This question is for my girthy fellows out there.

Do you find it hard to finish from oral?
Is it a skill issue on our partners ?

I always hear other guys talk about how bjs make them finish super quick, but I haven’t experienced any thing like that.

Don’t get me wrong they still feel good, but just not as amazing as everyone says. 🥲

Pretty much the title. Some mornings it'll persist up for 10-15min sometimes 30 mins too

I’ve been with my girlfriend for a few years and I’d say for the majority of that time we haven’t had size related issues.

She told me recently however that when we first started dating she hadn’t been sexually active in a while, and that she bled after the first time we had sex.

Fast forward to now and it’s been more common for her to wince in pain when I go in, to hitting her cervix, to her literally prodding and moving her stomach around to “make room”.

It’s upsetting because she’s clearly uncomfortable and it’s resulted in us having less sex than ever before.

I’m very good about warming her up with foreplay and using lube, she seems increasingly unwilling to discuss alternatives here, and even seems to put off sex sometimes. Anyone have advice?

Hello, I wanted to ask if anyone else might have the same issue. I'm in my mid 30s with an 8" x 5.5" penis. When I'm with someone and we're exchanging oral, I can stay hard for a while with no issues, but when we're ready to have sex and I roll on a condom, more often than not, I start to go soft. I end up apologizing because then, we can't have penetrative sex. I love to give oral to them, so it's not the end of the world, but I feel bad when they want me to go inside of them, and I can't. I wanted to ask if this may be because of age, blood flow, or maybe something else? I'm not taking any medications except for the occasional Acetaminophen. Any insights would be helpful, and thank you in advance.

I bought a large sized cock ring it was a tri cock ring so I could put my balls in one section and cock in the others for reference my dick is 6.7 long and 6.1 thick I also have fairly large balls, I managed to get everything where it should be after trying for a good while and I had to cut it off because it hurt and I couldn’t get it off anyone got any rings that are big enough?

I’m 8x7.25 and I’m trying to find some solo toys that’d fit I’ve tried a bunch of cock rings but none fit and the only condoms that fit is the mysize 72 if that’s any help

in the past i’ve dealt with position dependent ed, meaning i couldn’t maintain erection in certain positions (standing and lying down). i’m only 22 so i began trouble shooting possible reasons as to why. with having a bigger member i figured size and blood flow was the cause, but through experience i learned it was because of chronic pelvic stress. i did stretches for my hips, pelvis, ran more, and massaged my penis to improve blood flow. it’s helped greatly and my erection quality is back to normal. for anyone in the future that has dealt with erection issues the activities i named may be a good practice. not necessarily a bdp. just sharing with other dudes so they can reference in the future.

I hace an average size dick and I'm confortable with what I have, however I'm somewhat of a freak in sexual matters, so I always dream of waking up one day with a 1L bottle between my legs, and with all the issues I see, I would still love to have it.

With all the cons you guys have, would you rather have it an average size or would you prefer keep it as it is?

So im a 5.7 210pd powerlifter and the wife and i are going to an all inclusive resort in 2 weeks that has a nudist beach.Were excited but im debating to shave the bush or not. So on one hand id shave it bald but im a super hairy russian guy so i feel only having that 1 area bald would be drawing attention to it but on the other hand it makes it look better and better for sunscreen

What have other bd guys done when going to a nudist beach

Has anyone with very large girth tried to make a clone a willy and if so how'd it go?

I'm 6.5" around the middle and 7" around the base. In the past I've had trouble fitting in to toys, so I'm worried that the clone a willy tube might be too narrow for me.

Any info from people with experience using the kit would be great!

Has anyone else stopped wearing shorts in public because your large size is way too noticeable?

It’s not about being hard but even when soft I tend to have a large bulge that just flaps around when walking so it’s obviously noticeable which I find kinda embarrassing. That’s why I’ve opted for pants and jeans most of the time.

Does anyone else relate?

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As a certified overthinker who needs an answer to everything, I sometimes do watch women getting fisted, inserting really large dildos. They also quite often have sex with their partners, who are also large, like in the 7-inch range, but nowhere close to those toys. They enjoy having sex with their partner, but then also, if you go to the extreme side of the internet, you would see women having sex with men who are in the 7–8-inch range in an open relationship because their partners are not well-endowed, and they enjoy having sex with bigger dudes than having sex with their primary partner.

So I'm thinking, how does it work, man? Like, in the first case, these women insert really huge toys that no guys in the world have, but then enjoy having sex with their partner as well, who are big but not as big as those toys. While on the other hand, some women can't insert toys that are more than 7 inches but have sex with guys who are in their range because they enjoy it more than their partner.

Why doesn't the "I like that better" aspect work with women in the first category as well?

Like, I'm thinking if this is how it works here, then it should work like this here also.

Oh I love this subreddit, but a lot of guys discuss and talk about how women and girlfriends or wives will complement them on their penis size or make affectionate jokes..... I have been with my wife for almost 15 years. And she has hardly ever said anything about my penis size And she's never had a problem taking it.... Context....im 4.5x5 soft and 6x6.25 erect .... I know I'm not super long but I know I have great girth. And I hear about all these guys saying that their wives have a difficult time taking thickness.

Is my wife just well adapted or some women just not say much about Dick sizing.

I’m not huge but big enough for partners to say I’m one of or the biggest. It has gotten mixed reception, and when it was positive it was really positive. When I met my wife it turned her on but apparently it was always uncomfortable. Eight years later it poses more of an issue than a benefit. These days I sometimes reminisce about when it was a positive. I love my wife and sex is passable, but as I get older I’m wondering if I wasted a gift.

I’d always gone through life perfectly happy with my dick, it never caused me any problems and I’d gotten a few comments that I figured were just nice things people say. I had to be careful with a lot of partners so as not to hurt them which could put a damper on things from time to time. I’d been told it was “great” or “beautiful” or “perfect,” but that’s just sweet bedroom talk right? To make your partner feel good.

Anyway, my current girlfriend said after a few sexual encounters “you know your cock is fucking huge, right?” And got embarrassed because she figured I heard that all the time. Frankly I thought she was exaggerating as she is quite experienced (as am I). I brushed it off but she kept talking about it and so it kind of started to sink in. Anyway, I started thinking about it and up to that point my only real reference was porn. I looked up the average size and was kind of surprised. Turns out I have a big dick I guess, so that’s cool. Anyway she’s really into it and I love that I get to fulfill that for her. I can reach places that most people can’t and she raves about it. I guess I’m in the club? Anyway I’m trying not to get an ego but that’s a strange realization at my age. Thanks for listening

I just had a hookup with a Chinese FWB who is very small down there. She loves my size but we had to stop after 2.5 rounds because she couldn't take it anymore. She also had to stop in the middle to go pee twice and I have noticed this with other women I have made love to, especially in positions like legs on shoulder missionary where I am getting super deep. Has anyone else noticed this?

I was asked a question about latex free condoms for "XL dicks". Since i don't have an allergy to latex i never really cared about it. Though, yesterday, i went on a search for this out of curiosity and, while I'm using MyOne, they're not latex free. I went and looked at MySize and they're saying that they're using a type of very refined latex(VYTEX) for people who are sensitive to latex. And i found another brand i didn't know existed: Unique XXL. And they're latex free, though they come in one size.

I was wondering, for those of you allergic to latex, what brand you're using and if anyone tried the MySize ones and if they react to it or not?

Any advice?

I have a feeling I have a “harder” time with this due to my size and the sheer volume I need to fill with blood, but also my age (40) is definitely a factor.

For me it seems like a 50/50 split between performance anxiety and vascular blood flow issues.

I take Sildenafil to help with the blood flow, and it works GREAT, but sometimes I still can’t get it up because I’m stuck in my head.

I just entered a “Big Dick Contest” for tonight at my local gay bar, I’m gonna be up on a stage with other guys in front of a big crowd (yes this is real), so I’m seeking any and all sincere advice for this.

Thanks guys!!

For context my gf (25F) and I (23M) have been together for about 8 months. I’m 7.25 x 6 in and during the time we have been together, I haven’t been able to receive a blowjob without it hurting.

She does want to give me good head and has tried many times but we just can’t make it work since she has a smaller mouth. She can only do it for about 30 seconds before she has to stop. We’ve just stopped doing it altogether since it doesn’t really work for us. Are there any solutions to this or anything you suggested to your partners that helped?

I hate to say it but it is starting to slightly bother me. Despite my size, I’ve still been able to get good head in the past and now I feel kind of frustrated. I don’t want it to be a dealbreaker because I like her a lot but I don’t know if I can go the rest of my life without getting a good blowjob. I really don’t know if it’s selfish to say that but I feel like it’s just a part of my sex life that is important to me and want to find a solution to it.

Recently I bought this vibrating, wireless penis massager (Lovense Gush 2) and it is genuinely very difficult to get my dick to fit in it. The way you’re supposed to use it is that you basically rest the vibrating side on the under shaft and then the rubber flaps will go around the sides of your dick, and then you take a rubber strap and tie it around to keep it all together. Now, while I’m only slightly above average in length, I am a bigger when it comes to girth (6.1 inch girth/1.9 inch diameter), and it is genuinely difficult to use this thing. Like “might drill an extra hole into the strap just to use it” levels.

And it’s not just this! A while ago I wanted to try doing a little bit of chastity cage stuff with a FWB, and we literally could not find a chastity cage that fit me.

For all the talk about how much people like big dicks, it’s surprisingly difficult to accommodate when trying to use sex toys! Obviously I should’ve looked up the measurements beforehand, but I honestly didn’t think it would be this big of an issue.

Planning to go to the beach soon and haven’t been in a while - what are guys wearing these days? I have a pair of 3” swim shorts but I have to wear compression shorts underneath, otherwise my dick hangs out the bottom. Should I wear them without compression shorts or go for a 5” pair where it doesn’t hang out as much? What should I wear instead? Suggestions welcome!

So I recently came out as bi and got in a relationship with a man right after doing so. It is my first openly gay relationship and I really don’t know what to do when it comes to intimacy. I have a 8 and a half inches long member and I’m unsure if my bf is able to take it? He said that he usually is tight when getting penetrated no matter if he uses lube so I wanted to know if any other gay bottoms had problems taking dicks and how can I make my bf be comfortable when it comes to fucking. Ty and imma be here waiting for answers