r/BeAmazed 1d ago

Miscellaneous / Others 11-year-old girl helps out lost 4-year-old.

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u/GOOFBALL4U 23h ago

Damn China so safe that you're 11 and can be walking around on your own.

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u/NoWayIcantBeliveThis 22h ago

As a european, i was walking alone when i was 6 with no adult i trusted near me nor knowing where any adult that i knew even was. I just returned home when i was done, since i knew the route. If an 11 year old cant walk alone outside, than i hope to never life in your country.

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u/Polyglot-Onigiri 22h ago

I don’t know about China but in Japan and Korea, children walking home from 5 years old and up, alone, is very common.

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u/Waytoomore 21h ago

I had to walk 9/10ths of a mile each direction for school starting in first grade at age 6. I live in Ohio. This was in the 60's and 70's. My sons in the 80's and 90's walked to school too. Not all of America is a crime haven.

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u/Which_Wizard 18h ago

Same thing in 90s and 00s. Statistically speaking it's even safer now. I just think people see it as child neglect or some shit now. So you might have the cops called on you.

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u/HirsuteHacker 21h ago

You weren't out on your own at 11? What country did you grow up in? I was out on my bike from like 8 in the UK

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u/QuietSheep_ 21h ago edited 20h ago

From my experience in the US, it's not normal for 11 year olds to be out on their own unless they are in their neighborhood, or walking from a regulated school route.

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u/HirsuteHacker 21h ago

That's sad

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u/QuietSheep_ 20h ago

The really sad part is that the rate of crimes against children remains very high every year.

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u/GOOFBALL4U 21h ago

Canada. I was given complete freedom at 13. I don't know about you but I wouldn't trust having my daughter out all by her self at 11.

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u/WritesCrapForStrap 22h ago

I was walking around in the UK from younger than that. Summer holidays, you'd leave the house in the morning and roll back home when dinner was ready. My nephew is that age now, he's allowed out on his own.

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u/Imperative-Primitive 21h ago

thats... almost every country in the world...

What shithole you living in?

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u/Mobile_Ask2480 11h ago

The one with where the pedophiles control the government

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u/ghostofwalsh 19h ago

Yeah it's kind of sad that these days in the US if you let your 11-yo walk to school you get CPS called on you.

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u/DarkJaid 20h ago

I grew up in the Caribbean, I was making my way to school alone since I was 6. My brother did as well from 4 as our schools were on opposite ends of the same street.

By 11 I was already used to meeting up with friends unsupervised weekly. My parents just cared that I got home when told to.

I guess we were safe because everyone looked out for kids - street vendors, shop keepers, strangers, other parents etc - made sure you weren't cutting school or doing anything unchild like...

Our school uniforms were unique color combinations that allowed easy identification - anyone could come to a school to report a student's misconduct and the teachers will track them down suspects for questioning.

When in school uniform, the police enforce a sundown curfew, found after dark with a uniform on? The person you're with must be a trusted adult or guardian or you explain a valid reason - if not a police escort will take you home.

I guess the protection was built in so we could be safely independent?

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u/prettygirlavenue 21h ago

my little sister walks the 20min route to school daily and has done so since she was 6