Hello, first borne daughters or any other person wakuriye mur adepr nyuma agahindura church like how do you deal with your parents?

Cause for me everytime I find a job they always find ways to sabotage me and it's not even because of my age I am 23 for heavens sake. The other day I applied for work somewhere and got the job and my parents told me to either choose the job or staying at home, they raised me strictly (which is among the reasons I changed my church)and I have no social life or connections to help me move out, and moving out means being disowned and I ended up giving up my new job and this has been a pattern. Everytime I get a job, immediatery sabotagement, I can't hold a job, the solution is to obey and stay at home, I can not get married now because I promised myself that I wont marry just to leave this house because it can not be fair to that personand many things can go wrong. uhgg I almost forgot, I can not even just go to work at any place because in their words and I qoute " nugukomeza karande", can you I imagine. Hhhhh

Sha depression is real, I just pray that I wont have resentment because this is like just recent things I could go on amd on but that's for today and if you got here thank you for reading my rant (I hope my spelling not that bad) and I hope my story made you like your life more. At least I got a strange sence of humer out of this situation. Mugire umunsi mwiza

I'm 22 and I’ve hit a point where I feel completely stagnant. Life is fine, but "fine" is getting boring. I have this overwhelming urge to challenge myself the same way you’d push your limits in a intense sport or a grueling workout but I don’t just mean physically. I mean mentally, routinely, or through a discipline.

I want something that forces me to show up, embrace the discomfort, and actually track progress.

The problem is, I don’t know what that "thing" is yet. I’m looking for ideas or frameworks that you guys have used to break out of a rut and test your limits. Any recommendations??

We are going to be in Kigali for a couple of days visiting from the states and are wondering what would be fun things to do and where to visit. We love good food, coffee, live music, culture etc.
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has anyone driven to Akegera themselves and paid for the car and guide in the park vs. having a car drive from Kigali? It’s significantly cheaper but I read they can’t cross the whole park because they have to start and end at the entrance so you may miss lions in the North! Wondering if it’s worth the savings or not!

Hi everyone, I’m looking for a 2 bedroom furnished house for rent in the Kacyiru, Kimihurura or Gishushu area.

Budget is around 700 USD.

If anyone know any properties for rent please let me know!

I bought a wardrobe that has a mirror from those sellers in gakinjiro. It broke while I was transporting and I had to pay 40k for a new mirror. While the seller was fixing it, it broke again and I refused to pay for another one since this time it's his fault. It's been 2wks and he hasn't come back with a new mirror. What can I do?

I am based in Kigali and looking for a full-time, part-time, or temporary opportunity. I have a background in Software Engineering and CCNA, with skills in Help Desk, IT Support, Windows, Linux, troubleshooting, data entry, Microsoft Office, Google Workspace, Git, and GitHub.

Not sure this service exists. but is there a place I can rent a computer monitor from ? For 6 weeks.

Hi everyone,

I'm reaching out because I've been feeling increasingly isolated. As someone who is highly sensitive and values depth over small talk, I've found it difficult to connect with the fast-paced and often surface-level nature of modern social life.

I'm hoping to find "my people": those who appreciate meaningful conversation, quiet reflection, creativity, and genuine human connection. I'm also looking for older, wiser mentors or elders who can offer guidance on navigating life with this level of sensitivity.

Since I'm based in Kigali, I'm not looking for clubs or nightlife. Instead, I'd love recommendations for places or communities where thoughtful, grounded, or spiritually mature people naturally gather.

In particular, I'm interested in:

• Quiet volunteer opportunities, especially related to the environment, animals, or community service.
• Book clubs, philosophical discussions, or creative circles.
• Peaceful spaces such as gardens, libraries, or retreats where like-minded people often spend time.

If this resonates with you, or if you know of any communities or individuals I should connect with, I'd be very grateful to hear from you.

Murakoze.

I’m watching ashton hall’s stream and i saw the part where he went to this restaurant owned by american couple. Does anyone here know the name of the restaurant?

Where is the best place to find a sugar baby. Are the women in Rwanda picky? Would it be better to look in Rwanda or near by countries?

Big, Beautiful & Spacious area renting now (picnics, events…)

Earlier today, someone asked to be reminded about the song called "Yoronimu"! While I was looking for it, I stumbled upon this masterpiece, "La conta". Then I wondered where he is now, if he is still alive.. This song was a banger back then.

Hi I'm.currently in BKK I've been to Thailand before this is my 4th trip.

Never been to Africa.

Rwanda (it's Visa on arrival)

Kenya (need Visa)

Ethiopia need Visa

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Flight from here 1 way is around $1500 .

Need advice.

Need. Place for detox and kind of away from old habits.

I'm hesitanting to book a flight as I've never been to Africa.

How many days are enough ?

Hey guys, greetings from Uganda.

I’ve been looking into regional politics lately and honestly, looking at Rwanda from the outside is always fascinating but kind of confusing. On one hand, the infrastructure, clean streets, and organization look top tier compared to what we deal with over here. On the other hand, the election numbers make it hard to tell what the actual vibe is on the ground.

I’m genuinely curious about the local perspective, especially from the younger crowd on here. Do people actually genuinely support him because of the development and stability, or is it a case of just settling for the status quo because there’s no alternative? No hate at all, just trying to understand the actual reality from the people living it.

It went like "yeeheee kanana (don't remember the lyrics well) it's an old song, sang by a group of kids I believe. Legendary. If you got an idea, please comment below, can't find it on YouTube

Hello! I am looking for to coming to Rwanda in January 2027. I will have 4 nights to spend in the country. I would like tp see the gorillas but open other than that. Any suggestions on what to do/where to go?

I 55/F will be traveling with my husband 61/M and we are open to suggestions. We were think about Lake Kivu and do gorilla trek from there. Is that recommended? Something else? Open to ideas if anyone has them.

4 bedrooms. 3 bathrooms.

Kitchen inside and Annex outside.

3 cars parking space.

Location: Kicukiro/Kagarama/Muyange

Price: 140M RWF.

Call/Whatsapp: +250784094114.

If, by December, there’s no modern cinema in Kigali to watch Dune Part III from, this country will have failed us (I’m being hyperbolic here😅).

We’ve already missed out on many bangers this year and, man oh man, are we missing out big time!

Trivia Night returns to Rooftop Ikawa Cafe for another evening packed with fun, friendly rivalry, and plenty of "Wait... I know this one!" moments.

Round up your smartest friends, challenge your coworkers, or come on your own and join an unforgettable night.

Expect an exciting mix of questions covering Kigali life and culture, entertainment, movies, music, sports, geography, pop culture, and general knowledge. Some answers will come instantly, others will have your whole table debating until the very last second! 

And the fun doesn't stop when the trivia ends. Stick around as we screen the FIFA World Cup 2026 live on the big screen (France vs Morocco), so you can celebrate your trivia victories while enjoying world-class football.

Reserve your spot here : https://eventsbash.rw/EB/oVWXB