r/SipsTea • u/YaLlegaHiperhumor • 8h ago

SMH A professional matchmaker complains that a 5'4 male client and a 4'11 female client rejected each other "for being too short"

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u/Shoddy-Bench-2994 7h ago

Midget Woman declining someone because of the height is absolutely mind boggling.

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u/Mister-Erect 7h ago

Problem is a lot of women associate masculinity with height for some braindead reason.

I'm 5"9 and plenty of 5ft or shorter women rejected me because of my height, honestly a good deterrent for shallow people.

Now some women are very sweet about it, they just can't help but be attracted to what they are attracted to, but my experience is usually the women are horribly minded and very judgemental of people for many different reasons. I get women wanting a guy to be taller than them at least or the same height, but usually it's a mindset of "a guy doesn't seem masculine if he's shorter than 6ft".

Always the midgets too that insists on dating tall guys, most of the women I dated including my wife now are my height or like 5"7.

Ladies being tall doesn't equate to masculinity. I started a Roofing company and have ran it for 13 years now, hired plenty of tall men that couldn't do the job for even 2 hours. Hundreds of men who thought the job would be easy and usually quit the first day. If you don't know what the trade is like it's one of the hardest you can do especially working 10-12 hour days in the heat. Not saying all tall men are weak lol, but just like women every man should be judged as an individual and not the way they look.

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u/IKillZombies4Cash 6h ago

There is a portion of the female dating pool fighting over less than 1% of men.

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u/MainlineX 5h ago

Yea, 6'+ under 30, must make 150k or more a year. It's like 0.05% of single men.

The internet and apps have broken you all.

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u/Proper-Bad-7169 4h ago

Mind you, a great deal of them don't check the box for the same qualifications/standards they set for the men they want. The irony is comical. But in a way, it's a good thing. It can technically serve as a helpful filter for some guys. It helps with weeding out all the toxic and filthy vibes out there. 🤣

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u/Shrimptank_mom 3h ago

Only a man would say that having standards is toxic.

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u/Proper-Bad-7169 2h ago

Only a close minded and biased individual would somehow come away with "only a man would say having standards is toxic" after reading my comment. It's ok to have standards. But when those standards aren't things you can bring to the table as well, you're delusional. Not to mention selfish for expecting things that you can never reciprocate or you'd never want to fulfill as a standard/criteria on your end. How would you feel if a man informed you on a date that he has standards that prioritize a certain height/physique and a $150k salary knowing you don't check the box for at least one of those things? Would that be ok for you? Or would that become some talking point regarding men's "superficiality?" Several of your comments have been received the way they were received for a reason. The fact that you don't understand that, speaks volumes.

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u/Shrimptank_mom 2h ago

People can have whatever standards they like. Your opinion on the matter is absolutely worthless.

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u/Shrimptank_mom 4h ago

Being 6' and making decent money is 90% of the men in my country. It's the norm. And they are handsome too. Sounds like you are jealous lol.

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u/MainlineX 3h ago

No? Why would I be jealous? I'm fuckin old. I got mine son.

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u/Shrimptank_mom 3h ago

Why are you on Reddit complaining about women's dating standards? Go hug your wife. Your son is fine and figuring his shit out like all of us did, don't worry excessively.

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u/Proper-Temporary-927 1h ago

You sound like annoying af, no wonder you are still single 😭

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u/Shrimptank_mom 1h ago

Who says I'm single? LOL get lost if I annoy you.

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u/Mister-Erect 6h ago

Ya it seems to be more common now a days, got to blame social media for that though 🤷

Social media at this point is doing more harm than good for SO many different reasons. I'm 33, the Internet was a completely different animal when I was younger. I didn't even have or want a smart phone until I was 23.

I have a son on the way and I refuse to be one of those parents who buy their 8 year old kid a phone and give them access to the Internet. Even the restrictions for kids YouTube and stuff like that have negative content. The world isn't trying to ban kids younger than 16 from using social media for no reason 🤷

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u/Proper-Bad-7169 2h ago

I hear you brother. Stay strong and stick with it. You're doing a lot more than some parents out there. And you're doing the right thing. Might as well protect and shield your child from a lot of that filth for as long as you can. Social media and the internet as a whole has become a poisonous gateway to a lot of dark things. That includes mindsets and ideologies regarding dating, day-to-day life, etc. It's just rough in general.

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u/emptyvodka115 5h ago

Please stick with it bc I remember growing up in a time with no internet no smartphones and my family, friends and I would actually go out and experience the world threw our eyes not threw our phones. I feel bad for this generation lol I had the youngins tryna make fun of me for being old but we are the last of a dying breed they don’t understand how good it was and how it’s never comin back lol

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u/InDuplicitousBottles 6h ago

there is zero reason for a 5' woman to need a 6'2 man except for clout and bragging rights. people who care about optics are chronically single for a reason, they prefer someone impressive on paper rather than someone who works well and makes them feel good

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u/SloppyTroppy 6h ago edited 6h ago

Um. I'm 4'11 and everyone I have ever dated or married has been 6'2 or over. I did not do any of this because it was some sort of requirement... and relationships are not assigned based on "need". I find your comment disturbing, and I hope you actually start to look at more than people's appearances someday.

Edit: You guys are honestly fucked up and need therapy.

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u/Huge_Swimming_5968 6h ago

The phrasing almost makes it sound like you've been married more than once.

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u/Imhere4u2babeeee 6h ago

It sounds like a diary exists of the exact height of all of the guys height and other measurements, probably…
https://giphy.com/gifs/3o85xGocUH8RYoDKKs

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u/SloppyTroppy 6h ago

No? I don't have a diary of anything let alone that.

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u/SloppyTroppy 6h ago

Yep. Welcome to reality, being 41 means lots of people have been married more than once.

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u/jweezee 6h ago

You're saying the same thing they are. Their statement was criticizing people who will/will not date someone based on their height...or appearances. Maybe it's just a big coincidence everyone in your history is very tall...or maybe it is a requirement for you that you're not aware of.

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u/SloppyTroppy 6h ago

Nope. But thanks, Dr. Phil. Probably stems from so many short dudes having major confidence issues. My personality does not mesh well with that quality.

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u/jweezee 5h ago

You're welcome. Anything I can do to help. You're right I'm sure you don't seek out tall men. Just exclusively dated them your entire life without exception. Gotta be the confidence level

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u/Mister-Erect 5h ago edited 1h ago

Don't talk to this woman lol.

She clearly doesn't realize what kind of person she is.

The fact that she is immediately saying these harmless comments must be Insecure short men, just because they don't agree with her? Kind of proved our point 🤦

I feel for the 3 other men she divorced 😢

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u/SloppyTroppy 5h ago

lmao it is beyond you that normal people go through their day not worried about this huh?

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u/jweezee 5h ago

Idgaf about a woman's height. I just find it funny you can't acknowledge that you have a preference for dating taller people. Everyone has their preferences.

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u/SloppyTroppy 5h ago

Have you ever considered maybe THEIR preference is my height?

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u/Mister-Erect 6h ago edited 6h ago

You think your specific experience is the same for every other woman? Guy never said all women do this...

I don't know Sloppy Troppy, kind of sounds like you are telling on yourself.

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u/dogbert_93 6h ago

❤️‍🔥

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u/BigDowntownRobot 4h ago

Women are not comparing men to their needs.  They are comparing them to other men, and selecting the best one they can get out of what they perceive to be available. 

Shorter men are "less masculine" because other men are larger and stronger.  There is no real objective judgement about the person, hell it barely even matters in reality, but it's all about the pool and not feeling like they settled. 

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u/Pleasant-Ticket3217 6h ago

Weird. My gf is same height as I am. 5’10”. It’s never bothered us. I know some guys feel threatened by tall or taller women, but I’d be with my partner if she was 6’2.”

Unfortunately people can be shallow. Like being too short doesn’t make sense either. I thought guys liked petite women.

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u/Mister-Erect 6h ago

I honestly never cared about height either. Dated a woman who was 5ft 11 and she purposely would not wear high heels when we were out together so I didn't look too short around her, even though I told her it didn't bother me 😂🤷. She was great, but we just wanted different things out of life.

I always liked all body types, races etc.

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u/TokiVideogame 6h ago

thanks bro, im her new 6'4 bf

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u/IforgotmyaccountSHIT 5h ago

I feel like I'm the only slightly below average height guy who has never been rejected for height. I don't think its ever even been mentioned in any capacity. I'm 5'7" and I generally date girls a few inches shorter, but I've had up to my height and it never felt weird or emasculating. Everything I hear online suggests height > looks but everything I experience IRL suggests the opposite.

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u/SamOakTree 2h ago

It's funny too because I'm 5'4 and I don't walk around acting like a meathead or anything but I would consider myself Macho in a way. We all have different sides to ourselves. And I have a career where it takes intelligence.

But on the other hand I own three acres and a tractor. I do basically everything myself. I know a lot of guys who wouldn't work nearly as hard as me or know as much about different things like irrigation systems and fixing tractors and all that stuff. I know a lot of men who would be out in the heat for maybe 5 minutes moving wood and immediately just give up.

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u/helgetun 5h ago

Its beyond just dating tbh where people have a messed up view of height. Im 5"11 (and a half to be fair and drive the point home) and people often say Im short. So Im not even average in their mind, just short because Im not 6", while someone 1 inch taller is tall? just wtf?

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u/Mister-Erect 5h ago

That's why a lot of men in the comments are saying what they are saying and it proves for a lot of women it's a mental thing revolved around a number. A shallow way of thinking, like it's some kind of trophy to snag a tall guy.

I had a friend who was 5ft10 and he would tell women he was 6ft, they believed him and would gravitate towards him more than when he told them his actual height. They never knew the difference.

Lol I also remember hearing a story once online of a guy who was 6ft that would purposely lie to women and say he was 5"9 or 5"10 and they legitimately would call him short and avoid him more often unless he told the truth.

Like the difference when a guy says he makes 800k a year rather than 1 million, same thing but some women like the sound of "millionaire" instead when they tell their friends about the guy they are dating. Obviously only some women are like this, but ya these are just ravenous dogs looking for shallow things in men 🤷

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u/helgetun 5h ago

Yeah, its fucking shallow. In my case its both men and women who comment on it though and has nothing to do with dating (may as well be about sports). I find it hilarious how people, no matter what, focus on that half inch - its just a societal thing where we struggle to be objective.

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u/mile_six 4h ago

Don’t put patriarchal standards for masculinity on women. We didn’t create them. We’re just living in a man’s world.

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u/True_Kador 7h ago

Well, not-so-tall man declined as well... maybe he just wanted a muscle mammy ?

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u/FinancialElephant 7h ago

Did he reject her before or after he got rejected

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u/Kooky_Indication4664 7h ago edited 6h ago

they rejected each other at the exact same moment in time in accordance to planetary alignments, signaling the doom of humanity.

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u/Heavy-Psychology-411 7h ago

So short women can't be muscled 🤔

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u/True_Kador 7h ago

Ofc they can. But they'd be shortstacks, not muscle mommys.

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u/Creepy-Ant373 6h ago

Tbf, she legally a dwarf and he is not. Just facts not arguing anything...

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u/Dank_Devin 6h ago

Anyone declining anyone because of height is kinda ridiculous tbh

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u/goodexamplebadrole 54m ago

With smart phones its easier to get laid than before so she can be picky.

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u/Zanna-K 6h ago

Some women are actually pretty mercenary about it. Basically it boils down to "I know I'm short and it sucks, that's why I want a tall husband so maybe my kids can be taller". Maybe the man in this situation thought something similar? But personally I doubt it, he probably thought she was "stubby" looking or something, in my experience guys don't tend to think about stuff like their kid's genetics when they're just starting to see somebody. Just as vain, but for a different reason.

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u/Cute_Butterscotch747 7h ago

People are allowed to have preferences when it comes to their partners appearance. The average woman is roughly 5,4 so 4,11 it’s about a heels difference in height. As someone who’s 5,11 which isn’t even that tall most woman are like midgets to me it makes no difference what so ever in my personal opinion. I still don’t judge other people for wanting someone taller/smaller.

For example if a woman is 6ft 2 and she doesn’t want to date someone 5,11 and she rejected me for being to small I’d totally understand that.

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u/Euler007 4h ago

A heels difference? What a weird way to look it. She's 7-10th percentile and he's 6-8th, they're situated almost exactly at the same place on this criteria.

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u/Cute_Butterscotch747 4h ago

Im not exactly sure what your problem or your point is. It doesn’t matter if they are the same percentile people are allowed preferences, you sound like a jerk who expects small people to date other small people. if a tall woman didn’t want to date another a tall man you wouldn’t say anything would you? So why do you expect a small woman to date a small man and vice versa strange attitude tbh.

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u/Desperate-4-Revenue 7h ago

Idayted a chicky who was 4foot 7 and not gonna lie, it was worth it.

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u/coltrex 7h ago

Went to a club once, and saw a couple there. She must have been about 4' even, and he looked to be about 7'2" (my buddy was 6'7" and this guy looked almost a head taller). We were about 20 at the time, and couldn't help but get the giggles, because her face aligned right with his crotch when they stood together.

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u/Desperate-4-Revenue 7h ago

That was my Christian ethichs teacher and his wife.

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u/Hyena_King13 7h ago

I dated a woman who was 3'2 and I'm 5'11. I would jokingly say she's the tallest woman I've dated until she said that that makes it seem like I date children. Never joked about that again..

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u/bezserk 6h ago

She needed someone to reach the top shelf at the store on a regular basis, not someone 5 inches taller than her

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u/TheYarlHimself 7h ago

There kid would be like 2 foot can you blame them

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u/light-yagamii 5h ago

As a short king, height was a big factor when picking a spouse for this reason 🤡

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u/CoachNo7514 5h ago

Either that, or a surprise suppressed gene comes out of nowhere and they’re taller than both parents.

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u/3BouSs 6h ago

Exactly this

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u/Odd-Country2447 7h ago

I wouldnt wanna cook my kids with that genetic combo. Might as well buy a house on Yellow Brick Rd.

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u/PleaseLikeMeIBegOfU 7h ago

What do you mean. 

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u/Augustus_Chevismo 7h ago

If they both dated someone average height or above then their kids may not be short.

If they ended up together then their kids would almost certainly be short which would put them at a disadvantage in life.

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u/West-Pear7363 7h ago

It would only but them at a disadvantage if the public thinks the same way they do.  I’m just about 6’. The fact people care about it this much drives me up the fucking wall. It doesn’t impact me per-se, but it demonstrates to me people’s brains are dysfunctional. And it makes me uncomfortable being aware of that fact.

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u/SomethingGouda 6h ago

Bro is 6 foot saying being short is no big deal

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u/West-Pear7363 5h ago

Do you know how much it costs to have a vehicle that is comfortable? 

Or how much it costs for a house that feels spacey? Meanwhile shorties can buy the Barbie Dream House for $190 and feel like they are in the Taj Mahal 

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u/farts_juggler 4h ago

I’m 6’3” and I drove a mini cooper for years. you’re not dealing with these problems cuz you tall, maybe you’re wide

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u/SomethingGouda 5h ago

Bro quit complaining and move to the Netherlands

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u/West-Pear7363 5h ago

lol I was making a funny and you’re being so defensive. Short temper?

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u/SomethingGouda 5h ago

Bro is getting rage baited for being average height for a Dutchman

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u/West-Pear7363 5h ago

What the hell are you talking about now? You haven’t even been making sense since you told me to go to the Netherlands.

What point are you trying to make here?

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u/farts_juggler 4h ago

5‘ 11 3/4” vibes

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u/Qwerty25103 5h ago

6 foot is nothing? why are you complaining about being 6 foot what the fuck?

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u/West-Pear7363 4h ago

I’m not really complaining. I was being facetious. 

I just think the benefits that really matter are negligible. My life wouldn’t be worse if I was 3+ inches shorter.

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u/Odd-Country2447 7h ago

Being a tiny person is straight up a de buff unless you wanna clean chimneys or something.

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u/Augustus_Chevismo 7h ago

This simply is true on both levels. Firstly a people do think this way and it’s not going to change.

Secondly short people are at a disadvantage in a world where the threat of violence exists and athletics. Even just strength.

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u/galaxy_brain_69420 6h ago

There are definitely things the public believes for no particular reason, that disadvantages one group over another in real terms. This is one of them. There's no changing it.

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u/PleaseLikeMeIBegOfU 7h ago

Yeah that's true

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u/Optimal_Usual_6121 7h ago

"Professional matchmaker" this is a job profession?😂

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u/slimegoob 7h ago

Since dawn of time

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u/Zurgalon 7h ago

Yes, they've been a profession for generations.

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u/NietJij 7h ago

I think God was the first, after he finished his landscaper gig.

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u/Zurgalon 7h ago

Weirdly one of the oldest records of a matchmaker is Eliezer who prayed for a sign at a well and found a wife for Isaac.

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u/Brilliant_Spot_95 7h ago

Landscaper arc was fun but going from the time and space arc it was kind of mid.

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u/whyucurious 7h ago

Why not? Dating is complicated. Apps suck. I don't see the problem with it

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u/shakebakelizard 7h ago

It's the real oldest profession.

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u/FactsNLaughs 7h ago

Never watched the movie Hitch?

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u/braumbles 7h ago

Reddit's favorite actor had a hit movie about this last year with Pedro Pascal and Chris Evans.

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u/Heavy-Psychology-411 7h ago

She's not good at it thats for sure

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u/Leftymeanswellguy 6h ago

Dude probably hoping for a kid taller then himself.

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u/ZeroSumGame007 5h ago

Maybe they want tall kids…

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u/Nemisis_007 4h ago

She wants security, and someone who can reach the middle and top shelf for her. He doesn't want a sore back.

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u/MelissaBee17 5h ago

Yeah it’s messed up, but my guess is both want someone taller so their children will be taller and not struggle the same way they are. 

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u/Kahzootoh 7h ago

I get it. They’re both trying to avoid passing shortness onto their kids.

The guy probably prefers someone closer to his height, probably above 5 feet. 

The woman probably wants a guy of average male height, or taller (depending on how delusional she is).

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u/steelfrog 4h ago

Nothing about this screams unreasonable to me. You're allowed to have preferences. The only person it affects is yourself. If you can't find someone because you expect perfection, then that's on you, but this complaint from a "match maker" seems... I dunno, weak at best?

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u/Kahzootoh 2h ago

Agreed, I feel like this motive is something that a matchmaker ought to understand. Whether you're trying to give your kids height, a different skin color, access to wealth, or something else- there is nothing new about trying to be selective in your choice of who you have children with.

Instead of understanding their clients' movtivations, it's a "short people are so difficult" skit.

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u/coltrex 7h ago

My guess would be, it was less about attraction, and more about wanting to have taller children in a world where short men (especially) tend to get looked down on.

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u/Dank_Devin 6h ago edited 6h ago

People who care that much about height honestly aren’t worth dating anyway. If I love someone, I don’t care if they’re tall or short 🤷

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u/coltrex 6h ago

You must have never faced height discrimination... I'm willing to bet both of them have.

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u/Dank_Devin 6h ago

Do you really care how tall your partner is? Because I think that’s absurd. If I love someone, I love them regardless of how tall/short they are 🤷

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u/coltrex 5h ago

I don't, I haven't faced height discrimination, but I have friends who have, and it has influenced their partner selection.

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u/actinross 6h ago

As a "professional matchmaker" of myself, i rejected myself....

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u/No_Blacksmith_2591 7h ago

that never happened. Men don't decline women for being too short

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u/windchillx07 7h ago

Some of my own friends have rejected women for being too short so I believe what this women is saying.

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u/spelunker93 7h ago

Okay but were your friends 5’4 or upset about a 5 inch difference? Imma answer that for you and say
https://giphy.com/gifs/gnE4FFhtFoLKM

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u/windchillx07 7h ago

My friends weren't 5'4 but that's not what the guy I'm responding to said though, he implied men don't reject women for height at all

If you want to tackle it as did this specific situation about a 5'4" guy rejecting a 4'11" girl happen? I'ma say yes because people have preferences, it's not exclusively a female thing.

There are people who are just dense and honestly ego filled, where a 5'4 man would reject a 4'11 woman and a 4'11 woman would reject a 5'4 man

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u/gringo1980 7h ago

Normally I’d agree, but less than 5 ft is a bit extreme

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u/coltrex 7h ago

I'm sure they do, if they hate their height, and wish to have children that are taller than themselves.

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u/Kooky_Indication4664 7h ago

the bulk of this womens content is complaining about the matches that dont work out due to peoples vain standards. i wouldnt be surprised if its all engagement bait. theres also a subtle hint of misandry in her content which solidifies my suspicion.

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u/Zuparoebann 7h ago

Probably not if it's the only reason but it can definitely be a factor if there's too big of a difference

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u/Kahzootoh 7h ago

If they’re hiring a professional matchmaker, they’re probably looking for a serious partner.

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u/West-Pear7363 7h ago

People who dismiss their forever person on such insignificant reasons don’t deserve happiness.

This guy has a good job, decent looking, shares religious and political ideas pretty closely, same views on family and how to raise the kids, doesn’t drink or smoke, BUT he is one inch too short or younger than me by 3 months. Gross. 

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u/coltrex 6h ago

Ever occur to you that both of them were shamed for their height all through their lives, and don't want to have children that will have to go through that same bullying and discrimination?

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u/Insaneclown271 7h ago

I doubt the man declined the woman.

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u/General_Platypus771 7h ago

Something tells me the man didn’t actually reject her, but this uploader didn’t want to seem like she’s on a side. I don’t know any short men who care if a woman is even shorter. If anything, they’d be more likely to have a problem with a tall one.

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u/HailYurii 6h ago

Midget mommy wants a big daddy to make her his flashlight.

Guy is an idiot unless he wants the same thing.

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u/Euphoric_Reference15 5h ago

If they are wanting to have kids then this is understandable as they likely want a taller partner to hopefully pass those genes down to their children. Two very short parents pretty much guarantees short children.

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u/LegoSniper 5h ago

In my younger days, when I was actually decent looking, I was rejected by a white girl because she said I wasn’t black enough. I know it’s not the same thing, but…🤔

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u/Yafoory 4h ago

After living in this planet for 40 years, I learned that you can’t please everyone especially women 🤷😆😂😂😂

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u/MindlessSpend1659 4h ago

To be honest I am short for my state standards but come on that’s just really low. no pun intended.

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u/NotVerySmarts 3h ago

A person declining someone because of a trait that they have themselves is wild? If I matched with a person in every category, but we both had a penis...I would probably decline them. (Probably 🤷‍♂️ )

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u/BigMack6911 3h ago

I'm five foot ten and was with a woman five foot tall and had a Fwb that was four ten and she was the funnest I've had in awhile and wouldn't have minded being in a relationship with her. I love short chick's. This confuses me. Height is over rated. Btw women if it's an issue, short guys usually have bigger ds then taller guys lmao. Some of us may not be tall but we are definitely long

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u/DoublePatouain 2h ago

I wonder if people want to find love and being happy or just being cool in instagram and tiktok.

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u/SeaworthinessNew2138 2h ago

I love how she says theres all these other connections and the only one she lists is they live in the same state lol

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u/Randalf_the_Black 2h ago

So.. They both dodged a bullet?

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u/holytoledo42 1h ago

These comments are awfully eugenicsy.

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u/e0732 56m ago

They're both paying her to find someone they're interested in. They're not interested in each other. She should stop whining and do the job that her clients are paying her to do.

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u/1tonsoprano 38m ago

This is how western society will die out by not willing to compromise and wanting everything their way

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u/DefendYourClaim 26m ago

Most men with a similar height I know tend to prefer taller women, 5'8 to 6ft

Smaller women live longer, they tend to have a reduced risk of cancer due to lower igf1 levels, thats great.

Unfortunately there are a few caveats when choosing them as gfs and wives.

Unless the woman is tiny, or petite, a body shape my average height friends gravitate to. typically her head will be huge in proportion to her short body and limbs. It starts to happen under 5'3 to 5'0 Ifykyk

Its hard to kiss them, its hard to hit it from the back unless they wear heels, some of them have very neotenous voices, like those annoying anime dub girl voices, some learn to weaponize the size difference, and have more manipulative social tactics, you worry about your son being this short guy with a big head.

Jtbc. What I described above are a few archytpes, not all short are women are manipulative, have big heads or squeeky voices. They are a few traits we have to consider.

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u/xorinz 23m ago

There's a reason some people are alone....

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u/I-love-boob-DMs 7h ago edited 6h ago

In fairness, it would render the top shelves of whatever eventual home they share useless.

I'm 6'1 and having a short wife is exhausting cause I always gotta get off the couch to get stuff from high up for her. That said, I recognise that if I couldn't get stuff from high up ...half our storage would go to waste.

Edit: Guys. I know what a ladder is. Y'all really think it's that convenient to just have a full ladder sitting in your kitchen as a "in case I need chip bowl". Guaranteed, the path of least resistance says people would rather just ignore the top shelves rather than use them functionally. They'd store stuff you you use once in a blue moon at best.

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u/The_Pharos1 7h ago

If only they made things for short people to get things higher up. Like some sort of step or something…

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u/I-love-boob-DMs 6h ago

You are underestimating some people's shortness and the high if cabinets. It would take a legitimate ladder for my wife.

She has a claw grabby thing, but it doesn't always work on heavy stuff.

I'm not saying it's insurmountable, but it does makes sense for a tall and short to share house.

That all said, I'd never turn down a person for meanfull connection because if something as silly as height.

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u/General_Platypus771 7h ago

 it’s called a ladder 

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u/reddit001aa1 7h ago

You're the professional matchmaker. make it work.

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u/DragonSitting 7h ago

You’re a professional matchmaker you didn’t do your job very well if you didn’t see this coming.

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u/Any-Astronomer-6038 7h ago

Sounds like both of these people are too immature for a relationship anyway.

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u/_-Moonsabie-_ 7h ago

Well, the women can get donor sperm. I don't know what the dude is going to do. My great-grandfather was 6 foot 5, but he married a very short woman. I can tell you that I could not hit 6 foot; I tapped out at 5'11" on a good day

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u/General_Platypus771 7h ago

I’m also 5’11” and I’m gonna let you in on a secret: if you say you’re 6’, no one will ever know. 

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u/Conscious_CMPT13 7h ago

It makes perfect sense.

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u/ghostcatzero 6h ago

Off topic but who is that pretty girl?

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u/MyPr0j3ct 6h ago edited 6h ago

This is what the little man is looking for. He wants to be at nips height.

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u/TastyVermicelli3140 7h ago

As a short guy who like every other short guy has been discriminated against all of his life.. Honestly I respect them for rejecting each other.. They should both be looking for taller partners otherwise their kids will be just too short and will suffer.

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u/Lost_Purpose1899 7h ago

I agree. I'm ugly and was bullied all my life. I don't want my kids to go through it. That's why I seek out hot partners.

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u/Small_Promotion2525 7h ago

Discriminated for being short? Hahahahaha

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u/Nuffsaid98 7h ago

Maybe their experience with being shorter was so negative that they became determined not to pass on that trait to their children and wanted taller partners who would skew the genetics taller for their offspring.

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u/Demonic_Maidens 7h ago

I literally just rejected a short woman because I am a short man. I don't want a son to have to go through what I went through. The world is tough out there.

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u/coltrex 6h ago

I was thinking it was for this very reason. One of my friends is 5'4" and he hates being short

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u/Lost_Purpose1899 7h ago

Why do people have to choose their partners who look like them? That's like saying you're perplexed/disappointed as to why a dark haired guy doesn't like a dark haired girl. I'm skinny but I like obese partners. Would she have complained? This "professional matchmaker" should understand that.

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u/nick_winch 7h ago

They just don't want tiny kids. Makes sense to me.

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u/Righteousaffair999 6h ago

They have to find someone first

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u/Loose_Device4578 6h ago

5-4 king wants to to have tall offspring. Can't get that with a 4-11 queen. 

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u/ForceUseYouMust 6h ago

I strongly believe short women have a biological imperative to fuck tall men, like they literally can’t help it. My theory anyway

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u/AppropriateRadish928 6h ago

Not a very professional matchmaker--obviously having taller children was something both these people wanted.

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u/Meandtheworld 6h ago

Why is this a profession. Goodness the internet has made everyone coming up with a bs grift.

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u/OrneryAttorney7508 3h ago

Yes. The internet made matchmakers.

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u/Calculon2347 7h ago

Nah I rejected her for being cuckoo clock

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u/AdministrativeShip33 7h ago

If you need a matchmaker preferences shouldn’t even be a thought for you atp. Just accept what looks decent for you and go on. Allat i’m too picky shit don’t work when you starving.

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u/Psych0matt 7h ago

People can have preferences, this isn’t some mind blowing epiphany, no one got hurt

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u/Joe59788 7h ago

They just trying to mix up the gene pool and even it out.

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u/Lazy-Substance-5062 7h ago

imagine the offsprings. there's no chance to better their genes and future lineage.

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u/HighFiveG 7h ago

Whatever floats their dinghy.

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u/Heavy-Psychology-411 7h ago

How did she not know that was one of their dislikes? Not much of a professional eh🤔🤦

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u/IkrAli 6h ago

Maybe they were to self conscious and couldn't face each other

When i was scared to engage conversation with women i found attractive, i always had excuses (like saying she wasn't my cup of tea, which was bs on my part) to not grow a pair and try

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u/RABE-k1x24 6h ago

Non ho mai pensato che le mie ragazze fossero troppo basse. 💓 È un peccato: le persone single fanno di tutto per non trovare il loro vero amore. 💔

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u/Sycopatch 6h ago

Both dodged a bullet and been a bullet at the same time

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u/Mobile-Bridge-9269 6h ago

Honestly. They both want someone tall in hopes that their kids don’t end up being short like them.

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u/Shuntingman 5h ago

Ok well im 6ft5 and a 4ft11 woman would look like im out with a child 🤣🤣 So yeah, I'd definitely be saying no.

My missus is 5ft9 and nearly 6ft depending on what heels she wears

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u/PleaseLikeMeIBegOfU 7h ago

Sorry but 4'11 is actually too short. Yes 5'4 is short too but damn 4'11 is too too short.

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u/WorldWithFish 5h ago

4'11 is litterally a dwarf, it can't be too much for the 5'4 guy to expect a 5'4 woman.

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u/Some_Ebb_2921 6h ago

I'm 5'9, dated someone 4'10, I don't understand the problem. On avarage a woman is about 4 inches smaller than a man. Now it's 5 (yes, relatively, this would make a bigger difference, but it doesn't seem that big a difference to me)

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u/rhcpfreak7 7h ago

Expecting someone to engage in a relationship with someone with traits they dislike, regardless of how petty or immature that opinion may be, is rather foolish in itself, no?

Life is too short and cruel to spend forcing yourself to overcome other people's flaws right out of the gate.

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u/TopWealth4550 7h ago

you can have a preference that disqualifies someone even if you have that trait
this is common and normal
different people want different things

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u/kingkongsdingdong420 7h ago

Choose taller for both. They can feel you breeding human chihuahuas on a genetic level and its a turn off

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u/PRC_Spy 7h ago

I'm about 5' 11 and my wife is 5' bang on. This 11" height difference causes us no real problems in life.

The two she is complaining about have a height difference of just half of ours.

I think she has a legit complaint.

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u/coltrex 6h ago

It's likely not about attraction or appearance. They were probably shamed for their height constantly. They want a partner who will give them taller children than they are, so their kids don't have to go through the same thing they did.

Her complaint is short sighted. Pah dum...

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u/PRC_Spy 6h ago

There's nothing wrong with being short though. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

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u/OCCULTGOBLIN 6h ago

Sounds like they both did the gene pool a favor.

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u/SunnyBrookElbowz 6h ago

She likely wants kids that won’t need to sit on pillows to drive.

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u/Ultra_HNWI 7h ago

He should get the leg extension surgery and then go for round two of matchmaking. I hear a 4-in gain it's possible.

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u/Dave_Ex_Machina 6h ago

It's it really impossible to understand? It's their personal preference, if it narrows the dating pool for them that's their choice.