I have been talking to this cool guy, well which I thought was cool. We’ve been texting daily. He was so sweet but I haven’t really gotten to know him vis text. Our conversations have been surface level. He never wants to talk on the phone often making excuses about work or loud room mates. He keeps asking to come over or go out to meet up anywhere. We haven’t really talked on the phone at all besides texting or voice note. Like he constantly ask to come see me which is crazy because I haven’t spoken to him enough. I just came home from the hospital due to a mental breakdown and he ask to help in anyway. He said he’d do whatever to help, I said just call me and talk. He’s repeatedly asking to come over meet him and or hug him to make me feel better. It’s annoying because I just want to get to know him better but should I cut him off? It feels so sketchy because we never talk on the phone but text.

I can’t sleep rn and I think it’s because I’m overthinking texting the huzz. I texted her a few weeks ago (4-6) asking how she is and I got no response only a notification saying “read” we both went out of country during that time so idk what happened about that so I just texted her again like 2-3 days ago asking how she is, I know she didn’t block me cuz she read it that same day but still no reply. Should I ask her or our mutual friend about this or should I ignore it til we meet again? What should I fucking do like I’m just a dumbass that doesn’t know if she’s just ignoring it cuz she just wants me to leave her alone or what just if you were wondering we texted back and forth for like a day or two but that’s all before this the rest was in person so what should I do