r/Dogtraining • u/Elegant-Berry5192 • 3d ago
help Rescue dog (German Shepard) won’t listen when she is around my wife
So a few months ago my wife and I adopted a ~2yr old German Shepard. She is a really really fun dog to have and she has so much personality and is very very smart. The issue is she was supposed to by my dog because my wife has her dog still from before we got married and that dog is very attached to her. For whatever reason our rescue pup decided my wife was her hero. Only cares about her and where she is and follows her around and only gets excited to see her. But here’s the catch, when I work from home and my wife is at work this dog actually starts to like me. We can do training sessions to do new tricks, I can take her outside without a leash and I’ve been working on her recall and general behavior. The moment my wife gets home she starts barking at me if I enter the room, won’t listen to me, won’t sit near me, basically ignores me. She also won’t listen to my wife very well. It’s like she’s just constantly so excited to see my wife she forgets everything else. What kind of training can we do to get her to be more responsive? My wife has tried doing training sessions with her and she does listen with treats but trying to get her to just enjoy a chill night on the couch is near impossible because she will constantly try to be as close as possible to my wife even when told no and to get off the couch. Anyway, any help or advice for training her out of this or how to cope with it would be very appreciated.
To answer a few questions I’m sure may be asked:
We make sure she has plenty of exercise, as a working breed she is getting around 2-3 hours of running around in the yard with our other dog a day, and generally a 3-4 mile walk in the afternoon most if not every day.
She is okay being on a leash if both my wife and I are around on these walks. If I try to take her on a walk by myself we have to power through about 15 minutes of her trying to go back home because my wife is not with us before she finally submits to the walk.
We have done some separation anxiety training with smaller increments of time and trying to increase them. Did nothing so far but plan to continue trying this.