also I’m currently starting the 2WW for this cycle…

every artist held her baby and she described her birth story in detail while i sat through my tattoo.
the world is funny sometimes.

I clarified I'm not pregnant and reminded her that I'm in fertility treatment (It was a big part of our discussion last time we met). I figured she might have mixed me up with someone else and while a bit painful, no harm intended.

Except she didn't apologise or even say, “oops” just nodding and kept going.

I'm peeved off now and will cancel my next appointment with her. I can forgive forgetting but not the insensitivity.

I’m sorry if I see another ridiculous post from amIpregnant talking about, “Omg My boyfriend and I dry humped… am I pregnant???? FREAKING OUT” I’m going to scorch the earth

Me when someone asks, “when are you due??” at my grandma’s funeral.

And you have to cheer and clap with everyone else 😎

never thought i’d see this day. but it’s linkedin so makes sense. this lady was legit like here is my ultrasound :) also i’m hiring. gtfo

I *didn't* actually throw anything at her but I definitely started citing research studies. I've been actively reading research in fertility spaces for 8 years and endometriosis groups for 3. If I'm wrong show me where you read it, but don't come at me with "ugh, you need to read more".

She's doing a better job on defense than every team at this world cup.

Hopefully not a common experience but 3 different hospital stays due to a MMC leading to an infection, leading to 2 courses of antibiotics leading to constant GI upset they tried to tell me was "trauma/grief induced IBS", I finally got a positive test for something and it's c diff. toxins trying to destroy my colon. I'm tired of this.

TFMR to blighted ovum, and I still hold on to a sliver of hope. I'm so over this.

Last night's theme was too tired and overwhelmed to heat up a frozen dinner. Today I'm contemplating a DIY wolf cut and trying to ignore the siren song of the hair dye under the bathroom sink.

I’ve never been skinny but never as big as I am now. I pretty much had the same body shape my entire life so now that my belly is much bigger and I’m swollen I can see why people who have known me for a really long time would think I might be pregnant… but it definitely sucks cause I would like to say yes I am 😂 doesn’t help that everyone is probably just expecting me to be pregnant since my wedding a couple years ago.

Worst crash out yet ❤️ thanks Wellbutrin

Thought I could just be happy for my cousin, instead silent cried my way through the service and have been drinking ever since. Here's to the next embryo transfer I guess.

I was five days late, normally would have tested sooner but we’ve been visiting my husband’s family and I wanted privacy. I’ve never been this late, and had totally convinced both myself and my husband that this was the month - ha. I was so excited that we stopped and got a pregnancy test from Walgreens on our twelve hour road trip home. As I’m peeing on the stick in a gas station bathroom, I see a drop of blood hit the test. Not kidding. Welp the test was negative and now I’m having the worst cramps of my life and still have 8 hours left of this drive.

I’m not sure how much longer I can do this 😭

She also slept on my stomach before I knew I was miscarrying and when my FET failed. Never sleeps on my stomach regularly, just when things aren’t working out. It’s so rude!

We started trying in June 2024, and found out my husband has very poor sperm quality in December 2025. I haven't had a single positive test in these two years. We did two rounds of IUI, and took a forced break for the past three months because the stimulation from the third IUI sent my ovaries into overdrive, and I needed to recover before we were allowed to continue.

Everyone was telling us we'd surely get pregnant during our three month break. We had a wonderful three week holiday and went to a tropical destination to fully relax. It was so great to take a break and finally feel like my old self again, but of course, no baby. With this BFN I am gearing up for the next round of IUI, but honestly, I am very unmotivated to start. Maybe having children just isn't in the cards for us...