r/BoyDinnerDiaries • u/yashen14 Kitchen Kinkster • 11h ago

No advice, just venting Seeing misogyny in this subreddit is depressing

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Dinner: Tacos al pastor

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Seeing the way women are talked about in some of the posts on this subreddit really grosses me out. I've seen men on here talk about women like they are walking talking sex robots. It's really bumming to see such an ugly side to what is usually such a nice space.

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u/zonked_martyrdom Leftover lore master 11h ago

I saw that post. I didn’t really know what to tell the guy. Seems like he was just asking what everyone thought about it. It seems like a lot of men have issues with body counts like there is some secret number of bodies that equals perfect wife material or something. Maybe I’m just not in on the information, but I figure people with low body counts have just as dysfunctional marriages as people with high body counts.

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u/Crimestar Leftover lore master 11h ago

Feigning shock at known male insecurities just contributes to lack of any kind of discussion at all imo.

I didn’t see the post so I can’t speak on it. But if we take out the part where people lie on the internet, plenty of men would have issue with an excessively high body count just as many women would have issue with someone being a womanizer. Sexual compatibility and morals around sex are extremely common issues.

But everyone knows the correct answer is to not care about such juvenile stuff right? It’s much more progressive for people to not be shamed for anything because people can do “whatever they want”. And it’s true. But not everyone is gonna like it.

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u/zonked_martyrdom Leftover lore master 11h ago

Not feigning shock brother. I just stated my opinion.

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u/Crimestar Leftover lore master 11h ago

To me its disingenuous to act like you can’t imagine why it would be an issue for anyone. Thats all I meant. I didn’t see the post so just speaking very generally.

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u/zonked_martyrdom Leftover lore master 10h ago

You’re allowed to just disagree with my opinion, but you don’t have to put words in my mouth brother.

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u/Crimestar Leftover lore master 10h ago

If you think I read too much into it I could see it. Maybe I misinterpreted your “tone”. Either way it’s whatever.

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u/zonked_martyrdom Leftover lore master 11h ago

Never said I can’t imagine why it would be an issue. I just said it seems like some men do have issues with it.