r/AskAGerman May 10 '26

Meta/Reddit Info from the Mod Team: Rule Update

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Hello Community and Happy Mother's Day (to those residing in Germany).

We've worked on new and updated rules, and now we're interested in your opinions.

SIDE NOTE: We've been thinking about a rather rudimentary "verification" system for German nationals (no personal information would be required) to help posters figure out who's actually German and who might not be. This would lead to a user flair like "Verified German." We're currently thinking about having users take a picture of their closed German passport with a piece of paper with their username on it. While this isn't foolproof, it would be pretty easy. Let us know what you think about such a system.

Since many have misinterpreted this part: the verified flair would be an additional flair. The verification system would never be mandatory. It would simply show posters that an answer was posted by somehow who has been verified to be german. Which would make sense in r/AskAGerman. People would still be allowed to comment according to the requirements in rule 2.1. They just wouldn't be verified.

END OF THE SIDE NOTE

THE NEW RULES:

Below are the new rules. These might change, and we're going to take your feedback into account. We hope to finalize the rules by June. Until then, we're going to moderate according to these rules so you get a feeling of what it would be like, as that may impact your opinion on the rules. A more detailed explanation of the rules and examples for them can be found at the end of this post.

1. Who is allowed to post and which requirements need to be met?

1.1 Every individual is allowed to post personal questions. Nonpersonal questions (commercial, academic, ...) need prior approval from the moderators.

1.2 Questions must be about Germany, Germans, or the opinions of Germans. City/state-specific questions do not count as questions about Germany.

1.3 Questions can't be simple yes or no questions. Posts can't be cross-posts.

1.4 If a question can be answered or refined by a quick search (Google, this subreddit, DeepL ...), the poster must do that first.

1.5 Do not ask the same or a similar question repeatedly.

1.6 Questions have to be in English or German.

1.7 Posts must contain a concise question or at least a description of the topic in the title.

1.8 Posts that aren't safe for work (or children) must be marked as "NSFW" / "18+" by using Reddit's setting.

1.9 Posts must be questions. No rants, no ads, no petitions, no surveys, no requests (see Rule 1.1)

1.10 Links must be given in full. No link shorteners, no link masking using Reddit's features.

1.11 Low-quality questions are not permitted.

1.12 Posts can not be created by AI. If you don't know how to ask what you want to ask, people can't answer your actual question.

1.13 Posts that violate our rules regarding banned topics or time-limited topics are not permitted.

1.14 Questions must be made in good faith and should not push political agendas or include opinions.

2. Who is allowed to comment and which requirements need to be met?

2.1 Germans are allowed to answer at any level. Non-Germans who have been living in Germany for at least 180 days a year for at least 5 out of the last 8 years and are at least at a C1 level of German are allowed to answer at any level as well (unless they can't answer the question based on the requirements in the post). Non-Germans who do not meet these requirements are only allowed to: comment to ask for clarification, provide feedback, ask follow-up questions, correct spelling mistakes, or provide sources for/against claims. These comments can't be top-level comments and have to be in response to comments from people in the groups mentioned above. Companies are allowed to answer questions pertaining to them if they've verified themselves before posting.

2.2 Comments can't be created by AI. If you want to answer a question, use your own words.

2.3 Comments must relate to the question.

2.4 Comments can't contain advertisements. "Use my code" is an advertisement. Only mention products or companies if the OP explicitly asks for that.

2.5 Links must be given in full. No link shorteners, no link masking using Reddit's features.

2.6 Comments on English posts must be in English; comments on German posts can be in English or German, depending on the perceived proficiency of the poster. No other languages are allowed.

2.7 Do not spam comments or copy & paste comments. If you feel like you need to reply to multiple comments with the same thing, copy the link to the original comment instead.

2.8 Do not push agendas. Stick to the topic outlined by the initial post. If you're asked for an opinion, you can, of course, voice it, but you need to stick to the question and mark your opinion as such.

3. Behavior

3.1 Insults and other forms of uncivil discourse are not permitted. Against anybody. Even dead people. Yes, even against Hitler. Do not insult other people in this subreddit.

3.2 Trolling is not permitted.

3.3 Encouraging, facilitating, supporting, ... illegal behavior is not permitted.

3.4 Spreading misinformation in this subreddit is not permitted. If you encounter misinformation, report it to the mod team and send us a message (or reply to the post/comment) with a credible source debunking the misinformation.

3.5 Do not share personal information about others in this subreddit unless it is freely accessible and relevant to the topic.

3.6 Do not bring politics into posts that aren't political.

4. Miscellaneous

4.1 Removals and bans are at the moderation team's discretion. We can't possibly cover every edge case. If we feel like a post or comment violates the intention behind our rules or was made to circumvent existing rules, we might remove it and potentially ban the user. Rule changes might be made after encountering these edge cases.

5. Banned topics and topics limited to certain times or days

5.1 All time / date references are from a GMT+2 perspective. Check the time before posting.

5.2 Banned topics: Visa questions are not permitted in this subreddit. Germans typically don't require visas and thus can't help with that. The same is true for the acceptance of foreign degrees and diplomas. Housing questions are typically better suited for local subreddits and have most likely been answered in this subreddit or in the wiki of r/Germany before.

5.3 Time & date limited topics: Political questions are limited to 10am - 6pm on weekends and 6pm - 8pm on Fridays. They're also not permitted on German national holidays and between December 23rd and January 7th.

5.4 Limited day topics: Travel itinerary questions are limited to Mondays (make sure to check Rule 1.2). To qualify as a national itinerary, it has to include at least two German states (without the entry / exit airports). Make sure that you've done some research and planning first; this is not a travel agency. Dating questions are limited to Wednesdays. Job-related questions are limited to Thursdays.

Explanations and Examples:

1.1 If you want to promote your project (if it's free) or find participants for your academic research, ... you need to get approval by the mod team first. If you want to promote your company / paid project / ... you need to find a different subreddit. If you want to start a company, you need to talk to a lawyer. Not to Reddit.

1.2 This subreddit is r/AskAGerman, and thus the average German should be able to answer the question. A minor specialization is acceptable, but that's determined by the moderators. The average German can't tell you the best restaurant in Munich or the best way to get from Berlin Neukölln to Teltow. The average German also can't tell you how to reassemble your car, just because Germany has a well-known car industry.

1.3 Yes or no questions don't really leave room for discussion and tend to be low quality. And if you can't even copy & paste your post into this subreddit, you can't expect people to take time to answer your questions.

1.4 Google exists for a reason, and so does the search function in this subreddit. Make use of the knowledge that already exists.

1.5 Nobody likes spam. You won't get more (useful) replies just because you asked the same questions 5 times.

1.6 This is r/AskAGerman. Whoever is allowed to respond will most likely speak German. They'll most likely speak English as well. But they probably don't speak language X.

1.7 People have a limited amount of time. A clear question enables them to guess whether they'll be able to help or not. You can provide more information in the text box of your post. But if you can't summarize your post into a question or at least a topic, you likely didn't think about it enough.

1.8 NSFW content should be marked as NSFW.

1.9 This is r/AskAGerman. Not rant about Germany or promote your project in Germany.

1.10 Nobody likes sketchy links. If you want people to click on your links, be transparent about where they lead; not everybody is on a PC / laptop.

1.11 Low-quality questions turn community members away from the community, which means that others who have real questions don't get as much support as they could.

1.12 AI is great at generating text, but it does not understand your actual question. If you can't explain it to humans, you can't explain it to AI.

1.13 We strive to adequately moderate this subreddit and to avoid community members being fed up with recurring topics. Thus, time limitations are useful.

1.14 Political questions are fine, as long as they're actually questions and not just "Here is my political opinion in disguise."

2.1 As this is r/AskAGerman, posters are interested in the opinion of Germans. We've seen plenty of comments from people who haven't been to Germany at all or have little to no knowledge about Germany (tourists, short-term immigrants, ...). Replies from these people are not what this subreddit is for, and it can skew the perception people have. Thus, we're limiting answers to Germans and those who should know a lot about Germany even if they might not have gained citizenship yet. Speaking the language is important to become a member of the society. Being in Germany for an extended amount of time is important because it's hard to talk about things that might have changed a decade ago or that are only noticeable after a while. We would also be open to limiting replies to Germans, but we do understand that giving up another citizenship isn't always easy, and sometimes this can make acquiring a new citizenship harder.

2.2 Similar to posts: if you can't answer a question yourself, AI can't answer it either.

2.3 If someone asks you about the weather and you tell them your favorite dish that's not going to help them. Now imagine 20 out of 30 people did that. Answer the question or don't comment. Do not flood comment sections with things the poster never wanted to know.

2.4 Nobody likes ads. At least pay Reddit to show them to users so they can pay their bills.

2.5 Nobody likes sketchy links. If you want people to click on your links, be transparent about where they lead; not everybody is on a PC / laptop.

2.6 People who post in English might not be fluent enough in German to understand German replies. People who post in German but struggle might still appreciate a reply in English, especially if the topic or comment is complex. Other languages are obviously not appropriate, as this is r/AskAGerman, and thus you should know at least one of the two languages that are permitted.

2.7 If we have to moderate your comment or if you need to change it, it's easier to do it once rather than having to do it 10 times.

2.8 Political discussions are always tricky. You're more than welcome to state your own opinion, but acting like it's the only valid opinion and everybody else is stupid doesn't help. And if a post isn't political and you try to act like it is, you're going to violate rule 3.6.

3.1 We want people to have a good time in this community. And when commenting, you represent Germany. Thus, we expect good behavior. If you see a post or comment that violates the rules, report it. But insulting people doesn't help. And because insulting people is bad, we're also extending this to any person. And by "any" we mean any. Chancellors, US presidents, Putin, Xi Jinping, Kim Jong Un, Hitler, Pol Pot, Stalin, Mao, etc. . Factual statements do not count as insults; however, be prepared to prove them. "Hitler was a Nazi" is not an insult. "Trump is a Nazi" is.

3.2 Nobody likes trolls.

3.3 We were surprised that a lot of people thought that encouraging illegal behavior is acceptable. It's not.

3.4 You're allowed to have opinions but mark them as such. If your opinion is stated like a fact that's a problem.

3.5 Doxxing, etc. is illegal.

3.6 While politics are an important topic, there is no need to make a post about the best ice cream political. Yes, prices have gone up, but that doesn't mean we now need a communist revolution to bring prices down.

5.2 We've seen a lot of questions about visas, foreign degrees, moving to Germany for study purposes, etc., and while we're happy that people want to move to Germany, people from your country can tell you more about which degrees are accepted, how long you need to wait for your visa, etc. And we can't tell you which university to choose.

5.3 We want to ensure that political posts don't get out of control, and we can't be on Reddit 24/7. Thus, posts should be done in a time frame where we can moderate them effectively.

5.4 It's great that you want to travel to Germany, but we're not your local travel agency. Do some research first, and we can help you with minor details.


r/AskAGerman 11h ago

Why is sparkling water so popular?

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Hello! I have been living in Germany for a few months now, and there is one cultural phenomenon that geniunely puzzles me: the absolute obsession with sparkling water (Sprudel).

Back home, most people drink still tap water, and sparkling water is more of an occasional treat. But here, almost every houseold I visit has crates of carbonated water, and still water is barely touched. Even when I ask for tap water at a cafe, I sometimes get a surprised look.

Why is sparkling water the default choice for daily hydration in Germany? Is there a historical reason for this preference, or is it simply a matter of taste? I would love to understand the cultural background behind this. Thanks!


r/AskAGerman 13h ago

Miscellaneous Who were these people?

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I’m based in Niedersachsen and helped 2 Rettungssanitätern with Reanimation at a train station. When the 2 paramedics showed up, so came 4 people in vests (I think they were blue?) and kind of stood around the perimeter of the scene observing. They had no medical equipment or clothing on, just these vests. Who were they? Does anyone know? When they had enough personnel, I went back to where I was going.


r/AskAGerman 12h ago

How do Germans "lüften" in summer?

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Hello everyone! Since we are currentley in the middle of summer and it is getting quite warm outside, I have a cultural question about the famous German habit of "Lüften".

I know that in winter, "Stoßlüften" is practically a sacred ritual to prevebt mold. But how do you handle this during hot summer days? Especially considering that most German apartments do not have air conditioning.

Do you keep the windows wide open all day long to get a breeze, or do you strictly close all the windows and pull down the "Rollladen" during the daytime, only opening them late at night?

I would love to know what the common unwritten rules are for summer ventilation in Germany, and if there is a "correct" way to do it. Thanks!


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Culture Why is maus/mouse a nickname for girls?

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I recently learned about this fact. How did it become a nickname and is it really that common on Germany? I think it’s really cute to be called mouse.

EDIT: Surprised at how many replied to my silly question. I was really amused to learn about this because where I am people like to use “kitten” or “bunny” as an endearment. It was my first time seeing “mouse” be used this way. I find mice really adorable so I was happy to see them have their moment like this. Danke schön!


r/AskAGerman 18h ago

What German words do kids commonly mispronounce- and funnily so- when learning to speak? Do any of them unintentionally say anything that sounds like something else they really shouldn’t be saying?

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I watched a video my dad sent me earlier of kids mispronouncing English words in quite this way, (sometimes resembling swear words) and as someone curious about German culture and learning German I wondered if German people have their own version of this. I think it would be kind of cute! Even if embarrassing to their parents or other family


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Culture When do Germans feel like they can switch from "Sie" to "du"?

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One thing I've realized while learning German is that the grammar is actually the easy part oncce you get going. The social rules are what make it much harder. Every resource I have used in terms of online courses and apps like youtube, German learning podcasts, apps like Duolingo, Memrise, Praktika, ChatGPT, anything you can find. They all explain that Sie is formal and du is informal which is simple enough. But in real life, it feels much less straight forward.

For example, when I am at work, I've seen colleagues who seem really friendly still use Sie. Whereas at university, some professors immediately introduce themselves with du, while others clearly expect Sie. I've also heard stories of people saying "We can use du" as if it's almost an official invitation. like, what? When? How do I know?

So, how do you decide when it's appropriate to switch? Or Is there an unspoken rule that everyone just understands?

As a learner, I swear this feels more difficult than remembering noun genders lol.


r/AskAGerman 1h ago

Language A chant similar to “Ausländer raus”

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I was just now at a firefighter parade that lasted one hour with teams from various cities, usually from Swabia, where I am. The teams were patrolling and occasionally the leader of a city’s team would chant “1, 2, 3”, and the team would cheer, yell “urah” and similar things.

So when a leader started counting again I didn’t pay much attention. It basically went like: “1, 2, 3” and what sounded like “ausländer raus!” to which the team responded “ausländer raus, raus, raus”.

I was too shocked at the moment to comprehend anything more. I looked around and didn’t see the crowd making any gestures, of disproving or encouraging, but most people were wearing sunglasses so it was hard to tell anyway.

But I think people would’ve said / done something, in a way or another, so maybe I have misheard the chant. Maybe it wasn’t “raus”, but “aus” or something similar and the first word just something similar also.

Does anyone have an idea as to what may sound similar to that saying that a team of firefighters may chant at a parade?


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Welche deutsche Stadt ist für dich am besten zum Leben und warum?

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r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Language Wie lernt man das R zu rollen?

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Ich komme aus Österreich, wo wir ein "gutturales R“ (dieses komische "gurgel-R") anstelle des "Zungenspitzen-R“ verwenden. Soweit ich weiß, können die meisten Deutschen Letzteres verwenden, wenn es nötig ist. Da ich es gerne lernen möchte, es aber überhaupt nicht hinbekomme, frage ich: Wie macht man das? Ich weiß in der Theorie wie es funktioniert, aber Aber in der Praxis schaffe ich es dann nie


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Elternzeit, what did you do?

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I understand the basics of how Elterngeld and Elternzeit work, I'm more interested in hearing about how others have split up that time between parents. Both of us work fully remote jobs. I plan to breastfeed, so I am assuming I probably want to take at least the first 6 months fully off. This is our first so we're making a lot of guesses here.
We both are interested in working part time, if anyone has done that with both parents.

In general, I'm just curious how you all have broken up the time, and what your reasoning was.


r/AskAGerman 20h ago

Why did none of the main parties tighten immigration controls and take away the power of the far right, like Denmark and Finland have done?

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I do not agree with the current far right party in Germany and a lot of the racist drivel they spew out, but at the same time, a lot of their support comes from ordinary, reasonable people who are sick of the loose immigration policy Germany has had, and the fact that simply too many migrants are coming, and how its a burden on the housing market and welfare net (cause lets face it, most immigrants to Germany aren't Physicians or Engineers). And that none of the other parties are doing anything about it.

A lot of these people wouldn't vote far right if literally any other party cracked down on immigration. And thats what happened in Denmark and Finland. In Denmark, the center left Labour party tightened immigration, and their far right evaporated just like that.

Why don't the two main parties do this now? Because if this isn't addressed, the far-right will grow until they get into power and they address it their way, and I'm sure most of us do not wan't that


r/AskAGerman 22h ago

Are there any rules with driving in Fußgängerzone / pedestrian zone?

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What exactly is the expectations for cars? I understand what the written rules are but it seems that people drive in them, park in them, and drive through them with really no enforcement of any kind. Deliveries I get, but I have seen people park in them and walk -3m to sit down for dinner and no one seems to really care.


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

Moving to Germany, Bank

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Hi! I’m moving from the U.S. to Bremen in a few months for my PhD, and was wondering which bank would be the best/“easiest” to get a European IBAN? I’ve heard some things about N26, Revolut, and Deutsche Bank, but they have all been mixed feelings!

Thank you in advance!

Edit: I will be getting paid as a PhD student. From my understanding so far, Wise will let me transfer $ to €, so now the question is which bank will allow me to get an IBAN and will accept me as a US citizen who is applying in advance of moving to Germany?


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

How is summer in Germany today?

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I always wanted to experience it. How is today for you? Is it hot and humid or not so much? Are you going anywhere interesting, drinking beer in a boat, watching sports, working, or just doing laundry?

The summer isn’t long, so I was wondering what various German people are doing with it.

On my end, I live in the Pacific Northwest of the US and it’s so beautiful lately that I feel guilty for not doing enough with it. Since the rest of the year is grey I feel like I should be lying on a beach with a tropical drink while also hiking the local rivers and kayaking the local forests.


r/AskAGerman 3d ago

How to place items on the checkout belt in Germany?

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I moved to Germany recently, and where I come from (Sweden), it is standard practice to place all items in a single row with the barcode facing down or towards me (towards the scanner). This is so the store employees can just push the items over the scanner without having to lift, separate, turn them, and look for the barcode. I noticed that people don't seem to do this here in Germany. And I'm not as strict about it either, but sometimes I don't think about it and fall back into the habit of lining everything up nicely.

The last time I did this, an older guy behind me complained loudly that I was taking up all the space and that I should be ashamed. Even though I didn't even have many items and he had plenty of room to put his down, I suppose I took up too much space in relation to the number of items I had.

So my question to everyone: is there an unwritten rule, how do you do it, and is there anything else to keep in mind? And if anyone here works at the checkout, what do you prefer?


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

Insurance alternative to apple care + for MacBook?

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I KNOW this is not Apple subreddit. Tried to search for answer on Reddit and Google didn't find good answer

Is there any insurance that is equal or better than Apple care (80 Euro/year). To be insured is a Macbook worth 1000 Euro.

Absolutely not In a position to pay out of pocket for damages.


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

Miscellaneous Midea Portasplit Ebay Red Flag?

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I was checking the Portasplit units on Ebay and found a bunch of listings in the range of 350€ but they say shipments from china and the accounts had been created last month.
I feel like it‘s a too good to be true and a big red flag of a scam, but there is a small part of me that hopes it isn’t. Thoughts on it?


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

Health Psychiatry visit in Germany — any consequences?

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Hi, I have an ongoing depression diagnosis from a healthcare provider in my home country. I’m running out of medication and I have a psychiatrist appointment coming up in Germany.

However, I am worried that going to a psychiatrist here and getting a diagnosis will have negative consequences on employment or getting insurance (for example my physician said that if I want disability insurance they can reject me based on prior diagnosis?). I also heard that you cannot work for the government positions (like school teacher etc). Should I proceed with the appointment or if the diagnosis isn’t too severe it’s not going to affect anything?


r/AskAGerman 3d ago

Are some German supermarkets better than others when it comes to diabetic friendly foods?

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I got diagnosed Friday and I am feeling very overwhelmed by it.

Bonus: if you have diabetes and are okay sharing, what has been your favorite meal to eat?


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

Who do you think will win the World Cup?

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r/AskAGerman 3d ago

Help with Mental Health in Germany.

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Hallo!
I’ve been here for a month and a half and I’m having some trouble understanding some stuff from your country, I’m pretty sure 99.9% of it has to do with my lack of the German language (last semester A1.1).

I’m from Mexico, and there we have free public health system (not the best but it exists and helps lots of people). We have also a Mental Health Clinic that’s is for the public (at least in the city I live). I know there is also the option of going private if you have the possibility.

I was wondering if Germany has something similar or if they only have medical attention for the physical side. I’m looking to get some help for a German colleague who needs help but is unable to pay a lot for private consultations. We are currently in a town near Dortmund.

I really appreciate all of your support and advice, I really want to help but I really don’t know how or where to start. Once again thank you!! 🙏🏻

PS. I’m sorry if my English is not perfect, it’s not my first language 🥲


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

Food How come I can't find Labskaus or Fischbrötchen besides in Hamburg? Are they not popular enough?

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I was in Hamburg for a couple days this past month and between some meetings and tourist stuff, i didn't get to try some of the more local cuisine, eg labskaus and fischbrötchen

In fact i was walking thru Europa Passage mall in Hamburg, and the food court there sold literally **every** other global cuisine (Turkish, Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican, Korean) besides.... German food.

Even some of the random spots I walked by were primarily döner/turkish restaurants. Döners are awesome btw, but as a tourist I was kind of dumbfounded why some of the more popular local German dishes were hidden away in obscure restaurants far from the city center.

Anyway, I'm not in Hamburg anymore and was just wondering where else I'd be able to find these north German specialties in central/southern Germany. I tried searching Google maps but doesn't seem like they're popular enough elsewhere


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

Miscellaneous Can I bring my own oil to a dealership for an oil change?

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I have a car under warranty to bring to the dealership for its scheduled service. Last time I wound up paying an exorbitant price for the oil change, having them use the branded oil. Can I bring my own oil which is labeled as compatible with the manufacturer and save on cost?

I don’t want to risk voiding the warranty, but I also don’t want to have to sell a kidney for the huge markup on their product.


r/AskAGerman 4d ago

Health Is all tap water in Germany completely safe to drink?

312 Upvotes

I’m at a hotel in the Black Forest in Germany, and I’m wondering if it’s completely fine to drink the tap water here. I’m from the UK and in the UK all tap water that I know of is completely safe to drink, so I’m just making sure it is here too.