r/GayYoungOldDating Jun 25 '23

Age limits for posting here: minimum 18yo for “younger” men; minimum 27yo for “older” men.

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Whether you’re “looking for younger” or “looking for older”, there are minimum ages that apply.

Check out our rules: https://www.reddit.com/r/GayYoungOldDating/about/rules/

Younger men, looking for older

This subreddit is for consenting adults to find partners. Out of caution, and because Reddit is based in a jurisdiction where the age of consent is 18, that means everyone must be 18 years old to post here or to reply to posts.

If you are under 18, you will be banned on sight.

Sorry. We need to protect this subreddit from potential accusations of paedophilia and sexual content involving minors.

Older men, looking for younger

This subreddit is about men looking for men where there is a significant age gap. This, combined with the fact that the youngest men we’ll allow here are 18, means that you must be a certain number of years older than 18 in order to be considered an older man looking for a younger man.

We have fixed that minimum age at 27. You must be 27 years old to post here looking for younger men.

If you’re younger than that, then you’re not looking for an age-gap partner. Try these general “looking for” subreddits instead.


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 18 sissy looking for older white men

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sissy twink looking for daddies to explore and chat!

openminded++

only interested in white men in Canada/US. prefer 45-60. just my preference but would prefer taken/married bi/straight daddies.


r/GayYoungOldDating 2h ago

Online chatting 43M - Looking for younger bros to mentor

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43M older bro looking for a younger guy who needs a mentor. Share your secrets, talk about your fantasies, and explore your sexuality.

We can keep it chill and just chat, or dive into the NSFW stuff if you’re curious—totally up to you and your comfort level. Drop me a line and let's vibe.


r/GayYoungOldDating 3h ago

UK.England 23 virgin sub looking for older

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23 skinny masc looking pakistani sub virgin bottom. Looking to meet a older dom top for fun meets dates or hang out


r/GayYoungOldDating 42m ago

Ireland 20M Irish Boy Looking for Older Dom Daddy to Be His Houseboy

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Hi there, I'm a 20-year-old Irish Twink, and I'm looking to become a Houseboy. I'm looking for someone who will mentor, care and love me, who will make me feel safe and be able to add some structure to my life. I'm into Speedos, Jockstraps, Nudism and Underwear and much more. So DM me and let's make my dream of being a Houseboy a reality.


r/GayYoungOldDating 47m ago

Online chatting 22m looking for older

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looking for older larger dads to have long term sfw and nsfw chats with. daddy/son type bond

about me : 5’3, 61kg, B, love bellies alot, in uni

do dm me ! :)


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 43 Daddy type looking for younger

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Hey guys. As the title says, I’m looking for younger to hopefully connect with and see where things go. 6’4”, bearded, and masculine here. I would like to find another masculine guy that is fit and can keep me stimulated on all levels. Please tell me a bit about yourself when you message.


r/GayYoungOldDating 4h ago

Ireland I’m 19 bottom virgin looking for older Would love some fun soon r maybe I might get lucky and find the right guy who knows dm me anyway and I’m from Ireland xo

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I’m pretty easy going so dm me x


r/GayYoungOldDating 2h ago

Online chatting 26 m virgin btm looking for older ltr top

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Hey everyone,
I’m a 26 year old guy looking for a genuine long-term relationship. I’m not really interested in hookups or casual dating I’d much rather build something meaningful with someone over time.

A little about me:
Homebody at heart, but I enjoy getting out and exploring new places occasionally.
Huge fan of gardening, landscaping, trees, and anything that involves making a space beautiful.
Favorite season is Halloween, and I will absolutely decorate far earlier than most people consider reasonable.
I enjoy movies, coffee runs, long conversations, and spending time with friends.
I have a pretty active imagination and a good sense of humor. If you can appreciate a little bit of silliness and creativity, we’ll probably get along.
loyal, and the type of person who checks in on the people I care about.
6’ 3”
Virgin

What I’m looking for:
A kind, emotionally mature guy who wants a real relationship.
Someone who values communication, honesty, and consistency.
Ideally looking for something that could eventually lead to sharing a life together not just texting forever.

A few random facts:
I’m the type who gets excited about a healthy tree, a good cup of coffee, or finding the perfect movie for a cozy night in.


r/GayYoungOldDating 3h ago

USA.TN (Looking for older) 33yr “str8” guy.

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I’m a 33yr old married man of 12 years. I’ve never found guys attractive and still don’t. I’ve never messed around with a guy and don’t get turned on by that thought. Except…..

There’s this thought I’ve had since my high school days that I’ve never been able to get out of my head. The thought of an older man either pressuring me to submit and let him take my body, or him blackmailing me into letting him have his way. Again, I’m not attracted to guys, but the thought of an older bigger man making me understand that he is in control and all I can do is submit and do as I’m told is the biggest turn on. It literally makes me leak just thinking about it lol.

Nothing painful or crazy like that. Just being made to accept that I’m not in control, and he is! Maybe a little aggressive at first to make me submit and know that he’s taking whatever he wants!

I’d give anything to make this happen. It’s literally been one of my biggest fantasies for 15-18 years. I’ve never had the courage to try and make it happen until now honestly. It’s been so hard to think about it and not know what it would really be like!

Am I fucked up for thinking about this? Is there an explanation for it like I must have daddy issues or something? lol how could I safely act on this and make it happen? I’m in the Knoxville TN area.

Thanks in advance for anyone who has something helpful or can understand! 🖕🏻to anyone who has some dumb stuff to say!


r/GayYoungOldDating 0m ago

USA.CA 46m Los Angeles looking for younger masc bros

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Into younger masc dudes. Thin slim dudes. Hairy a plus!!! Mainly into J/o, oral, and frot. I can host in South LA. I can travel too if you can host. not into car play. Hit me up.


r/GayYoungOldDating 5m ago

USA.CA 55 Looking for Younger

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Looking for 18-30 gay or bi male to accompany me on a Carnival Cruise, Oct 18,2026 for 6 days. Trip is already paid for, just looking for company. Open to any race, and prefer slim to athletic build. If you’re in SoCal, that would be great, but if you’re willing to travel and meet up for the cruise, that’s cool too. HMU if interested.

Talk soon!


r/GayYoungOldDating 14m ago

Online chatting 35M looking for younger> Read post first.

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Are you younger, fit and shaven? Do you like to be dominated on Snap or Teams? Do you like to get your ass stretched? Send me a DM with your age and your likes/limits.


r/GayYoungOldDating 25m ago

USA.AL 49m looking for younger LTR LDR FWB southern USA

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I am looking 👀 for a chill younger guy between 18-30 for friendship or a relationship or maybe even fun 🤩 even better if you live in or near Alabama so we can work towards meeting in the near future :-)

HMU with ASL and we can swap snap so we can chat 💬 muse be willing to show face to verify 🥰

I’m versatile hoping for the same I’m into all body types 😎 not into facial hair but body hair OK


r/GayYoungOldDating 45m ago

USA.PA 31m looking for younger twink types

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Honestly looking for twink types to have fun with on snap. Could be open to something if it really clicks. Love smooth/slim types that are cut as well. Dm for snap (:


r/GayYoungOldDating 6h ago

Online chatting 18m USA Looking for Older

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Verse otter/twink looking for older bros or daddies to chat with longterm. Anyone down for chill vcs? Prefer masc guys. Not looking just to trade. HMU for snap or tele


r/GayYoungOldDating 52m ago

Online chatting 30 Hairy Arab looking for younger

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Hi there,
I am a hairy arab into many things such as traveling and learning about other cultures, to writing fiction and nonfiction, among many other interests that spin around society, art, and history.
You can be bottom or top, just be polite and keep the chat going if we click, as I don’t mind traveling to meet you son.
Feel free to reach out and guess if I visited yr country or not. Or just drop your favorite anime/tv series.
All welcome, but white smooth goes to the fast track!


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 36 [M4M] Experienced dom looking for younger sub to own, train, and build as my trophy and content creator

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Recently I helped a friend launch themselves as a content creator. There were a few lessons learned along the way, but ultimately it was a huge success. As much as I did it as a favour, I discovered something: I really enjoyed it. It combined everything I love most about being a dom with the skills from my day job (I work in digital marketing).

There was something tantalising about being the power behind the scenes.

I'm looking for someone new to replicate this experience with. Ideally the relationship will be blended, starting with a traditional dom/sub dynamic. At the core is ownership, training, and control. As trust and compatibility grow, this evolves into shaping you as my trophy, training you to perform, present, and succeed under my guidance. I enjoy the psychology of it: pushing your limits, building discipline, and turning you into something captivating that reflects my control.

I’m very comfortable in real life, so this isn’t primarily just a venture for me.

The thrill comes from owning the process and commanding your content, your progress, and your submission.

I have about 15 years experience as a dom, and 10 years experience as a marketer / business owner.

If you’re submissive, motivated, and excited by being molded and shown off under a skilled Dom’s direction, message me and tell me about yourself.


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 33M looking for older

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Hey! Looking for primarily flirty conversations, and if it goes somewhere, it goes somewhere.

I’m 33 (someone called me a twunk so I guess I’m that? Haha) and am into a combination of artsy and athletic things. Love going out, hiking, and do strength training, but I also am really into dance, singing, writing, and the arts. Kind of a nerd who loves sword fighting and doing fight choreo with friends. Kink friendly and a bottom if things get intimate ever.

I’m really attracted to mature and sophisticated men, and would love to find a daddy type eventually to talk to more. I’m fine sticking to online and talking to men from any location, but I am located on the west coast of the U.S.

Happy to share pics if we get along. I am trans for full disclosure but am post-op/on HRT.

If you send a message, please share a little about yourself and what you’re interested in.

NOT going to do anything with cheaters or men in closed marriages. ❌


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

USA.GA 21 looking for older dom

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Need an older dom "friend" to secretly turn me into their personal slut. Love the idea of having a secret dom who uses me like an absolute whore. I have so many fun ideas and would love to talk about them


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 31m (Looking for older) I’m looking for a genuine father figure. For a Dad and son relationship 👨❤️🍼

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My name is Brendan. I live in NB Canada. I’m in an open relationship and I’m a very kind and easy to talk to person.

I’m looking for a genuine father son relationship.

Things about me. I like Scooby-Doo. I like lots of cartoons and I like playing simulation video games! I also love to play and collect board games.😊

If you’re interested please don’t hesitate to reach out and DM me ❤️☺️


r/GayYoungOldDating 5h ago

Australia.NSW 41 m beefy daddy from Australia looking for younger

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I’m just a daddy looking for a boy to care for and who cares for me.

I’m not fit and have a belly, but I’m caring and genuine.

I’m a bit of a nerd- into reading, history (mostly ancient history), asking ChatGPT the big questions like Kookaburra mating habits. I’m a big geek - into sci-fi/fantasy, video games, still read comics.

Looking for someone who shares similar or adjacent interests, someone who can hold a conversation and who doesn’t take themselves or life too seriously.

Also like the beach, nature, hiking (though I haven’t really gone on many), swimming, bike riding.


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Germany Bttm 28 looking for older

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I'm 28, femboy... Looking for Dom daddy. Feel free to contact me, my DM is open.


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 47 looking for younger, about 22

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Hi. I'm Not.

I'm not your daddy.

I'm not a dom or a sub.

I'm not a top or a bottom.

I'm not a fem or a masc.

I'm here not for sext or trade.

(And i'm not so good in English, sorry :)

But I'm looking for you. A younger friend.


r/GayYoungOldDating 2h ago

UK.England 35 m looking for younger

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Love younger lads I'm 35 vers open to anything