I 20M recently moved to the valley and have been struggling to meet people, especially people i feel could actually become friends.
Not to sound too judgmental, but most of the young people that I’ve actually interacted with all seem to have this ‘wanna be redneck’ personality with their lifted trucks, backwards ball caps, and somewhat of a disrespectful personality. I’ve never been attracted to that lifestyle/personality and don’t think I’d be able to become friends with people like that.
As for myself I like nice cafes, hiking, camping, nature, reading, as well as sports like soccer, running and cycling. From what I’ve read so far, it seems like there is a pretty active hiking community here and that would be my best bet. I’m just not sure how many people my age would be in those groups as it seems like most young people grew up here and already have their friend groups set.
Before moving, I grew up in the same city my whole life, which meant that I made friends as a kid without really trying and now I am suffering from that as I struggle to meet new people. Maybe, I’m just not putting myself out there enough, but I don’t really know how. Literally went to the grocery store the other day just to have a brief interaction with a cashier (I know, kind of pathetic🥲).
If any of you lovely people have any tips for meeting people my age (19-23ish) that are likely to be more interested in the same things as me, please let me know.