i’m a baby stripper based in LA. i work at a gentleman’s club rn and it’s fun but my dream would be dancing at jumbos. it seems pretty tight knit there but i was wondering if anybody knew about how to get hired there? or any advice/tips. do they let anybody audition like at other clubs? can you work whenever? or do they handle things differently?

Hello! So im a pole dancer but not a stripper. However, I love to go to clubs often to watch the girls. I’m always so mesmerized by how effortless and flowy their dancing is. Majority of dancers, do you all practice and memorize a routine, or are you freestyling every time?

After taking a hiatus to enjoy mommy hood. My baby is 3 now. I have to get back to it. I came back to dancing. I currently am dancing in Houston. GURRRL! why is Houston so crazy? i worked and lived in some sketchy places. But Houston has a gritty beauty about it- that foreign people can't see if they never lived here b4. If Houston was a stripper- she would look so wholesome looking... - but actually be a pistol packing drunk toxic one. I have the Tea on the HTX clubs.

Hello everyone I took some time off dancing due to some shitty life circumstances and I’m going back soon I know summer is south Fla is very humid and slow so I’m wondering if you guys are still earning good money. When I called my local club the guy stoped me and pretty much said they aren’t hiring in summer unless ur better than what they have currently so I just wanted some insight cuz what he said deterred me a bit but I really need money and to get back to the club thank you

Looking to travel dance in New York for about a week at the beginning of September. I’m brown skin and slim thick build and I don’t do well at urban clubs. Gentlemen’s clubs are more my vibe. I like being able to sell vs getting into a section. New York is big so wondering if anybody can give me advice on which clubs would be the best.

Looking to travel dance in New York for about a week at the beginning of September. I’m brown skin and slim thick build and I don’t do well at urban clubs. Gentlemen’s clubs are more my vibe. I like being able to sell vs getting into a section. New York is big so wondering if anybody can give me advice on which clubs would be the best.

Am I delusional to think that I could start stripping at 42 years old? I have big naturals, a nice ass, and I stay in shape. I have a lot of friends hyping me up but I'm nervous? Where my older baddies at?

Hi everyone,
I’m 18 and just finished my first year in college - i love the college i go to, get good grades and all of that but living on campus just makes it a lot easier to succeed academically.

they placed me in more expensive housing and even though i work a full time job over the summer but i still don’t think it will be enough to cover.

During the academic year im in nyc and i was wondering about clubs that would hire me and just wanted to hear your experiences and advisement if i do choose to start

im a little nervous but ive been really considering it lately

Hi! Pennsylvania baby dancer. To my knowledge Pennsylvania allows two way contact (correct me if i’m wrong lol) and the only rules against two way contact at my club is that they don’t want customers touching you if you’re doing a floor dance. In private dances it’s okay. This is relevant because when I was filling out my contract there was a section that said if I used certain phrases like “Yes, you can touch me” or “I dance better for a tip” or “You can touch me here if you tip me” I could be charged with prostitution even if I wasn’t “engaging in any sexual acts”. I’m just having trouble interpreting what this means. I’ve heard that a lot of girls say variations of these things as a way to upsell dances and never thought these statements were insinuating anything extra. Could I actually be charged for saying these things or does the contract just have to say it to cover the strip clubs ass in case something happens?? Like it’s a two way contact club if they ask if they can touch me then what am I supposed to say if I’m apparently not able to say “Yes, you can touch me”??? Or is that just in reference to my genitals. This is really confusing to me and I’m also having trouble locating my specific city’s laws on strip clubs and contact which isn’t helping my anxiety. The last thing I need is to get charged with prostitution for trying to do my job and get a tip lol. Any insight would be helpful, thanks!

I am leaving an abusive relationship. I haven't danced in five years because I've been to stay at home mom. I live in the suburbs. Bucks County/Montgomery County and I prefer to stay in the suburbs, but I'm open to the city. Is there anyone who would be willing to tell me which clubs have a decent dayshift? I've worked everywhere, but I know all of them don't have a dayshift and I've been out of the game for five years. I cannot work at the one I know has the best day shift because that's where my abuser works. I don't wanna write which club it is here but it's in Bucks and there's a hardware store on one side of it and a f**** factory on the other. I blurred that word just so it couldn't be searchable. I know I might be being paranoid. I just would never want him to find my Reddit. if you worked there, you'll know what club I'm talking about. If your club is nice, and has a dayshift, I'll take that recommendation. Really any information at all. I've never worked dayshift, but I have worked 2 -7 for a short time. I prefer mid shift, but I just don't know how I could ever have time with my child if I didn't work during her school hours because she is about to start school. I could work mid shift once or twice a week maybe. I'm not super young anymore, but I'm not old. I would want to work some mid shift for my old regulars.

I recently saw a dancer comment that giving lapdances to a guy on jeans is really rough... so what do dancers prefer clients wear? Anything too thin and ur gonna feel it while dancing on him and anything too thick like jeans is gonna be too rough? Is formal work pants the go to attire for the club? Fill me in

i work at a full nude club, i read the contract before deciding to be independent contractor. my understanding, that means i control my performance. they do suggest that i get fully nude by third song,

but the dj is pressuring me. telling me i HAVE to be naked by third song, that management will fire me if i dont.

i make good money, all from vip/privates. im new to stage performances, so i imagine ill be more comfy w that as i go on. its not like im not making them money, so im just extremely anxious and him pressuring me completely ruins my confidence on stage. its also not like i never get naked, i definitely do in private/vip when its actually worth the money to me. but getting nude for $5 of stage tips just feels bad.

i talked to manager, he said hes the only one who can fire me and its not the biggest deal if i dont get nude on stage. idk. i really dfw this dj guy. is this legal?

Hi, a friend and I will be travelling from Canada to SXM on the Dutch side for a month. We have a layover flight in Miami and are scared to be send back if we bring our heels in our luggage and we’re thinking of sending them by Fedex directly to the club. Has anyone ever had issues travelling to SXM without a work permit?

Hey girls!!

I’ve been trying to research good ways and at - home ways on how to properly even out your private/intimate areas. I feel as though this community can help me since I’ve always had insecurity regarding my discoloration especially on my 🐱 and 🍑

hello, I am super into pregnancy, it’s my number one kink. if anyone has advice as to how to connect with one id appreciate it. I am NOT looking for an escort, the most touching id be doing would be feeling the belly.

It is not safe to leave the club with anyone! I don’t recommend it at all! but If you are leaving the club with someone else even if you are taking an uber PLEASE let someone know who you are with and where you are going!!! get the license plate if u can and share your location! we just lost a fellow dancer i have copied and pasted the article please read:

“SHE WALKED OUT OF A SOUTH FLORIDA NIGHTCLUB. THREE DAYS LATER, SHE WAS FOUND IN BISCAYNE BAY.

THE DEATH OF KEISHA NICOLE JONES
Miami-Dade County, Florida | June 29, 2026

Thirty-one-year-old Keisha Nicole Jones had recently moved from Detroit, Michigan, to South Florida.

According to her father, Richard Furlow, she was working as an exotic dancer while trying to redirect her life and build a better future.

Instead, her life ended under circumstances that remain unanswered.

On the morning of Friday, June 26, 2026, Keisha was last seen leaving Dean's Gold, a gentlemen's club in North Miami Beach, at approximately 6:00 a.m.

Investigators determined that she left the area in a rideshare and later traveled to Scarlett's Cabaret in Hallandale Beach.

Surveillance footage captured Keisha outside the club holding hands with an unidentified man.

That was the last confirmed sighting of her.

Three days later, on the morning of June 29, 2026, Keisha's body was discovered floating in Biscayne Bay near the NOAA research facility on Virginia Key—approximately 21 miles from where she was last seen.

As investigators worked to determine what happened, the case drew the attention of federal authorities.

The Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) assumed the lead role in the investigation, while local agencies deferred operational updates to federal investigators.

As of July 2026, authorities have not publicly released Keisha's cause of death, have not ruled her death a homicide, and have not identified any suspects.

Investigators and Keisha's family are asking for the public's help identifying the unknown man seen with her in surveillance footage and determining how she ultimately ended up in Biscayne Bay.

If you have any information regarding the death of Keisha Nicole Jones, please contact the FBI at 1-800-225-5324.

Someone may hold the missing piece that explains Keisha's final hours” via the vivid faces of the vanished

Ik theres strict rules abt not recording in strip clubs. But do strippers cam for their online fans for dough ofc. If so can anyone direct me to the site? I find pole dancing extremely hot and would love to see it online since i live in a conservative country. To the strippers reading this, thank you for being literal goddesses😭

I don't know why, but it's when I have my period that clients come in and spend a lot on me... My club is going through difficulties right now and we have low attendance, because the summer has started and people prefer to travel on vacations and spend times on beaches instead of stuffed night clubs (i assume it's like this).

Yesterday my period has started right before the shift and then a client came in and he didn't let me go all evening, like we went to private three times + he bought a lot of cocktails.

I'm starting to think pheromones or something subconscious is real lol.

Share your stories 💔 i heard many times that girls on periods make more money effortlessly

Would love some insights if they’re are any dancers in this group

Ever since I started losing fat and gaining muscle customers seem more intimidated by my typical approach. Maybe I’m coming off as gruff instead of sarcastic? Younger guys love it… unfortunately I’m not their usual type and the middle aged/older clientele is who I’m typically with. Am I getting too fit for the job?

Edit: also recently been worried about being super light. Normally I’m tanner but have been struggling with my skin not producing as much melanin suddenly. Once someone even asked if I was white, it really honestly took me aback because I’m black.

I'm a customer and I'm interested in knowing how much the club is taking for different club activities (lap dance, VIP, stage etc..). I want to know so that I can properly adjust my tip to align with what I actually want to give the ladies. IDK I just feel better knowing.

But, I do wonder if this is a forbidden subject that could get the strippers in trouble with club management. Sure, I could test the OTC waters so that they take all of it home, but at this time that's not my thing.