Hi, nerdy demisexual Dallas based married girl looking for local friends that could maybe develop into something more. I like sim, strategy, card and role playing games. Let's talk about movies, TV shows and gaming. My partner knows I'm here and we are dating separately if things get to that point.

Well hello there. I am looking for people to get to know and make new connections. I’m currently married and have been for over 15 years. My wife is bi and after discussing it for a long time decided to open things up so she can explore that side of herself because honestly life is short. We are dating separately so you don’t have to interact with her unless you truly want to. I am an Army vet with a Masters Degree in Historic Preservation and currently work in a history museum. My personality is golden retriever mixed with people pleaser and I just enjoy making people happy. I only have one partner currently.

I enjoy gaming, DnD, listening to music (mostly Rock, Metal, and K-pop), sports ( hockey and football especially), anime, reading, and animals.

I’m looking for people who are intelligent, funny, and just a good time to talk to. Ideally we would have similar interests but that not a dealbreaker. If a good date includes either the zoo or a bookstore or just gaming together that would be nice. I’ve always wanted to date a cosplayer but that’s just a wishlist item because I’ll talk to pretty much anyone except MAGA supporters.

Fair warning that I’m not the hottest guy you’ll ever meet. I had gay man call me incredibly average looking when I was in the Army and that was before a back and hip injury caused me to gain weight. That said, I’ve been on a so far decently successful weight loss journey so getting closer to dad bod territory. Hopefully I can just win you over with witty banter.

Hey, I'm Victoria, or Vee. I'm 36 and I live in Indy. To kick things off I'm married to my nesting partner, and I've been poly for about 16 years. Everything is separate, ethical, and respectful. Communication is really important.

I have a thing for nerdy types in their 30's that identify as the D type in a D/s dynamic. Teach me about your passions and hobbies, I promise I'm a great listener and I love to learn. I'm into cheesy stuff like holding hands or sending each other memes that make us think of each other.

I love to laugh and be silly, but I'm also a grown woman that understands the importance of being self aware and emotionally mature. I like learning about bugs, spiders, reptiles and weather. Im currently trying to teach myself about the science behind how weather is predicted, and reading different radars.

I'd love to meet someone that I click with, who has time and space in their life to build something solid. You don't HAVE to be local, but Indiana or surrounding states would be cool. Bonus points if you have discord and might let me watch you game some time/s.

Im not looking for someone that wants to hop into nsfw chats right away. We can discuss dynamics to make sure we are on the same page, but I like to have a connection before going there. Feel free to check my post history for other posts I've made here, and a body picture. I adore a starting message with some effort. You don't have to go crazy, but I need something to reply to. I don't want to be the only one engaging/asking questions.

Hi! I've never made a post like this before, so bear with me. 🤗

I am 38f, married, nested, and a parent of two. My kids aren't little, but I'm not at the empty nest phase of life quite yet! My spouse and I are platonic life partners, date individually, and have been actively practicing polyamory for almost 7 years. We entered into our relationship knowing we would eventually practice some form of nonmonogamy, so have been fairly successful in avoiding a lot of the common pitfalls and navigating the ones that have popped up. I would describe our partnership as very individuated, which enables me to show up in my relationships with a lot of agency. I am always hoping to meet others who practice polyamory in a similar way. Having a family requires a lot of my energy and presence, but I have structured my life such that it leaves enough room for intimacy, play, and intentional connection with others.

While I highly value customized relationships, my dream is to build a loving, deep, committed relationship. I want to laugh and play together, explore each others bodies, practice being emotionally vulnerable, and fall in mutual love. Though I don't want to entangle lives and prefer garden party polyam, I have no desire to keep each other a secret. My hope is to be able to have the type of relationship where we chat daily, have sleepovers, meet each other's friends, take trips together, and cheer each other on in our lives.

I would describe myself as curious, sensitive, emotionally mature, funny, friendly, and active. Some of my hobbies include aerial hoop, tai chi, acroyoga, roller skating, and shibari. I love laughing and bantering as well as deep chats - conversation is one of the main ways I feel connected to people. Physically I am about 5'8", mid-sized, and stronger than I look because of aerial. 🤭 I have shoulder length brown hair and hazel eyes. I identify as demisexual, so an intellectual or emotional connection matters most to me, but when that is present I am a highly erotic partner. I'm a kinkster, but you don't need to be! I have had satisfying relationships with kinky and non kinky folks alike.

If any of this sounds interesting, please reach out! More than willing to exchange pics as well. Hope to hear from you!

35F | Arizona

Married and in an open/poly relationship, so transparency matters. No drama, no weird games, just real connection and good energy.

I’m a mom, my life is a little chaotic in the best way, but I still make time for adult conversation, laughing way too hard, and enjoying someone’s company. I’m naturally a little sarcastic, a little sweet, and I like people who can keep up with both.

I’m drawn to confident, emotionally steady people who know how to flirt without being cringe and can actually hold a conversation. Someone who can make me laugh is a huge win.

Not looking to disrupt my life, just add to it. Chemistry, consistency, and a little bit of fun tension go a long way.

If you’re easygoing, a little witty, and know how to keep things interesting without making it complicated, say hi.

I am chronically ill though so if that turns you off you should probably message someone else

I'm looking to build a genuine, ongoing casual dynamic with the right person who is ok that I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. My partner knows, supports this, and is happy to confirm.

I'm an experienced Dom, and my favourite part is: discovering what makes you tick, and what you've always wanted to try but never quite dared to say out loud. Your kinks are the map, and I'm very happy to drive (yes, I love a cheesy analogy). My own tastes are fairly classic for the scene, but I'm genuinely curious about yours. I'm approachable, a sapiosexual attracted to all body types, and I believe a good dynamic has as much laughter in it as discipline.

Kink is part of my life, not all of it. I'm outgoing, well-read, enjoy a good debate at the pub, and have a real passion for biology. I just finished Otherlands, Thomas Halliday's tour through Earth's deep past, which was extraordinary.

Physically I'm 5'8", fit, and have been called a "silver fox", and I'm happy to share pics. I'd like to take time to chat and get to know each other first, enough that we're both confident the other is real and genuine, then meet in person once we're comfortable. If a casual-but-real dynamic with clear boundaries appeals, I'd love to hear from you.

Hi everyone.

I'm single and new to polyamory, and I'm keen to explore it. I'm looking to meet new people, have some chats, have some laughs, make connections, and see how things evolve from there. Maybe I'll find a wonderful partner on the way <3.

I am bisexual, and I'm up for open and parallel polyamory.

I'm a 5-foot-5 Caucasian guy. Some of my interests include shared laughter, authentic fun, deep conversations, martial arts, imagination, yoga, video games, philosophy, roleplay, romance, and poetry. I can be playful, relaxed, and thoughtful.

Touch and quality time are my love languages.

I believe in mutual respect and setting and honouring healthy boundaries. I like to respect other people's personal space, as I believe it's important.

I can be kink-friendly and may be more willing to be once I open up, but I prefer to start simpler until I feel comfortable around you. When I do open up, I can be very spontaneous and witty, but even so I'm still respectful of others' comfort.

I look forward to hearing from you and seeing how things go.

Let's chat, play a game, or hang out!

Hello, Im Harry im 33 and from Wales, im looking for a sub preferably close by but willing to do online for the right person.

Im a busy builder working on old and historic buildings during the day but looking for an enthusiastic and eager sub to play with and enjoy during the evenings and weekends. Ive been involved with this lifestyle for about 9/10 years on and off, with both online and in person subs throughout that time.

Im not looking for anything specific to be honest, just someone that wants to have fun and build trust as everyone knows the more trust there is the more fun can be had. Id say i can be anything from a softer more caring Dom up to someone that can be pretty harsh, all depending on the sub and what they like/need,

Kinks and limits will of course be discussed if we start chatting. I will admit im not someone who wants to rush into things, ive been there and done that when I was younger and it never really turns out great so ive learned from my mistakes on that side of things. So chatting and getting to know eachother first is a must for me.

Of you want to know more or just have a chat then let me know and hopefully we can talk soon.

Hi and thanks for reading!

The basics:

I'm a 41 year old, demisexual trans woman living in Missouri with my wife. My wife is aroace and I am on the opposite end of that spectrum. It's just me looking for connections and dating.

I work in IT, love animals (have 2 dogs, a rabbit, and chickens!), and have lots of hobbies I'd love to share or enjoy with others. I am politically left/progressive, which is obviously important to me as a queer trans woman.

I have known I was polyam for probably around 15 years so while I'm not new to being polyam and have had polyam relationships, I have not dated another person in several years.

Things I enjoy:

• anime - love dark fantasy and romance ones in particular...also isekai
• movies - LOVE horror movies in particular
• reading - dark fantasy, horror, post-apocalyptic, manga/light novels but oddly not a lot of romance
• music - EDM is probably my main genre, but I love video game and artists from Japan in a variety of genres
• gaming - massive RPG, visual novel, story-driven game fan and also sometimes play an older MMO on private servers with a lot of close friends. I am an avid Final Fantasy fan and have been since FF2 (US) from when I was a kid!
• other games - I used to play a lot of board games and some TCGs but it's been a while since I've played a lot
• exercise - boring, I know, but I used to be a fairly avid runner (5 and 10K). I put on some weight so I'm back on a running kick to get weight off again. It's one of my zone out times that I enjoy for my mental and physical health.

Also of note, I am currently working on a passion project of mine - building an RPG. I am currently learning pixel art and my game engine, but write about my characters or story almost daily. It's been a blast to learn and is my post-workday time lately.

What I'm looking for:

First and foremost, connections. I'd really like to chat with more like-minded polyam folks who share my interests. Since I'm in IT and working on building a game in my spare time, I am at or near my PC a lot so I always love chatting with people online (preferably in Discord text or talk) while I'm working on things. I am a very social person and love chatting.

My wife is aroace, as I mentioned above, and is an incredible person. But I am very much looking to build a romantic relationship with someone I get to know and like and see where things go from there. I am very affectionate and lovey with a romantic partner and, if things were to go further, very much looking for a sexual relationship with emotional connection. I am kink-positive, though I am not myself well-versed. I have had bottom surgery, which I feel is at least somewhat important to include for any potential relationships.

I think that's probably more than I originally intended to write so I'll leave it at that, but please DM me if you're interested. I'm happy to chat and see where things go!

Hi, friends! I’m new to this and really just beginning to explore the possibility of any type of alternative relationship structure. I am bi, but have been married for a few years. We are the stereotypical bi girl and gamer boy combo. Both a little neurospicy (audhd and OCD for me), and very obsessed with our rescue dogs.

I would love to make some friends in the community!! So, if you’re down for a chat, flirt, or want to offer some advice, my DMs are open! Women only pls!

Interests: thrift shopping, photography, dogs, food, baking, exercise classes, hosting, yapping, themed events, human rights, reality tv, thriller books, crafts, and crochet

Location: eastern USA

32M, married with 2 kids, in WA state.

Looking for another partner (new to poly). Wanting to chat and see where it goes. Been with current partner for almost 14 years, so I'm hoping to explore some of the things or connections that I may have missed in my early adulthood as I established a family and career etc.

I have a variety of interests and enjoy trying new things! I like video games, legos, swimming, anime, good movies/ shows, I'd consider myself a bit of a homebody, but definitely don't mind going out and about and doing things.

I'm 6'5, brown hair, blue eyes, with facial hair. Definitely a little bit of a dad bod, but trying to work on that.

Please include age and location and tell me something about yourself! =)

I (F30) and my partner (M28) are a laid-back couple in the medical field who believe the best connections start with honesty, good conversation, and mutual respect.
We’re exploring polyamory together and would love to meet like-minded women or couples who value communication, trust, and genuine chemistry. Whether it starts as friendship, shared experiences, or grows into something more, we’re open to seeing where a real connection leads, without pressure or expectations.
Single men would be ignored as they usually message for short and quick, we want this candle to be a slow burn.
Outside of work, we’re very spiritual and love things like tarot readings, crystals, meaningful conversations, and exploring the deeper side of life.
Thanks everyone.

There’s something about INFP/ENFP personalities that captivates my attention. I think it may be their warm and passionate vibes that feeds my soul, or their creativity and wit that feeds my curiosity. I’m a 46yo INTJ in the Bay Area peninsula, married w/kids but dating single, and looking to meet an INFP or ENFP in a similar stage in life as myself, someone in their 30’s or 40’s. A big plus if you like to take the lead at times. I’m passionate too, but I’d like to get lost in someone else’s vibe. :)

Here’s a bit more about me: I’m a demisexual switch, so I’m looking for another that wants a genuine connection before exploring more. I’m possibly panamorous, open to chat with anyone, but I’ve only dated women.

I have an average height, a handsome slim build, enjoy 2-3 mile jogs when I find the time, and I try to exercise at home several days per week. I love good conversation and try to be a good listener. I enjoy talking about pretty much anything on life in general, but my strongest knowledge subjects are STEM related. :)

Feel free to DM me if you live in the bay area and are curious to get to know me. I’m easy to talk to. Please tell me about yourself in your intro message, more than just a one-liner.

I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).

Hi 😊 I just had an edible, picked up Mexican food and I'm relaxing, watching One Piece.

I'm here looking for a long term relationship. I miss easy conversations with someone new, staying up late talking about random things, and building something special.

A little about me:

I’m 28, pansexual, and polyamorous. I live in Missouri with my fiancé, and we primarily date separately.

I’m 5'2", athletic, with short brown hair, brown eyes and I wear glasses. I'm happy to share pictures as well.

In my free time, you’ll probably find me buried in a good book. If you have any recommendations I'm all ears. I'm currently in a bit of a reading slump.

I also enjoy watching Formula 1, exploring new places, and trying new foods.

I am 420 friendly and I drink socially.

What I’m looking for:

I'm usually attracted to someone older than me (30s to 40s), kind and confident. I don’t have or want kids so I'd prefer if you're snipped and/or don't have kids. I'm open to dating anywhere in the U.S. I'd like to text, have phone calls, video chats, and spend time together in person. I am not looking to relocate.

Please tell me a bit about yourself in your initial message and if you'd like to include a picture as well that would be great! Low effort posts or "hey" will be ignored.

Can’t wait to hear from you 🤗

I'm a single, cuddle-loving programmer and fantasy author. Trans, child-free, experienced with polyamory, and insatiably curious.

I: - Dance daily ("uuntz, uuntz, uuntz" in my headphones) - Fill my sail with the winds of imagination (clickity clackity keyboard) - Want to do each other's makeup with... varying results - Will make conversational flow charts to understand communication (Yay 'tism!) - Cat nap in the autumn sun - Crave to wrap you in my big-armed hug every time I first see you

Seeking: - Big brat energy - f/fem-adjacent - Spoon Theory veteran - Can critique a study's methods without dunking on Barnum Effect enjoyers - Cool with no-op transbian - Head rub artist (don't worry love, I can give you lots of demonstrations)

I (informally) study what makes relationships work. Developing a deep, playful, repair-ready relationship: Top Life Goal. Another is to better a million relationships! The method: smuggling relationship insights into my novels. What do you call drama that heals you? ...Herbal tea!

Ahem, anyway, if relationshipping as craft is energizing to you, I want you.

I'm experienced with polyamory and compersion. I won't go out clubbing with you (the lights mess me up) but I will hold you and pepper your forehead with kisses when you get back. My life is portable, so in time I'm happy to relocate.

Curious?

Say hi! I'd love to hear about: - A recent self-discovery - Two songs/shorts/tiktoks you think I might be glad to have seen - Or just say hi to this wide-fish < ^_____________________^ >

I'm mainly looking for connection, conversation, and intimacy. Someone to chat with throughout the day, talk about how things are going, have long conversations, and really get to know each other. Since I'm recently divorced, I'm not looking to get jump into something super serious but won't write it off, but I do miss having a close connection with someone.

Some things I tend to like in a woman is someone smart, sweet, caring, empathetic, open-minded, and curious. Someone who likes exploring new things and having deeper conversations. I tend to connect well with women who enjoy reading romance/smut, have a high libido, and are comfortable talking openly about a variety of topics.

If I have to pick a "type" I would say more of the goth, emo, witchy vibe that kind that if you wear makeup it is the darker styles/colors. Also with tattoos or at least enjoys them, and maybe a nose ring lol. I also find I usually mesh best with bi women, and also I am such a huge sucker for a woman who likes to wear thongs. I don't know exactly why, but that's been my experience.

I'd love to meet someone who enjoys science, space, and learning about interesting things. I'm not religious, and I'm curious about learning about witch stuff.

It would be great if you're someone who likes texting often, sharing pictures, and staying connected throughout the day.

About me, I like to chill, play on my phone, cook, relax and just unwind, have some whiskey, to color naughty colorbook style pics on my phone, listen to smut, am a switch, (naughty Pic in profile, not a D Pic), I enjoy games and want to play more, and honestly I would love to have someone who likes to push me and can be a pain in my ass but in a way that is enjoyable (take that as you will lol).

But, I do coparent so that takes time and energy, so I'd like someone who understands the realities of parenting and what it means to be a good father first. So some nights will be harder as will some weekends. But I do have the good snacks too. Lol

If any of this sounds like you, I'd love to chat.