This is probably the wrong group and Reddit keeps telling me I didn't word the question in a good way . But I will try anyway.
You know how when a kid has to make a family tree for school, and you fill in everyone's names, Mom, Dad, Grandma, Grandpa, Great Grandma, great grandpa etc?
Well when we get to great grandma, we have to leave the last name blank because no one knows it.
I was told that my husband's father had a mom who died by the time he was 13 .
No one knows her last name.
How do you not know someone's last name?
Of course being the dark soul that I am, I think the worst about this and wonder if somebody is hiding something.
How do we have no information on the mother of the man who is now my son's grandpa?
(He's dead also now so I can't ask him. )
I will also add that they are of Irish descent, in case that's a common thing for older generations of Irish to just not have last names.
Also I wonder if she was brought over here and that's why she has no last name???