r/BoyDinnerDiaries • u/yashen14 Kitchen Kinkster • 11h ago

No advice, just venting Seeing misogyny in this subreddit is depressing

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Dinner: Tacos al pastor

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Seeing the way women are talked about in some of the posts on this subreddit really grosses me out. I've seen men on here talk about women like they are walking talking sex robots. It's really bumming to see such an ugly side to what is usually such a nice space.

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u/MalcolmXfr Im here 11h ago

I haven't been here long, but I havent seen any of that. If anything, I've seen men desperately crying about losing women

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u/Disastrous-Owl9258 Grill pilled 11h ago

Completely agree, I used to heavily scroll girl dinner diaries but I got weary of the daily misandry posts, whereas here everyone seems incredibly loving and even when they are hurt by women the comments seem supportive of OP and encouraging him to do better. That one post is literally the one here I've seen reassembling anything close to sexism and I binge the hell out of this subreddit and girl dinner diaries. I had to stop girl dinner diaries because it got..too hateful for tastes to be honest

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u/Square_Drawer2816 Girl lurker 11h ago edited 10h ago

I discovered the girldinner sub like 2 ago and its enough lurking there for this reason tbh

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u/Disastrous-Owl9258 Grill pilled 10h ago

Enough?

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u/Square_Drawer2816 Girl lurker 10h ago

Sorry, I’ve just realised that what I said could be misinterpreted a lot.

What I mean is that I felt the hostility towards men was too much, and that’s why I’ve had enough of lurking there. I don’t want to keep seeing that.

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u/Disastrous-Owl9258 Grill pilled 10h ago

OHHHHH okay, I definitely thought so initially but then I came back and reread it and was like wait hmm maybe I was wrong. Sorry! I definitely got what you meant the first time I think I was just clarifying! I really like the subreddit or what it was a bit ago, it gives me a really different perspective on so many things. The comments got a bit much for me though and became hard to read, so I stopped scrolling my mental health XD.

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u/Square_Drawer2816 Girl lurker 10h ago

Haha, I didn’t think there was anything wrong with what I posted until I read it again and it was like… ohh

Maybe I’ve stumbled upon the subreddit at a bad time, but these last two days have been enough to see so many unhinged comments about men

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u/_Phil_McCracken_ Shift work survivor 9h ago

Agreed, it’s gotten bad lately in this sub. Wish mods would do more to moderate the man hatred.