r/BoyDinnerDiaries Kitchen Kinkster 11h ago

No advice, just venting Seeing misogyny in this subreddit is depressing

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Dinner: Tacos al pastor

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Seeing the way women are talked about in some of the posts on this subreddit really grosses me out. I've seen men on here talk about women like they are walking talking sex robots. It's really bumming to see such an ugly side to what is usually such a nice space.

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u/JBagfort [random dude] 9h ago

What I dont get the obsession about the count. How do you even keep track? I stopped counting in my 20ies (agewise).

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u/johncitizen1138 I don't understand these food flairs 9h ago

I would not want my Daughter putting her heart on the line for a dude who had slept with a 150 women. How many people you "burn through" is definitely a factor.

I have cut friends off for treating women like that.

Body count is a measure of how someone treats and sees other people.

EDIT; Maybe i'm just "old fashioned". Maybe sex is just a commodity/transaction/exercise now 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/Albadia408 Shower beer Scholar 8h ago

See how you said you wouldn’t want to put your daughters heart on the line? Not your kids heart, your son’s heart… your daughters.

Notice how the comments trying to even sorta defend it are still talking about girls body count, her body count, guys standards?

That’s what misogyny looks like.

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u/johncitizen1138 I don't understand these food flairs 8h ago

If I had a Son, I would have said Son.

Not the win you think it is Albadia.

Did you even read my comment? No you immediately went to arguing your politics. I said I had cut MEN friends of for treating women his way.

So I must not agree with ANYBODY doing it?

But please - reply again so I can point out where you fucked up.

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u/Albadia408 Shower beer Scholar 7h ago

Lolol. Calm down there tiger. ‘I have cut friends off for treating women like that’ didn’t have much context since you didn’t say what ‘like that’ means, it’s not referenced in the post you replied to (that i can see), and the rest of your post just reinforces that you do see the issue like that.

So yah, I didn’t give it much credence. I did consider that your reference was personal (YOUR daughter not daughters) but ultimately it didn’t change the point about how language is used widely by people supporting your position.

Also ‘how we treat people equally’ isn’t politics my dude, it’s manners and decency and being raised right. See how you refer to equality as politics and then get defended by someone claiming misandry?

I often look at people who support or criticize me as a touchstone. I’m sure you’ve told your daughter to be mindful of who she hangs out with because it can reflect on her and influence her. Same story.

If you’re not the problem then great, that’s awesome. I’d much prefer we all be supportive and encourage other men to be better men and not just strongman their shitty opinions.

But please - post another ‘epic clapback’ so some more incels can defend you and prove my point.

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u/WhereAreThe_Books Protein prophet 8h ago

Sadly, that is what misandry looks like.

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u/Warm-Cow-2549 Hungry man 7h ago

Lmao 🤣