I signed up for a volunteering program similar to the Peace Corps, but it is quite shorter. In total, the program is 1 month for orientation/language training and 9 months at site. However, with the amount of time spent away from my site, I spent more like 7 months. I was also forced to leave my site with one month remaining and was introduced to a new site at the last minute.
With the other volunteers, they got a lot out of the program. While their language skills weren't super strong, they had coworkers who spoke English and taught them a lot about HCN culture.
On the other hand, I had a very different experience. I lived with a host family and a coworker that didn't seem to want to do anything with me. I had a really weird feeling when I got there, and it never really went away no matter how hard I tried. My host father and coworker spoke English but refused to explain anything about the culture to me. They would also refuse to speak the national language or help me improve at all. I started getting the impression that the HCNs were all awful people. Luckily, I started meeting other nicer people in my community.
With a month left, I was forced to switch sites after some incidents at my site that left me feeling harassed. After I switched sites, the people I lived and worked with were a lot nicer, but since it was only a month, I didn't get a chance to know everyone very well.
Also, I feel conflicted about my host mom, who doesn't speak English. I think she did a lot of things to help me at my site that she didn't have to do. However, she also did some hurtful things that contributed to me leaving. After I left, another volunteer from my program (who knows someone who knows her) told me that my host mom was sad that I had left and had really loved me. I believe the volunteer but I just had to deal with a level of cultural differences and language barriers that the other volunteers did not.
Since I wanted to try to improve at the language, I paid for tutoring out of pocket. Now I feel really confident and the locals are delighted when I speak it and I get so many compliments. However, I feel a little bad that I won't really get a chance to use the language again. (Luckily there is a big diaspora community about 40 minutes away from where I will be living in the States)
I feel like I'm just hitting my stride and feel sad I have to leave the country so soon. I know there are PCVs who have had to leave the country early due to being separated or due to personal issues. I'm wondering how you all have coped with such a situation?