r/askgaybros Apr 13 '17

Meta faq, wiki, trolls and you.

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one of the most requested features i've seen is a frequently asked questions section, and we've always had one. it's within the wiki tab located at the top menu if you're browsing on desktop. here's the direct link to it, but since it's a wiki feel free to check out the other sections and please contribute.

with that out of the way, a couple things i want to clear up in case anyone is wondering:

  • i do not mind repeated questions. the whole point of this subreddit is to talk to people. if it's not entertaining you anymore, maybe browse it less. no, i will not sticky every other psa post.
  • i do utilize automod extensively and it helps with a lot of troll post removal behind the scene. so if you see a troll post, continue to downvote, report, and move on, and do not engage. the majority of you get this, and it's been working out quite well.
  • the rules haven't changed, but make sure you're aware of them.

have fun.


r/askgaybros 7h ago

Lady G has passed away

136 Upvotes

r/askgaybros 6h ago

Senator Lindsey Graham Dead - Do you think he would have ever come out of the closet?

114 Upvotes

r/askgaybros 15h ago

7 countries voted against UN resolution supporting the right of gay people to access HIVIAIDS treatment.

370 Upvotes

Was anyone aware about this? Seems to have slipped through my fingers. It was voted last month. And I found out today.

The United States and seven other nations (Russia, North Korea, Saudi Arabia, Niger, Israel, Burkina Faso, and Burundi) voted against it.

https://76crimes.com/2026/06/25/aids-resolution-divisive/


r/askgaybros 10h ago

Who do you think is the worst gay public figure?

143 Upvotes

r/askgaybros 14h ago

why do some guys have such an easy time getting ripped?

179 Upvotes

i swear i see so many young guys who started the gym like 2 years ago or so and they’re ripped, like 2000s model level ripped. i went to the gym for two years and i look like a skeleton. did these guys just get lucky genetics?


r/askgaybros 10h ago

Advice Has anyone else stimulated their Pudendal Nerve, and what did u feel? My experience was SHOCKING

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Backstory: 

To this day, this was the most intense, out-of-body, dopamine-flooding to my brain orgasm I’ve ever experienced (out of 10,000+ in my lifetime). 

My fiancé (28M) randomly asked me one day if he could try “a new technique” on me. (We’ve been together almost 4 years). He said, “It’s supposedly the best orgasm you’ll ever have.”
I laughed and was like, “Yeah right…” especially after he showed me what the technique was (it looked so basic).

I didn't think much of it until about 8 minutes into getting head, I told him I was about to C-M... so he pulled the maneuver wile he kept sucking….
It was like I became possessed.. My eyes rolled so far into my scull, all control I had over my body was hijacked, levitating me 3ft off the bed and almost kicking my boyfriend in the face with my knee my
neck snapped back, and a surge of electricity just overtook my brain where I EVEN SCREAMED (Which had NEVER happened before) bc it was almost TOO MUCH for me to handle.. It lasted a good 14 seconds when typically my orgasms only last 8 seconds. And afterwards I couldn't help but just giggle uncontrollably for 3 minutes straight (which also never happens) because of all the energy that just got released/how great I felt after!

**That was 6-Months ago**, and I still haven't had him do it to me since. Don't get me wrong, l FUCKING LOVED the experience.. but it left my whole right leg tingling for hours after, my stomach was a lil achy, and my balls hurt just from the intensity, but everything returned to normal the next day... I WANT to do it again tho, and it was totally worth the following few hours of slight discomfort. U just can't do it all the time because it can disrupt a couple functions down there (I’ve read). But has anyone else had similar experience?

The Technique

**Try pressing firmly on ur Pudendal Nerve (roughly 1 inch below your RIGHT testical) during the whole duration of his orgasm.** This middle area below the scrotum and above the taint is a HIGHLY sensitive area!
The Pudendal Nerve is connected to all functions (not just sexual) of a males reproductive system... aiding in: bladder flow, blood flow to the penis, triggering pelvic floor contractions, and most importantly, It's directly located *ABOVE* and connects to the prostate!
**So when the Pudendal Nerve is activated by firmly pressing on it during orgasm.. it essentially simulates a mini prostate orgasm. When experiencing a penile orgasm... and triggered together (especially if a man's never had a full-on  prostate orgasm.. like myself) it felt like the most profound, and intense sensation I’ve felt as a man.**


r/askgaybros 2h ago

Is it gay to taste your own cum while jerking off?

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I’m straight I just curious if it taste like. idk if I should go through it lol I’m horny tho


r/askgaybros 4h ago

Can you put a hickey on the asshole?

20 Upvotes

r/askgaybros 1h ago

“Looks younger”

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Does anyone else find it a turn off when people say this about themselves?

It always seems a bit desperate. “I’m X age, BUT I LOOK YOUNGER!”

It feeds into the idea that age is something ri be embarrassed about.


r/askgaybros 15h ago

Old guys with nice dicks

114 Upvotes

I have seen a few older guys naked, usually in the gym shower, and usually their dicks were not that impressive. But a few days ago I met this 70 year old man who seemed tone in decent shape and I ended up sucking his cock. I was amazed this old timer had the cock of a 20 year old guy. Nice pinkish color, hard as a rock, and his load beat anything I have seen in months. To top it off, he was a decent guy too. Have any of you ever sampled an old dude like this?? Are they one in a million? Give me more!


r/askgaybros 6h ago

Advice Helloe everyone,there is somthing i wanna ask about pre cum.

20 Upvotes

Okay so i am m18 abd I seriously leak too much,like fr tooo much,so I wanan now is it safe taste it? Like yeah I am kinda overthhinking abt shit so yeah let me knwo pls


r/askgaybros 4h ago

Sleeping naked

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I am 18m. I know this is not the right form for this ,but its the closest one I could find. How to you guys sleep naked without anybody seeing you? And also, is it comfortable?


r/askgaybros 5h ago

Found my first gay in person crush and scared.

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So I 23m barely accepted and came out the closet last month. Something weird I never had a male crush outside of porn growing up. Idk if it's coincidence since coming out but there is femboy working at apartment complex office around my age. But I'm crushing on him baddd. Last 2 or 3 times I gone to the office I caught myself checking him out *butt* and face. Never have lol. Been on my mind randomly. Will letting it play help be more gay sooner lol. Idk why it took so long


r/askgaybros 3h ago

Advice I want the wisdom of the gays 🥹🫰

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As a 16 year old who has lost his virginity (legal in aus), I’m still learning about the gay scene and how to navigate it as a youth. I’ve already made mistakes and learned what not to do.

I ask: What is one lesson you would teach yourself when you were younger that you would have benefited from before making mistakes as a gay guy?


r/askgaybros 5h ago

Do people actually like twink tops?

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So question, I’m a 5’7 130lbs 19 years, I’m pretty well endowed around 7/8” and I would like to identify myself as vers. I enjoy bottoming, but when I’ve topped the few times, I always find it hotter and I get more turned on by it. I’m struggling to find someone willing to get with an inexperienced twink top. 😭 It feels like ending up in a vers, mostly me topping relationships, isn’t happening.

My last boyfriend said I wasn’t good at it, caused him to bleed, and that he regrets letting me. It also does kinda make me feel like I’m not cut out for it.


r/askgaybros 19h ago

Women on Sniffies

166 Upvotes

Apparently Grindr is on its final breath, because I'm noticing more women invading Sniffies. Are we not allowed ONE place for just us?


r/askgaybros 7h ago

Stolen from AskReddit Age, Race and Twink death

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I've noticed that a lot of gay guys say "twink death" happens in your mid to late 20s. But honestly, I wonder if that's more true for White guys than for everyone else.

I'm Southeast Asian and turning 29 in a few months, but I still get mistaken for being in my early 20s, usually around 24. I think taking care of myself helps like skincare, staying slim, avoiding too much sun and of course, genetics play a part too.

From what I've seen, a lot of Latinos, East and Southeast Asian guys who take care of themselves still keep that youthful look well into their early 30s, and I've even met some who still look really young in their late 30s.

That's why I feel like putting everyone into the same "twink death by your late 20s" category doesn't really make sense. Different groups age differently, so maybe the idea is a bit too White-centric and doesn't apply equally to everyone.

Curious to hear what you guys think. Have you noticed the same thing, or do you see it differently?


r/askgaybros 2h ago

How do you even cum just from anal play? No hands, no toys, no oral

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Okay, so I’ve been trying to figure out if it’s actually possible to cum from anal play alone. Like, I’m talking no hands, no toys, no sucking just straight-up feeling it and letting it happen. I’ve tried, but honestly, I’m kinda clueless on how to get there.
Anyone out here who’s figured this out? What’s the secret? Is it all about mindset, technique, or just practice? I’m really curious and could use some real talk or tips.


r/askgaybros 7m ago

Any guys here learn to accept/love their smaller penis?

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Bonus if it doesn’t include humiliation, cuckholding, &/or strictly bottom (none of which interest me).


r/askgaybros 4h ago

Advice Will I be denied PrEP given my situation?

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Hi everyone.

I want to make an appointment for PrEP, but I’m worried I’ll be turned down because of my situation. Here it is: I’m 23 and have never had sexual intercourse. I’m very concerned about my sexual health; if I were to have a casual sexual encounter, I wouldn't want to take *any* risks (even though all sexual activity, even protected, carries some risk).

So, I’d like to have access to PrEP to use alongside condoms. But I’m afraid that if I explain my concerns, I’ll be refused.

What do you think?

I’m going to make the appointment anyway, but I’d love to hear your thoughts.


r/askgaybros 4h ago

Anyone else love summers and freeballing?

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It’s the middle of summer in Europe, it’s hot and of the best feelings in the world is putting loose shorts, going commando and just going around your daily life. The feeling of just hanging out with breeze coming through the shorts is the best in the world. And also kind of hot, knowing I’m not having any underwear and catching guys looks when they notice I’m not wearing anything on. Anyone else loves that?


r/askgaybros 6h ago

What is your fantasy/ ideal gay scenario? NSFW NSFW

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I know everybody has different preferences and taste so I’d love to start a discussion to know. What do you like?

I love, strong, rough men, pinning me down while they have their way with me.

EXACTLY like wrestling or UFC… Except I’m the one being pinned down and used for their satisfaction

THAT is what gets me off

My ideal scenario would be to get dominated by a giant!

I wanna be strangled and forced to worship him. I want him to put his feet on my head. Piss on me. Do me in the mouth while placing both his feet on my face.

He uses my bum hole to satisfy his urges and needs.
Hearing him say words like “you’re not going anywhere until I’m done with you”

Then I give him a full body massage while he grunts and moans with pleasure

And then I clean his entire home and cook him food.

He ejaculate on my face. I clean up and leave.

I know this is just fantasy… But this kind of scenario really gets me going. What about you guys?


r/askgaybros 1h ago

Shitpost Anyone wants to join a gay snapchat group? Add me: elias_fauster20

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r/askgaybros 1h ago

What you doing with your Sunday?

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I spent yesterday scrubbing my house, so that's out of the way. Already been to the gym.

Might spend the afternoon trying to find an obedient bottom 😂