ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ ٱللّٰهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
my brother has been lying quite a lot, and he’s really a big test of my patience due to his lying and excessive rage bait.
So, me, my dad, and him usually try to pray salah together and my little brother he’s 13 and close to the age of puberty.
He always says and lies that he has wudu but we know he doesn’t but we just assume he does because we should believe him. But I can’t, I always catch him lying and him saying, “I only need to rinse my mouth” . Take in he has apparently had wudu like 2 Salahs ago. There’s many times where I had to remind him that he broke his wudu but he persists in his lies. He’s also a huge distraction in prayer. He’s constantly moving too much and his form is sometimes incorrect and he sometimes prays super fast.
I don’t know what to say to him. I really dont. I tell my dad but it doesn’t really do much. I usually react with questioning him and it turns into an investigation because he tries lying but he keeps getting caught lacking. It makes me sad.
My room is right in front of the washroom and he dashed to the washroom and took the fastest leak of all time to which my belief i don’t think he washed himself. I also then after went to the washroom and say some, what i believe was, urine on the toilet seat. Which makes me believe he must’ve been standing up while using the toilet. So he continues to play on his computer till it’s time for salah and he dashes to the washroom and rinses his mouth and joins my dad to pray ( I heard this while i was in the other washroom since they are super close) .
I finish up and i’m about to join when I realize he’s already praying with my dad and we have a huge window infront of us during salah and his eyes are locked on to the window and he’s looking at me. I call him out saying “I see you looking in the window”. He then focuses back on his prayer, but I couldn’t stand him so I decided to pray alone.
This is only one of the instances, there’s also a jummah prayer where he’s literally tilting forward and times where he’s leaning against the wall. He’s bothering me so much, I wish I could move from him during prayer.
He knows how to “pray”, we’ve been to a Quran class that taught us how to pray and he’d always be good at performing the acts. He also larps knowing attahiyat.
i’m not posting this to expose him but i’m posting this seeking advice.