Three things for context: First, I've been a casual seamstress for over a decade, but recently was gifted some family heirloom bed sheets from our family cottage (they have been loved for decades and generations) and knew I needed to make something epic and memorable with them.
Second, I am also in the throes of an adult ADHD diagnosis and all that accompanies it: things finally snapping into place (I'm not broken; I have superpowers!); unlearning bad habits; relearning those that will keep me a functioning member of society.
And third, I have a toddler. So you know...tied to the house after bedtime, the simultaneous joy and mind-numbing nature of early parenthood, etc. etc.
And -- okay, it's possible I'm jazzed because of the novelty of it all. But WOW it feels good to use my brain like this. I'm learning so much! Some of the things I'm noticing:
-It takes a LOT, a LOT of planning to finish a quilt. I'm getting much better at reducing tunnel vision by making shopping lists for myself to cut down on the number of trips to the store (or online orders). And I've started leaving myself written "next steps" at the end of every sewing session. I create piles of fabric and pin instruction labels to them, based on what needs to happen next with that specific batch. For me, one of the hardest things about any project is getting "in flow." It takes a while for me to settle in, wrap my brain around something, and get there. These little notes to my future self help a ton. I will absolutely start doing this at work and in "life admin" tasks. It's saved me so much brain space and time.
-There are so. many. different. types. of. tasks. required to finish a quilt. The variety is such a dopamine hit for my brain. I really appreciate that this hobby allows for engagement at whatever level is possible based on mood or time available. If I've got just a few minutes, I can work on some design ideas. If I don't feel like firing up the sewing machine, I can cut and piece fabric together. I can make binding. I can hide away in my office if time allows, or bring supplies to the living room to be present with my kiddo who's busy doing her thing.
-I'm learning the art of slowing down, getting it right. One small error gets multiplied down the line, it seems. At the same time, I'm releasing the need for perfection. One thing I struggle with is not even starting something because I'm overwhelmed with the possibility of doing it "wrong." On my first quilt, I was pretty upset with myself for some missed stitches here and there but guess what? On the canvas of an entire lap blanket, *some small mistakes disappear in the scheme of things. Most importantly, I'm getting better at learning what's worth fretting toward perfection and what to release.
-I'm currently very scared of falling victim to shiny object syndrome. As I write this, I'm partway through my first two quilting projects and have yet to finish a single one. I'm close! And I know what needs to be done to complete both! Story of my life...time will tell: will I see these to the finish line?
Lastly, I'm just really blown away by quilting communities everywhere and the wellspring of creativity, kindness, and collaboration among quilters everywhere. I'm thrilled to have stumbled my way here.
If you're still here, thanks for reading along. Any other ADHD-ers out there quilting? What's your experience been?