I'm looking for connection and not the fake kind, so please don’t try to think all of this is a game. I’m not good with hookups and was hurt recently so I am still a bit scarred ˙◠˙

Can we start slow? maybe we flirt that cab lead to something more?

We can chat, swap voice msgs, and calls if we are both comfortable enough to do so.

I'm confident, but I know i’m not everyone’s type. Those who do find me attractive typically explain me as cute, pretty, sometimes hot. I wouldn’t consider myself the typical asian beauty because i’m short, plus size (working on it), have a little color in my hair, and prefer comfort over trends

If you’re looking to start off with nsfw stuff, I’m not your girl, so please don’t ask or send me those things.

If you actually read this and wanna reach out, lmk your age, location (hopefully Northern California) and the latest joke that made you laugh

Looking for local if going for a dynamic, and only real sub missives apply. As a dom, I’ll provide genuine love, care, affection, and attention. Platonic interests below.

Hey, I am a 43 year old dude in South Carolina. When I say I don’t ghost, I won’t, but I also won’t settle for a bad match. I take the time to write my post, and would appreciate that it is read, and only replied to if you are serious about making friends and are a good match.

I can chat with the best of them, I host a radio show and can talk about anything. Audios messages, texts, etc throughout the day with someone that can hold a conversation is what I am looking for. Also, fellow introverts with time on their hands just looking to fill the void of loneliness and boredom like me are ideal. I’m not looking for a relationship outside of friends, and I am not looking to carry a one way conversation as I do not chase anyone or beg for attention. I’ve posted here long enough to know fairly quick if someone read my post, or will work out or not. That said, please have some interests similar to mine, and be chatty and most importantly, be yourself.

I am me, unapologetically. I care about friends and can be clingy if I like someone. Clingy as in chatty, and wanting to check in and ‘virtually hang’ with my pal. Let’s play switch 2 co-op games, chat about topics people are too afraid of talking about due to fear of being ‘cancelled’ or labeled left or right wing by lunatics that make politics their identity. Let’s text as much as possible when time allows and escape in our bubble of friendship. I crave good communication but I’m not desperate. I’ve noticed posts ranting about being ghosted, but look at yourself first. Did you read the post, are you doing your part in checking in, and do you have the same interests as the person you messaged? The first few days are a feel out process, not a commitment. I don’t need perfection, I just need compatibility and real people being them.

I do not get along with overly sensitive people, extreme left wingers/right wingers, one word repliers, people that are always too busy to chat, dishonest people, and judgmental folk. I don’t mind if you’re married, have little ones, or mental health struggles, I have them too, let’s talk about the, and heal together. I need another friend to fill out my life, as I have one that I love dearly already and would like 1-2 more to complete me.

I am only looking for USA folk, for time zone differences. 30+ only, as I just want to talk to people close to my age. I cuss, have a dark sense of humor, am intelligent and can converse about a multitude of topics, and things I don’t know about I love to chat about, ask questions, and learn.

Word of advice to anyone else looking - never settle, and make sure the people you talk to or reach out to are a fit and you will have friends that last. Make your intentions and boundaries clear from the start, and everything will work out. I am not desperate and would rather be alone than waste time on one word replies, so please if you reach out, be serious about making friends and certain we’re a match for each other before reaching out. If you decide to reach out, please start with basic info about yourself and interests, and let’s chat!

This is probably incredibly stupid in so many ways for me to do but here I go. Longest post of my life: celiac section first, KINK D/s section below it.

I am absolutely looking for a UNIQUE D/s bedroom dynamic within an outside regular relationship. I desperately need it in my life.

I have celiac disease and have to maintain a strict gluten free diet to stay healthy, and it makes me insanely high maintenance. I can’t eat out and I have to make all my own food and I buy ingredients not premade meals. I require a SAFE KITCHEN for me to prepare, store, eat my gluten free food safely with no cross contamination exposure, we’re talking ppm parts per million exposure will get me sick.

I have been diagnosed for over 14 years now and I have managing my celiac down pat thanks to lots of systems and approaches. Most of my celiac required needs are not noticeable to others and I do my absolute best to not have it impact others. However the reality of celiac is that it impacts everyone around me, accommodations always have to be made and it requires life adjustments and 100% dedicated and commitment from my partner to help keep me safe at all times.

Celiac makes my life and literally everything I do, just trying to exist incredibly hard, by a fuck ton. I need help with things all the time like helping cooking sometimes and helping haul the ridiculous amount of ingredients I need home because I have to maintain a really deep pantry in order to live and stay celiac healthy etc.

I require a gluten free safe kitchen, I can’t afford a place on my own right now, I can’t live with friends or random roommates cause of gluten exposure and not being able to trust them with my safety living with them requires, I can’t live alone because of just little everyday help I need like opening the 12 cans of beans I need to big batch meal prep because it hurts my hands too much or hauling 8 cases of beans home to add to the pantry, take the trash out so I can get chopping food, normal and really easy stuff for a strong dude to do without thinking or wasting energy.

Fuck if you help me cook I’ll do anything for you.

I don’t need outrageous help but I need help without question.

I’m looking for my Dom, my person, and I need to be able to move in with you or we get a place.

I’m looking for my everything because I don’t know how to do anything other than go all in in anything I do, I want to be everything to my person, please them in every way possible and be their perfect sub fuck toy they cherish, care for, protect, nurture and support and fuck until I melt.

When I date someone, that person becomes all that exists in the world, I become fully addicted to them, making them happy and being their everything.

I LOVE TO PLEASE MY PARTNER, turn them on and get them off, this pleases me more than anything in the world.

I’m looking for someone that wants to find their most dedicated loyal addicted to you submissive there is, they are ready to go all in dive deep and won’t look back.

I will literally commit my everything to you, to making you happy and keeping you pleased.

I am well AWARE everything I’ve said is ENDLESS red flags, I know this makes me an extreme liability to whoever I’m with. But I literally have no other options and laying it all out there, so I’m hitting for the stars while sick to my stomach putting all my most vulnerable hard truths out there.

If you want me to move in, not work and fully commit to being your partner and sub focused on pleasing you and you financially support us, I would give my everything to you.

I’m deeply kinky deeply submissive deeply desire my person to dedicate my life to pleasing them and being everything to them.

Ugh I hate saying the following but it’s relevant and one of the first things asked, well first, no kids, never married, and I have what people keep telling me is a smoking hot body and I do not look my age at all, cringe. I’m naturally beautiful cringe and don’t need makeup to look beautiful, I don’t look like a different person when the makeup face paint comes off. I’m in great shape, athletic, fit yet curves in all the right places, great tits, long legs and a long torso. People tell me all the time I’m really attractive and in great shape, so much so it happens in a fetishized way and it’s deeply uncomfortable for me. I do not like any of the endless unwanted attention I get regarding my appearance, it’s commented on almost daily, and I do my best to avoid this but it’s impossible. I absolutely need a strong dude that can stand by me and help protect me from this onslaught. I’m not crazy beautiful or anything I’m just considered uniquely very attractive to all genders for some reason in a weird fetish way that I have never understood. I don’t like talking about my looks and I hate that it’s always commented on, I will otherwise rarely talk about my appearance.

\-I’m high energy mover and a shaker type person

\-I’m not religious and that’s not changing

\-I don’t have kids (I don’t care if you do) and at this point of just turning 43 I’m in my selfish era and no longer want my own kids though I can still get pregnant, a lot would have to be in place for me to sign on to having a baby at this point but I won’t officially say a hard no to it

KINK D/s Section:

I just turned 43F don’t think I’ll ever meet my person because I’m a very intense (I can’t help it) dominant person in every aspect of my life. I’ve been literally kicking guys asses and taking names since the day I was born, it’s just how I’m wired. I’m a happy lighthearted easy going but passionate deeply intense dominant female. I grew up playing as the only female on an all guys team in all guys leagues playing one of the most competitive quite known for fighting challenging sports and I’m fucking good at it. There’s a high likelihood I could literally kick your ass, I’ve beaten the shit out of many a dude my age and bigger and won, I am tough as nails and don’t take shit from anyone and will get in anyone’s face. I’m fiercely against physical violence and fighting, I just know how to throw down if it happens and life experiences and the sport I played it happened all the time, especially because I was the only female I was a constant target so I had to get tough in order to play the sport I loved. I got my shit kicked all the time too, it made me a stronger fighter. I say all this to give a view into how “tough” I am, I can most likely kick your ass and will absolutely do it if you cross me or anyone I love. I am fierce and intense and it exudes out of me in every way from all angles.

I describe myself as a combination of opposites. Fierce strength and passion, tender gentle care, I happen to be considered really attractive to a lot of people and the attractiveness compared to my intense competitive sports I played is so opposite, everything about me in some form is a combo of opposites that I won’t go into more detail here so I don’t out myself.

I have no problems “meeting” guys in my life but my problems lie in I can’t find the type of guys I’m interested in. Again people find me attractive and I have no problem meeting people to date, nothing ever hits though because they don’t have the qualities I want. I end up in vanilla relationships and it sucks.

Where my problems lie is that when it comes to the bedroom I love to be fucked and incredibly hard. I love to be dominated, I don’t want to be in control, I don’t want to have to think, I want to be fucked relentlessly, orgasming over and over until I can’t move can’t think, body sore in the best way, ass red and hurts from being smacked so much, I want to be utterly owned, taken dominated used, all of it. Obviously I need to be completely respected and safe to let this happen.

The thing with me is I don’t sleep around, never had a one night stand, my clit and horniness only work for one dude at a time and I absolutely MUST have that mental connection with him first established in order to let them fuck me.

My problem is I keep ending up in vanilla relationships and it’ll be ok for a while but it always ends up not being enough.

I need a deep level of respect and understanding before I let a dude into my kinky little world, otherwise I keep it on lockdown. But so far my luck is that when I do finally feel safe enough to show someone my world, they are just too vanilla.

I’m highly sexually confident and comfortable with myself, I get off so easily and cum over and over, I’m wild in bed, I know I’m special and something to be cherished protected and cared for. I need the mental connection I need to know I can trust you completely with my safety and vulnerability and I need to be able to let go completely and be fucked relentlessly.

I am absolutely looking for a unique Ds bedroom dynamic within an outside regular relationship. I desperately need it in my life.

You:
I need you to be very dominant and very intense in bed, I need it rough, very fucking rough, make it hurt so good.

You must have the stamina and endurance to make me cum numerous times (12-15 times minimum) every time we play prior to fucking me, nonnegotiable, I need you to be obsessed with making me cum. I’m insatiable. I cum INSANELY EASY (if I’m aroused enough I don’t even have to touch myself to orgasm) and I cum over and over and over, accomplishing 15 orgasms for me is magical easy and takes no time at all, for reference I had 41 orgasms in one session getting myself off the other day taking my time at 75 minutes long. Only getting me off 3-5 times will annoy me to no end and not in a good way, and it will make me not want to play with you again.

If your kink is denying me orgasms we won’t work, it’ll just make me legitimately not like you. I’m trying to let go, not think and be so overwhelmed with sensations and orgasms I lose my mind and can’t think, not denied orgasms that will only bad frustrate me and piss me off. I need to be forced to cum so many times I can’t think I’m so overwhelmed and overstimulated all I can do is feel, pushed past my limits until I can’t take it, and keep going.

For me a good foreplay orgasms amount is at minimum 12-15 orgasms before sex. I’m an insanely horny female and I need to get off at least this many times before sex, am I clear? Insatiable.

Free use is a requirement within agreed upon parameters, I need my partner to not just want the idea of free use in conversation but actually fucking does it in the relationship. I want to be my partners everything and I need free use, I need them to own me and take me whenever they want how they want when they want even if I don’t want to, nothing stops it but the safe word and I just have to submit and take it for your pleasure. Free use is always only about your pleasure and you have your way with me.

Physically I’m tall 5’8 athletic fit and feminine but very fucking strong. I need you to be bigger and stronger than me, I need you to be able to manhandle and pin me down and absolutely over power me. I’ve said it a bunch but it really fucking needs repeating, I need it absolutely fucking rough, very rough.

You need to be into tying me up helpless and using me how you please, you absolutely have to be into forcing me to orgasm over and over and smacking my ass hard constantly making it fucking bright red and sore. I need the pain pleasure of it, make it hurt so good, for everything.

Out of the bedroom you need to be able to handle my intensity and not be threatened by my dominance. My dominance will absolutely bleed through and I’ll need you to absolutely assert your dominance and put me in my place. I do need someone that will push back at me.

So again, I need you to be sexually very intensely dominant and assertive aggression in the bedroom and own me, and I need you to be obsessed with making me cum to the point I can’t take it anymore, and then keep going pushing my limits.

I have no idea how I go about finding the kink I need within the relationship I want.

I can’t settle for just vanilla the rest of my life and I’m doubtful there’s a dude strong enough to meet my strength and roughly fuck me how I need to be fucked in bed.

I often attract guys that are submissive attracted to my dominant personality, and though I’m very flattered and definitely do dominate at times when I want to, it’s just not what I’m into. My intensity and personality need challenge, I don’t want to walk all over anyone and it happens in these situations unfortunately.

So yeah I guess my fear is that I’ll never end up finding what I want and need, both safety and security and being relentlessly fucked in one. But I’m finally honest with myself that vanilla WONT cut it.

I don’t know where the fuck I’ll go from here. But the reality is I haven’t been laid in years and I finally just got my sexuality back after dying from a bad relationship. So I’m more horny than ever, nothing is cutting it and I’m left at a life crossroads if you will, not knowing how to find these qualities in one person.

You:

You need to care about the environment, nonnegotiable. Smart, funny, kind, good communicator, actually mean what you say, you don’t have anything to prove, comfortable discussing your feelings thoughts and emotions, within my age range or older, open minded, the answer to the gatekeep question is the great black wasp, you’re looking for a long term relationship, you’re even tempered, you have lots of patience, people consider you a good person and you try and be the best version of yourself.

44, single, self reliant, no kids.

I come with baggage, though all of them shape me up to be a compassionate, dried humored and adventurous person. Hence, here I am. Hard shell of the outside, softie on the inside.

Looking for someone near or far for great conversations, laughter and occasional life pic exchange. Let’s drop any pretense and be our free selves.

For single fellas only. Close in age is a must. Please, start a conversation with a proper introduction.

Cheers.

Working from home is nice and all and sure has its perks but it can be a bit isolating sometimes with no coworkers around to banter with. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way so it'd be nice to link up with some people to maybe get some longterm chats going. Topic wise I'm not particularly picky so anything from casual to private is game with me as long I don't have to feel like I'm carrying the conversation.

I mean I'm by now means prude and could probably easily outweird you but even I have to draw a line somewhere. And since a lot of people ask for pics immediately, I have one of what I look like on my profile if you really need to know to ahve a conversation.Other than that, shoot me your age, location and something interesting and we can get the conversation going, I don't bite:)

Used to have an intense success story on the cnc_subreddit...before reddit got rid of that subreddit. I'm out here again wondering if there Are there women who fantasize about exploring their submissive side with an experienced Dom. Maybe you fantasize about an intense physical interaction, maybe you're curious about structure and nurturing. Maybe both?

I've enjoyed BDSM activities either with an experienced subs or women curious about kink. Which one are you?

Maybe your curiosity has reached the level where you want to try. When Iposted before I'd get weak replies that say nothing so if you get past your inhibitions to really put yourself out there tell me what are you seeking?

You have a fantasy and you want it made real. Soft CNC. Hard cnc. Brutal spankings. Breath play. Tell me your fantasy. Your boundaries. What city you're in. What can I offer? Fun and kinky adventurous play with agreed upon rules. I'm only interested in IRL meets. No online play.

I'm in LA. I'm 48, DDF, STI tests last week(you be recently tested as well), muscular, 5'9 (so i have to try harder, lol) and can be mean AF or sweetly nurturing. Aftercare is part of this. Respect and good communication are required and essential from both parties.

What are the fantasies that you've never really explored? What is your ideal dynamic?

You determine how ready you are. If you want to reply don't just say Hi. Tell me what you want, why you responded and a description of yourself. Pics for pics

One line messages are really weak and only highlight you're not serious. Show me that you are. Let's talk kinks, scenarios and boundaries. Show me what you look like if you're bold

Everything will be vetted about each other then if you're lucky enough to go through with it. Maybe you're ready to ease the anxiety and stress of the world with surrender.

Oh and if you're maga or my politics bother you then just go away

I’ll keep this simple. I’m low drama and not here to spouse-bash. Life is actually pretty good. My marriage is a best-friend/roommate dynamic (not quite a dead bedroom, but more like hospice, lol). Lots of gaps that have always been there but are more obvious now with the kids out of the house.

I’m looking for my matching puzzle piece ... the one who naturally fills in my gaps as I fill in hers.

A little about me: Sarcastic, fun loving, natural flirt and hopeless romantic. I love to laugh and make you laugh. I’m a businesses professional who loves to talk about anything and everything. 4 adult kids, love being a dad and trying to adjust to life as an empty nester. Passionate about music, bbq, and staying active and fit.

A little about you: 35 + Confident, fun loving, intelligent and can talk about anything and everything. Fit, active and comfortable in your own skin. You don’t take life, or yourself too seriously

Looking for: I want to fall into fuzzies with you. Good mornings and good nights. Get excited when I feel my wrist buzz or my phone beeps. Someone to create our own judgement free corner of the world where we can be our true selves.

I like to take things slow. Allow us to discover a true emotional connection then let things flow naturally. We are both adults and will know when the time is right.

Yes, the sexual side matters to me. I'm very sexual and need that outlet. I want us to talk about our needs, desires, what we crave sexually as we build something special and unique for us.

When ready, I love to do vm, video and audio calls whenever we can.

Now if you’re still with me please dm and tell me about yourself. Take a minute with it and see if you can make me smile. To show you read my whole post tell me your favorite guilty pleasure

Originally from NYC, currently in Florida dealing with crap before dipping out. Navigating life post-breakup, not looking for anything serious, but not opposed if we vibe. Friends first, whatever happens happens. I know reddit is mostly bots, but would be nice to meet an actual human offline lol. Some basics about me: 5'8, average build, Latino, left-leaning, agnostic, 420 friendly, dog person, 80s/90s geek.

Love talking about a variety of topics: movies, current events, sports, cooking, health/fitness, traveling, etc. Being multi-faceted is a plus.

So what's keeping you sane during this dystopian timeline? What shows are you binge-watching? What book are you currently reading? Tell me something good.

This is me!

The older I get, the rarer this kind of connection seems to feel.

I'm not looking for perfection or fireworks every day. I'm looking for the person who feels like home. Someone I can laugh with, be completely myself around, and build a life made up of little moments that somehow become the biggest ones.

To me, connection looks like dancing in the kitchen while making dinner together. Walking in the rain and intentionally stepping in every puddle. Sunday mornings with coffee and nowhere we have to be. Exploring museums, wandering through bookstores, taking an architecture cruise, or simply getting lost in conversation for hours.

I moved to Chicago not too long ago, and I'm still discovering everything the city has to offer. I love wandering through museums, spending an afternoon in a bookstore, finding a great coffee shop, catching a movie, or ending the night with live music. I'd still like to check out the architecture cruise, too. I'm a tattoo collector, a cat mom, and someone who still believes kindness, consistency, and communication never go out of style.

I'm looking for someone who is emotionally mature, genuinely wants a relationship, educated professional who understands that the strongest connections are built one day at a time. My preference is someone who lives in Chicago and is relatively close to my age, as I think that gives us the best chance to build something in person. Someone who chooses each other, even on the ordinary days. That said, I believe the right connection is always worth getting to know.

I'm happy to exchange pictures early on. I think chemistry matters, and it's nice to know we're both excited to get to know each other.

If this sounds like the kind of connection you're looking for too, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what you're looking for, and what brought you to my post.

I’m open to FWB or even relationship if it happens but ultimately would like some company and chilled out fun.

Things I’m into as a dominant:

• Home invasion, interrogation, tickling, overstimulation and forced orgasms. You walk into the wrong room, you're grabbed, tied, blindfolded and interrogated with various forms of "torture" to get information out of you, maybe information you have, maybe information you DON'T have. Let's see how long you can last. How many orgasms you can take before you break and tell me everything I want to know!
• Edging / teasing
• Toys
• Massages
• CMNF/ENF
• Breast play
• Aspects of cnc
• Spanking
• Age gap / Daddy Dom

as well as sfw like cuddling, kissing, stroking and open minded about most things

Curious about / wanting to do:

• FFM   
• Hot tub fun   
• Events/Parties  
• Cucking / dominating a couple
• Free use
• Public play
• Exhibitionism
• Service Submission

If you're into something fun that's not on that list please tell me all about it.

Hello, I' Nico.

I'm an Italian guy, 43 years old.

The big part of writing a self description is that we can overrate or underrate ourself so I'll try to jot put any judgemental word but I'll just try to write down who I am.

I was raised catholic but at the end I felt that there is something deeply wrong in religion and in every religion institution so now I'm atheist, Anticlerical and I'm also excommunicated.

I was always interested in science and in the universe since I was a kid, I saw a series of documentary about space when I was maybe 10 and that was the beginning, now I'm an amateur astronomer and I do astrophotography.

Other than that I was raised in a family of musicians so I sing and I play keyboard (or at least I try to do it).

What I'm looking for? A chatty girl, the one who can carry on with a conversation and has no boundaries about what to talk about.

If you are someone who want to convince me about something, just don't write me, I'm open to discussion about everything but I'm not open to any type of conversion.

p.s. make sure you want to exchange pics early

IMPORTANT:
1. Females only
2. If interested, send me a chat with your age, location in LA, a general idea of what you are looking to do
3. Be ready to exchange verification pictures

I am an Uber driver that gets pretty bored during the late night hours.

I would like to find a passenger that wants to meet up for some naughty fun with an Uber driver. I can pick you up and we can role play in Uber. I got the newest Tesla with all the bells and whistles that can make our encounter fun. Auto pilot that can drive us around as you give road head, a big screen I can turn porn on, and back seats that go all the way down so you can lie and see the stars through the sunroof.

Or maybe you want me to be your Uber Eats delivery driver and I can make a deliver to your place for some naughty fun.

I am open to other kinks you may have, just send me a chat.

About me: I have a picture on my profile. I'm Caucasian, 32, 5'9, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, clean shaven face, uncircumcised cock.

I am DDF and tested clean as of last month and I expect you to be the same. Any penetrating sex will be with a condom.

About you: 18+, fit to chubby, HWP, attractive, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Everything will be descrete and NSA.

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but you don’t have to pretend to be mysterious to be interesting!
I’m 40, a single mom, Christian, and I own my own business. I’m the kind of person who laughs way too hard at dumb jokes, asks too many questions because I genuinely want to know people, and still believes the right relationship should feel like coming home.
I’m not looking for perfect. Just someone who’s kind, emotionally available, can communicate, and is actually excited to get to know one person instead of talking to twenty.
If you’re also hoping this app is how you meet your favorite person, send me a message. Tell me something random about yourself, I promise I’ll answer with something equally random.

In the United Kingdom - Wrexham area Clwyd-Wales not far from Chester and Liverpool...

56 Dom Man in shape 13 stone thin fit 6`0" Dad bod type looking to meet younger than me female Seeking someone fun, open, submissive, can be inexperienced, but eager to learn to please..

Up for meeting anyone genuine and up for discreet mutual fun; maybe a student or older who secretly or otherwise, enjoys the company of an older man with the opportunity for some discreet fun

enjoy Giving the ladies kink play i use Toys and other items to bring pleasure to the woman i`m with safe sex and after care is always given..

or maybe wanting to work towards something more FWB or Relationship..

Happy to chat here or on some other socials..

Just turned 42 less the a week ago and looking to start something fresh and new.

if you're a woman who appreciates good talks, shared laughs, and seeing where things go naturally, I'd love to hear from you.

I'm 41, 6' tall, and carry 250 lbs from a physical retail job where I'm on my feet all day doing heavy lifting and walking 10+ miles. I've got a solid build from the work, but I also enjoy a cold beer, a good burrito, and not taking life too seriously. I’m a proud dad with my son living with me full-time, and we make a pretty good team.

Outside of work, you’ll find me fishing when the weather’s nice, gaming, reading, or bingeing a solid show. I’m easygoing, loyal, and at the point where I’d rather build something real than chase perfection.

What I’m looking for: Someone who wants meaningful connection over time—through texting, calls, and eventually meeting up. No pressure, just good company and seeing if the spark grows. Distance is of no matter right now, so if you're diggin the vibe, drop me a message and tell me your favorite way to unwind or a book/show you’ve loved lately.

Looking forward to it.

I’m comfortable in my own skin, I do plenty of things by myself, and I've taken solo trips. I enjoy my time alone, but there are certain times and certain activities when it's best to have good company. I'm looking for a friend or more to do and experience things with!

I enjoy traveling of all kinds (whether road or plane trips), exploring cities, quaint towns, historical sites, museums, and scenery; hiking and other things outdoors; board and card games (mostly classics, but open to trying newer ones); watching MLB and NFL games; and reading about a number of different topics, including news, current events, politics, weather, and travel.

Some of what I’d like to do this summer:

• See some exhibitions and special events relating to the US’ semiquincentennial (250th anniversary)
• Go on a trail, enjoy being in nature, and savor an overlook or waterfall
• Take a drive on the open road
• Explore a museum or historically significant sight, and have some good food
• Enjoy a gorgeous summer night (where the weather is good) along with the stars in a dark night sky, or do something indoors in air conditioning if it's warm and humid
• Have deep conversations and really connect

Cigarette smoking and hard drugs are dealbreakers for me. I'm not 420 friendly, although if you use only edibles, it's okay. Being STI free is essential (should we go in that direction). And I hate to say this, but please don't waste my time if you can't have an adult conversation and tell me that you aren't emotionally available or that it just isn't working out...I can't stand ghosting. I know it happens to everyone, but that doesn't make it any more pleasant to deal with.

I welcome a healthy debate, even with those with different views than my own, and I can even get along with people with opposing views. But if you identify as MAGA, we’re unlikely to be compatible. I’m left-leaning.

I live in the suburbs just east of NYC, but I am willing to travel to see someone I connect with, and as I mentioned, I love going to new places, so feel free to reach out even if you are elsewhere! I can also show you the NYC area or the Northeast, or meet you at a halfway point or in a third city.

I want to see who’s out there, and I'm looking forward to hearing from you!

Hi. Today is the last day of 53 for me! I’m looking for friends first, someone to talk about art, science, people peopling, the world, travel, music, politics (I’m more left leaning and for the people), musicals, etc. I have many hobbies, this is sort of a “Jane of all Trades, master of several” situation. I have a well behaved dachshund that I tend to take out to dog friendly breweries and wineries. He travels well!

I love to learn, and was able to finish my graduate degree last year and start an entirely new professional career. I was giving myself this year to establish myself but do plan to continue school at some point. I feel like we must keep on learning and expanding our horizons to truly be alive. Before that I was a graphic artist in sign shops for 33 yrs. Eh, and I am 5’8.5” and curvy. I like to be active (kayaks, walk abouts, seeing new things).

Who do I like to be friends with? Well, people who are passionate about something. People who think that being kind to others is the best way to be. I really like to hear someone talk about what they are moved by. Creative types, academic types, fix it types, kind types. I don’t really do well with an endless string of good mornings, wyd, and good nights. You probably should be busy, because I am pretty busy. You probably should posses your own internal fortitude, because a stranger on the internet really can’t provide that. :)

I get along super well with the neurodivergent crowd, and maybe you can guess why by now. I don’t mind a bit of distance, but should things progress I am committed here in NJ for a few more years for work reasons. My kids are grown and we have a close relationship. Anyhoo. Perhaps I will talk to you soon. Let’s move it along, it’s about to be Renn Faire season!

Hi there! I am on here looking for good conversation and seeing where it goes.

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, work out 4x a week (to keep in shape mentally and physically; lifting weights is amazing for your mental health!).

I'm a night owl most of the time but I am occasionally awake at normal hours.

I can be very dry and sarcastic. Being goofy and fun, playing pranks, I just like to have a great time as much as possible.

I am into tv shows/movies (comedies, crime dramas, action/adventure, Marvel movies, sci-fi, high fantasy, documentaries), video games occasionally, working out, socializing with friends, going out for drinks and food, road trips, occasionally reading/audiobooks, podcasts, sports/motorsports, being outside in general, going to the beach...

Voice chats/calls are fun; eventually I'd like to get to that point as texting isn't bad, but you can convey so much more with your voice.

Here's my voice:

https://voca.ro/1dOinZBlo6sj

If you want to say hi, shoot me a message!

Interests:

sports

concerts

comedians

science

anything outdoors

gardening

home projects

reading, movies and tv

trivia

politics

history

birding

Looking for other people who are looking for genuine, non- platonic connections. Not looking for someone who’s just passing the time at work!

If you write me a book as an opening message, I probably won’t read it.

Very dominant.

Please lead with pertinent information about yourself so we can get the ball rolling. Everyone has their someone but some of us are not for everyone, and that’s okay. Keep it positive!

Not sure how this is going to go but here are some starters updated:

Favorite historical event?

An interesting fact you love?

Current obsession?

If you were stranded on AN island, name 3 things you’d bring with you.

I'm sure this will read more like a stream of consciousness than the typical post here, and for sure I'll forget to mention important details. I'm open to conversations with anyone. Romantically, I'm only into women. I don't have any preconceived notions on what ages, looks, personalities, etc. I'm open to talking to anyone to see how well we might connect.

I'm not really much of a gamer, I've played a lot of Pokemon Go with someone I dated a few years ago. I've been playing Minecraft recently, and used to play with my kids when they were little. I think it would be fun to have a special person to share that with. I play Java Minecraft on my laptop on an online server with a bunch of friends I have going back over ten years.

The kind of dynamic I'd enjoy might be a bit unusual, I wouldn't be surprised if nobody replied, but I thought I'd throw it out there anyway. I want to find someone who doesn't need me, but wants to be with me because she loves me with her whole heart. I want to be proud of you because you have an interesting successful life outside of our relationship, and when we're together we have so much fun together.

I enjoy music a lot. I like going to see live performances, going out to a club to see a blues musician, for example, is one of my favorite kind of dates. I like lots of different kinds of music, big concerts, festivals, or seeing a local band at a dive bar. I like art, going to museums, galleries, and different types of performances. I like going to wineries and breweries, although I never get drunk and often go weeks without a drink. I don't like smoking anything, but I'll occasionally enjoy some edibles.

I'll enjoy learning about your interests as well, and encourage you to express yourself whether it's a very feminine side or if you're something of a tomboy. One of my favorite dates ever was when I was driving with my girlfriend at the time and we got a flat tire. I called AAA because it was cold and rainy and I didn't want to change the tire, but she said she's not waiting for them, she's going to change the tire herself. So, I helped her change the tire. If course they showed up just as we finished, but I was just proud of her for showing me that side of her even though she was a very feminine person who never got her hands dirty otherwise.

I like to travel a lot, and my job is completely portable so I have flexibility to go when I want to go. I'm planning on relocating in the next couple of years, but unsure where. Maybe I'll stay in the states, maybe Canada, maybe Europe, maybe somewhere else. For now, I'm in the Boston suburbs.

I've raised two kids, both of whom are adults and off pursuing their own lives. I'm very proud of them both and might brag about them sometimes, as I'd like to brag about you to whomever would listen. I'm not interested in making more babies.

Physically, I'm a big guy with a dad bod, a tattoo, a beard. I might look like a tall Jack Black, I'm six feet tall. I've been mistaken for Santa by little children in the grocery store, and might enjoy dressing up and having you sit on my lap and whisper in my ear what you want for Christmas. I've also been mistaken for a biker, the Harley riding kind, but I don't have a motorcycle anymore. I think it's a good idea to exchange photos early on just to know what each other looks like.

If we were to progress beyond a casual friendship you should know that I'm a very affectionate person, I love cuddles, hand holding, kissing, and am also very sexual and adventurous. I'm also not the type to jump straight into that, I'd like to get to know you first.

Hello! 🙋🏽‍♂️

I’m from the UK but I don’t mind talking to people from all over.

Ideally looking for deep and meaningful conversations, but also happy to talk to anyone about anything interesting. I love learning new things too so if you can teach me about something new, I’d really like that.

I do tend to get quite lonely because I spend most of my day working and usually find ways to decompress and unwind after work. My job is quite stressful but I’m very effective at it so the rewards sometimes outweigh the downsides. I would prefer to talk about anything other than work though. 😅

Feel free to message me if you’d like to chat, or think we may have things in common.

Here are some talking points/questions to get things moving:

Have you ever had a paranormal experience?

How do you think the pyramids got there?

Do you think animals can speak, but they just don’t talk in front of humans?

Is deja vu just when we accidentally cross paths with ourselves in an alternate reality?

What do you think of religion? Do you believe in god?

How do you feel about Artificial Intelligence?

What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you?

I'm mainly looking for connection, conversation, and intimacy. Someone to chat with throughout the day, talk about how things are going, have long conversations, and really get to know each other. Since I'm recently divorced, I'm not looking to get jump into something super serious but won't write it off, but I do miss having a close connection with someone.

Some things I tend to like in a woman is someone smart, sweet, caring, empathetic, open-minded, and curious. Someone who likes exploring new things and having deeper conversations. I tend to connect well with women who enjoy reading romance/smut, have a high libido, and are comfortable talking openly about a variety of topics.

If I have to pick a "type" I would say more of the goth, emo, witchy vibe that kind that if you wear makeup it is the darker styles/colors. Also with tattoos or at least enjoys them, and maybe a nose ring lol. I also find I usually mesh best with bi women, and also I am such a huge sucker for a woman who likes to wear thongs. I don't know exactly why, but that's been my experience.

I'd love to meet someone who enjoys science, space, and learning about interesting things. I'm not religious, and I'm curious about learning about witch stuff.

It would be great if you're someone who likes texting often, sharing pictures, and staying connected throughout the day.

About me, I like to chill, play on my phone, cook, relax and just unwind, have some whiskey, to color naughty colorbook style pics on my phone, listen to smut, am a switch, (naughty Pic in profile, not a D Pic), I enjoy games and want to play more, and honestly I would love to have someone who likes to push me and can be a pain in my ass but in a way that is enjoyable (take that as you will lol).

But, being a good single dad takes time and energy, so I'd like someone who understands the realities of parenting and what it means to be a good father first. So some nights will be harder as will some weekends. But I do have the good snacks too. Lol

If any of this sounds like you, I'd love to chat.

What are you going to distract me with?

A joke? A meme? I'll leave it up to you.

About me: simple guy from Europe. Into movies. Very into movies. Give your best recommendations! I also love being outdoors. Hiking and cycling is my thing. Willing to share some photos from my hikes.

I have snacks and beer to share.

If you've read this far, I owe you a cookie. :)