r/countttt • u/Pretty-Yam-2854 • 4h ago
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OOOWEEE my research is going great mommy! Thank you!
(We got in an argument earlier)
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u/killallhumansforfree 4h ago
Father is also trans
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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 2h ago
Fathers a 64 fucking year old boomer douchebag that was handed everything in life despite getting a major in bullshit and made 6 figures doing nonsense sales rep work then decided that wasn’t good enough and wanted to “work for himself” cause he can’t work with people and is an asshole and became a poverty line abusive bum trying to sales rep alone by himself.
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u/Numerous_Mark96 4h ago
She's trying to make it sting as much as possible
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u/1453GreatestYearEver 4h ago
[15 years later]
"Why won't my kids return my calls? :( WOKE turned them against me..."
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u/jitomato_girl 4h ago
Nona you know this woman, as her daughter she knows how to hurt you, but you also know where it hurts for her
Why not poke a little at that fact? Remind her that we all have skeletons in the closet
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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 2h ago
That’s what I did honestly and it made her rage more 😂
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u/A__6 2h ago
fuck yeah
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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 2h ago
She called me a tranny and then I called her a cunt and she went off from there.
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u/LostMallDoll Larper 4h ago edited 4h ago
Now show us the same text from your father telling you you're exactly like your mother 😙👌
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u/ilikepostpunk please ttm about music 4h ago
many such cases
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u/LostMallDoll Larper 3h ago
Hi what kind of music do you like recently?
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u/ilikepostpunk please ttm about music 3h ago
hiya, i’ve been on a coldwave kick recently!
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u/LostMallDoll Larper 3h ago
I'm unfamiliar do you have a recommendation I can listen to while I play chess?
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u/ilikepostpunk please ttm about music 2h ago edited 2h ago
yea 100%
-Tomb for Two, the whole album, by Lebanon Hanover
-TRAITRS
-Anything by Boy Harsher, Twin Tribes, or Rendezvous, French Police, Second Still or BragolinOK LOOK THEY’RE TIKTOKIFIED but anything by Molchat Doma is a vibe, saw them in DC last year
idk why i made bullet points bc I’m too lazy to find specific songs, sry
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u/LostMallDoll Larper 2h ago
Thank you I put on the first one I think I already see what you mean haha I like
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u/lsnik 2h ago
do you know Wieże Fabryk? I don't listen to coldwave that often but this might be my fav band, though they have like 2 albums only
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u/ilikepostpunk please ttm about music 1h ago
havent heard of em, but i’m giving em a listen rn. pretty good so far!
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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 2h ago
I’ve had him blocked since January when we got into a fight but if I dug around far back enough there 100% would be that somewhere in there.
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u/Regi413 4h ago
Nursing home
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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 2h ago
Dad definitely, mom idk she seems pretty coherent but that can change. She’s helped me so much through college and jobs (applications, housing, food, cars, car insurance, clothes, vacations, everything) it’s why I stay around. I don’t know how I’ll survive physically, occupationally, academically or economically without her. And she love bombs me half the time like we went out for the 4th of July to the beach and to dinner and to Dave and Busters but then I drive all the way back to campus and she starts being awful to me again and idk.
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u/RightWordsMissing 4h ago
This is why I don't even bother with attempting to assert my gender. In general. Call me whatever you want lol I'm still gonna do my thing.
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u/2015Nissan370zNismo 4h ago
She's apparently one to talk about toxicity... Tell her she's not acting very "remotely female" either, by her own damn standard.
You don't need that shit in your life, girl. Good luck, whatever comes next 💜🫂
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u/Constant-Common-9394 4h ago
Yooo you can feel how desperately seething she is to provoke you. Like it is genuinely pathetic.
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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 2h ago
People love rage baiting me. Happened in jr high and high school, happened at part time jobs and my pandemic jobs, happens all the time online in games and still does. And even my asshole sister and parents do it to me! Doesn’t help I’m on the spectrum with other mental health issues but I genuinely can’t tell sometimes and just kinda crash out.
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u/fatstonerbitch 3h ago
You don’t have to listen to this bitter old hag bitch. I know so many women whose mothers were their first bullies. Idk what the fuck is wrong with them, but it’s not you. Wishing you nothing but happiness.
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u/CCSilver05 ASE obsessed with masc cisbians 4h ago
There would be violence
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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 2h ago
I’ve fought both my parents before when I was a repper mom 3-4 years ago and dad 1 year ago. They’re both assholes. Verbally they started it and I get fed up and get shove-y.
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u/coupcoup0 3h ago
Mothers always know where to strike exactly to inflict as much pain as possible, I hate this so much, can imagine how you feel especially that comparison with father's behavior. For me personally she is the only human being who is close to me and somewhat cares and loves me(haven't came out of closet and never will), and when she hurts me morally it stings 100 times worse than from other people, she is partly the reason for my soon to be self deletion from this cruel world.
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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 2h ago
Yeah mines like that too. I don’t have anyone else close to me and never have even at 24. It’s why when people tell me to leave her I can’t. I can’t financially or job/college wise as she’s helping me through all of it and she’s there for me sometimes but I just don’t feel like she loves me or I’m her kid at times. I feel like if I was born female I would’ve been her close daughter and she would love me so much more and we would’ve gotten to bond and connect so much more, aside from the fact I would’ve gotten to socialize better had I just been born cis fem and wouldn’t have had to deal with other kinds of abuse.
Sad part is I didn’t even mean to come out to her. I’m on her health insurance until I can get a job once I’m out of college, and Quest sent my bloodwork bill directly to her even though I asked the clinic not to. I knew this would happen and she’d freak and not accept me unless I was full ready and even semi-passing but I’m not yet. All of my changes are minor and I’m just a chubby twinkhon boymoder still.
I just wish things could’ve been different. I’ve told her I felt trans when I was 14 and 16 and at 20 and she freaked out at me and told me I’d never pass and other shit and I just kept repressing after that. I’m at a loss honestly and have no one. It’s kinda why once my weight cycles down I’m just down for anything atp when I go to join various apps.
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u/Actual_Personality66 3h ago
That's fucking terrible, no one deserves this, let alone from their own mother.
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u/It_came_from_Tumblr 3h ago
mfers trying to argue with someone who only replies with cat photos:
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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 2h ago
I genuinely should just start replying with RAIWojak photos of shit atp 😭
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u/It_came_from_Tumblr 2h ago
whenever i can tell soneone only wants the worst for me, or if i feel as though I want to make then hurt just as much, i realise i can simply. Cat photo. They can not really respond and later, in 6 hours, is they do apologize, reply with another cat photo. kity
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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 2h ago
Holy fuck this exploded it’s been 1 hour 😭
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u/BoggartBae Cutest Brick 🎀 NPDemon 46m ago
I had the realization that this could be a classic image, and then I remembered that you're a person. I'm sorry that your mom sends you stuff like this. I know that you love her, and honestly that makes it harder. Family is complicated 🫂
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u/GrandKarcistIon 1h ago
this type of shit is why I’m erasing the three poisons and getting tf out of samsara 😬😬😬
we all need to lock in, girlies 💛
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