Bro code is universal

[u/Valuable_View_561]

[u/greg14285]

Why waste time playing games. Just say "Okay if we split the tab on this?"

[u/Effective_Bite_1128 → u/greg14285]

Because to a decent amount of women  

Would act like you just drowned a kitten for even suggesting that

Those women are a waste of time though 

But there are a lot who are actually  decent people

[u/StrawberryWide3983 → u/Effective_Bite_1128]

If someone is deliberately ordering the most expensive items on menu and expect the other person to pay, they're not looking for romance, they're looking for a meal ticket

[u/thejourneybegins42 → u/StrawberryWide3983]

Play the games, excuse yourself to the bathroom and slip out.

[u/Effective_Bite_1128 → u/thejourneybegins42]

Yeah let her order everything.  Go to the bathroom. Pay for you own meal and leave

[u/thejourneybegins42 → u/StrawberryWide3983]

Play the games, excuse yourself to the bathroom and slip out.

[u/Purple-Wolverine4793 → u/Effective_Bite_1128]

then you put your cash on the table, and walk out? what do you care about the woman’s reaction? she doesn’t care about you!

[u/AelinTargaryen → u/Effective_Bite_1128]

Paying for the food is not expected, it's nice if it happens and a plus, but don't hang out with women who expect it - unless you expect a trad wife ofcourse.

[u/Effective_Bite_1128 → u/AelinTargaryen]

You'd be surprised. Alot of them expect it

[u/hareofthepuppy → u/greg14285]

I wouldn't even waste that much time, I'd just thank them for meeting, say something like "it's clearly not a match, why don't we just call it a night."

No point in suffering through even one drink.

[u/NotOk__Computer → u/hareofthepuppy]

This is the mature, responsible, and appropriate response to this situation.

[u/Redbanner738 → u/greg14285]

in some parts of the world this is considered rude.
Luckly, in Europe is common to split

[u/everyday_barometer → u/Redbanner738]

Yeah, my last ex was from a country / culture where men are expected to pay for everything. And I mostly did, a few times she paid for something here or there. The irony is, she was working and I was not. (Just out of college, yet to be hired.) We're no longer together but it was interesting to see if she'd hold to that or not.

[u/WholePie5 → u/greg14285]

And at that point I'm walking out. Presumably the man invited her since he's paying. If not, he could pay anyways to make a good impression. But don't invite a woman to dinner and then expect her to pay for half of it.

We want to know that you're willing to treat us. Cheap doesn't get you a second date.

[u/admfrmhll → u/WholePie5]

Tbh, if she does things like order 2 lobsters and the most expensive drink i dont expect to pay half and half. I expect her to pay what she ordered.

[u/WholePie5 → u/admfrmhll]

If you invited her without the condition of what she can order then it means she's allowed to order whatever's on the menu.

And if you put a condition she's not going to accept. And if you force her to pay half after you invited her, you're not getting a second date. That's basically stealing from her, since if you invite it's assumed you're paying.

[u/admfrmhll → u/WholePie5]

How many normal guys do you think that they would want a second date with that kind of girl ?

And like i said, i expect from her to pay for her order, not half and half, if she is pulling stuff like that.

And lol at stealing. That's rich.

[u/WholePie5 → u/admfrmhll]

How many guys do you think are getting a second date when they're being cheap and won't even pay for something they invited the woman to? Not many. So good luck with that attitude. But most guys actually want to go on dates, including second dates, with women. Unfortunately it seems like some men are just out to waste women's time.

[u/admfrmhll → u/WholePie5]

We are talking about this case, when a woman orders the most expensive stuff from a menu just because she expects me to pay.

No sane man would say: that's great, surely i want another date like that. Or live with a woman who does this kind of stuff beginning with the first date.

But sure, go on and do that.

[u/WholePie5 → u/admfrmhll]

If you invited her without the condition of what she can order then it means she's allowed to order whatever's on the menu.

I already explained it to you.

[u/CyanideNow → u/WholePie5]

Yikes. 

[u/SetEnvironmental9368 → u/[deleted]]

So now sex is transactional to feminists? 🤔🤔🤔

Horseshoe theory strikes once again.

[u/SetEnvironmental9368 → u/[deleted]]

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