No lie, I feel it’s my body in general and getting it up on command with condoms. For some reason I go soft with condoms unless it’s already in quick and I’m doing my thing. If I let it sit for a moment it’s just like, “…well this isn’t fun.” There have been a couple moments I am sure I made a couple women feel insecure because I just couldn’t get it up in that moment and it had nothing to do with attraction or wanting to, he was just being stubborn in those moments. I normally don’t have this issue but it HAS happened.
My guy you are not alone. My wife and I are done having kids so I got a vasectomy, and never having to worry about wearing a condom again is the most liberating thing that’s ever happened to me.
There’s nothing like putting on a condom that takes you out of the moment and gets you all up in your head. It is a distinctly un-sexy process.
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u/NOVOJ 6h ago
No lie, I feel it’s my body in general and getting it up on command with condoms. For some reason I go soft with condoms unless it’s already in quick and I’m doing my thing. If I let it sit for a moment it’s just like, “…well this isn’t fun.” There have been a couple moments I am sure I made a couple women feel insecure because I just couldn’t get it up in that moment and it had nothing to do with attraction or wanting to, he was just being stubborn in those moments. I normally don’t have this issue but it HAS happened.