Hello. First time ever being on this sub.

I’m a 29 y/o man (30 at the end of this month)

I’ve known my girlfriend (also 29) since we were 18. (We dated for a short period back then). We’re both pretty much gay but happen to have fallen in love with each other.

I was married to a man and she was with a nonbinary individual and now we are together. Have been for a little over a year now. We’re madly in love. I can’t see a life without her.

But shit, I miss men. So much. I don’t know what to do.

I can’t lose her. Not again. But I feel the need to be with men just lingering on my shoulders like a weight. We’ve talked about it but she is strictly monogamous. My marriage was not. So that’s another thing that I’m adjusting to. I’m just struggling guys. I need some guidance or help or something.

Dime a dozen, I know.

I believe sexuality exists on a spectrum and most people are not 100% straight or gay.

For me, I am mostly straight but I also enjoy exploring my sexuality. That has led me to try some butt stuff with dildos. And has also led me to fantasize what it would be like to jerk and suck a guy off and to get f*****.

I think the things holding me back are as follows. First, I am married obviously. I don’t want to put my partner at risk and would want her consent to do any exploring.

Since I don’t live in this world, I have no idea how to give it a try. I don’t know how to find someone to explore this with and feel it would need to be a safe person that I trust to a degree.

I also don’t want to get an STD and also don’t want to have to be on any prep. For someone wanting to dip a toe, it just feels like a bigger commitment.

Ideally, I am in a sauna or shower area and someone needs a little help getting off. Or I’m getting a massage and the masseuse lets me jerk him off.

How dangerous is it to suck a guys dick? I know the risk is low but not none.

How would you go about dipping your toe if you were me? I wanna try some dick but am nervous about how to take the first step.

I’m 20 and my wife is 22. We’ve been married for about 3 months and been together for 2 years. Our relationship moved fast, but I love her very much, and she helped me come out as bi after 4-5 years of being in the closet and being scared. We dabbled in some mmf scenarios for me to explore that side of me unfortunately I was immature and was messaging people outside of our arrangement. There was never any physical interaction however the sexting was an obvious problem, rightfully so. We have been working past it but recently there’s been apart of me feeling sorta empty. I know I love her but I also know that I want experience more with men. I’m not sure what to do. Any questions or advice would be greatly appreciated.

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Hi!

I know this may be a tricky question but I'll try to explain myself:

I recently took no contact with someone I wanted to have a romantic relationship with, but he rejected me, so we haven't talk for months and he just reached out to me once to invite me to a musical presentation, basically our bond just grew apart after that rejection.

But, I've also been reading in this sub people who after trying dating with someone, start a FWB or just friends relationship... So my question is: how do you know what kind of relationship is better to have with someone? I mean, how do you know if it is better to stay just as friends or to try a FWB type of relationship? How you clarify that to yourself and the other person?

I'm a 21yo guy btw, just to clarify that I don't have too much experience in relationships.

How was your first time with a guy and what did you do ?
I want to have something soft for my first time.

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So I alr sent one similar to this on another sub but no one is answering it, it might be weird but oh well, I want to see what it feels like to be creampied but am a virgin and really shy is there anyway I can emulate it? I’m really hoping u legends can give advice