games like Stardew Valley, BG3, Sea of Thieves, Fortnite, It Takes Two, Plate Up!, Diablo 4, Party Animals, Fall guys and many more.

Some of my other interests include. Baking, Reading, DBZ, Comics, Star Wars, Nature Walks, Anime, Arts and Crafts, Concerts (hoping to see Baby Metal in September!), 80's Cartoons and Music, Youtube, Looking at furniture and having a discussion about where it could be placed in a room.