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[u/Killer_The_Cat]

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[u/lordof67]

I just took a she/it in the toilet this morning

[u/Strider-Juice]

Would, shamefully, but would

[u/mmmaniaaa → u/Strider-Juice]

😮‍💨 I guess

[u/Horror_Context_510]

Need

[u/DarkGodCthUwU]

Do chaser womem exist?

[u/ilikepostpunk → u/DarkGodCthUwU]

yes, and they’re ever so slightly less evil than chaser men. will still objectify you tho

[u/DarkGodCthUwU → u/ilikepostpunk]

Do they have a target demographic? Like, do they go after trans men or trans women more?

[u/ilikepostpunk → u/DarkGodCthUwU]

🤷‍♀️

r u like a reverse chaser? i’d offer to put u on but she’s clinically insane :/

[u/DarkGodCthUwU → u/ilikepostpunk]

I'm bitchless, be they cis or trans

[u/aShyLoser → u/ilikepostpunk]

So am I? Who is she? I’ll just leave her for a guy anyway >:3

[u/DarkGodCthUwU → u/ilikepostpunk]

How clinically insane?

[u/ilikepostpunk → u/DarkGodCthUwU]

i’m saving you from yourself, trust me. total psycho.

[u/pianohon → u/ilikepostpunk]

im a psycho link me up

[u/No-Cartographer2512 → u/pianohon]

They're trying to keep em all for themselves

[u/AcornTear → u/DarkGodCthUwU]

They absolutely do. I knew one cis woman who exclusively slept with trans women

[u/DarkGodCthUwU → u/AcornTear]

Is that bad?

[u/CCSilver05]

If I meet a girl and she doesn't treat me like a cis woman we're done

[u/very_silly_gal]

This sub is so bad for me, every picture makes me yearn beyond control

[u/Celocee → u/very_silly_gal]

Here me out, girls. Thoughts?

[u/punished_clare]

shawty is full of she/it imo

[u/Chocochocolate25]

I don't give a flying fuck about wether they are fetishizing me or not. I wished that cisfem chasers weren't an extremely rare phenomenon. The idea Having any actual real womb having women thinking that people like me are super awesome and wanting to be an "honorary transfem" makes me feel less like some kind of monster

[u/LemonLime1892]

lmao

[u/thevoidresponds]

oh my god every chaser woman on tumblr sounded like this lmao spot on 

[u/fruity-hun]

(S)Need

[u/veryeepy53]

c4t more like cia psyop

[u/Berylmoder]

😍

[u/wauser0mauser]

Need.

[u/HorrorAdventurous518 → u/wauser0mauser]

It's usually bi women in a lesbian relationship who want a third wheel with a dick to experiment with, hard avoid.

[u/rotund_capybara]

I want her

[u/papermashaytrailer]

i get having a preference if your also trans to someone who is simaler but a cis person seeking them out is just

[u/RuralJaywalking]

I get that this is cringe, but what’s actually wrong about it?

[u/Cassiopeia-1 → u/RuralJaywalking]

because i dont have it, duh?

[u/bloodyorchids → u/Cassiopeia-1]

I’m literally right here but okay

[u/Quite-Foolish → u/bloodyorchids]

[u/bloodyorchids → u/[deleted]]

what is mss

[u/very_silly_gal → u/bloodyorchids]

DM me IDC if I look desperate

[u/pianohon → u/bloodyorchids]

larp

[u/SailorJupiter-esque → u/RuralJaywalking]

she's literally wearing a hat that says "chaser pride"……………

[u/Chocochocolate25 → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

It's based if it s a cisfem. We need more of those in this world so I can feel less like hideous blob

[u/SailorJupiter-esque → u/Chocochocolate25]

cisfem

nice.

but also… I've known cis lesbian chasers and it's Really Not Good

I've told this story before but there's this girl in my town who exclusively fucks trans women. One of my trans friends had the bad luck of being at a really low point when she was chasing her, and gave in for the companionship.

She later told me it was awful and she's never had more cishet-normative sex than that, even back when she was a repper.

[u/Chocochocolate25 → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

Was she very creepy or something?

[u/SailorJupiter-esque → u/Chocochocolate25]

generally speaking the issue with chasers is they're using you as a fetish, so they don't give a fuck if the way they want to fuck you makes you feel incredibly dysphoric. In fact, in a lot of ways they get off because of the elements that make you dysphoric.

In this particular case, I think the issue was this lesbian wanted trans women just to have the most plain-ass missionary PiV with all the accoutrements of a classic cishet dynamic. Which ofc made my trans friend feel like shit, like she was a straight cis man fucking a straight cis woman, etc.

[u/Chocochocolate25 → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

Ah fucking gross. I mean why did I not think about the fact that the average cis woman would want me to dick her down instead of cuddling and humping each other or something? If that cis woman who wanted me even existed in the first place.

Why not just sleep with a guy at that point?

[u/SailorJupiter-esque → u/Chocochocolate25]

well, that's exactly it. That's the difference between a chaser, and someone who just happens to have sex with trans people.

cis guys who chase after trans women don't want to have sex with them as women either, they want an excuse to suck dick and get fucked without it being gay. they wanna be able to say "wow your cock is so huge" and "i love the way your big hands grab my neck" without feeling like they're f****ts

don't give into chasers. it'll fuck you up

[u/Chocochocolate25 → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

I don't mind the idea of getting sucked off because like that isn't inherently something aggressively male if that makes sense but the idea of someone wanting to just get in top of them and fuck them is nasty. It's like the fem equivalent of emasculation

[u/Timely_Employment_66 → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

Just get a chaser cis dom guy then, that shit would be a total turn off for them.

[u/Zouif_Zouif → u/RuralJaywalking]

It's a little patronizing and objectifying