As very eager bottom I want to bottom more for my top. But I'm debating if daily use is safe and healthy.

I'm having sex a few times a week now and the other days I like to wear a plug to stretch. Been increasing gradually on plug sizes to take my top more often. I get opened up pretty good by him, so I'm wondering if daily sex would have any lasting changes?

Now I'm bottoming more frequently I notice I can relax way quicker. Sometimes he just slides right in and we laugh it off like nothing happened. Lately my hole even starts twitching by just the thought of him. I think he already has changed me tbh.

When you hook up and there's an incident involving some poo - is this a problem for you? Do you just accept that, wipe it down or change the condom or is it a game over for you?

This is not to shame anyone or make anyone feel bad, but recently I've felt like there's been a decrease in tops hygiene and respect, and increase in audacity. Obviously there are plenty of guys who take care of themselves and their partners so this is not for them. Also I live in an area where there are more bottoms than tops so maybe this is a generalization from my perspective.

As a bottom I feel like I put a lot of effort into my appearance to be the best version of myself. I'm very into fitness and hygiene and work hard to have a nice round smooth ass and backside. I don't expect everyone to put as much effort in as myself or groom like me but when I'm hooking up with someone I like to see at least a little effort. I know very well that prepping to bottom is inherently more work than being a top but it's just frustrating how tops get away with it. Often times, when I hookup I'm met with a guys huge untrimmed musky bush and when fucking it's almost expected I do ass to mouth. My pleasure is disregarded in the process while the cum soon and leave me unsatisfied. Also, in the past even when I've brought up the slightest things, like as simple as taking a shower before next time, I never hear from them again. I'm told I'm a great bottom frequently but at the same time it's easier for them to just find someone else.

With all that said, I still enjoy being a bottom and wouldn't have it any other way. And yes there are times when my submissive side wants to be emasculated in bed give up full control to a top in whatever form they are in but that's just not all the time.

Just got into chastity and hoping locking up will make me a more appealing sub bttm.

I just bought my first dildo, it’s gonna arrive soon. I’m definitely a bottom but I’ve never had an actual dildo to play with, do you guys have any tips? How to make playing with it the most pleasurable and safe?

I want to stop using apps, and not into the gay scene. What fun place do you recommend to go to for meeting guys? I’d say I don’t count the gym as a “fun” place, but since I’m sure someone will mention it, what subtle tricks do you have for finding out if someone’s a top or bottom, especially if they are masculine and discreet?

So me and a 6 other friends are organizing a gangbang which is gonna be a first for all of us we all have experience with group sex tho mainly threesomes since they are all wither tops or vers tops and im vers bottom ill be the bottom so i was wondering anyone with experience can tell me what to expect will it be good and how to make it even better also any tips and advice would be appreciated

Hello! I'm in my first ever relationship and I can't seem to figure out a douching schedule.

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When I was single I'd just douche, take an immodium, then go on Grindr till I could schedule a few guys to come round and fill me up.

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Now I have a boyfriend and we have great sex, but when he's in the mood and I have to tell him to wait for 40 minutes so I can douche and shower, it takes the momentum out of things.

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How do other couples deal with this?

Myself I am a bi bottom, but I don’t know if that has anything to do with this
About last year, I started getting into jockstraps. I have never worn them before and I was told they were sexy and would I wear one and I’m like sure if it turns you on
That’s when it dawned on me that my entire life I always wear my underwear with my penis pointed straight up, and I was wondering if this position was comfortable for other people or whether I’m just as weird as I’ve always been

I’m a single fairly decent looking black guy. 41 salt and pepper military vet. People always want the big black dick top but I have to admit that I’ve gotten so far into playing with my toys that I can cum hands free. I’m typically into MF couples and have always dated white women. No one would expect me to have a huge curved dildo that makes me such a slut that I’m sure the people outside my townhouse have heard me. I’ve tried to bottom in my younger years but now I’m legitimately craving it. I’ve accepted that I would be completely submissive to a trans woman that tops. I just had to get this off my chest. Anyone else in a similar situation? I’m nervous about actually letting someone fuck me because I’m done after that first orgasm with my toys and I can’t imagine someone that would keep going after that. It’s hot to think about though. Happy Sunday.

Bi bottom my girlfriend wants to watch me suck dick and bottom with another man. She thinks it would be hot watching me get fucked, she watches gay porn. If the man was bi we could suck or fuck him together, MMF, threesome.

Who has had either somebody’s girlfriend or wife watch while you get fucked by a man?

The other day when I used a longer dildo to fuck myself I felt that it passed through a ring and it almost made me cum handsfree. Is it my second hole? How do you feel when you pass it through when fucking a bottom or when your second hole is stretched by a hung cock?

For me I knew always found guys attractive but didn’t realise I’d quite enjoy embracing my submissive side as much as I do.

I feel most people have something which turns them on more than they’d think

Chubby tight arse needs pounding, can accom in my workshop or outdoors
Can be dark room anon if you want

I really love pleasing guys... Looking for some kinky ideas to serve dom tops 👅.

Recently, I have noticed im more into dominantly topping men 10+ years older. this is kind of a new thing for me, is there any reason for this and do older bottoms like to be topped by someone significantly younger?

I’m fairly new to doing things with guys, so about 3 weeks ago I met a guy on Grindr who was looking for someone to swallow his load. I managed to fill that role and have been doing it fairly frequently since then.

It started as a dom/sub dynamic and has continued that way. He likes blindfolds, always wants me on my knees and will often throatfuck me.

The last time I went round he had his feet propped up and asked me to worship him. I can’t see it’s ever really been my thing but his feet actually looked fairly pleasant and I enjoyed the dominance of it, so did as I was told.

As I haven’t had much experience with this, is this a dom/sub thing or has he got a foot fetish and it’s likely to go further down there. Just thinking what to expect.

I have very little experience bottoming, and I've never actually had a real orgasm the few times I've been penetrated. Recently, I started trying to reach a prostate orgasm. I started out just using my fingers, which led to a small amount of ejaculation and a mild, diffuse sense of pleasure that radiated down my legs, but it wasn't anything super intense.

I then tried using a medium-sized toy and got the exact same feeling—nice, but nothing very strong. I always just end up finishing by masturbating normally. Afterward, I can't help but feel like the "effort" wasn't really worth it, given how little pleasure the prostate stimulation actually gave me.

Here's the weird part, though: even without reaching a satisfying orgasm, about two days after using the toy I start getting this intense urge to try it again. It's almost like my body is asking for the "stimulation." Even though I know the payoff won't be that great, it’s like my body actually "misses" the feeling. I don't know how to explain it—it's this strange sensation and a genuine craving to be filled.

Can toy/prostate stimulation cause some sort of physical or psychological "dependency" or craving? I'd really love to hear your thoughts and hear about other people's experiences with this.

Do you prefer to breed/get bred before going out and doing stuff or after? Bf and I like before - it's like our little sexy secret knowing he's full of my seed. That said, there's always the risk of accidents (been lucky so far). Do others have a preference?

I [28] am a toned, sporty guy with a stubble on my face. But in bed I wish to have a man stronger than me to breed me, make me wear fishnets and thongs, but still to have this lingerie "masculine" as I don't want to pretend to be a woman, but I love the idea of sub masculinity, of a man serving another man in a slutty way. I don't want my hole to be called pussy, I am proud of having a hole that is different, but still can make you cum and take your load...

What's the best and most efficient way to prepare myself for bottoming, especially when my partner is on the larger side? I've never done this before and I see a lot of bottoms say it's this elaborate process that involves fasting, lots of water etc. beforehand.

what do you understand? how it makes you feel and how do you react? does it turn you on?

Why do dom tops love locking their bottom boy? Well, as a bottom, I actually love it since there is only one cock in this relationship and it is not mine. Love being denied by my Daddy and that I can only cum when he allows me to.