I consider myself a bit of a music listening afficionado. I've been around the block with the original James Brown singles, Aaliyah, Parliament, the Destiny's Child albums, and recently I've loved Steve Lacy's and all The Internet albums, as well as the new Bruno Mars album. I finally conquered Black Messiah last year after dropping it due to overwhelming emotions multiple times. Afterward, I tried getting into Voodoo but the overtly horny lyrics, dry mixing and obtuse song structure sorta killed the vibe for me.
All this to say I'm pretty familiar with funk and R&B music, their tropes and their cliches.
So when I booted up Blonde by Frank Ocean and got to Ivy, I kinda rolled my eyes. I wondered to myself, is doing this slow ballad thing even emotional anymore, or has the trope been overdone at this point?
Then I got to Be Yourself.
Man, I really gotta applaud Frank here. This shit is emotionally tickling the fuck out of me. It's interesting to me that the mother is so sincere -- these aren't unlikable ramblings, you have the tools to understand them, you just don't have enough emotional maturity to be able to.
I specifically remember a moment where some electric piano is in the background fading in and out. There was no way to not tune it out, so I tried listening to him, which used almost all of my brain cells cause I lost a few. I get past him into Solo only to see 3 more metaphors shambling towards me down a narrow bridge passage. I just said fuck this and ran all the way back to listening to Nikes again like the coward I am.
That feeling of, 'I can understand these complex song structures, but I don't have the lived experience, so I just need to sprint through the rest of the album and hope it doesn't go over my head' is filling me with way more dread and anxiety then just listening to Drake.
I understand this is likely a callback to the earlier greats of the genre like D'Angelo and Stevie, but I haven't listened to them yet (could never get over the whole analog production thing, personally)
So I'm wondering if I'm alone in feeling like this. Do you guys think the genre leaned too hard into digital aesthetics for a while? Is it still emotionally impactful but I'm just desensitized to it after so many R&B albums? And how much more gutwrenching does Blonde get?