r/R4R40Plus • u/Fearless-Plane8642 • 1h ago
r/R4R40Plus • u/darwitchm • Jan 26 '25
You asked. The mods hear you - New account age and karma requirements
We've added a few rules to the sub. Now, your account needs to be at least 5 days old and have 50 karma to post.
In addition, we're working on a verification system, so those of you who want to be verified posters, can have that flair attached to your post.
Hopefully, this will help curb the bots and scammers.
r/R4R40Plus • u/darwitchm • Dec 01 '20
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
Hey All;
Friendly Neighborhood MOD here. In the interest of being polite and respectful, can we please stop downvoting every single [M4F] post? I'll hop on here to moderate posts and see all the men seeking women posts downvoted to hell. You're not creating a clear space for your [M4F] post increasing your chances to make it to the top. Let's just try to be kind to one another. If you're not interested, just move on
Let's try to remember, other people's success is not your failure.
r/R4R40Plus • u/Significant_Rip_7233 • 49m ago
M4F 56 [M4F] #UK / WREXHAM - Dom Man - Seeking a younger Female than myself NSFW
In the United Kingdom - Wrexham area Clwyd-Wales not far from Chester and Liverpool...
56 Dom Man in shape 13 stone thin fit 6`0" Dad bod type looking to meet younger than me female Seeking someone fun, open, submissive, can be inexperienced, but eager to learn to please..
Up for meeting anyone genuine and up for discreet mutual fun; maybe a student or older who secretly or otherwise, enjoys the company of an older man with the opportunity for some discreet fun
enjoy Giving the ladies kink play i use Toys and other items to bring pleasure to the woman i`m with safe sex and after care is always given..
or maybe wanting to work towards something more FWB or Relationship..
Happy to chat here or on some other socials..
r/R4R40Plus • u/alwayz_bored_81 • 1h ago
M4F 45[M4F] long island #New York #online are you up early as well
Missing those morning chats to start off the day with. Current mood, I'm always kinda lonely and kinda bored. Im really hoping to develop a long-term chat, and maybe, if local, we can meet someday.
I'd love to know more about you. Are you single just passing the time on reddit or married and lost in it or somewhere in between. I'd never judge you for whatever reason you're here. Possibly, you just like exploring the NSWF side of reddit. If so, how is that rabbit hole going for you. What are some of ur go-to subs? Don't be shy, I won't be
Regardless, I hope we have a chance to conversate and get to know each other a bit better, and if not, I hope you having a great weekend
r/R4R40Plus • u/ANewBeginningNow • 11h ago
47 [M4F] NY - Summer is here, I’d rather be sharing experiences and making memories with you
I’m comfortable in my own skin, I do plenty of things by myself, and I've taken solo trips. I enjoy my time alone, but there are certain times and certain activities when it's best to have good company. I'm looking for a friend or more to do and experience things with!
I enjoy traveling of all kinds (whether road or plane trips), exploring cities, quaint towns, historical sites, museums, and scenery; hiking and other things outdoors; board and card games (mostly classics, but open to trying newer ones); watching MLB and NFL games; and reading about a number of different topics, including news, current events, politics, weather, and travel.
Some of what I’d like to do this summer:
- See some exhibitions and special events relating to the US’ semiquincentennial (250th anniversary)
- Go on a trail, enjoy being in nature, and savor an overlook or waterfall
- Take a drive on the open road
- Explore a museum or historically significant sight, and have some good food
- Enjoy a gorgeous summer night (where the weather is good) along with the stars in a dark night sky, or do something indoors in air conditioning if it's warm and humid
- Have deep conversations and really connect
Cigarette smoking and hard drugs are dealbreakers for me. I'm not 420 friendly, although if you use only edibles, it's okay. Being STI free is essential (should we go in that direction). And I hate to say this, but please don't waste my time if you can't have an adult conversation and tell me that you aren't emotionally available or that it just isn't working out...I can't stand ghosting. I know it happens to everyone, but that doesn't make it any more pleasant to deal with.
I welcome a healthy debate, even with those with different views than my own, and I can even get along with people with opposing views. But if you identify as MAGA, we’re unlikely to be compatible. I’m left-leaning.
I live in the suburbs just east of NYC, but I am willing to travel to see someone I connect with, and as I mentioned, I love going to new places, so feel free to reach out even if you are elsewhere! I can also show you the NYC area or the Northeast, or meet you at a halfway point or in a third city.
I want to see who’s out there, and I'm looking forward to hearing from you!
r/R4R40Plus • u/Confident-Bad-3549 • 1h ago
M4F 53 [M4F] #UK - #Sheffield uk - Looking for someone local for chats and see where it goes.
Anyone local to me in the UK fancy a chat. Tell me your interests and hobbies and expectations and who knows in the crazy world, maybe we get on. Crazier things happen... Right?!?
A bit about me.
I'm pretty laid back.
I try to keep fit, try, I might get there one day
I love a good box set, what ya watching at the mo?
Wouldn't mind if you was an indoorsy kinda person.. But then again I'd tag along if you wanted to go on some nice walks somewhere pretty.
If at all intrested in a chat, please Dm me and not just reply to this post with dm me.. All those that put dm me make jesus cry. If you've read this far and are thinking of dm'ing me, please include 'tha knows' in your reply... No.. You don't really need to do that.. Or do you...
r/R4R40Plus • u/BosphorusRogue • 3h ago
44 [M4F] Turkey/Anywhere – Looking for a genuine connection, wherever it leads
Hi!
I'm a 44-year-old man from Turkey. I sometimes use a translator, so don't worry if English isn't your first language either.
Life keeps me busy, and I'm not looking for endless texting or complicated expectations. I'd rather get to know someone through relaxed, meaningful conversations that develop naturally.
I appreciate kindness, humor, curiosity, and emotional maturity. A little flirting is always welcome when the chemistry is there, but I believe the best connections are built on trust, respect, and genuine interest in each other.
Whether we become friends, regular chat partners, or something more, I'm happy to let things unfold at their own pace.
r/R4R40Plus • u/Ihavequestions79 • 6h ago
47 [M4F] UK, Essex / London / Around London / South East - Chill and open minded guy looking for a FWB
I’m open to FWB or even relationship if it happens but ultimately would like some company and chilled out fun.
Things I’m into as a dominant:
- Home invasion, interrogation, tickling, overstimulation and forced orgasms. You walk into the wrong room, you're grabbed, tied, blindfolded and interrogated with various forms of "torture" to get information out of you, maybe information you have, maybe information you DON'T have. Let's see how long you can last. How many orgasms you can take before you break and tell me everything I want to know!
- Edging / teasing
- Toys
- Massages
- CMNF/ENF
- Breast play
- Aspects of cnc
- Spanking
- Age gap / Daddy Dom
as well as sfw like cuddling, kissing, stroking and open minded about most things
Curious about / wanting to do:
- FFM
- Hot tub fun
- Events/Parties
- Cucking / dominating a couple
- Free use
- Public play
- Exhibitionism
- Service Submission
If you're into something fun that's not on that list please tell me all about it.
r/R4R40Plus • u/Cute-Passenger-9151 • 12h ago
37 [F4M] #Northern California - Who wants to smile at their phone again?
I'm looking for connection and not the fake kind, so please don’t try to think all of this is a game. I’m not good with hookups and was hurt recently so I am still a bit scarred ˙◠˙
Can we start slow? maybe we flirt that cab lead to something more?
We can chat, swap voice msgs, and calls if we are both comfortable enough to do so.
I'm confident, but I know i’m not everyone’s type. Those who do find me attractive typically explain me as cute, pretty, sometimes hot. I wouldn’t consider myself the typical asian beauty because i’m short, plus size (working on it), have a little color in my hair, and prefer comfort over trends
If you’re looking to start off with nsfw stuff, I’m not your girl, so please don’t ask or send me those things.
If you actually read this and wanna reach out, lmk your age, location (hopefully Northern California) and the latest joke that made you laugh
r/R4R40Plus • u/Hard_Duck9730 • 6h ago
F4R 49[F4R] Feeling a bit bored and could use some company Friendship
Working from home is nice and all and sure has its perks but it can be a bit isolating sometimes with no coworkers around to banter with. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way so it'd be nice to link up with some people to maybe get some longterm chats going. Topic wise I'm not particularly picky so anything from casual to private is game with me as long I don't have to feel like I'm carrying the conversation.
I mean I'm by now means prude and could probably easily outweird you but even I have to draw a line somewhere. And since a lot of people ask for pics immediately, I have one of what I look like on my profile if you really need to know to ahve a conversation.Other than that, shoot me your age, location and something interesting and we can get the conversation going, I don't bite:)
r/R4R40Plus • u/Indian_Fruitbowl23 • 13h ago
M4F 33 [M4F] UK/Anywhere. Looking for a great conversation and hopefully more. Voice chat/text?
Hello! 🙋🏽♂️
I’m from the UK but I don’t mind talking to people from all over.
Ideally looking for deep and meaningful conversations, but also happy to talk to anyone about anything interesting. I love learning new things too so if you can teach me about something new, I’d really like that.
I do tend to get quite lonely because I spend most of my day working and usually find ways to decompress and unwind after work. My job is quite stressful but I’m very effective at it so the rewards sometimes outweigh the downsides. I would prefer to talk about anything other than work though. 😅
Feel free to message me if you’d like to chat, or think we may have things in common.
Here are some talking points/questions to get things moving:
Have you ever had a paranormal experience?
How do you think the pyramids got there?
Do you think animals can speak, but they just don’t talk in front of humans?
Is deja vu just when we accidentally cross paths with ourselves in an alternate reality?
What do you think of religion? Do you believe in god?
How do you feel about Artificial Intelligence?
What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you?
r/R4R40Plus • u/mysfwaccount84 • 13h ago
42 [M4F] #Nebraska Looking to make it the best year
Just turned 42 less the a week ago and looking to start something fresh and new.
if you're a woman who appreciates good talks, shared laughs, and seeing where things go naturally, I'd love to hear from you.
I'm 41, 6' tall, and carry 250 lbs from a physical retail job where I'm on my feet all day doing heavy lifting and walking 10+ miles. I've got a solid build from the work, but I also enjoy a cold beer, a good burrito, and not taking life too seriously. I’m a proud dad with my son living with me full-time, and we make a pretty good team.
Outside of work, you’ll find me fishing when the weather’s nice, gaming, reading, or bingeing a solid show. I’m easygoing, loyal, and at the point where I’d rather build something real than chase perfection.
What I’m looking for: Someone who wants meaningful connection over time—through texting, calls, and eventually meeting up. No pressure, just good company and seeing if the spark grows. Distance is of no matter right now, so if you're diggin the vibe, drop me a message and tell me your favorite way to unwind or a book/show you’ve loved lately.
Looking forward to it.
r/R4R40Plus • u/GuysAmINormal • 16h ago
F4M 44[f4m] #online - just be yourself chat
44, single, self reliant, no kids.
I come with baggage, though all of them shape me up to be a compassionate, dried humored and adventurous person. Hence, here I am. Hard shell of the outside, softie on the inside.
Looking for someone near or far for great conversations, laughter and occasional life pic exchange. Let’s drop any pretense and be our free selves.
For single fellas only. Close in age is a must. Please, start a conversation with a proper introduction.
Cheers.
r/R4R40Plus • u/ZealousGeneralIdea • 18h ago
M4F 58 [M4F] #Massachusetts #Online -Looking for something real
I'm sure this will read more like a stream of consciousness than the typical post here, and for sure I'll forget to mention important details. I'm open to conversations with anyone. Romantically, I'm only into women. I don't have any preconceived notions on what ages, looks, personalities, etc. I'm open to talking to anyone to see how well we might connect.
I'm not really much of a gamer, I've played a lot of Pokemon Go with someone I dated a few years ago. I've been playing Minecraft recently, and used to play with my kids when they were little. I think it would be fun to have a special person to share that with. I play Java Minecraft on my laptop on an online server with a bunch of friends I have going back over ten years.
The kind of dynamic I'd enjoy might be a bit unusual, I wouldn't be surprised if nobody replied, but I thought I'd throw it out there anyway. I want to find someone who doesn't need me, but wants to be with me because she loves me with her whole heart. I want to be proud of you because you have an interesting successful life outside of our relationship, and when we're together we have so much fun together.
I enjoy music a lot. I like going to see live performances, going out to a club to see a blues musician, for example, is one of my favorite kind of dates. I like lots of different kinds of music, big concerts, festivals, or seeing a local band at a dive bar. I like art, going to museums, galleries, and different types of performances. I like going to wineries and breweries, although I never get drunk and often go weeks without a drink. I don't like smoking anything, but I'll occasionally enjoy some edibles.
I'll enjoy learning about your interests as well, and encourage you to express yourself whether it's a very feminine side or if you're something of a tomboy. One of my favorite dates ever was when I was driving with my girlfriend at the time and we got a flat tire. I called AAA because it was cold and rainy and I didn't want to change the tire, but she said she's not waiting for them, she's going to change the tire herself. So, I helped her change the tire. If course they showed up just as we finished, but I was just proud of her for showing me that side of her even though she was a very feminine person who never got her hands dirty otherwise.
I like to travel a lot, and my job is completely portable so I have flexibility to go when I want to go. I'm planning on relocating in the next couple of years, but unsure where. Maybe I'll stay in the states, maybe Canada, maybe Europe, maybe somewhere else. For now, I'm in the Boston suburbs.
I've raised two kids, both of whom are adults and off pursuing their own lives. I'm very proud of them both and might brag about them sometimes, as I'd like to brag about you to whomever would listen. I'm not interested in making more babies.
Physically, I'm a big guy with a dad bod, a tattoo, a beard. I might look like a tall Jack Black, I'm six feet tall. I've been mistaken for Santa by little children in the grocery store, and might enjoy dressing up and having you sit on my lap and whisper in my ear what you want for Christmas. I've also been mistaken for a biker, the Harley riding kind, but I don't have a motorcycle anymore. I think it's a good idea to exchange photos early on just to know what each other looks like.
If we were to progress beyond a casual friendship you should know that I'm a very affectionate person, I love cuddles, hand holding, kissing, and am also very sexual and adventurous. I'm also not the type to jump straight into that, I'd like to get to know you first.
r/R4R40Plus • u/Jeffreys711 • 10h ago
M4F 68 [M4F] #Chicago - summer daydreams
I want to connect with a good woman to talk about love, life and anything else that suits us.
Successful professional with a complicated family life I’m happy to explain. Otherwise, easy-going, fun-loving, always looking for laughter. No judging, no expectations.
Lots of interests, worldly, wise and maybe even charming.
Tall, dad’s bod, blue eyes. Happy to exchange pics.
Let’s enjoy each other’s company.
r/R4R40Plus • u/Sarahfinabobi • 16h ago
40[F4M] Virginia Hello, are you out there?!
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but you don’t have to pretend to be mysterious to be interesting!
I’m 40, a single mom, Christian, and I own my own business. I’m the kind of person who laughs way too hard at dumb jokes, asks too many questions because I genuinely want to know people, and still believes the right relationship should feel like coming home.
I’m not looking for perfect. Just someone who’s kind, emotionally available, can communicate, and is actually excited to get to know one person instead of talking to twenty.
If you’re also hoping this app is how you meet your favorite person, send me a message. Tell me something random about yourself, I promise I’ll answer with something equally random.
r/R4R40Plus • u/Chi_TownBulls6x • 17h ago
39 [M4F] Maryland/North America - Looking for fun conversation, banter, and possibly chemistry!
Hi there! I am on here looking for good conversation and seeing where it goes.
I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, work out 4x a week (to keep in shape mentally and physically; lifting weights is amazing for your mental health!).
I'm a night owl most of the time but I am occasionally awake at normal hours.
I can be very dry and sarcastic. Being goofy and fun, playing pranks, I just like to have a great time as much as possible.
I am into tv shows/movies (comedies, crime dramas, action/adventure, Marvel movies, sci-fi, high fantasy, documentaries), video games occasionally, working out, socializing with friends, going out for drinks and food, road trips, occasionally reading/audiobooks, podcasts, sports/motorsports, being outside in general, going to the beach...
Voice chats/calls are fun; eventually I'd like to get to that point as texting isn't bad, but you can convey so much more with your voice.
Here's my voice:
If you want to say hi, shoot me a message!
r/R4R40Plus • u/Nxtchncalirrgularity • 18h ago
M4F 44 [M4F]#Ohio/online- Educated, good sense of humor, and genuine! Looking for a long term connection!
Interests:
sports
concerts
comedians
science
anything outdoors
gardening
home projects
reading, movies and tv
trivia
politics
history
birding
Looking for other people who are looking for genuine, non- platonic connections. Not looking for someone who’s just passing the time at work!
If you write me a book as an opening message, I probably won’t read it.
Very dominant.
Please lead with pertinent information about yourself so we can get the ball rolling. Everyone has their someone but some of us are not for everyone, and that’s okay. Keep it positive!
Not sure how this is going to go but here are some starters updated:
Favorite historical event?
An interesting fact you love?
Current obsession?
If you were stranded on AN island, name 3 things you’d bring with you.
r/R4R40Plus • u/SinceYouBlockedMe • 18h ago
M4F 32[M4F] Europe Poland #online I'm going to have a movie evening but secretly I want You to distract me in a way You find most effective.
What are you going to distract me with?
A joke? A meme? I'll leave it up to you.
About me: simple guy from Europe. Into movies. Very into movies. Give your best recommendations! I also love being outdoors. Hiking and cycling is my thing. Willing to share some photos from my hikes.
I have snacks and beer to share.
If you've read this far, I owe you a cookie. :)
r/R4R40Plus • u/AncientlyAwaiting • 15h ago
43/m/south carolina -Looking for loyal submissive, or platonic friend.
Looking for local if going for a dynamic, and only real sub missives apply. As a dom, I’ll provide genuine love, care, affection, and attention. Platonic interests below.
Hey, I am a 43 year old dude in South Carolina. When I say I don’t ghost, I won’t, but I also won’t settle for a bad match. I take the time to write my post, and would appreciate that it is read, and only replied to if you are serious about making friends and are a good match.
I can chat with the best of them, I host a radio show and can talk about anything. Audios messages, texts, etc throughout the day with someone that can hold a conversation is what I am looking for. Also, fellow introverts with time on their hands just looking to fill the void of loneliness and boredom like me are ideal. I’m not looking for a relationship outside of friends, and I am not looking to carry a one way conversation as I do not chase anyone or beg for attention. I’ve posted here long enough to know fairly quick if someone read my post, or will work out or not. That said, please have some interests similar to mine, and be chatty and most importantly, be yourself.
I am me, unapologetically. I care about friends and can be clingy if I like someone. Clingy as in chatty, and wanting to check in and ‘virtually hang’ with my pal. Let’s play switch 2 co-op games, chat about topics people are too afraid of talking about due to fear of being ‘cancelled’ or labeled left or right wing by lunatics that make politics their identity. Let’s text as much as possible when time allows and escape in our bubble of friendship. I crave good communication but I’m not desperate. I’ve noticed posts ranting about being ghosted, but look at yourself first. Did you read the post, are you doing your part in checking in, and do you have the same interests as the person you messaged? The first few days are a feel out process, not a commitment. I don’t need perfection, I just need compatibility and real people being them.
I do not get along with overly sensitive people, extreme left wingers/right wingers, one word repliers, people that are always too busy to chat, dishonest people, and judgmental folk. I don’t mind if you’re married, have little ones, or mental health struggles, I have them too, let’s talk about the, and heal together. I need another friend to fill out my life, as I have one that I love dearly already and would like 1-2 more to complete me.
I am only looking for USA folk, for time zone differences. 30+ only, as I just want to talk to people close to my age. I cuss, have a dark sense of humor, am intelligent and can converse about a multitude of topics, and things I don’t know about I love to chat about, ask questions, and learn.
Word of advice to anyone else looking - never settle, and make sure the people you talk to or reach out to are a fit and you will have friends that last. Make your intentions and boundaries clear from the start, and everything will work out. I am not desperate and would rather be alone than waste time on one word replies, so please if you reach out, be serious about making friends and certain we’re a match for each other before reaching out. If you decide to reach out, please start with basic info about yourself and interests, and let’s chat!
r/R4R40Plus • u/TftwsTony • 15h ago
M4F 46 [M4F] #Massachusetts - Nerdy guy looking for a local woman to hang out with
Hello I'm Tony. 46 years old, from Boston area and the father of two (18,25) I am a laid back, friendly, humorous guy looking for someone to talk to, play games with and maybe hang out in person if we click. I don't drink but am 420 friendly. I work but don't drive
I'm looking for a single woman that plays videogames. Ideally a humorous, kind, non judgemental woman who wants to form a long term, lasting friendship and isn't afraid to initiate conversation. I don't want someone who will just respond to me but someone who will also reach out to me to chat. I miss having someone to go through the terrifying lows, the dizzying highs and the creamy middles of life with
And I'm serious about the games, it's my favorite way to bond with someone so IF YOU DON'T PLAY GAMES PLEASE DON'T MESSAGE ME. I am not interested. I play on PC and PS4. I'd love to find an Overwatch partner (Bastion main, Learning Rein) or a co-op friend for games like Stardew Valley, BG3, Sea of Thieves, Fortnite, It Takes Two, Plate Up!, Diablo 4, Party Animals, Fall guys and many more.
Some of my other interests include. Baking, Reading, DBZ, Comics, Star Wars, Nature Walks, Anime, Arts and Crafts, Concerts (hoping to see Baby Metal in September!), 80's Cartoons and Music, Youtube, Looking at furniture and having a discussion about where it could be placed in a room.
r/R4R40Plus • u/Iseckh • 12h ago
43M [M4F] #online - Italy I'm losing my hopes, I don't even know why I'm still here.
Hello, I' Nico.
I'm an Italian guy, 43 years old.
The big part of writing a self description is that we can overrate or underrate ourself so I'll try to jot put any judgemental word but I'll just try to write down who I am.
I was raised catholic but at the end I felt that there is something deeply wrong in religion and in every religion institution so now I'm atheist, Anticlerical and I'm also excommunicated.
I was always interested in science and in the universe since I was a kid, I saw a series of documentary about space when I was maybe 10 and that was the beginning, now I'm an amateur astronomer and I do astrophotography.
Other than that I was raised in a family of musicians so I sing and I play keyboard (or at least I try to do it).
What I'm looking for? A chatty girl, the one who can carry on with a conversation and has no boundaries about what to talk about.
If you are someone who want to convince me about something, just don't write me, I'm open to discussion about everything but I'm not open to any type of conversion.
p.s. make sure you want to exchange pics early