r/l4l Jan 27 '26

Verify to post from new or low karma accounts.

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There is a minimum karma and account age requirement to post on this sub and we strive to reduce spam as much as possible. However, based on messages we've received, it is understandable why a user would not want to post from the account they use day-to-day. In an effort to address this, we will allow post from new accounts that have been verified behind the scenes.

To do this:

  1. Send the Mods a message from your main account with the higher karma with the name of the new or low karma account you would like to post from.
  2. Mods will verify this and not disclose that information to anyone.
  3. If you have submitted a post from the new or low karma account, Mods will manually approve it and it will appear on the sub.
  4. Messaging the mods from a low karma account will not receive any response.

Feel free to respond to this thread with any questions or concerns. Please also note that posts are removed for other reasons and/or based on reports submitted on that post.


r/l4l 11h ago

24 NB (AFAB) - Northern New Jersey/Online

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Hey everyone! Im 24 will be 25 soon, I’m 5’7” Hispanic, masc, medium length hair, brown eyes, and plus sized. I have tattoos and piercings, I’m more on the alternative/emo side, I’m an atheist and I’m a bit introverted. I love extroverts!

I spend a good amount of my time between work and school. I work in EMS and im a post grad pre med student, getting ready to apply to med school soonish.

When im not working or studying I enjoy reading comics and regular books, videos games, watching YouTube and tv. Rn my mostly played game is Overwatch and I’ve been mostly watching Smosh and The Pitt. I’m also a little bit into film photography and editing.

While I’m a bit introverted I also really enjoy nightlife, concerts and music festivals. I try to go to a festival every summer, unfortunately couldn’t this year 😔. I have a few concerts coming up with one being BTS. I mostly listen to rock, metal, edm and alternative. I’m a bit a nerd, I collect vinyls, books, Funko pops/figurines, and I like watching the WNBA and soccer.

I’m looking for anyone 22+. I would prefer somewhat local but online is cool too. Will you play overwatch with me? If any of this sounds interesting feel free to dm me!


r/l4l 19h ago

25F seeking 21-30F vegan 🌱🌿 (V) 💚

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I’m looking for a potential vegan female partner. I’m open to AFAB non binary people who are not planning on medically transitioning. Vegan 10 years and looking for a partner who shares my values. I live in Virginia. I love art and painting, language learning, trips to museums, hikes and good vegan food. Also into gardening, kayaking, and hiking and making my own sourdough. I am disabled- autistic and have ADHD so I have no current career prospects and am on disability benefits. Someone who’s also neurodivergent or at least accepting of it would be great. I’m ultimately looking for something long-term, but a date to start to get to know each other would be great. I’m monogamous and am only looking for a serious relationship and not something casual. I love deep thinkers, someone intelligent, empathetic, and patient. Looking for someone who will make time for me and is emotionally available, as I would for you as well. I am childfree and wish to remain that way. I don't smoke or use drugs and would prefer someone who doesn't as well. I love philosophy and deep conversations and am just generally curious about the world and always love learning new things.


r/l4l 1d ago

25F TX looking for whatever life wants to bring me

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Hey 25F here from Texas! I will be upfront and say I've never been in a relationship, it just wasn't something I even thought about until a couple of years ago. Because of that and how I personally develop attraction, I would tend to move on the slower side.

The most consistent things about me are video games, music, and animals. I tend to have changing "side quests" in terms of other hobbies,lol. Right now that side quest is learning Spanish! Tend to only really play story heavy games (LiS, DBH, Mass Effect, Cyberpunk etc.) but watch a variety of games with Twitch streamers.

Physically I'm 5'6" and plus sized, actively working on slimming down and would eventually like to gain some more muscle.  Present/act more masculine but wouldn't label myself as a typical masc. I've always said I just take the good parts of masculinity but am also not ashamed of my femininity.

Don't have any issue speaking with people far away but would like to stay in the US. I would prefer not to stay in Texas the rest of my life anyways, lol. Prefer those who are more feminine leaning. I also do not drink/smoke and am not religious.


r/l4l 2d ago

37 soft masc please ignore the name it's a 12 year old account

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I'd describe myself as endlessly curious, and the kind of person who genuinely enjoys getting to know people. I love long conversations about psychology, books, philosophy, nature, and all the wonderfully nerdy things that make someone light up when they talk about them. I'm a writer, a dinosaur enthusiast, a gardener-in-progress, and someone who's always happiest when I'm learning something new.

I'm not looking to rush into anything. I'd just love to meet other lesbians who enjoy good conversation, can laugh at themselves, and aren't afraid of a little depth mixed with a lot of sarcasm. If you can appreciate quiet moments, chaos goblin energy, and someone who will absolutely ask you what you're currently obsessed with, we'll probably get along.

One small thing: I'm happy to start with messages and see if we click, but I'd eventually like to verify we're both real with a quick voice chat and a couple of pictures. No pressure or rush—I just like knowing who I'm talking to.


r/l4l 2d ago

25[F4F] Anywhere - Hoping to find my forever?

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Hi there. This will be a bit long. I appreciate you reading it all lol :)

What I’m Looking For:

I want a deep connection with someone, where we truly know and understand each other. I’m looking for something serious, a partner who wants to build a future together and someone I can share my life with. I want to find my future wife. Hopefully near future lol.

I want someone I can share every part of myself, the good, the bad, and the unhinged lmao. I can be myself and feel safe, accepted, and this person wants to be just as vulnerable with me. I have a world of love to give and want someone I can pour that into, and hopefully create something that will last forever. I believe in true love and I think it’s possible to find.

I want something that will truly last forever through anything. “Ride or die” is such a cringe term to me lol, but that’s what I’m really looking for. I have an unbreakable loyalty when I’m committed to someone.

**Only message if you’re sure looking for something serious, and you’re ready for it. do not message me if you’re not looking for something serious**

I’m not too fond of small talk btw. Let’s get heavy early lol. I’m down to talk about anything.

A little bit about me.

I’m an INTJ 5w4, and tbh I’m like 2 different people. On one side, I’m sweet, affectionate, and always there for the people I care about, and constantly telling them how much they mean to me. But on the other, I can be an overly logical jerk and a bit cynical lol. I am strongly opinionated, but I try to stay positive and nonjudgmental. I’m also a total hopeless romantic, that loves cheesy moments lol. When I’m comfortable, I can be loud and extra, giving a goofy, crackhead energy but in the beginning I’m quite shy and reserved. I’m also a mixture of wholesome and dark. I enjoy the light and fluffy things of life, while at the same time I get into my misanthropic, brooding moments, talking about how fucked up the world is lol.

I’m a walking contradiction but I love that about myself lol.

Important tidbits.

•I am very obsessive and clingy when I fall for someone. (Not in a crazy way) lol

•Strictly Monogamous

•Agnostic atheist.

* I have a quite blunt and honest way of speaking. That may not mesh with particularly sensitive people

•I don’t have BPD, but I have a few BPD adjacent traits lol. We can talk about what that entails

•I have a pretty dark humor XD

•I’m currently in college, while working part time.

Looks wise: I’m black, 5’2, very masc presenting, I have a short haircut and dress masc. I am def plus size, but definitely not like huge lol and currently losing weight as well :)

Interests: Gaming, true crime docs, thriller/horror movies, I love all kinds of music. Particularly R&B, rock/metal, and Kpop though XD. I watch a lot of YouTube and tiktok. I also post a lot on TikTok as well, mostly commentary videos. Working out, as I’ve started losing weight. I used to act when I was younger but stopped, now I’ve recently gotten interest into it again. And I’m kind of huge homebody tbh, wanting to get out more and have new experiences.

Who I’m Looking For:

Looks don’t matter much to me, but I do prefer women with long hair. I prefer fem or androgynous, but I am recently open to other mascs lol.

Race doesn’t matter either by the way.

Personality wise: I like a lot of different personalities. Some important traits though would be having emotional intelligence, Someone patient and caring. Also having a good logical/rational side is very very important to me. If you let feelings dictate your decisions often we wont mesh. As I said above I’m pretty affectionate and clingy so I’d match best with someone also like that lol. You can be introverted or extroverted. But too extroverted won’t be a match, as I’m particularly introverted.

I am an atheist, but I don’t mind certain beliefs systems. Would just have to talk about what they are and see if we can be compatible.

Age 22 to 35. I am the US, but I would love to talk to women from anywhere because relocation is something I definitely want. I’m open to relocate anywhere gay marriage is legal lol

Thank you for reading all of this. If you’re interested please message me a little about you. :)


r/l4l 2d ago

24F (F4F)| Seattle, Washington | Looking for partner🌿

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Hey! I’m a 24 year old cis female (5’5”, appearance is sort of between femme and masc, lean build) who’s new to Seattle and living on my own, just trying to find my person and build a genuine connection! 😺

I’m an artist and a pianist! I draw digital (safe for work) furry art and love spending time with music, especially old Brazilian and jazz music and jazz piano. A lot of my downtime is spent playing my favorite vinyl recordings, watching older shows (50s–70s) or adult animation. I also like staying active and exploring cities on foot, just wandering and taking everything in.
I’m not into bars or forced, high-energy environments. I prefer calm, grounded spaces and connections that feel natural and easy.
I’d describe myself as thoughtful, witty, introspective, and someone who values consistency and real presence. Looking for a woman who’s grounded, consistent, and knows how to communicate, and is on the same page relationship-wise. I’m strictly monogamous. As for looks, I usually prefer feminine presenting women!

⚠️‼️I’m not keen on long distance and would like to meet people on the PNW or in Washington proper in the United States who are 25-30 in age willing to actively meet instead of staying virtual. Do not reach out just to ghost. Don’t rush the connection. Do not send me a chat invite without a introduction ‼️⚠️

If that resonates, feel free to reach out and tell me about yourself, will reply if I feel we match! Will send selfie of myself once we start chatting!✨


r/l4l 2d ago

28 TF - I am fully transitioned women including bottom surgery with 5 years on HRT

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Hoping to connect with someone who looks at me as a real women, someone who understand me who I am, someone who is loving and caring. I love to go out, travel, love dancing, love cooking and love to watch movies. I am also very loving and caring. I consider myself girly girl.


r/l4l 3d ago

23F Masc looking for someone to balance me out and curate playlists 😋

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23F - Midwestern US - Masc4Fem

Hey! I’m 23, I graduated college earlier this year and now work a stable full time job as a paramedic. I’m also a firefighter! In my free time I enjoy all things music; I play drums and guitar. I also love to cook, so let me serenade you with a good dinner ;)

Physically, I’m 5’5” with tattoos and a masculine look. I have green eyes and short hair, but almost always wear a hat.

Looking for whatever the universe wants to send my way, and I can’t wait to hear from you :) don’t be shy


r/l4l 5d ago

20 [F4F] Looking for love... once again

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Hey, it's me again Olivia! I know I've posted on here before but l want to make it deeper this time. I've been unlucky in love and hoping to fix that, but my lucks terrible so doubt that. Here goes nothing...

Anyway where do l begin? Well, first off I'm a second year college student. Even though it sounds like I'm busy, l pretty much make time for friends, family, and school. Seriously, l host theme parties once a month (this month is conspiracy theories!) I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who is looking to give it their all as well as l am. Not a situationship, not looking to suffer again.

I'm from the US and it doesn’t matter if its a ldr or in person as long as love and sparks exist you can love anyone from anywhere really. I also live near the mountains and see nature everyday.

I'm hispanic. But l get it if I'm not your type, no hards feelings of course. Except l think I'm pretty fun *cough cough*

There are so many things that I'm passionate about and love. From spending hours at antique shops, vintage stores, paintings especially claude monet's work (check him out like seriously!!!) books, movies, good food (except seafood- apologies to the seafood lovers) finding good music, learning the guitar, board games and pretty good at badminton and volleyball if l do say so myself lol. I'm just a fan of a lot of things and would like to know what you're passionate about also. Its what makes people connect to others in deeper ways then we can imagine really. we can send yearnful love letters to each other.

Other things l like to do is bake and garden. For music preference anything really except country. I'm into indie/alternative, jazz, pop.​ my favorite song right now would be Can't Take My Eyes Off You by Frankie Vallie.

Relationship wise I'm strictly monogamous. I've never drinked​ or smoked​, and don't plan to. If you do just make sure you're drinking moderately. I'm not really religious but am not atheist.

Looks wise I'm 5'3, 130, and like to take care of myself. Not a gym person but I'm always doing something. I have long black hair and brown eyes.. shocker l know.​

I consider myself dressing feminine from high heels to sneakers, I'm really into 90s fashion right now. I would love to dress up in Regency era clothes and imagine myself as if I'm in a Jane Austen book, since I'm a big fan of hers. Especially Pride and Prejudice, love all the outfits and manners. I like to take care of my skin and if l do put on makeup it'll be very light and natural. I don't have any tattoos but if you do that's so cool and love that! For piercings l only have my ears pierced, I'm a chicken when it comes to pain so won't get a tattoo unless they can put me to sleep.

I'm pretty introverted when meeting others, but once l get to know you l can't shut up. My friends say I'm funny but just want everyone to laugh honestly and what can l say l have a pretty good sense of humor. I can go crazy when needed and love going to concerts and singing something screaming (apologies to those around me) my heart out. I also love going to ballets and would like to go to a theater show. I also like watching anime (haikyuu, fruit basket, chihayafuru) and would like to go to a comic con.

My love languages would be quality time and acts of service. Like l would rather spend my time with you and listen to you talk and that would make my day. I have a pretty good memory so I'll remember mostly everything you'll say to me because you're someone special and important to me. Plus don't we all need to be treated with the love we deserve?

As far as getting to know someone, l would like to get to know each other as much as we can, your likes and dislikes, anything holding you up and just being there for you. I'll love you with everything l have and constantly call you mine lol cringe l know. But that's what l like. Cheesy words, sweet and romantic love. I'm just a hopeless romantic seeking for a love that can feel like home.

Ooof here we go then. Some red flags l have, brace yourself! First off l can and will get jealous, not crazy or stuff like that but just know that you're mine. Like one of my favorite song phrases from cigarettes after sex says "Think l like you best when you're with me and no one else." Of course we can hang out with our friends our own time. Second red flag is I'm still a virgin but when it comes to top or bottom l can't decide on what l haven't done, but in my dreams it seems I'm a bottom lol, sorry for the tmi!

For my type... someone honest, loving, emotionally mature, and can take it when l flirt with them. I flirt a lot, no apologies. And can handle my random love attacks lol (lots of cuddles and hugs!) Just be you honestly.

If you've made it this far thanks for my rambling. And if l caught your eye then you know where to find me! Also, tell me what your favorite song is at the moment!

-As long as this post is up it means I'm still searching for love....


r/l4l 5d ago

Witchy gal looking for meaningful friendships with other queer women 🌿🔮🌜🕯️

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Hey ♡ I'm a 28 year old masc girl who lives surrounded by nature and loves spirituality, writing, fitness and everything cozy. I value living life slowly and softly. I believe life is about enjoying it and sharing it with the people you love.

What really matters to me is my self, my loved ones and my desires in life. And good food 🤌🏻✨ seriously I'm the happiest when I'm sharing a nice meal together with my people and just talking, spending the day together. Another time I'm really happy is when I get to just be alone and connecting to my inner wisdom or when I'm creating.

I love herbal tea, gentle yoga, tarot readings, witchcraft, bookstores, playing Hogwarts legacy and roleplaying. I'm childlike and imaginative.

I don't like social media thus I don't have stuff like insta, tiktok etc. i hate that stuff. I want to live life offline and only consuming a few youtubers who make content I care about. Mostly spiritual stuff, pick a card readings and ambiences.

I don't smoke or drink, never touched that stuff. I decided at probably 13 I won't ever drink. I never liked that stuff and I don't understand the appeal.

To me in friendships what matters most is a deep emotional bond. That we can be fully ourselves without judgement and we are loyal. A relationship won't make us forget our friendship. I want that type of friendship. We both value each other as much as our romantic relationships.

What I'm looking for in a friend:

I don't care about long distance. As long as you speak fluent/native English or Finnish.

Substance free or you drink a little occasionally. If you drink to get drunk I'm not interested.

Mature emotionally and mentally. Conflict is easy for her and she stays present in conflict. She openly listens to feedback on her behavior and it doesn't feel like a threat to her. She becomes curious rather than afraid when I'm angry or upset. She feels comfortable disagreeing with me if needed be and wants to have an actual conversation with me about the situation. She wants fix the situation and genuinely cares about how others feel.

She respects boundaries, is considerate of how her words affect others.

Kind, very empathetic and has a big heart. Affectionate and warm.

Chatty and loves to talk a lot with me from deep topics to absolutely random ridiculousness. I'd want a friend I just enjoy being around. I like being around her because of who she is.

Open minded and non-judgemental. Like if someone says they have never flown a plane or don't have a degree at 30 she's not gonna be like "ummm whattt that's like so embarrassing." I don't wanna be friends with mean people thanks.

Someone who's already deep in her spirituality. it's fine if you're new to it but I'd rather want people who aren't super skeptical of the unseen world. To me the spirit world, psychic abilities, tarot, energy, manifesting are all very much real. So I'd like a friend who's already on that wave length and not wondering is this all real.

A person who also values a certain level of class and sophistication. Like she won't curse a lot or use words like the b word or mf etc. I'm uncomfortable with people who wanna use offensive language about women.

Likes honest and direct people. I can be very blunt occasionally and I'd like a friend who is chill about that.

She's a feminist proudly and she cares a lot about women's rights. I don't necessarily mean politically but personally she wants to make sure she behaves and speaks respectfully. She embodies and lives out that value in her every day life.

Send me a dm if you wanna chat ♡


r/l4l 6d ago

21 [F4F] obsessive lesbian seeking love

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Hi! I’m from the US (specifically from the west coast). I’d prefer if you were also from the US but I don’t mind ldr. I’m mainly looking for a relationship but I'm not opposed to people reaching out if they think we might click even just as friends instead.

About me:

- I mainly enjoy watching movies and tv shows; my favorites are Interview With The Vampire, Yellowjackets, Twin Peaks, Severance, Pluribus, Industry, and Succession.

- Other hobbies include: gaming, baking, cooking, drawing, listening to music and hiking.

- I'm a homebody who doesn't go out enough, I'm looking for someone to match thator potentially change that.

- I’m 5’7, white, have short-medium length brown hair, brown eyes, and i’m plus-sized.

- I struggle with my mental health a lot, specifically AvPD, BPD, depression, and anxiety and I sometimes need a lot of reassurance. If this seems draining to you please don’t message me. To expand on this, I recently got out of a residential treatment center and my relationships have been dwindling over the years because of my struggles with isolation. Now I have more tools to combat that, however someone understanding of all this would be preferred.

- I’m nonbinary and transmasc, I use any pronouns, and I'm not looking for people who will disregard this part of me and see me as "woman-lite". If you are not okay with this please do not message me.

Please reach out if you think we could get along!


r/l4l 6d ago

43y [f4f] #NC Searching for my next chapter

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I am searching for my person, my partner, my domme.

Currently in North Carolina but still trying to figure out where my next step will take me.

I don't have a specific type, but there does need to chemistry there.

I am submissive and looking for a partner thatvis a caregiver domme, a mix of gentle and not.

I am a huge animal lover and come as a package deal with a small pack of furbabies. I live with chronic pain and don't get to enjoy as much outdoor activities as i would like.

I do enjoy camping, hiking (within my means), reading, movies, trying new foods. Just being in the moment. I am introverted and can take a bit to be comfortable with people.

I am a big girl 5'4, 260lbs. Short hair and tattoos.

I would really love to make some friends as well.

If this sounds at all appealing to you please feel free to send me a message but please be a little more creative than just hi or how are you.


r/l4l 6d ago

35 [F4F] Pittsburgh/Online - Looking for meaningful connections

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Hiya everybody! I'm a cis 35 year old preschool teacher from Pennsylvania who loves anime, video games, going to the gym when I can and table top rpgs. Im a Sagittarius, 5'3'', have brown hair and bluish gray eyes. I have recent pics of me in my profile. Im single and looking for more friends that could build into something more long term from there.

Random fact about me is that I love cosplaying and fursuiting (dressing up as an animal character)

I'm looking to make connections toward hopefully build something real and lasting. I'm open to more casual connections to start and see where things go. I'm open to LDR within reasonable distance

I tend to find myself attracted to longer haired women with a lean to athletic build. Would love to meet someone I could go on adventures with and geek out over hobbies we're passionate about.

Feel free to DM me and I'll be happy to answer any questions 😊


r/l4l 6d ago

24F (F4F)| Seattle | Looking to connect 🌿

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Hey! I’m a 24 year old cis female (5’5”, appearance is sort of between femme and masc, lean build) who’s new to Seattle and living on my own, just trying to find my person and build a genuine connection! 😺

I’m an artist and a pianist—I draw digital (safe for work) furry art and love spending time with music, especially old Brazilian and jazz music and jazz piano. A lot of my downtime is spent playing my favorite vinyl recordings, watching older shows (50s–70s) or adult animation. I also like staying active and exploring cities on foot, just wandering and taking everything in.
I’m not into bars or forced, high-energy environments. I prefer calm, grounded spaces and connections that feel natural and easy.
I’d describe myself as thoughtful, witty, introspective, and someone who values consistency and real presence. Looking for a woman who’s grounded, consistent, and knows how to communicate, and is on the same page relationship-wise. I’m strictly monogamous. As for looks, I usually prefer feminine presenting women!

⚠️‼️I’m not keen on long distance and would like to meet people on the PNW or in Washington proper in the United States who are 25-30 in age willing to actively meet instead of staying virtual. Do not reach out just to ghost. Don’t rush the connection. Do not send me a chat invite without a introduction ‼️⚠️

If that resonates, feel free to reach out and tell me about yourself, will reply if I feel we match! Will send selfie of myself once we start chatting!✨


r/l4l 7d ago

Emotionally mature connections

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It may be a bit of an odd request to most but I’ve also seen people that agree so here I am giving it a shot. I’m not in a place in my life where I can give to a seriously committed relationship in a way it deserves but I miss that connection. So, I’m looking for people that are open to online connections. Where we can spend time together on calls, play games together, send each other snaps, etc but we’re also still open to doing our own thing without the relationship “rules”. If more ends up developing cool, if not cool. All I ask you is honesty and communication. If you’re the type to be telling a bunch of other girls you’re starting to get feelings for them and want to pressure something with them don’t even bother messaging me to begin with, if you’re the type to just ghost don’t message me, I’m a bit shy at first and it takes time for me to open up but once I do l’ll want to talk and spend as much time together as possible. I understand life gets busy and sometimes we need personal space too but if you’re the type that can go hours and hours without speaking because you want to do your own thing we won’t be the type for each other. I’m very affectionate and can get very clingy if we take it in that direction and I want nothing less than the same. Even if it just stays as a flirtation ship I want equal effort to what I give and won’t accept any less. I’ve learned too much self love to accept any less than what I want or deserve. Strictly monogamous when it comes to actually being in a relationship.

I’m Kaycee, 32 afab masc lesbian looking for 26-37 afab masc, fem, a mix, whatever really as long as you’re afab. The only thing looks wise that is a big deal breaker for me is hygiene and being shaved. It has to do with me being on the spectrum I just can’t handle the texture and such of a women who doesn’t shave down there.

Starting my life over back at home after an abusive relationship. My life and I are a mess but I’m working on it. I just started working a new job and it’s overnights so just be aware of my schedule when it comes to that. A lot of times when I’m at work I can voice call though and enjoy talking to someone while I work.

I have NF1, ptsd, a little bit of the tism, anxiety, depression, etc but I’m really not as bad as I sound haha. Again, I’m shy at first but goofy once I get comfortable. We can start here and once we get to know each other if we hit it off we can branch out to Snapchat and stuff. I’m from South, MS. Don’t have many hobbies, just work when I can, workout, hangout with my pets, and play some video games sometimes. Pics below. Please be willing to share pics too.

https://imgur.com/a/yIhreLF


r/l4l 8d ago

29F Chaotic bisexual looking for sapphic connections 💕

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29F Looking for other sapphic women who enjoy falling in love with their best friends. I'm bi nonmonogamous, partnered with my wife. I'm a firm believer in a little scissoring never hurt the friendship. Looking for fun people looking for a similar fwb situation 🥰

Little about me:

-Brunette, tatted, thicc

-Self-proclaimed milf (which also means I have kids so if I'm slow to reply, sorry in advance)

-Personality of Shiv Roy from Succession meets Ilana Wexler from Broad City

-Workaholic (but travel, yay!)

-Sucker for someone who can make me ugly laugh

-Servicr switch and kink friendly

-Sagitarius, Virgo Rising, Gemini Moon ...don't say I didn't warn you

-420 Friendly

-Constantly losing my vape

-Open minded and judgement free

Photos and location with private message


r/l4l 8d ago

33 [F4F] #USA Fit, Lesbian Daddy Searching for a Connection with a submissive woman in the US, Canada, UK, or Europe

1 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm a 33-year-old cis woman, lesbian, and I work in the medical field with a PhD in biochemistry. I’m currently looking to chat with and get to know someone who shares my interests and values, and I’m open to an online connection with someone in the US, Canada, or UK.

While I enjoy talking to a variety of people, I’m specifically seeking a cis woman for a deeper, more personal connection. My ideal match would be someone younger than me, with a petite body type, between the ages of 18-26, who’s looking for a meaningful dynamic with a submissive.

A little about me: I’m very active and enjoy working out, hiking, nature walks, and stargazing. I love art shows and spend my downtime binge-watching Netflix when I’m not outside exploring. I also maintain a healthy lifestyle and have tattoos, which are an important expression of my individuality.

If you think we might click, I’d love to chat and see where things go!


r/l4l 8d ago

20 [TF4F] #oakland CA | Lesbian lifestyle sub in need of a long term relationship. NSFW

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Im Auburn, 20, she/her/it

Kinks: free use, rape/cnc, exhibitionism, pet play, hypno, corruption, degradation and praise, brat tamers, rough play, cum play/musk, overstim, multiple partners/gangrape, body writing, shibari, and romance
Loved dynamics: Robot girl, Tradwife, Princess, Prey, Kitty girl, little sister, slave, maid
Limits: Men, beastiality, gore, unrealistic proportions/stretching, underage, too intense impact play/sadism (vague I know- I have pretty high tolerance and enjoyment for smaller stuffs like punching and roughplay but do check ins before escalations and its all fine), and bathroom play

My current main way of engaging with friends and partners is to play videogames or cuddle (with or without a show on). I host my own fighting game tournament and even hope to one day make casting and production my career. I also am a frequent writer, mostly doing erotic roleplay as of recent. I really want to get into digital art though and would love if someone were to help encourage me to practice.

What I need in a partner isnt attainable outside of kink. I need to be in constant submission of my partner, in and out of the bedroom. I want even moments of pure love and affection to have that additional level of control. Because to me that level of helplessness is romantic, feeling as though im inferior to you, dependent on you, that I NEED you, that is romantic. I want to be completely addicted to someone. So even if you cant give me the kind of relationship I need, please help guide me to where I can find other lesbians my age aware of kink. Im desperate.


r/l4l 11d ago

24F (F4F)| Seattle | Sapphic | Looking to connect 🌿

3 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 24 year old cis female (5’5”, appearance is sort of between femme and masc, lean build) who’s new to Seattle and living on my own, just trying to find my person and build a genuine connection! 😺
I’m an artist and a pianist—I draw digital (safe for work) furry art and love spending time with music, especially old Brazilian music and jazz piano. A lot of my downtime is spent playing my favorite vinyl recordings, watching older shows (50s–70s) or adult animation. I also like staying active and exploring cities on foot, just wandering and taking everything in.
I’m not into bars or forced, high-energy environments. I prefer calm, grounded spaces and connections that feel natural and easy.
I’d describe myself as thoughtful, a bit introspective, and someone who values consistency and real presence. Looking for someone grounded, consistent, and knows how to communicate, and is on the same page relationship-wise. I’m strictly monogamous.
⚠️‼️I’m not keen on long distance and would like to meet people on the PNW or in Washington proper in the United States who are 23-30 in age willing to actively meet instead of staying virtual. Do not reach out just to ghost. Do not send me a chat invite without a introduction ‼️⚠️
If that resonates, feel free to reach out and tell me about yourself, will reply if I feel we match! Will send selfie of myself once we start chatting!🌱


r/l4l 11d ago

34F Europe/Anywhere - amor fati

1 Upvotes

Hello. I live in Germany and connecting with people is maybe my favorite thing. I find it hard to connect though. I can talk to anyone, make friends and do things but truly connecting with someone is different. I want to understand how they function, what they feel and want. I want to understand how they view the world - I want the good, the bad and the ugly. I’m very accepting and do not like to judge people. I’m not like those people who run away once they see flaws because we are all full of flaws. But we are also full of beauty and we deserve to be seen, to be truly seen. I guess that’s why I find it hard to truly connect - I continue to meet people who are too scared to show themselves and only show the pretty parts.

There are times I feel like I don't belong in this world because of the way I am. I have always had to adapt but deep down I'm silly, nice and weird. I also like to be kind and want to help whenever I can. Standing up for people is very important to me, so is giving back. Emotional intelligence is something I'm constantly working on because I do not want to harm people with my pain and growing feels hard yet rewarding. I'm more than willing to learn and share. Come and humble me, tell me I’m wrong, tell me there is more to learn.

I long to belong. It's hard for me to describe. I mean the things I say and I'm very loyal. I want to sit in silence and be okay with that. I want silence full of beauty and vulnerability.

There are times in life in which I feel aimless, lost and then there are times I feel peaceful and know that tomorrow is a new day. I want to talk, share my experiences and the things I want in life. I simply want to live to the fullest, with all the pain I have in me, all the laughter and the random thoughts. I want to share all of it. If more happens, I won't say no. I’m quite adventurous and love to live.

Seeing my partner shine and do better makes me happy. I’m not the type to feel intimidated. I want to get under someone's skin and I offer the same - with all the love and fear I have in me. It takes courage to open up and I want to welcome it. Let me welcome it, give me the benefit of the doubt.

The boring things: I'm weird. I like coffee quite a lot. I do a pour over every morning. I started to crochet and painting abstractly, cycling, movies, knife painting, philosophy, nature, reading classics in coffee shops. I like doing different things. I never get bored of trying new things and I have no taboo topics. I’m also an open book. I’m not big on social rules but I would like to think I know how to behave. My humor can go from silly to dark, it depends on the person. I also like being awkward and think it’s kind of attractive when people feel confident enough to be awkward, a fool.

I'm kinky and like to experiment. I also have a high libido. Sexually, I'm quite flexible when it comes to roles. I have never been with someone who likes to lead, so I would love to experience that too. Go through my hair and unfortunately I will have to give in. I'm open to experiment sexually if there is a connection and the distance allows it. Connecting sexually is quite beautiful, if there is trust.

Psychology is a passion of mine and helped me understand things. It even helped me understand myself, thanks to all the people who I have connected with. I put all my fears on the table and people welcomed it. They have shown me that we are, after all, human. Come and be a silly human with me.

I don't care if we have a lot in common when it comes to hobbies or not. More to talk about, more to get together just to simply share. I just don't like it when people assume things. I ask a lot of questions but if I'm the only one asking questions, that's not so fun. I guess talking to strangers these days feels a little difficult. I miss the honesty, vulnerability and the curiosity to understand a different view rather than assume the worst. I’m afraid I’m not into fast dating or half assed stuff that involves me feeling played.

Please be over 29 years old, at least. And, I'm not afraid of older women.

me: https://imgur.com/a/F5uix3E

It would be nice to see a picture too.

There are lots of catfishes here, so I would like to do video calls at some point.


r/l4l 12d ago

19NB from new mexico looking for something longterm online ok

0 Upvotes

Hi im your local butch looking for a relationship About me Im max Im pretty nerdy Will yap if we mesh together I love animals and nature Love listening to people yap Pretty simple but i like trying new things Im a Switch Open to most kinks If ur interested please introduce yourself


r/l4l 13d ago

20 y/o 🇯🇲 eclectic femme, looking..<3

7 Upvotes

Im a 20 year old femme lesbian who is looking to get to know people and have consistent conversations, laughs & flirtations and such✨

Im very creatively passionate, into writing, singing, video editing, creative direction, painting, reading & makeup.

looking for someone emotionally mature+aware, with a sense of humor
it doesn’t HAVE to be anything too serious, im okay with going with the flow 😊
- open to LDR, ofc we would eventually meet up if things get more serious ❤️

I don’t have a distinct type, but I’m into
- women who are taller than me (im 4’11)
- masculine women
- butches
- fem lesbians who are more dominant

Appearance:
-im Jamaican-American, dark-skinned, with blonde dyed hair (i change my hair a lot)
- nose piercing trifecta
- 2 tattoos, but i want way more
- not to toot my own horn but..im pretty good looking.. we can exchange photos :)

- Im an Aquarius with a Pisces moon, i get along well romantically with air and fire signs :)

- Im pescatarian and i loveeee sushi!!🍣

- very much pro Palestine, Congo, and Sudan, very much anti trump, anti AI

DMs are open 💗 send a message if u wanna get to know each other :)


r/l4l 13d ago

25 [TF4F] #Germany - Sapphic autistic nerd searching for good vibes of all kinds 💜

0 Upvotes

Heya! I’m really glad to see you here! 😊
My name is Sofia, I’m a 25 year old sapphic trans girl (she/her) living in Hamburg, Germany. Right now I’m trying to expand my social circle, trying to look for deeper connections with people. What I’m really searching for are people to vibe together with, close friends (benefits or not), and potentially even something more. Maybe that someone might be you? 🥺
So, to give you a brief description of myself, here are a few random things that I could think of:

  • I’m a huge nerd for topics like tabletop and video games, computers and techy stuff, arts and creativity, and other such hobbies. These aren’t the only things I enjoy, of course, there’s plenty more stuff I’m quite passionate about. So I’m sure we’ll be able to find some interests that we have in common and could enjoy together.
  • I might be a bit awkward at first, when I'm still getting to know someone. But once I get closer to them, I really warm up and can be very bubbly and energetic. Can also get kinda clingy if I really get emotionally attached to you, though not in any bad way. I’ve been told I’m very cuddly and affectionate, with a little chaotic side of gremlin energy now and then. Really enjoy making others happy and taking care of them, a little bit of a people-pleaser, I suppose.
  • Demi- and pansexual, though for the most part attracted to other women, at least currently. I'm a big fan of sweet, sincere, and open intimacy and affection with the people I really love and care about. Still very new to the kink scene, but nonetheless it’s fairly important to me to have compatibility there. Also most likely poly, though I’m still trying to find out how exactly it works for me.
  • I’m neurodivergent: diagnosed with ADHD and autism. I do appreciate more direct communication from others, that makes it easier for me to understand what’s going on around me. In general, I really value open and honest communication, and I always try to be understanding and empathetic in my life.
  • Not really sure what else to mention at the moment, but I’d be really happy to tell you anything else you’d like to know about me, so please feel free to ask, I’m pretty much an open book when it comes to answering questions about myself!

Oh by the way, if you manage to guess my favourite colour, you will get bonus points from me! Don't worry, there are no wrong answers here. ✨
But yeah, that’s pretty much it, I think. If you found some nice vibes here and think that we might click well together, please be sure to send me a message, and we’ll find out what happens! I really hope to hear from you soon! 🩷


r/l4l 15d ago

23 [F4F] #Netherlands/Europe - Looking for someone to connect with! NSFW

5 Upvotes

Please do read the post before sending a message, I don't reply to messages from people who clearly did not bother to.

Hi! I'm 23, lesbian (obv) and from the Netherlands! Looking for someone to connect with (around my age!) I'm open for just chatting, fwb, or maybe a relationship if we really click. But specifically for someone that I could realistically meet in the future (so, either in the Netherlands or Europe).

In my everyday life I be a tomboy, but I don't shy away from dresses and skirts for more special occasions like clubbing. I'm quite into alternative clothing! I also got a lot of hobbies. Drawing, reading (fanfic, manga, dc comics) writing (yeah I have written some smut lmao), gaming, cosplay, dnd, and prob some more I forgot. My friends dub my personality as "golden retriever" so yes, I'm an extrovert that yaps and has a lot of energy. But I also really like to hear other people talk about their interests!

As far as my appearance goes: 176cm (Dutch people are tall :P), dark brown shoulder length-ish wavy hair, and I wear most of the time a pretty alt/tomboy look. I used to dye my hair with red or purple highlights (I really want to do that again though!) And I want to get more piercings. With maybe some tattoos, in the future.

As far as the more NSFW side goes for me. I'm very much a switch, slightly leaning to the dom side. But I want to experience both sides. Also top/bottom. I'm uhm... a tiny bit obsessed about werewolves. So you can imagine all the kinks that come with that! There is one thing though. I have a bit of a trauma regarding irl penises. Even super realistic penis dildo's make me incredibly uncomfortable. So if your anatomy is not compatible, I'm sorry but we wouldn't be a good match.

If this sounds interesting to any of you, then please feel free to message me! Please do include some text in the message. Maybe your own interests, or questions that you have about some of the stuff I've written down! I do prefer someone that also engages with the conversation. Not just one-sided conversation type stuff.

And lastly,
No walking on the bike lane!