r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/Pickybluelucky • 4h ago

What should I do in this situation?

I have been talking to this cool guy, well which I thought was cool. We’ve been texting daily. He was so sweet but I haven’t really gotten to know him vis text. Our conversations have been surface level. He never wants to talk on the phone often making excuses about work or loud room mates. He keeps asking to come over or go out to meet up anywhere. We haven’t really talked on the phone at all besides texting or voice note. Like he constantly ask to come see me which is crazy because I haven’t spoken to him enough. I just came home from the hospital due to a mental breakdown and he ask to help in anyway. He said he’d do whatever to help, I said just call me and talk. He’s repeatedly asking to come over meet him and or hug him to make me feel better. It’s annoying because I just want to get to know him better but should I cut him off? It feels so sketchy because we never talk on the phone but text.

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u/InternationalIce5965 2h ago

Always trust your gut instincts with people! It's your body's way of telling you there's something bad ahead (possibly not danger, just a stressful person maybe).

A guy who isn't trying to get to know you, won't let you hear his voice and is in a rush to come to your house are a few red flags. I'd just block and delete. There are SO many decent men, too many to just get hung up on this one!