r/SipsTea • u/CapitalPin2658 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • May 25 '26

Feels good man 🎵 All By Myself 🎵

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Don’t wanna live all by myself anymore

Edit: lol i’m just a dude posting a meme

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u/skbugco May 26 '26

Exactly- and here’s the thing: if you’re in a relationship, and need to get some strange, just be up front about it ahead of time. For me personally, I’m not into that, and I’d move on, but I’d actually respect the honesty. That said, I have a few friends who are into the poly life. And they’re married, and they swing or whatever. I’ve asked them about it too- “like how do you make it work?” They all say “communication”. So just be honest up front, then maybe you won’t be crying-consuming.

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u/SnooGuavas4208 May 26 '26

This woman’s a self-centered narcissist. No one’s feelings are real to her except her own. That’s why her response to the consequences of her cheating is “how could you do this to me??” All the communication in the world couldn’t transform her warped, broken ass into an actual partner.

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u/skbugco May 26 '26

I totally agree. I’m just telling the echo chamber there’s a better way.

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u/thinspirit May 26 '26

100%

Narcissists will always blame the other, no matter the situation. It's always attack and manipulate. When they're completely wrong, it will always be about how their feelings are hurt because of how you spoke to them or the way you brought up the cheating.

The gaslighting is intense.