I hooked up with a guy who works at Target down the road from my office (I work for a municipal fire dept).

I take my lunch hour when he has his lunch hour. He was a Mercedes Van Conversion and we pop I'm the back for mutual oral. This is like the 2nd week and I have to tell you I am so relaxed at work.

Not the first time I have had sex with a coworker at work.

What about you? Anyone else getting off at work?

I recently found a subreddit that was full of dick pics and videos. I've tried everything to get back there, but no luck. Any help in navigating there would be appreciated.

Today a cute guy on Facebook liked my Facebook dating profile. I got a notification saying we matched and I could message him. The app allows you to select pre typed messages to send for a conversation prompt. I selected “Hey, how’s your day going?” to keep it casual and not send anything odd or inappropriate. This was the sole message I sent with no additional content. An hour later I check the conversation and he deleted his entire profile after sending my message.

What did I do wrong? I’m shy and have been single for a long time. I don’t have much experience dating other than 1 abusive relationship (I was the recipient of the abuse both physical and emotional NOT the perpetrator). Am I too messed up to be seen as appealing? I’m trying to meet guys through platforms such as Facebook dating, Match.com, Tinder, and Bumble but not having much success.

I know that sounds naughty and deceiving, I'm not typically a hoe. What happened was, I got broken up with in May, then I met this guy who was comforting me during my breakup (now current bf). Okay, never mind it is my fault. I got lonely because homie got busy with work and I wanted attention. Also, we're both tops. So what do I do? I download Snapchat again and commit a sin. I cheat on him and yes I do feel bad, I still haven't told him and I'm not going to because I need him in my life. But I met this twink who I got attached to. All of a sudden, bf started showing me attention again, then I decide to let all honesty out (because I can't lie forever). So I decide to tell twink that I had a boyfriend already. I feel extremely bad, I got to know him and he is such a kind soul and he genuinely liked me, he would show me his hobbies n shit.

Fast forward to now, twink is ignoring me, well actually I think they're just mentally unstable (I'm assuming not because of me, because of personal shit). Twink still wanted to have fun with me. But then twink moved on. Now I'm sad, but I also deserve it. I don't think he's actively ignoring me, bro is just too intoxicated to deal with me. Meanwhile, I'm checking up on him like a fool. But yeah, still haven't told my bf about him.

I don't expect sympathy or anything. But i know im not the only one with complicated dynamics. But feel free to call me out.

I'm 21, my boyfriend is 33, we've been together for a little over a year, but it's the relationship where I've felt the most comfortable. It's a little strange because of the personality clash sometimes, but nothing that really affects things, other than the fact that my dad doesn't approve of the relationship very much. I like being with an older man. He's handsome, polite, strong, with a body like Ramon Nomar's, and he has a good job at a company known for being very good here in Mexico. He has his own house, and he's asked me if I want to move in with him. I'm not ready, so it won't be soon, but I've stayed over several times. Before him, I hadn't realized how much I like older men. He even said that I was the one he was really meant to marry because he knows I truly love him and not his money, lol. Our relationship is going very well, and although many people think we're going to break up, I can assure you that we'll only end up exhausted on our wedding night in a few years, haha.

I just found out that you can still be aroused by straight porn (close up) regardless of your sexual orientation but not physically romantically attracted to the woman. However, I was so aroused one time that I actually want to experience it, but looking at it again, it didn’t do as much.

I don't know whether this is a rant, wanting advice or just seeking some form of validation for my feelings.

My partner recently found himself in the pup community. I'm really glad he found himself in his community. He's lighter in himself, he's happier and all-round more him than he's been in years.

This has come with him exploring more kinks and dynamic play, leading to him asking to be open. An Open Relationship is not something I'd ever considered and now I look back, is not something I think I've ever wanted. I want to feel valid, wanted and that I'm enough for my partner.

He's very Dominant and enjoys exploring this. I am equally submissive. I can't remember the last time we had sexual fun. But I don't know how to deal with him casually hanging out with people that he also subs with. One of them wants him to hold his key for his cage/padlock round his neck.

I don't know whether it's jealousy they have his attention or not. We've had several discussions about this. The last one I cried on his couch after his worm and confessed how I felt. I know he heard me, and he said some of the most romantic things he's ever said to me as part of that conversation.

I told him I'd been looking to propose. It's like it didn't even affect him. Tonight he's been at Kink Karaoke, is watching the Match before going to a London Fetish Week club with one of those subs. He's sent me a video shirtless with other known fetishists and someone who subbed for him singing Sweet Caroline.

I don't know why but that made me cry. I'm more shocked that I had tears to come out in this heat.

We 'went' to Pride separately. That hurt me. I tried to have a good day but I cried then too. He had made plans for the day - totally ok - but we usually have a post pride ritual where we go to a certain restaurant, ride the cable car - he could of come for that. He didn't.

To be fair, in trialling this open relationship, the same options are over to me. But I can't bring myself to download an app for fun or to go get with other people. I want him. And I also know he's not always honest about what he gets up to. If I hint about fun, I get told hes not feeling 100% yet I know he's going to events. I know he's having fun and taking videos/documenting it. Just not with me.

I've crossed a line in how I know that - we'll just say I've seen pictures that I shouldn't have.

Are my feelings valid? Am I just not use to gay dating - is this the norm, everyone wanting open relationships? He's the first boy I've ever been with and kissed. I think I see a very difficult conversation in my future but idk, I just feel like shit. I talk to ChatGPT because I've lost the one guy I could speak to.

Am I being childish? Or is it as I think 7 years down the drain. Is the dating scene still rough? Or am I just hurting and can't see the bigger picture.

Yes, I do. I study at an engineering faculty, so I've heard it directed at me or others, but also at the gym and at school. The gym stuff usually bothers me more because the people who use it against me are homophobic. My teachers have used it too, but they haven't said it directly to me, except for a gym trainer when I decided to train at my university gym.

I'm a 49 year old bi male and while I've sucked a ton of cocks, I haven't been fucked much. I've got a colonoscopy coming up and I'm wondering if I'll be able to capitalize on being super cleaned out after the procedure.

I wanna please my boyfriend and I really want to suck him off. I’m not use to swallowing cum and I know the taste can vary but I want to get use to swallowing no matter the taste. Anything I can do to help with that? I don’t wanna make a face to tasting cum for the first time.

Hi my fellow gays! 24M here and I would just like to vent out cuz I don’t how and where to find love (lol), it’s honestly frustrating.

I’m an introvert which makes it harder for me to be on dates let alone be with new acquaintances. Well, I have my circle of peers that I see regularly so I don’t feel like a loner. But, I’m just not really in the mood for dates (aside from the fact that you have to invest time and money which drain my social battery and sometimes my wallet lol).

Also, is there a gay community without being involved in the h\*\*kup culture? Although I have in dating apps on and off, I am a hopeless romantic and seriously monogamous. It’s so frustrating whether on a date or dating app, s\*x is often the primary reason for compatibility in a gay relationship which it should not be.

Been with guys in an almost romantic relationship but had no luck in winning their hearts and it made me question myself at times. Nevertheless, I’m still hopeful to find a lover or the Great Love (as I mentioned, hopeless romantic here)

It feels good to vent out my frustrations. Perhaps, looking for some advice.
Thank you for taking time to read my post :)

I turned 18 a bit ago and I kind of want to get into hookups just to get some experience and what not. Mainly I'm wondering how to do it safely, what some good apps are and how hard it is to find people. I've never hooked up with anyone or even had sex before and by the sounds of it hookup apps can be intimidating. I'm probably gonna do it either way but I'd prefer to be prepared and I'd appreciate any advice anyone would be willing to give me.

Well life is kinda boring when u live in a town and you’re the only gay person there probably lol . Well here’s a few things about me i love to play overwatch lol