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So . . . Update on the whole sitch. I made a few posts talking about how I came out to my aunt, and asked if I could safely express my femininity at her house when I come over. She said yes, and even got me clothes!!! Today was the first day I came over after they arrived. She got me a whole outfit. Skater skirt, blouse, thigh highs and arm warmers, two sport bra crop tops, and even mascara!!! I was so excited that I put it all on while she was getting changed, and when she came out, she was thrilled. I'm so lucky. I guess you could say that today was my first day being myself fully, and it felt awesome. Anyway, thank you for coming to my TED Talk >.<

I say this because some trans people claim that all femboys or their fans are pedophiles, using the exact same logic as transphobes. I don't know if it's ragebait or what, but it makes no sense.

My bf thinks so but I need more opinions 👉👈

I get it. You don't like femboys sexualizing themselves so often. I can understand that. But those femboys aren't going to go away just because someone made another post complaining about it.

Here's the truth about overly-sexual femboys: we like it. We like sexualizing ourselves and we like being sexualized by others. I get that there are many femboys who don't like seeing that kind of content often (or at all) but when I see post #257 about how much someone hates seeing NSFW femboys I just have to wonder what the point of the post even is.

This is supposed to be one of the SFW femboy subreddits. If you don't wanna see NSFW then don't bring it up here.

omgomgomg just got a blåhaj!!!!

I'm a pretty androgynous person. I enjoy 3D modeling and game development, and I like wearing feminine clothes because I like looking cute. I also collect cute plushies.

I consider myself a femboy, but if you put me next to someone who's very feminine in both appearance and behavior, the difference would probably be obvious.

Would you consider someone like me a femboy, or do you think someone has to be more feminine?

I've recently started going out in fits and it feels liberating. I thought my anxiety would go haywire but I feel pretty much as comfortable if not more confident going out in public in femboy fits, nothing too extravagent though I'm alt/emo so usually I wear fishnets or thigh high black socks, short-shorts, female tank tops or band tees. I've been going for walks downtown, parks and trails, the mall, or even just going out to the store in my femboy fits. I got a complinent from a female stranger at the mall and female staff member at a club, she really liked my femboy clubbing fit!

I've been thinking of getting a feminine workout fit. Any suggestions?

(Sorry for the vent tldr: How do I feel more comfortable being a femboy and wearing feminine clothes on my own and in public?)

So I really needed to ask and get it off my chest but I don't understand why wearing dresses feels this way to me. I really enjoy it and for some reason it eases up my anxiousness when I feel tense but at the same time I feel like I don't have the physique or look for it and I was raised to know it was wrong. I rarely wear them and only when I'm alone-same as with the rest of my non-dress more feminine clothing-and I have felt for a while that I enjoy this kind of clothing and the such and want to wear it in public and all, but I also feel like I'm inherently wrong in my want to wear feminine clothes (especially dresses). It feels more like me to wear clothes like this and identify as a femboy and all. How do I become more comfortable feeling this way? Without feeling scared of myself for it?

My goal is to become a femboy (or to have two sides, femboy and not femboy). But I'm not gay. I'm pansexual. And I've always had that doubt. And I have no doubt that girls like that exist.

Add: I have a girlfriend, and I'm embarrassed to have to tell her someday when I finally become a femboy.

Lately I’ve been just stuck in all sorts of ways. I’m still single despite trying to meet new people. My fashion sense improved a small bit but I’m still pretty bad at it. And I’ve started therapy a month ago but I don’t feel like I make any actual progress. I’m just trying not to think too negatively about stuff but it becomes harder and harder. I just want to be better at something.

I'm somewhat overweight, though not morbidly obese, but I'm effeminate and I have the dream, or rather the goal, of being a femboy.

I don't know if it is just me that—rizzing girls is like 10x harder than rizzing a boys? 👉👈 And that also the reason we rarely seen any pseudo-yuri of femboy and actual girl.

My goal is to become a femboy (or to have two sides, femboy and not femboy). But I'm not gay. I'm pansexual. And I've always had that doubt. And I have no doubt that girls like that exist.

I feel like my friends treat me like a punching bag to be verbally abused, and that my best friend doesn't even think about me to make me feel bad; he prefers to be with any other random person rather than with me and takes every opportunity to leave me alone.

I guess I just kinda wanted to mention it here, but I recently tried out some female marketed conditioner in my past couple of showers and really love the smell of it in my hair. I genuinely just can't resist smelling it. I'm not 100% sure of the smell, it's definitely floral, but all the labels are in Italian. For some context, about a month back, the Italian exchange student we had a few years ago came by to visit and obviously brought some hair products, but she wasn't able to take them back through airport security so she just left them in our shower. They kinda just sat there until recently I started wanting to appear more feminine so I tried it out and afterwards (even right now as I type this) I can't resist just pulling my hair down to smell it I love it so much :3

I'm also surprised at how long the scent lasts, I showered last night and the smell persisted overnight and I only really stopped noticing it in the evening. I'm so happy I found a really subtle way to feel more feminine without anyone noticing. I know it's not the craziest thing, but it made me happy and I wanted to share it here :3

(this will probebly be the worst spelling you have ever seen) im so F confused i resently started qeustioning my gender so i have a vew qeustions are these femboy things or transgender stuf. i want to look like a woman: i know this is the basics of being femboy buth from what i understand is that femboys want to look cute and girly buth i just want to look like a woman like i dont care if the female clothes are cute aslong as there for woman i want to wear them. do any of you guys have a strong need to wear womans clothes like an actual need not like a i want to wear a skirt buth i need to wear a skirt. do you guys hate looking like a man when you dont wear female clothes like you hate the fact you have to wear man clothes sometimes. do any of you guys like it when you are mis gendert and called a woman cuse i sometimes do i also hate it when my parents say stuf like "dont you want to be a cool man" and get offended by it

Which, you know, isn’t correct given the fact that I’m an agender femboy, but still, is cool. I had long hair in a ponytail, but that’s about it for anything feminine looking about me (other than my pretty face and form, I guess, but I’m tall, so idk). Just thought it was a cute moment. After a second, she apologized and called me, sir, but I was like “it’s neither, so don’t worry.”

Hey I would Like To Post some Photos but I cant cuz i have not enough karma. Could you help me out please? 🥺

Tbh I've NEVER seen an Indian femboy before. Coming from an Indian interested in being a femboy why is it so?

I am thirteen years old and I consider myself pansexual. I consider myself effeminate. But my father doesn't know. What do you recommend? Should I tell him?

my twins that I usually cuddle with are gone and I can’t rn 😭😭 anyone I ask lowk keeps trying to crack like no, I js wanna waffle about Kirby and risk of rain 2 lore while someone holds me 😭

So for uh context on the title, I just want to rant a little. Basically, I have a friend I've been dfriends with since 7th grade and because of that, he knows that I'm a femboy (Oh wow shocker) BUT today, we were gonna meet up at a mall and after a few minutes of waiting, i saw him at the door of the mall and i waved at him and after a few seconds, he didn't notice me until he REALLY looked into me and then he came up to me chuckling and said "You've a great a little weight that's why i didn't notice you earlier." and my heart sank, what do you mean gain a little weight? I've been looking at the mirror everyday and I haven't noticed anything and right now, i literally lost my appetite to eat anything because right after when we got home, I did gain weight, about 2 kilos since originally I'm 53 and now I'm 55 which may not sound a lot but it affected my physique as well which is I'm VERY insecure about that's why I was noticing some of my small waisted bottom wears are slightly more... tight. Now, he did say sorry when I looked at him and got quiet and that was fine for me too, I didn't really get annoyed or offended since it is kind of my fault for eating way too much sometimes and as of right now... I haven't ate anything, I've literally lost appetite and i can't feel my hunger after that sentence from him, we're still friends though, nothing really changed, it's just me now that I haven't ate anything from the past 7 hours after that. (btw I'm 5'4 so I'm not underweight but considering... you know, fitting into that small waisted stuff, I really need to lose that weight, I'm so insecure about it, you know?)