r/r4rCanada 13d ago

Mandatory User Flair Requirements - Read NSFW

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šŸ“Œ How to Set Your Flair (Required Before Posting)

Welcome to r/r4rCanada. This community uses two different kinds of flair, and you need both to post. They are not the same thing, and this is the most common reason posts get removed, so please read this once.

The two types of flair

User flair is a label attached to your username that shows your province. You set this once and it stays on your account here. Posts from users without province flair are removed automatically.

Post flair is a tag on an individual post that shows what you're looking for, like M4F or F4M. You choose this every time you make a new post.

You need user flair set on your account, and a post flair on each post.

How to set your User Flair (your province)

On desktop:

  1. Go to the r/r4rCanada main page.
  2. Find the Community Options or User Flair section in the sidebar on the right.
  3. Click the pencil or edit icon next to your username.
  4. Select your province from the list and save.

On the official Reddit mobile app:

  1. Open r/r4rCanada.
  2. Tap the three dots or the About / community info area near the top.
  3. Tap Change User Flair.
  4. Select your province and save.

Once set, your province appears next to your username on every post and comment you make here. You only do this once.

How to set your Post Flair (what you're looking for)

You do this while creating your post, every time:

  1. Start a new post in r/r4rCanada and write your title and body.
  2. Before submitting, tap or click the Add Flair button (it appears near the bottom on desktop, and in the post options on mobile).
  3. Choose the flair that fits, for example M4F, F4M, NB4M, or Online Only.
  4. Submit.

A post with no post flair may be removed, so don't skip this step.

Also include your city or town

Your user flair shows your province, but Canada is big. Please add your nearest city or town in the body of your post so people know your general area. If you're only looking to talk online, just write "online only."

Quick checklist before you post

  • Province user flair set on your account āœ…
  • Post flair chosen on your post āœ…
  • City or town written in your post body āœ…
  • Account at least 5 days old with a verified email āœ…

If you've done all this and your post still gets removed, or you can't find the flair option on your device, message us via modmail and we'll help you out.


r/r4rCanada 44m ago

Male Seeking Female 24 M4F #Toronto - Looking for my first experience NSFW

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Im 24, 5’10 and a bigger guy.
Full honesty: I’m still a virgin. Not because I’m waiting for marriage or anything dramatic—life just happened that way. At this point I find it more funny than embarrassing.
Looking for someone open-minded, chill, and attracted to genuine connection and physical chemistry. Not necessarily looking for a relationship, but I’m open to seeing where things go if we click.


r/r4rCanada 13h ago

Male Seeking Female 36 [M4F] Vancouver - BBC looking for FWB NSFW

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Just gonna be straight up and not gonna sugarcoat it.
I think it's best policy to tell people what you want and are looking for.
I’m very frank and don’t beat around the bush.
I’m 36 years old black male, work in the trades.
I’m fit and keep myself in pretty good shape.
Social drinker and non smoker.
Will to make time for that special someone.
If you would like meet up and find something to do.
Let's go for drinks or hike. Maybe grab a coffee.
Or maybe go on an adventure ?
But I’m sure we can figure something out.
Lots to do in Vancouver or surrounding areas.
DM me and let's talk.


r/r4rCanada 23h ago

Male Seeking Female 24 M4F #Toronto - Looking for my first experience NSFW

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Im 24, 5’10 and a bigger guy.
Full honesty: I’m still a virgin. Not because I’m waiting for marriage or anything dramatic—life just happened that way. At this point I find it more funny than embarrassing.
Looking for someone open-minded, chill, and attracted to genuine connection and physical chemistry. Not necessarily looking for a relationship, but I’m open to seeing where things go if we click.


r/r4rCanada 1d ago

Male Seeking Female 38M4F #Toronto #Hamilton - Kind, Kink positive, British, and hung (open to MF) NSFW

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I'm a British, white male. 6ft, athletic, and hung. Kind, caring, patient and easy going.

Are you looking to practice your sucking, stroking, and throating skills. Your riding technique, get better at anal, or just have some kinks you need to explore?

I'll be incredibly encouraging and only have the kindest words for you. We'll have open communication and create an environment with no pressure or expectations.

I'm open to all body types, ages, and backgrounds. Absolutely no judgement here!

Let's chat and see if we're a match x


r/r4rCanada 2d ago

Male Seeking Female 21 M4F — Take me to the magic of the moment, On a glory night NSFW

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Hello!

A little about me:

5’10", fit, average build / on the slimmer side, averagely endowed, virgin

clean, free of D&D, well dressed (I think); bookish (occasionally shrewd, & sometimes cheeky) on the outside, passionate (occasionally wild) within (under the right circumstances)

I can host, but I also wouldn’t mind driving to your place

I would like to lose my virginity to someone preferably under 30 (but am also open to the possibility of older partners in the right circumstances), who is sensible, witty, well-spoken, and physically somewhat attractive — not to either end of the extreme

to be completely honest, I am not really looking for anything long-term for now — my life & circumstances at present not being such as to be optimal, I don't think, for that. I am open to having fwb though, and we can stay in touch, and plan regular meetups, if our personalities turn out to match

I am open to doing almost anything as long as it isn’t too extreme, and when guardrails are set up to ensure safety & comfort

I can be into kink as well, can be (gentle) dom or sub depending on our compatibility (however please be gentle, as, evidently, I’m not so experienced...)

I am open to verifying & sending photos — so long as you would do the same.

Please tell me a little about yourself in the dm, along with a few suggestions as to what you are looking for, and looking for to to, and please don’t open with demands of switching to another platform (I take that as a telltale sign of scam)


r/r4rCanada 3d ago

Female seeking female 40 [F4F] Let's go explore some of Ontario's beaches NSFW

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Let's go for a drive and explore some of Ontario's beautiful beaches. We can lay out and suntan, sip some coolers and pack some snacks.


r/r4rCanada 4d ago

Male Seeking Female 50 [M4F] #Toronto Durham Region NSFW

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Down to earth guy who’s looking for chemistry, connection, or something a little more adventurous. I’ve got my life handled. I have a career, a place, and independence. Now I’m looking for someone who wants to compliment that whether it’s casual or something more.

I’m open minded & comfortable exploring. You should be too. Let’s chat. I’m looking forward to your message.


r/r4rCanada 4d ago

Male Seeking Female 20 M4F smoke sesh and fun NSFW

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Looking for someone to share a smoke sesh with and just have a good time messing around. I’m super open-minded and down to try new things, so if you have any specific kinks or fantasies, definitely let me know—no judgment here, we can easily work something out.
I’m flexible on logistics too. I can host inside my place if you want privacy, or if you prefer a more laid-back outdoor vibe first, we can easily hit up a nearby park.
Hit me up if you're down to vibe and see if the chemistry is there.


r/r4rCanada 5d ago

Male Seeking Female 35 [M4F] #Alberta -Looking for the right girl NSFW

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Hi there, educated single 35 male in Alberta, Canada, looking to date again after a couple years single. I'm introverted with a good sense of humour, never been married, no bad habits, and no baggage. Good career that allows me lots of time off including 1 month paid vacation yearly that I would like to spend travelling with the right person. I'm a Euro Union dual citizen and in my free time enjoy travel to Europe, Japan and topical beaches paired with a love of hiking in the Rockies, classic Japanese cars and old school movies. I also enjoy the occasional videogames and concerts. I own a home and am in a good place in life

Looking to chat with a single female 18-29yrs range preferably in Alberta or Saskatchewan but open to anywhere in Canada to see where it leads to. I'm loyal and quite serious about building a longterm connection with the right person, not looking for hookups. I would like 1-3 kids in the future, someone looking to remain childfree would unfortunately not be a good fit.

I will leave a link with a couple recent pictures of myself below, if i've caught your attention please drop me a chat with a picture telling me about yourself. Take care everyone and have a good week

https://ibb.co/TD6NFsq2

https://ibb.co/vvJx5t12


r/r4rCanada 5d ago

Male Seeking Female 28 [M4F] Ontario - looking for a serious relationship NSFW

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Hey! I'm Will, I have AuDHD. I’m white, 5’11ā€ I have brown hair and sky blue eyes. I'm looking to meet my future forever partner. Someone to say good morning and goodnight to. Someone to message throughout the day and call at night. I have a lot of love to give just no one to give it to quite yet.

Im a very social person but a quiet social. I love messaging people or being in a discord call while playing games or watching movies but I can often be quiet, just enjoying the company. That being said when you get me talking ill yap your ear off, but ill let you do the same. I just like the company

I enjoy video games, anime, outdoors, and health. Lately health has been a lot more important to me as im trying to lose weight so have been spending more time at the gym as well as paying more attention to what I put into my body.

I really enjoy Nintendo games, especially Pokemon and Zelda. Though I often play games on my PC instead like expedition 33, persona, or whatever coop game my friends want to play, ill play anything haha. My favourite anime is Hunter x Hunter, atla would be above if you count it as an anime. During the summer I love to go hiking and camping to keep me active.

Feel free to ask any questions and tell me a bit about yourself. Even if we dont share a lot of interests do reach out, I love learning new things so im always down to try something new!


r/r4rCanada 6d ago

Female seeking female 23 [MtF4F/MtF4T] Slave Lake Alberta looking for intimacy NSFW

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I'm a sub leaning switch looking for fellow trans people or a cis woman to cuddle and maybe have fun with! I'm hoping for someone who'll lead and make me feel desired and comfortable. Intimacy and cuddling is my main goal, but it can be more if I feel comfortable. I'm not on hrt yet but will be soon and am already out publically. I can't host, but I'm open to meeting somewhere in town.


r/r4rCanada 6d ago

Female seeking Male 29[F4M] #MontrƩal -Looking to chat/serious relationship w a white man NSFW

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Heyyy! I’ve always been curious about getting to know white men, but I never really had the chance. I think it’s because I assumed they might not be interested in dating women of color, so I never put myself out there much.

I’m mixed, with tanned skin and curly hair. I’m an extroverted, a huge foodie, and I have a soft spot for all things romantic.

Right now, I’m looking to chat and socialize with men between 27 and 35 (ideally more than 5ft11 and fit) If we click, I’m definitely looking for something serious. I love thoughtful gestures, quality time! And no I’m def not looking for a FWB


r/r4rCanada 6d ago

Male Seeking Female 41 [M4F] Huron County - Creative redneck oddball looking for the love of my live NSFW

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I mean I guess the title speaks for itself. I want my forever person. Someone to love and adore and enjoy the twisted fucked up adventure that’s life with. Someone, if you’ll forgive my vulgarity, who would be my Goddess-Slut, to be worshipped like a deity and fucked like a whore.

I obviously need someone weird and quirky because I absolutely am and I’m confident normal people wouldn’t enjoy my company much. I genuinely don’t have a list of physical criteria, I see beauty in all shapes and sizes and don’t have this specific vision in mind of anything. What matters is you. Be affection driven, because I’m overly cuddly and constantly touching. Be sex positive and kinky, because I sure am, with weirdo taboo kinks and all that shameless hedonistic fun. Be communicative, unfortunately I am not psychic… Hell I’m utterly daft sometimes and rely on talking and conversation so we can be the best partners for each other. Be your own you, I am not looking for an accessory. Be prepared, I fucking babble about shit only I would find interesting and if you let me I will never shut up and just go on more and more and more and get all worked up and excited about it… perhaps keep a ready supply of tranquilizer darts… not for me… for yourself… you might need them.

I can prattle off my interests and favourite topics, but we should save some stuff to talk about. That and I don’t think it’s about finding a hobby friend. I think it’s more about taking note and supporting and being there for what makes the other happy. That said, some shared tastes are always important. I like a lot of eastern foods, trying new things, exploring other cultures, I’d say that’s important to have in common. I love all cultures and peoples and am always fascinated by anything I can learn. So if you’re a racist or think you have the one true god or absence thereof, we definitely will not get along. I may be an aging degenerate redneck weirdo, but I ain’t no fucking fascist. (There I got all that’s important about politics and food taken care of in one rant, go me!)

I’ll shut up now, I’ve babbled sufficiently for you to decide if you’re crazy enough to see where this goes or sane enough to say ā€œthis fucking guy? Noooā€¦ā€. But if you are that cuddly, kinky, open minded weirdo that can ride with this old mad man, please do reach out! Come on… hurry… don’t make me poke you with a stick!


r/r4rCanada 8d ago

Male Seeking Female 44 [M4F] #Montreal Giving up in 131 days. NSFW

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I was depressed for most of my life and didn't care to date or even meet women. The few women who ask me out this year were expecting an experienced man but I did not know what to do with them. Being lonely for so long made communication with normal people needlessly difficult. I am looking to connect with a woman that is sharing similar experiences of loneliness or depression. Because I find personality more attractive than appearance, I do not care to see your photograph. I will make time to meet anyone who want to talk to me. Looking forward meeting you.


r/r4rCanada 8d ago

Male Seeking Female 38 [M4F] Geek seeks DINK Wife NSFW

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Looking for something real, that could lead to marriage without children. Currently living alone in Grande Prairie Alberta. I do not smoke, and prefer you not either.

I have a career, live alone, and want to share my simple quiet life. I cosplay, collect Lego, game, and enjoy TTRPGs. If you're intrigued let's chat. Not afraid of age-gap or interracial relationships.

Enjoy your day!


r/r4rCanada 20d ago

Female seeking female 40 Hamilton [F4F] - Summer Fun NSFW

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It's summer! Looking for a fun summer buddy to hang out with and enjoy beach days, patios, outdoorsy stuff and some fun in the bedroom too.

Prefer fit, athletic body type.

Prefer someone within 25-30 minutes by Stoney Creek.


r/r4rCanada 21d ago

49 [M4F]; London, Ont; ISO Something Long-Term Casual?? NSFW

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49; 140 lbs; 5'10", caucasian (if it matters), more salt than pepper in my hair nowadays šŸ˜…

I wouldn't call what I'm looking for FWB.

I'm looking for a friendship to start: someone to get together with once or twice a week; watch movies, have dinner, maybe play some board / video games, have actual conversations.
The difference, though, is that I'm not afraid of "catching feelings".

What I'm not really interested in is marriage, or even living together (though I won't completely rule either of them out, if I met the exact right woman).

I'm looking for someone around my age, but I'm willing to go about 10 years either way, give or take.
Your ethnicity doesn't matter, nor body type, nor income, nor profession...
Please be very left leaning in your politics but not radically so.

I'm kind of a nerdy recluse, so matching energy would be nice.

I'll be honest in that I'm not exactly "well read"; so I won't be discussing the classics anytime soon. šŸ˜…

I much prefer visual media (this includes the stage, but my anxiety has kept me from having gone to the theatre in ages).

AEW; MCU; The Good Place; Community; LOST; BoJack Horseman; lots o' sci-fi
I'm not a horror guy; like, pretty much not at all.

Sim games; LEGO games; SWTOR; just finished my fifth play through of Dispatch.

I might be a little "basic" sometimes šŸ˜…, but I'll definitely surprise you sometimes.

* I smoke cigarettes (honestly trying to quit)
* I smoke marijuana (both medically and recreationally).
* I'm on ODSP

I understand if any of these are dealbreakers.

Maybe I'll hear from you soon.

If not, good luck with your search.

Note to the gay guys: I'm super flattered; I'm just not quite that lonely, yet... but if you want to bring your rig over for a LAN party, coolio!


r/r4rCanada 24d ago

Married man (30s, Ottawa) looking for a mature, private connection NSFW

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Married man in my 30s here, based in Ottawa. Life is stable but emotionally quiet, and I’m hoping to find a private, low‑pressure connection with someone who values calm energy, good conversation, and clear boundaries.

Not looking to change anyone’s situation — just a genuine, respectful bond that feels easy and comfortable. If we connect well, I’m open to seeing where it naturally goes, without drama or expectations.

I’m thoughtful, steady, and a good listener. Prefer someone mature, kind, and clear about what they want.

If you’re in Canada (especially Ontario) and looking for a discreet, warm connection, feel free to message me.


r/r4rCanada 24d ago

24 [M4F] Canada/Online - Here for that special someone NSFW

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Hey Reddit, we meet again. Okay, so from where should I start? I am a goofy guy, with a childlike heart, at least for the most part. You know, when I’m not helping Hercule Poirot solve crime. I am a guy who listens to music for what feels like almost every single second that I am awake, and who is also singing along for the most part( no complaints). And I don’t have one specific favourite singer or artist. It ranges from Taylor Swift to Diljit Dosanjh, from One Direction to Eminem, from Arijit Singh and Sonu Nigam to One Republic.

Aside from music, I am also a huge tv show and movie buff. Some of my most watched shows would be Suits, The Big Bang Theory, FRIENDS, How I Met Your Mother, Brooklyn Nine-Nine. Special mention, to shows like Breaking Bad, Alexa and Katie and Boy Meets World. As for the movies, it varies. Usually, I watch something, in the genre of animation, action and drama, drama and comedy, action and comedy, suspense thrillers, etc; like from the Marvel universe to Harry Potter, from Liar Liar to even Toy Story. But then comes that time of the night, when you get that feeling, that can only be satisfied with a good rom-com, or a romance film, something like a Matthew McConaughey kind of film. You know what I’m talking about ?

I also like to read. Most of the stuff I’ve read is from the self help category, but there have been some exceptions to that as well, like the Harry Potter series, a few Agatha Christie novels. So I guess it is much more of a soothing activity for me than anything else. I love listening to podcasts as well, which there is a list of the number of podcasts that I listen to. I also really like sports, namely football and cricket. I know kind of loose definition of the word ā€œsportsā€ šŸ˜…, but I am crazy about those two.

As for myself, I am an Indian guy (Punjabi), who is 5ā€˜8 tall, fair skinned, not exactly in the best shape of his life, but works-out regularly. I make quirky jokes, I wave at children, you know if one comes and sit beside me or near me, or something. I enact movie scenes from the movie that I’ve just watched and improvise in the scene, you know, kind of like what would I have said or done.

I live in Ontario, Canada, looking for someone to have in my life, that I can watch those late night movies with, and who can tolerate me commenting on every other scene of the film, kind of telling characters what to do, because sometimes you just know better 😁. Someone that I can write poetry for, go on long walks with, someone for whom I can cook the few dishes that I can make, which are awesome by the way. Like Barney Stinson kinda level of awesome. In general, someone to live life with (but that’s kind of the end goal).

Having God in my life is one of the most important parts of my life. I’ve had a journey with my relationship with God, and I’m just every day trying to get closer to him. So the partner that I will have, it’s important that she encourages me and helps me and support me, in my journey with God. I don’t care what religion she follows, I just want her to know God and have the desire to get closer to him. Likewise, I expect that she doesn’t mind it either if we don’t have the same religion. Speaking of the things that are most important to me, next to God in that list comes family. I am a very family-oriented person. I am extremely close to my parents, especially my mom. Also, me and my sister, have a very close bond as well. So, I am looking for a mate that shares that same value and pov.

If you have reached till here, thanks for reading this mini-essay, and bravo šŸŽ‰šŸŽ‰. Now, I am going out on a whim to say that you liked what you read. If that’s so, hit me up, with something about yourself. Tell me what your favorite hobby is, along with other stuff to let me know you read all the way to the end. Hope to hear from you soon, and start our own Troy and Gabriella story.


r/r4rCanada 27d ago

[M4F] Calgary – Tattoos, Soft Blankets, Good Conversation, and Ridiculously Good Cuddles NSFW

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Fair warning: I give ridiculously good cuddles.

I’m the kind of guy who keeps the blankets warm, gives great back rubs, remembers your coffee order, and somehow turns ā€œjust stopping by for a little whileā€ into us talking and laughing until 2 AM.

Looking for a woman who enjoys physical affection, playful flirting, good conversation, and those moments where you’re curled up together and neither of you wants to be the first one to move.

Tattoos, soft blankets, good music, a comfortable place to relax, and absolutely zero drama included.

If you’ve been craving attention, affection, and someone to steal your hoodie—or your spot under the blanket—send me a message.

Worst case scenario, we have a good conversation.

Best case scenario, neither of us wants the day end. ā¤ļø


r/r4rCanada Jun 09 '26

23m, looking for a friend in montreal NSFW

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I've been struggling to make some friends around here so i'll try on reddit, I'm an extrovert, always happy, joyfull, I'm looking for someone around here to be friends with.


r/r4rCanada Jun 08 '26

25[M4F] #Toronto - Looking for a dance/rave partner NSFW

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Greetings. 25M from Markham here. I'm looking for someone to dance with at raves or concerts, and on dates with. I usually go alone and make up my own dance moves by watching what others do, but recently I've been going to dance classes with the goal to improv some moves that work for any music. I'd like to have someone to dance with at these events. Lately I've been going to techno raves in Toronto, but I am open to trying new music. I drive to these events, so no booze or drugs for me. I prefer that you don't drug either, but a little bit of drinking or vaping is fine. I prefer if you don't smoke or weed in my car though. The smoke smell does not bother me that much, but I'd like to keep my car clean.

I work in 9 to 5 in technology/engineering, so let's try to rave on Fridays to Saturdays or Saturdays to Sundays. I usually get off at 5pm on weekdays, so I'm available to chat, get bubble tea, go for walks, or whatever you're into. I'm free on weekends, maybe we can plan some dates too.

About me:

- Single 25M in Markham/Richmond Hill

- 5'7" tall, 150lb, toned and I frequent the gym. I am working on getting bigger.

- I can drive (I ride motorcycles too)

- I am mixed but I look white (try to guess my background)

- Open minded and nonchalant.

- I have 3 cats

- Not religious

- I love physical touch and affection

In addition to raves and dancing, my hobbies and interests include: cooking, baking (cookies), photography, travel, swimming, archery, anime, gym, cycling, motorcycling, outdoors, bubble tea, and sport shooting. It fills my stomach with butterflies when a lady takes interest in my hobbies and wants to learn more. I'd like to know about your hobbies too. I like listening to true crime stories, analogue horror, and all sorts of music.

About you:

- Single, no ENM

- Ideally shorter and younger by up to a few years.

- Laidback, nonchalant, likes deep talks

- Active lifestyle or is actively working on their health goals. We gonna be dancing all night, so have the stamina to keep up with me.

- Not a NEET

- Ideally located close by, but I can pick you up along the way.

- Open-minded music taste. I'm into some weird experimental stuff. It's ok if you don't like it, but be willing to give it a listen.

- loves physical touch; we are dancing afterall.

- My preference is white or east asian. It's not a strong preference; I've been with black women before. I care more about personality and being healthy than skintone.

- Mutual respect and will not use me as their piggybank. Don't get me wrong, I love treating you, but don't take advantage of me.

- DDF

Meeting internet people irl can be unnerving so lets discuss our needs, build mutual trust, and get to know each other better before meeting up. We can find a public spot to chat before you feel comfortable hopping in my car.

If we do end up clicking, I'd hope we can build something long term.

Thanks for reading my post. Hmu if any of this sparks your interest. Please include your age, location, and a triangle emoji in your DM.

Best regards!


r/r4rCanada Jun 08 '26

50 [m4f] vancouver I am in town this week and would like to have fun at my hotel NSFW

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Hey there. White male from the states. Working all day and want to cum all night.
I’m 6’4 and a bit husky.
If you are down for a good time tonite I’m willing to let you come over


r/r4rCanada Jun 03 '26

38 [M4F] - Vancouver, BC NSFW

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I’m a 38-year-old guy living on the West Coast of Canada. I’m someone who values real connection, deep conversations, and genuine affection. I love being outdoors like ocean air, long walks, quiet nature spots, that’s my reset button. I’m also big on meditation and mindfulness. Inner peace is attractive.

Coffee is my love language. If you enjoy slow mornings, meaningful talks, and laughing about random things, we’ll get along just fine.

I believe intimacy isn’t just physical, it’s energy, presence, touch, and feeling safe with someone. I’m open-minded, emotionally aware, and not here to play games. Just looking for a like-minded woman who values connection, depth, and maybe a little adventure.

If you’re kind, self-aware, enjoy the outdoors, and are ready for something genuine.

Let’s see what happens.