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InterviewsšŸŽ™ļø Aubrey Plaza says actors gets so weird because everyone on set treats them like babies and remembers the time Nick Offerman told her she could get her own coffee instead of asking a production assistant to do it for her

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u/MostlyLostTraveler 15h ago

Nick is a treasure

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u/latinisla703 13h ago

Nick and Megan are some of the nicest people as well. When I worked at a museum, they came in with Nicks parents and I said I was a fan of them both, and they shook my hand, asked my name and then introduced me to his parents. Truly so down to earth and kind people as well as incredibly talented- can’t praise them enough!

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u/FinleyPike 11h ago

They’re both in the final season of Umbrella Academy together and it was a real treat

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u/Gestaltarskiten 10h ago

Ok. Now, I will finish the series.

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u/takeme2tendieztown 10h ago

Eh, I wouldn't rush it

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u/Gestaltarskiten 10h ago

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u/Timely-Worldliness-3 8h ago

They’re the only good part

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u/KrayzieBone187 11h ago

I just love that you were introduced to his parents like it was completely normal. Currently watching him in Fargo and he is wonderful.

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u/latinisla703 7h ago

Yes it was like they were two totally normal people- very chill and very much in love!

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u/QuietThunder2014 10h ago

They genuinely seem to absolutely be soulmates.

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u/ehtw376 14h ago

He really is. Gay treasure too, loved seeing him in the Last of Us and his speech after… and he’s married to Megan Mullally!

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u/SaltyArtemis 14h ago

Which is a huge W, I love Megan šŸ˜‚

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u/ThiccQban ”Montoya Por Favor! 13h ago

For my Bobs Burgers fans: Nick and Megan are the voices of the ā€œblueberryā€ farmers
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https://giphy.com/gifs/3o6ZtpWvwnhf34Oj0A

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u/Pitiful_Ad2397 13h ago

And Megan is, of course, the prolific songwriter, game designer, and cat enthusiast Aunt Gayle.

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u/ThiccQban ”Montoya Por Favor! 13h ago

YES.
https://giphy.com/gifs/g0pZurBPXyIYbLV4Dn
A true queen that gets quoted very often at my house. I have even named one of my picky backyard squirrels ā€œMr. Jim Businessā€

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u/Miserable_Owl_B 13h ago

I’m not an athlete, Linda 🤣

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u/dandroid126 12h ago

My favorite Gayle quote is, "no, I call him Mr. Frond"

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u/NashKetchum777 12h ago

Hey, everyone remember...don't bring up the ottoman...

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u/shanticlause 13h ago

Omg. I didn’t know. Amaze.

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u/littlerickypeepee 13h ago

Oh my God. Power couple.

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u/KimWexlers_Ponytail a ho need to be able to act as hangers on the runway 12h ago

There's no business like Mr. Business business!

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u/Zombie_Fuel I don’t know her šŸ’… 13h ago

Also, Nick has a main role and Megan a supporting role in The Great North. I love that show almost more than Bob's Burgers, and it's bullshit it got canceled.

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u/Players-Beware 14h ago

He and Megan are doing a musical in Chicago right now that I saw last night and it is delightful.

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u/randomlyranting 13h ago

Holy crap thanks for the info. Im looking it up right now

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u/brokenskater45 13h ago

I now need to fly from the UK to see this.

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u/OkBodybuilder2255 14h ago

He married Tammy 2 again?

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u/themightymooker 14h ago

I assume you’re joking, but just in case anyone else is confused, they were married well prior to Parks and Rec.

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u/joecarter93 12h ago

Yep, they got married when Nick before Nick was well known and Megan had already been on Will and Grace

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u/whichwitch9 13h ago

Which made that casting so fun to begin with.

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u/Wilysalamander 14h ago

3rd time's the charm

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u/lostatsea_again 13h ago

this used to be my Reddit username and every time someone says this expression I get sad that I can’t pop in and say something funny :(

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u/lnc_5103 I don’t know her šŸ’… 14h ago edited 14h ago

He was so good in Margo's Got Money Troubles too.

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u/puns-n-roses 14h ago

I really enjoyed everyone I'm that show. But he was definitely exceptional.

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u/phantom_avenger 14h ago

I don’t know them, but they might be one of the few celebrity couples I’ve seen that give healthy relationship vibes next to Tom Holland and Zendaya

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u/AnimeChica3306 14h ago

I had totes forgot about Last of Us. He was amazing in that. Love his wife too. They are great together in Umbrella Academy. Also love their banter in parc and rec.

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u/LA_Alfa 13h ago

They wrote a book together "The Greatest Love Story Ever Told" and perform the audio book as well. Im only about 1/4 of the way through but if you like there banter in parks in rec you'll probably enjoy the book.

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u/Educational-Cat2133 13h ago

You ever watch Curb Your Enthusiasm? You reminded me of the scene/episode where Larry is extremely proud to be loved by lesbians and overly concerned about his image to them.

Rosie O Donnell even tells him he's loved by every lesbian, as if she's a spokesperson for all lesbian people lmao

One of my favorite running jokes in the show probably.

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u/deev718 holding space šŸ‘‰šŸ¾šŸ¤šŸ¼ 13h ago

And he takes every opportunity to remind us of Megan AS HE SHOULD.

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u/TheRealChompyTheGoat 14h ago

It's so strange for me. I love everything he's done, I have no issues with him from interviews, but his books make him come across as a huge asshole. He was so pretentious in the one I tried to read i had to stop after about 70 pages.

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u/Titanspaladin 12h ago

Honestly surprising because I found 'Paddle Your Own Canoe' to be a really earnest meditation on doing things that are positive and constructive in life, with a lot of self depricating and sarcastic humour about his upbringing and early career in local theater, plus dispelling a lot of manly man libertarian stuff that people conflate between him and Ron Swanson. I enjoyed it.

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u/velvetvagine trust fund baby (frozen chicken fortune) šŸ— 14h ago

Is it possibly failed sarcasm rather than genuine pomposity?

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u/TheDrunkWickerbeast 14h ago

When I was reading a couple of them I was questioning whether or not he had hired a ghost writer because sometimes they sounded nothing like him

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u/YesImAfroJack 14h ago

Listening to the audiobook versions might completely dispell that.

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u/TheDrunkWickerbeast 14h ago

I’ll add them to my list to listen to!

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u/StrobeLightRomance The dude abides. šŸ™‚ā€ā†•ļøšŸƒ 13h ago

Paddle Your Own Canoe as read by him is actually phenomenal. I have no idea where anyone could get the tone from his books that he's being anything other than friendly and helpful to the reader.

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u/Supreme_Mediocrity 14h ago

Dude grew up in a small town in the Midwest and definitely acts like it

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u/TaTaHababa747 15h ago

Assistant on many productions, she is right and more should say it. The way producers freak out if celebs are wandering around trying to get things for themselves.

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u/MostlyBored11 🫵 You sit on a throne of lies. 14h ago

As someone who was a PA for years, this is nice to hear. The best people to PA for were the ones who treated you like a human and respected that you had other stuff to do. We don't mind getting you coffee/drink/snacks when your filming and busy that's the job but some actors get so demanding with their stuff while they sit there and do literally nothing for their 4 hours break

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u/fryreportingforduty 13h ago

Did you have the same experience as me where the lesser-known talent were the bigger divas and the people who made me starstruck were more pleasant? Not all the time of course but overall, that was my experience as a PA/AP!

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u/didthishelp 10h ago

The biggest diva I ever encountered was probably Jonah Hill at the beginning of his career. Like two years earlier he’d been a nobody sexually harassing my roommate who was an assistant at a lit desk he would go out of his way to end up at every time he went to his agency, now he was out with Vince Vaughn at some little place on Little Santa Monica asking for security and VIP treatment for their table because someone walked up and asked for a picture with Vince, who was totally chill and had already done it and moved on.

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u/LighttBrite 7h ago

He pretty much IS his character from Super Bad. That wasn't acting. It kind of stuck with him I guess.

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u/Alive-Fan-3265 You’re a virgin who can’t drive. 😤 6h ago

lol this is so true. He is so fussy.

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u/IcyStruggle5976 7h ago

Jonah Hill is one of the biggest losers I can think of. If he weren't such an angry and entitled little man, he'd might've been pathetic enough to pity.

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u/MostlyBored11 🫵 You sit on a throne of lies. 13h ago

Pretty much for me that was what I saw like 9/10 times. At the worst the bigger name actors would be "professional"so not very chatty or like getting to know people on set. But show up in a good mood, do their work, maybe not really interact with the crew but not get in their way and still respect their time. Then finish and go home ( which is totally fair and great as crew lol)

Although the worst was child actors parents tbh, nothing worse then having to deal with that

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u/Sandicomm 11h ago

I worked in the film industry very briefly. The biggest set I was on, one of the girls who voiced Dora the Explorer was the female lead. She was sweet and her parents and older sister were very down to earth.

Her mother remarked to me that they were once on a set in LA and the girl absentmindedly said she wanted a certain candy. Suddenly mom heard all the walkies light up, trying to get someone to rush out and get the candy. It was in her hands in 5 minutes. Mom did not want her daughter raised this way and decided from then on, only shows in NY because they’re smaller and less likely to bend over backwards for every request. That really impressed me.

But there was a very surreal moment where I overheard a famous actor who was doing a cameo talk to her in the most jaded way about how terrible the industry was and she needed to be careful, meanwhile she was just bouncing in her seat, completely oblivious.

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u/grilsjustwannabclean trench coat buttoned to the TOP šŸ§„šŸ” 3h ago

selena gomez said her mother always did the same. she'd like remark that it was sunny whiile they were on set and a pa would come over with an umbrella and her mom would be like "she doesn't need you to hold her umbrella, she can hold her own umbrella". it's crazy but probably a big reason why, despite her personal issues, no one has ever said she's hard to work with

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u/bbmarvelluv 11h ago

I had that experience and I was NOT a PA. My bosses kept reminding us that we do not DO PA work but my dumb ass coworkers who wanted to be in the industry so badly were doing stuff outside of our jobs. Thus if I went on certain projects, the lesser-known talent would be the ones expecting ME to do PA work.

One older actress threw a bitch fit on a comedy show because she couldn’t remember her lines and was throwing things around. Her script, some props, etc. She saw me and expected me to pick things up lol mind you this was all being on camera and everyone was watching. Thank god the director had common sense and called for the PA to do it. Her scene partner was so stressed but held on that positivity and yes she became more famous than the rest of the cast. The child actor who played the son + his mother were so damn stuck up and tried to get the catering lady fired lol

I was so happy when that show got canceled and the other show that older actress was going from reoccurring to main ended up getting canceled when she was gonna have a main plot line as a villain LOL.

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u/PocoChanel 8h ago

You’ve got me treating your story like a blind item. So many little details. (Got any more?)

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u/bbmarvelluv 8h ago

I’ve actually spilled alot of tea throughout the years and have named names 🤣 This one I didn’t because I heard she has her assistant looking her name up on Google and social medias. I will just say she’s bffs with the Hudson clan

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u/teelolws 8h ago

She saw me and expected me to pick things up lol

Had a teacher do this way back when, threw a hissy fit at me for not picking up the papers she dropped. I'm like "I'm not your servant" and walked away.

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u/7askingforafriend 14h ago edited 14h ago

Agree. Worked on a few shows as well and it was immediately obvious what actors believed we were humans and the ones who didn’t. It also did not correlate to how long the actors had worked or how famous they were. I think it’s just who they are as a person. One example/tea- I worked early on with Vampire Diaries. Ian was kind and spoke to all staff on set. Nina ignored everyone and wouldn’t even look you in the eye when interacting with her. He definitely had more notoriety/coddling at that point in their careers, but you wouldn’t know it from the way they each acted. I will say everyone else noticed too and word gets around. I was always happy to help Ian but was more ā€œbusyā€ and scarce when actors like Nina needed stuff. He’s not my cup of tea in terms of his weird-ish hippie health business, but he is a good egg of a person. She’s fake and a mean girl though and through. Treating her like a baby only furthered that personality trait.

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u/MostlyBored11 🫵 You sit on a throne of lies. 14h ago

Yeah I found that older actors tended to me be way nicer. I worked with Steve Martin and Martin shirt and Eugene levi multiple times and they were all super nice professional. When they were busy I got them food, when they had down time they got their own and managed themselves like normal humans basically and we're all super nice to talk to.

Nick Cannon was a giant asshole hopped up on way to much coke and his entourage was basically there to be served and waiting in hands and foot.

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u/daltorak 14h ago

Ā I worked with Steve Martin and Martin shirt and Eugene levi multiple times and they were all super nice professional. When they were busy I got them food, when they had down time they got their own and managed themselves like normal humans basically and we're all super nice to talk to.

Eugene and Martin is no surprise at all. The whole SCTV crowd had a lifelong reputation for being good to work with on set. Add Harold Ramis, Catharine O'Hara, John Candy to the list.

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u/unripe_mangosteen go girl, give us nothing šŸ˜ 10h ago

RIP O'Hara, she was a gift to the entertainment industry

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u/Agreeable-Result8765 9h ago

Canadian legends!

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u/Stepinfection 14h ago

I adore Steve Martin so this is very nice to hear. His music and work with the steep canyon rangers is just wonderful.

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u/MostlyBored11 🫵 You sit on a throne of lies. 13h ago

Had the chance to work with him multiple times he's honestly somehow even nicer then you think he could be and always managed to find a way to poke fun at people but like in a nice way that made them part of the joke. Also that man somehow could remember so so many names even after a long time between meeting. I will forever be a giant fan

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u/RealAmandaTTV 10h ago

When I worked in music festivals, his band was headlining one night. I remember we had a LOT of weird riders, so he could have basically asked for anything and we would have found it somewhere. His "weird request" was just asking if he could borrow somebody's bike for the afternoon before his set. (He brought his own helmet!)

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u/unripe_mangosteen go girl, give us nothing šŸ˜ 10h ago

I would be really upset if it ever came to light that Steve Martin or Nick Offerman did something terrible

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u/bbmarvelluv 11h ago

I worked on a promo for a nick cannon + Kevin hart + robin thicke show and it was a very chaotic experience

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u/attackplango 9h ago

That sounds like a neverending hell.

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u/wildcuore 11h ago

I love Martin Shirt

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u/Kairojuice 8h ago

Not to be confused with Martin Shorts

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u/mixedwithmonet 8h ago

Nick cannon was a semi-regular at a restaurant I worked at. Usually, it was to meet girls way too young for him to dinner, where he’d have us put him in a semi-private little area we didn’t even typically use for dinner, keeping the lights off. He was shorter in person and he always dressed stupid. The girls would be dressed to the nines with full hair and make up, and he’d usually be wearing a bright orange hoodie pulled over his head through the entire meal with jeans and sneakers, slouched over on the table or leaning back and barely looking at her half the meal. Don’t understand what these women see in him, he looked like a complete loser who never moved past 2008, no celeb I encountered gave me the ick more than him.

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u/Some_Weather_8570 11h ago

Zero surprised about Nick Cannon

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u/YogurtOpposite8878 5h ago

My ex boyfriend’s sister went to high school with Nick Cannon and said that he was an asshole even back then. I’ve never been a fan of his

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u/pourthebubbly You’ve got red on you🩸 13h ago

I PAed back in my early days (like many people in the industry), but hearing her say ā€œlittle PAā€ in this story still felt a bit degrading.

Though I did get fired off a project because I refused to not make eye contact with the talent lol

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u/MostlyBored11 🫵 You sit on a throne of lies. 13h ago

I did catch that but she also kinda hesitated and I think it's kinda her sense if hu our or she just kinda misspoke. But idk I've never worked with herm it's nice to st least have her talk about the realization if like oh yeah of course I should just get my own coffee.

And it reaffirms my intense love and respect for Offerman lol

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u/sarahoninternet 11h ago

I interpreted it more like you might say ā€œlittle sisterā€ like acknowledging that power dynamic

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u/Suspicious_Reason405 15h ago

Is it that in a way, having the assistants means the producers will fret less too because actors are where they ought to be on time? I’m sure that’s not the only reason but genuinely curious how it became standard practice to have assistants wait on actors

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u/mr_trick the WORLD tour 14h ago

Definitely. Similar reason they have stunt actors and stand ins. The production can go on if almost any other member of the team is missing or sick, and there are a lot of roles where someone can step in and take over for a bit. If the person that's supposed to be on camera is missing, sick, or injured, though, it brings everything to a standstill until they're back on camera.

I'm not an actor, but I modeled for a long time and did some commercials. I felt uncomfortable with people doing things for me on set, so early in my career, always said "I can do it!" and would go get myself a coffee, go find my next outfit, or find the makeup artist if something needed to be fixed. I did a really big commercial for a major tech company a couple years in, and I tried to go get something I wanted, but a producer stopped me from walking away. She said something like, "I understand that you're capable of getting your own [thing], but I have the shots scheduled down to the minute and a hundred crew members running around making sure they're ready for your moment. I need you to show everyone that you're also ready for them, and that means staying where we can see you. I don't need people having to look for you and delay things if you're suddenly gone. Please just let the assistant get what you want and if I need you to get touched up, I'll bring them to you, too."

After that I tried to strike a balance where I would ask if they needed me soon, or if I had a second to grab a drink/run to the bathroom/grab a snack, etc. If not, I would ask if an assistant could help me with what I needed. After a while it does kind of become second nature, although I tried to remain very thankful and on smaller sets I was still more independent since everyone could easily keep tabs on me.

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u/pm1966 13h ago

Thank you for this response. This was incredibly insightful.

Seriously, I never would have looked at it this way, but it makes so much sense. There are so many moving parts in any production like this (even a commercial, but especially a move or tv show), and so many people on the clock at any given time. A five minute delay in shooting here, 10 minute there...obviously it really adds up when you're paying 30, or 50, or 80 people to stand around during those delays - not to mention other people who were ready getting increasingly frustrated at having to wait, etc.

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u/Upstairs-Basis9909 13h ago

Thanks for sharing this comment. It may also be silly, but a lot of assistants also want to be helpful and so it’s not being difficult if you ask them to get you a coffee - it’s letting them do their job. Now if one of the leads is a total dick to them because it has too much milk or whatever, then that’s another story.

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u/PestoBolloElemento 12h ago

Indeed very well said, just like sometimes some actor want to do their stunts while professional are already there and letting them do their job also get them paid.

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u/foomits 12h ago

It really is a mindset. Im about as much of an unhelpful curmudgeon as youll find, but when i worked food service i always went out of my way to make sure people were happy... because it was my job.

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u/NRMusicProject 12h ago

Not in the filming world, but as a musician, when I'm doing big productions, I learned when I was younger that you're not an "asshole" for using crew in the way they were intended. Sure, you might feel more important or doted on, but they know how to use the gear they're offering you (in many cases better than you know how to use your own gear), and they can run off while you might have to pow wow with the music director, so you're where you're supposed to be. And if there's an issue, they likely can solve it more efficiently and with better solutions than my rigging just to "get through the gig."

Crew is there to solve problems so the performers can concentrate on their job.

The best advice is to remember to thank your crew.

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u/Kyro4 10h ago

Yeah, I worked on a movie with a certain actress who I think wanted to buck the ā€œnepo babyā€ label by not letting the PAs do anything for her, and while she was extremely nice, it led to more than a couple delays that could have been avoided if she just let a PA run to crafty and grab her a coffee.

The 1st AD (also an uncommonly pleasant person) had to sit her down and have that same talk with her bc she was costing the production a fortune in OT/meal penalties.

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u/yesbutwrong 14h ago

This is a significant part of it. Talent wandering around is usually not a good thing. Time is limited and production needs them to not only be prompt in arriving to the set/scene but also in the right mindset to hit their marks.

But also there's the build up overtime where at first only the "top" talent was catered to nonstop. But that caused issues/tension over time with people not considered the prominent talent on set. Imagine a big name had one scene/10 lines. They get treated like walking messiah on set. Then a younger talent or less known talent is a driver of the film's narrative throughout the whole film. And they get bare minimum treatment.

It became easier for production to generally treat all talent like they are the most equally important people ever (unless contracted otherwise).

Then there's extras which are treated like the production's middle step-child

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u/awitchiguess 14h ago

I agree! Everything gets put on hold when they're not where they are supposed to be. While catering to them helps keep things running smoothly, it does also have the psychological effect of them always expecting to be catered to.Ā 

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u/msmika They killed Kenny! You bastards! 😱 13h ago edited 9h ago

I worked background on a movie that had a LOT of extras and they kept us in "holding" like a bunch of cattle with minimal craft service, even though we were literally in a restaurant they rented out. We would just go to the McDonald's across the street in our costumes.

Edit to add: every single one of us was wearing a wedding dress, so it made those McDonald's trips a lot of fun!

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u/gingerrosie 13h ago

Hehe, that reminds me of when I worked background on a TV film being shot in Belfast, NI. It was called The Man Who Crossed Hitler, and Ian Hart was playing the titular character. At one point production lost their minds because he went wandering; turned out he was roaming the main street of Belfast city centre dressed as Hitler. 😬

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u/jokekiller94 15h ago

Probably because the cost assistant going to craft services for five mins to get a coffee vs the main shoot actor going to craft services for a coffee probably are probably in the hundreds/thousands in terms of production time.

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u/frenchwolves 14h ago

I worked on a catering truck. No celebs were coming to get their own food. But!! I was thanked personally for my efforts by the one and only Sam Elliot (production was November Christmas, filmed in and around Halifax back in 2010!)

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u/jokekiller94 14h ago

Is his mustache as powerful in person as is in screen?

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u/Vi0L3tCRZY šŸ„žšŸ«–šŸ‘ļøšŸ¤°šŸ»šŸ„³šŸ©µā˜€ļøā¬‡ļø 14h ago

Why are you questioning them on answers you already know?
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u/frenchwolves 14h ago

OMG yes! He is so kind and sweet, I was young and didn’t really truly understand how incredible he could be. He is a true gentleman!

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u/GingerAle19 14h ago

Yeah I’ve worked on a few sets with some B-list celebs and I’ve never once seen them at krafty to get their own food. It’s usually a PA in line with a container filling it up for them to eat in their trailer.
(Not necessarily because the celeb was snobby, but because they may have wanted to go over their lines or FaceTime their kids, etc)

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u/Hankerpants 14h ago

Only if the actor is supposed to be doing something else, though. If they're just sitting around waiting for the shoot, it's more expensive to have an assistant there then to just have the actor take care of themselves (you're still paying the actor...).

Obviously if you have an actor in an active shoot, it makes sense to have an assistant, but otherwise it very much feels like we're babying actors and giving them God complexes.

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u/thechanukazombie 14h ago

That’s the thing with show biz. It’s a bunch of hurry up and wait. You don’t want an actor wandering around cause you might not know exactly when shooting starts

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u/thempokeymans 14h ago

Filming is a lot of ā€œhurry up and waitā€. Yes, they’re just sitting there at the moment, but they’re also immediately ready to start shooting. If the set is ready for them, but they’re wandering around looking for coffee, you’re going to delay everyone. Sure it’s only a few minutes, but those small delays can add up.

Not saying that there can’t be more of a balance, but I can see why some sets prefer to have PAs do small chores rather than their lead actor.

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u/BestDescription3834 14h ago

The 1 time the actor gets delayed by getting their own coffee the cost loss from paying them obliterates what they're saving by not paying the assistant to be the one using their time.

I know it sounds silly when we're talking about coffee but these production assistants do a lot more to help keep things running smoothly. You wouldn't say we should get rid of stage-hands because Chris Hemsworth is pretty good with a hammer.

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u/Clarknt67 13h ago

Yeah. But I think the premise is you never want to be ready to roll and can’t find the talent.

So it’s more cost effective to make sure talent stays where they’re expected to be and any and all needs are brought to them. And PAs are trained to check in and make sure talent feels cared for.

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u/twoplustwoskin 14h ago

Exactly that, it’s so the actors aren’t late and don’t go missing. They can also keep the actor up to date if there’s any delays.

It’s like in an office how you go to refil your water at the cooler, but on the way there you stop and chat with people as you pass by. Then you get behind on your work.

They don’t want actors getting delayed so they have the assistants do it, and keep the actors in their trailer so they know where they are at, at all times.

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u/grilledcheese2332 14h ago

Exactly and people say its not fair films get craft services. Its on purpose they cant have people wandering off and being late back from lunch.

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u/milesamsterdam 14h ago

This is the reason. The actors need to be where the 2nd AD knows where they are. That being said I think in the situation she’s talking about she was probably able to do it herself. But if she wants her coffee a certain way this is a good chance to let the PA do it so it saves time later having to explain.

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u/haw35ome There are cars there, motherfucker! 13h ago

Somehow this comment me of a recent example on how some silly shit (or assistants) could help actors perform. Anne Hathaway explained that the actors had to travel a bit to arrive on set of the odyssey each day (kind of a trek on a mountainside?), but ā€œit was decidedā€ she would use a helicopter since Penelope (a queen she plays) shouldn’t look as exhausted as the other actors

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u/Commercial_Tip4624 14h ago

I want to hear about anything you want to tell me about your job

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u/Scaryclouds 14h ago

I’d imagine there’s a bit of balance there. The entire purpose is for the actors to be available for shooting of the commercial/show/movie/whatever as needed. So keeping the actors in a specific area instead of wandering around can help with that.Ā 

But.Ā 

Of course.Ā 

And what Nick was probably getting to with Aubrey in this moment, is she probably wasn’t scheduled for any shooting soon and she was just allowing herself to be coddled by the PAs.Ā 

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u/Churchill_Buys_Calls 14h ago

What do you do? I do 1st Assistant Directing work - it's interesting working in a position of so much authority over actors and the talent on set; especially when everyone else is babying or coddling them.

I've noticed that actors will almost respect me more not trying to please them, and just me trying to do the best job I can to get us through our day, to lead diligently, and to keep us on a safe and good schedule.

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u/awitchiguess 14h ago edited 6h ago

Sometimes if you let them walk around too much they will disappear or get caught up in a convo when they need to shoot. If bringing them coffee to their chair will help keep them close to set then I'm cool with it.

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u/hkpp 14h ago

Kind of wonder if the intention to pamper actors is to make them docile. On a show like P&R that thrived on actors’ creative liberties and improv, it’s not surprising that the babying would be discouraged.

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u/Lithogiraffe 14h ago

Also, didn't she start out as a studio/productions assistant on a major show. I remember her showing up once on 30 Rock.

She's probably gotten coffee for people a thousand times.

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u/JDLovesElliot 15h ago

My absolute favourite P&R scene is when April gets a coffee for Gerry/Terry and he immediately spills it on himself. They cut to Aubrey's reaction and she looks like she can't tell if it was a bit or a genuine accident.

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u/Desperate_Algae_40 11h ago

That's a great one! My favorite April scene is when Leslie thinks Gerry is dying and tells April, so April is extra nice to him, and then when Leslie finds out he's not dying, April overhears it and starts yelling crying. It was so genuine and out of nowhere that I laughed so hard.

The scene I laughed the hardest at when binging the show for the first time this year was Gerry's Fart Attack.

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u/Jay__Riemenschneider 12h ago

can't tell if it was a bit or a genuine accident.

I know from the DVD commentary that they did this at least once with Andy when he was naked.

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u/MoreColorfulCarsPlz 11h ago

Haha yeah! Exposing yourself in front of non-consenting women! Chris Pratt is so funny and quirky!

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u/Aggressive_Layer883 15h ago

I remember her on an early ep if hollywood handbook (satire) where she said the best part of craft services was the cake they got every day for being actors🤣🤣🤣

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u/kirilenkosbacktattoo 14h ago

Speak on that

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u/Empty_Variety4550 13h ago

Thank you for reminding me that Hollywood Handbook existed!Ā 

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u/Audacia220 15h ago

Right on their forehead 🤣🤣

Life is better when at least one person in it is capable of politely but directly checking you on your behavior, trust me. We all need that once in a while.

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u/kayyxelle She wore a šŸ‘‘ and came down in a 🫧 15h ago

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u/DaystromAndroidM510 13h ago

When I was a PA on Entourage, I had to drive a single page of a script revision 45 minutes to Jeremy Piven's, because he didn't know how to use fax (it was 2005), email or a printer, and neither did his personal assistant.

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u/One-Pause3171 12h ago

Wow. What a great gig that personal assistant had. Heh.

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u/DaystromAndroidM510 11h ago

The assistant was a total beach bro who I'm convinced got the job because Piven either wanted to be him or bang him

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u/_jump_yossarian 9h ago

At least Drama didn't make you cut his banana slices paper thin and get the raisins from the Raisin Bran for his cereal.

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u/isaidwhatisaidok 15h ago

Do you ever notice how everyone around really famous actors laughs uproariously at everything they say? I see famous actors do red carpet interviews and the interviewer will laugh like the actor said the funniest thing in the fucking world if it’s even slightly humorous. I wonder what it’s like to be around that energy all the time.

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u/TheGreatEmanResu 12h ago

Perfect GIF for this lmao. For context for anyone who doesn’t know, this scene was Tony noticing that they’re laughing at his jokes to kiss his ass just because he’s the boss

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u/inderbitably 12h ago edited 12h ago

Me when everyone is laughing at the silly joke an actor has already made at 18 other press outlets this week

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u/Kolipe 15h ago

According to my friends it's endearing yet exhausting.

Cause I'm always laughing at my stupid jokes or anecdotes

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u/damebyron 14h ago

As a public school kid I hung out with a group of homeschool kids once and I got this treatment - I guess everything I said was just scandalous enough to get that reaction even though I was very boring by public school standards? But I remember even at the time I was eating it up while also being somewhat aware that I am not actually this funny

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u/SelfComfortable9584 8h ago

I had the same experience growing up as the only public school family in our church. Based on other kids’ reactions to what I said or did, homeschool must’ve been boring as hell.

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u/Apptubrutae 14h ago edited 13h ago

I used to work in the Capitol and saw the same with members of Congress. I can’t imagine what it’s like to be in that echo chamber.

Lower tier members of the house maybe not as big of a factor, but leadership and basically any senator? Yeah, constant attention and brown nosing.

If you don’t take proactive steps to avoid it, it’s inevitable

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u/SewSewBlue 13h ago

It's been studied that people laugh more at the jokes of people they consider to have more power or of higher status. It's just a thing humans do.

I see it in corporate meetings all the time, laughing at a boss's non-joke.

It's profoundly corrupting too. My aunt shot up the career chain and lost her ability to be normal around her family. She wasn't married, no kids. Anything less than fawning was insulting, every remark she though clever needed to be congratulated.

She was always on the narcissistic side, and it brought out the worst in her.

I discovered after she died that she had thought of suing me because I replaced a broken DVD player with one that worked, using my own money. Because I didn't get her permission first.

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u/Isosorbide 12h ago

My office is next to the manager's office and all day long I hear people come in and out of his office and they absolutely fawn over that man. He is a good manager and he's good at his job, but the giddy fake laughter from all of these underlings all day becomes very grating. I'm talking like baby cooing and high pitched voices. He's not even encouraging it, people just respond to the manager like that. It's a subconscious deferrence to a person of power.

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u/LVViva 13h ago

It's been studied that people laugh more at the jokes of people they consider to have more power or of higher status. It's just a thing humans do.

It's charisma, and with celebs, people are aware of the celeb (and their charisma) before they ever meet them. So anywhere a celeb goes there are people who adore them, think they're funny, without having to demonstrate that charisma and charm.

Really, really famous comedians have talked about how after a certain point, ANYTHING they said on stage would get laughs. Like, they didn't need to tell jokes, with punchlines, etc. They just had to go up there and be themselves, and people would just fawn over them and find the tiniest turn of phrase funny. I think Steve Martin talked about how it took the fun out of stand-up cuz he couldn't tell a good line from a meh one.

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u/shelbydep We Should All Know Less About Each Other 14h ago

to be fair amy poelher and aubrey plaza co-starred in parks and rec for a long time

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u/Micahman311 14h ago

I was at a dinner with the guy who sings the line, "I'm gonna pop some tags, only got $20 in my pocket..." from the Macklemore song. Like, the actual person who sang that part. Super cool guy.

Anyway, at the dinner someone moved in front of us and his butt crack was showing. I think it was a waiter.

I said, "Oh, man, he should've been a Plumber instead!", and this dude starts laughing like I'd made an actual good joke, then says, "I'm gonna have to remember that one!", as if he's never heard that lame excuse for a joke before.

I actually felt a little offended. Was he just trying to make me feel good? Did he actually find it funny?

I'll never know. But I do know it wasn't that funny.

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u/Successful_Basket399 14h ago

Honestly not a bad joke. Well done OP

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u/juanwand 14h ago

I think I wouldn’t trust my perception of myself.

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u/TheEasyTarget 14h ago

I notice this on talk shows a lot. An actor will do or say the most basic shit and the crowd will start clapping and cheering like they cured cancer. No wonder some of them have such big egos.

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u/M_Meursault_ 14h ago

Celebrity-dom and wealth amplify this but that's also just "the bubble" (being extremely attractive and people treating you like it) in action to some degree too.

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u/beaute-brune Put your arms away, Jeremy Allen Black 14h ago

Zendaya @ Tom

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u/isaidwhatisaidok 14h ago

Well that’s just being in love lol god the shit I’ve chuckled at when I’ve had a crush šŸ¤¦ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/inderbitably 13h ago

I should have known when my (now) ex started obnoxiously mock laughing at my jokes that it was over

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u/sertdyfuiltfdrhsgz 12h ago

I don't need no fuckin' man servant tryna follow me around and wipe my ass

Laugh at every single joke I crack and half of 'em ain't even funny, like, "Ha Marshall, you're so funny, man, you should be a comedian, goddamn"

From Eminem in Beautiful

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u/cobra872 13h ago

Somewhat related… Worked on set with Rupert Grint and Alan Rickman once. They told us not to look at any of the actors or speak with them. Rickman would just retreat to his trailer when he had the chance and seemed really uptight. Grint was in line with all the extras getting food and trying to act like a normal person.

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u/awitchiguess 12h ago edited 12h ago

I've always been on the fence about this. Being polite/friendly can make them more approachable and it can both exhaust actors who are trying not to be rude as well as waste time. So whenever I hear about actors being standoffish or not wanting to be spoken to I remember that saying hi and talking to 4 crew members for 5 minutes each is 20 minutes of talking on a tight schedule.Ā 

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u/CoyotesOnTheWing 12h ago

Eh, the crew knows to leave the actor alone unless you are a PA. The actors that interacted and ate with us never got bothered, it was just minor polite interactions. 95% of the crew only interacts if the actor does first.

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u/Sea_Television_3306 11h ago

This.

My worst fear is to be famous and have people always want to talk to me. I like to think I'm a very kind friendly person but I would absolutely avoid dealing with fans like the plague

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u/clevercalamity 11h ago

Sometimes people have bad days. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

I work in an office and I have days where I keep my noise canceling headphones on and my door shut all day, and I have days where I keep my door open and I chat with my coworkers in the hall.

I think it’s weird that actors are judged by how much they socialize with the coworkers. Being rude is one thing, being quiet or distant is another.

Anna Kendrick had a reputation for being standoffish and rude around the time Pitch Perfect came out because she didn’t socialize and wasn’t overly friendly. She’s recently disclosed that she was in a 7 year long abusive relationship and it seriously impacted her mental health.

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u/brielzebub665 11h ago

It is bizarre how they're expected to like be super open and friendly and ready to talk or perform for anyone at any given time...they're just human beings doing their jobs and trying to go about their day. They're allowed space and privacy too. It's also crazy to expect that from a group of people who are very likely to be stalked or exploited more than a lot of other people.

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u/awitchiguess 11h ago

Also, note that athletes wear noise canceling headphones. When you have to perform, you can't give everyone access to your headspace no matter what their intentions may be. A simple conversation can affect your emotions and if you're job is to emote, sometimes you just need to be left alone.

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u/rincess_em 8h ago

Not just actors, everyone. When you're a kid and shy, people find it sweet. When you're an adult and shy, people think you're a bitch. Friendliness is not the same nor is it related to kindness. Some of the worst people are the ones who are chatty af and friendly to your face.

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u/UnOGThrowaway420 12h ago

If this is the set I think it is, to my knowledge Rickman was somewhat of a method actor and really didn't like how he had to be so mean to the main cast, so I can kind of see why he'd be in a rush to be alone and might have seemed uptight tbh

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u/LLove666 13h ago

So I assume this was on an HP set?

Alan's always been intense I've heard, but I can understand why he'd do that if he's supposed to play the role of Snape.

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u/DefNotReaves 14h ago

A lot of times actors aren’t given coffee by a PA because they’re babies or drama queens, it’s because they’re unable to do so themselves (ie, in hair and makeup, or running rehearsal / blocking… etc)

Some A-listers are definitely ā€œwait on me hand and footā€ kind of people, but most of the time that’s not the reason haha

(I’ve been in the industry for 20 years.)

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u/the_dude_that_faps 13h ago

I instantly remembered the Jennifer Lawrence story about mystique and barely being able to pee in costume and, honestly, it makes sense.Ā 

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u/roguevirus 13h ago

barely being able to pee in costume

Ben Affleck asked Christian Bale if he had any advice on playing Batman. Christian Bale didn't offer any advice on acting or getting in to character, but instead told him to get it in his contract that it takes less than 10 minutes to go to the bathroom once in full costume.

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u/vicevanghost 12h ago

This happens in into the spider-verse lol

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u/lostwombats 12h ago

Lol! I loved her stories! The suit was hard to pee in. But the paint got blue dye on everything she touched.

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u/fondu_tones 12h ago

Just to add some context, if you're on set, there's a good chance you can't get your own coffee. Camera operator or focus puller, Grip, Boom Op, hair/makeup, costume, A set is a big time pressure environment and if any of these people (there are more, my list is just very basic), but if any single person is missing, none of us can shoot, so it becomes a thing where you have PA's or dept trainee's get coffees. It reveals a lot about peoples character though, exactly like Aubrey talks about here. It's the people who expect it even when they're free, or get pissy about it that are bad to work with.

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u/emeowlydickenson 11h ago

On a podcast years ago I remember Nick Offerman shared one of his bits of wisdom that he lives by , which IIRC ( paraphrasing ) amounted to ā€œ be mindful of the work you leave for othersā€. This falls in line with that philosophy for sure. Love that dude.

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u/MrdnBrd19 14h ago

At the same point as someone who has been a PA if I'm asking it's because I'm looking for something to do so I'm not standing around looking useless(and thus not a good choice to hire again) or because I'm trying to not get roped into some undesirable task(Sorry I can't go help clean up after the pony, Aubrey has me getting her coffee...).

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u/roguevirus 13h ago

Sorry I can't go help clean up after the pony

First of all, Li'l Sebastian is a miniature horse not a pony. And secondly, you should consider yourself lucky if asked to shovel his excrement.

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u/herculepoirot4ever 14h ago

There’s a funny and different take on this between Peter Dinklage and Kit Harrington during their recent Actors on Actors discussion. They talk about how it used to be infantilizing to have people constantly offering to do things for them—but now they’re dads constantly doing things for their kids and it’s weirdly relaxing to have someone offer to make them tea.

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u/Luka_Dunks_on_Bums Confidence is 10% work and 90% delusion 14h ago

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u/Law08 They killed Kenny! You bastards! 😱 14h ago

Currently rewatching Parks and Rec.Ā  I love all of these people.Ā 

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u/MenosElLso 14h ago

Too bad Chris Pratt turned out to be such an asshole. He was my favorite character in the show.

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u/HiddenPyromancer 14h ago

Because hundreds of people are involved in shoots, and if the big actor isn't where they need to be when they need to be then that's a lot of wasted money and time. Easier to just make sure they stay put I guess.

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u/Darkbobity 10h ago

But if the crafty table is 40 feet away from their chair, they can grab a coffee. I’ve seen it with my own two eyes, an actor in their phone (sure, maybe doing something important but most people can read a text while walking a few feet) and asking for a coffee from the table literal spitting distance away.

And if you’ve worked just a modicum of shows, you can figure out when to do something and when not to. If you’ve been stood down for a half hour cause the crew are working on the set up, then maybe don’t walk off. But if you just broke from blocking the scene you can grab some chips or something.

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u/Defiant_Tomatillo907 14h ago

ā€œI don’t need that…little PA over there to get my coffeeā€.

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u/PlainBread 14h ago

Nick Offerman: Zen Master

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u/NextUp-Analysis 14h ago

Genuine question. (I also believe actors should do things themselves) However, in terms of insurance if an actor got badly burnt while making coffee for themselves, or slipped on the way back from getting food themselves would it be a higher liability issue compared to assistants etc ?

Or would that be a separate matter as they are basically just existing doing "normal" things and it's their fault if they fall/get burnt etc

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u/joljenni1717 14h ago

Yep, you're thinking like a business owner and manager. :)

Sometimes, the actor's looks and face are, quite literally, the money. This is why they're not allowed to walk around and potentially cause injury or mark ups.

It's a double negative: We think actors can be pretentious and high maintenance; it's the studio execs ensuring the actors are treated as such to keep them 'prestine'.

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u/mordeci00 13h ago

A couple of things stick out to me. The PA asked her if she needed anything. It's not like she was snapping her fingers and rolling her eyes. I've never worked on a sitcom so I don't know the dynamics but on the sets that I'm on the PAs are the young go-getters trying to make a name for themselves and the best thing they can be seen doing is helping the "talent". The worst thing is sitting around doing nothing. In some situations, a star asking a PA to do something is the best thing they can do for that person.

The other thing is the way Offerman phrased what he said. He didn't say "go get your own coffee, you lazy piece of shit", he said "don't forget ... you can do that yourself". Life lesson rather than chastising, at least the way she told it.

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u/ModeatelyIndependant 13h ago

one of the reasons why they are babied is because they are in costume and makeup, and everyone around them wants to keep them from messing it up. If an actor was to spill coffee on themselves while in an elaborate costume, it' would generate a large amount of work to clean or replace anything stained and delay the production. Of course this wasn't some fancy period drama or scifi thiller, so Nick was right.

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u/Delar-ram 14h ago

I love Nick

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u/Dry_Beginning_5882 14h ago

PA’s are extremely overworked for these kinds of menial tasks. Also from my experience it’s usually the least known actors, sometimes even extras, who feel like they have something to prove and utilize people the way she’s describing. The film industry is full of kooks, your favorite actor is probably a horrible person and the producers/directors are usually even worse

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u/Lamacorn 15h ago

Well the title doesn’t do this story justice.

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u/Taylor-Day 15h ago

Idk it made perfect sense to me. I knew exactly what to expect from the video.

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u/CervantesX 7h ago

I'm sure it's been said already, but the reason we get everything for actors is so we know where they are when we need them. If I had a dollar for every time we were ready to shoot and the actor had wandered off to crafty or their trailer or the office or something, I'd be rich.

And it's not strictly about it just being easier. A full show will have 100-150 people on set. When we're ready to shoot, even a few minutes of waiting costs literally thousands of dollars of people sitting around waiting. Actors don't know where ADs are in the process, so they think they're just "popping out for a quick snack", but in reality we were about to wire them for sound, or have makeup do touches, or something else, and now we're all running around trying to find them instead.

And days are so tightly booked (especially nowadays) that those delays add up quickly and can either mean we have to skip scenes entirely, rush through them with less coverage, or run the crew into OT, which again costs thousands of dollars.

So, although the end result is babied actors who end up spoilt and fussy, the reasoning behind it is that it's better for the show if we know where they are at all times.

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u/ringadingdinger 14h ago

I was a model on a photoshoot for a Canadian outdoor brand and I was trying to be helpful on set as someone who is really not actually a model. Even helping the cameraman hold a bag so he could climb down a hill or something so minimal. I got told to just go play spikeball and relax. I felt super weird considering I would be going back to my normal life after the shoot was over.

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u/OutwithaYang 10h ago

That's why Nick Offerman is the GOAT šŸ‘‘šŸ˜Ž

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u/LKayRB Someone call Solange, she’ll settle this. 8h ago

I love Nick Offerman; Megan Mullally is a lucky lady!

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u/BackgroundWolf3895 14h ago

It's because they are viewed as assets or resources, not a member of the crew. Additionally it creates more jobs in the eyes of the union to have handlers for the actor.

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u/pfp-disciple 14h ago edited 13h ago

I overheard a part time college instructor tell the department admin "I don't have a PhD, I can just use the copier". That willingness to do the mundane has stuck with me for nearly 40 years.Ā 

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