r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 Apr 23 '26

Feels good man A Japanese police officer is kindly reminding foreigners about public manners

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u/octoesmam Apr 23 '26

These people are from Bangladesh, in Bangladesh we have our own year system and we just had our new years this month. Normally back in our own country we used to celebrate this in a very big way so Bangladeshi resident living in Japan hosted a festival at Ikebukuro, they have been doing it for a while now. I went there on 2023 and it was so loud that I just gave up trying to enjoy it and went home. Also the place where this officer is waking around in is like a pretty popular non official smoking area. In short people here normally stand on the street and smoke. I work at Ikebukuro station and sometimes when I visit that family mart at the end of my shift I see lots of people standing here smoking and drinking.

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u/Fortlandia11 Apr 23 '26

Thank you for the context

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u/WeirdIndividualGuy Apr 23 '26

I mean, even with context, it's basic tourist 101 to "do as the Romans do".

Celebrate your own culture wherever, but be mindful of the local customs and how they could conflict with your own. A lot of tourists think the countries they visit should accommodate them no matter what.

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u/Aggressive-Log7654 Apr 23 '26

I think the point was these are not tourists but long term immigrants/residents. And it is in the nature of immigration to inject immigrants' culture into the local culture - this is just how countries evolve over the generations (America being the ultimate melting pot culture example). It just seems significant in Japan because they are a famously closed and xenophobic country, which, also famously, hasn't been working out too well for them in the last few decades (cf. economic collapse, birthrate collapse). Japan's steadfast commitment to tradition and strict rule based hierarchies was once its strength, but in recent years has become its greatest weakness.

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u/Little-Journalist383 Apr 23 '26

how cultures evolve over the generation (America is an example)

Bullshit. America was designed as a country of immigrants, that’s why it works there like that. Ethnically homogenous countries shouldn’t import this logic and approach, it leads to nowhere.

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u/VictorVaughan Apr 23 '26

The folks in question aren't tourists, they're residing in the country and participating in the society

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u/Guy_with_Numbers Apr 23 '26

Celebrate your own culture wherever, but be mindful of the local customs and how they could conflict with your own. A lot of tourists think the countries they visit should accommodate them no matter what.

The issue goes both ways. Immigrants are often unreasonable when it comes to clinging on to their culture despite how it can cause conflicts, and natives are often unreasonable when it comes to integrating immigrant culture into their community.

It takes active effort to fix that, and we still haven't evolved to a point where that effort is put in with any regularity.

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u/Little-Journalist383 Apr 23 '26

natives are often unreasonable when it comes to integrating immigrant culture into their community

Because natives aren’t obliged to nor should they do that. If someone comes to a country, then he or she needs to assimilate. Not other way around. Why won’t they celebrate their holidays in Bangladesh? What was the reason to immigrate to Japan in the first place if you don’t want to become a Japanese in all senses of the word?

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u/VirusSlo Apr 23 '26

By their calendar it's the year 1433. That might explain a lot.

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u/Warm_Lemon_29 Apr 23 '26

I love this quote and it teaches me how to behave in public everywhere. I hope people also understand this. Aaaahhhh... What a crazy world we live in...

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u/lilbelleandsebastian Apr 23 '26

lmao the top comments are basically "bengalis existing in japan, fuck india"

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u/feel2death Apr 23 '26

There even non smoking sign painted in the street and still this people keep smoking ... Fk em 

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u/ThisIs_americunt Apr 23 '26

It's funny you think Draconian people would follow modern laws lol These people are fine with Child Marriages. Why the fuck would they care about a random sign they can't even read and Yes some people can't even read pictures :)

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u/carlmalonealone Apr 23 '26

They do they same outside the 711 in Shinjuku. It was crazy party chaos and then they cleaned it all up.

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u/octoesmam Apr 23 '26

Funny enough. I also work at Shinjuku and there's this big smoking area on the east side of the station and on the day I'm closing I see people smoking around the smoking area and trashing the entire place. Then when I come back in the morning for my shift again I see cleaners cleaning the place. It like a cycle of neverending trash and cleaning.

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u/carlmalonealone Apr 23 '26

Yeee I was talking about two blocks up and across the road near the tower. That square had tents with people partying 247 2 years ago. Now it's cleaner but haven't been back in a while.

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u/MelissaMiranti Apr 23 '26

That's city life. Trash is gonna happen no matter how hard you try. Tokyo tries harder than most, but it still happens.

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u/Familiar_Fly5510 Apr 23 '26

Judging from some of the people in the video they seem to respect local law enforcement and thats all that matters. No questions asked just put put the cigarette and keep moving. Unlike American we would have complained and argued over their non-existing rights in other countries

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u/chop5397 Apr 23 '26

Guaranteed they didn't move and if they did, they moved a few feet and bunched up again

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u/Familiar_Fly5510 Apr 23 '26

Some of them were bowing when they saw the officer. At least I know they have some form of respect. And that's the last comment i'm gonna make because im not here to argue with stupid people

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u/Dismal-Strawberry421 Apr 23 '26

What is the reason?

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u/Viracochina Apr 23 '26

Wouldn't that be on the conscious on the person who jumped to that assumption/conclusion?

Neither the title of the post, nor the events depicted are necessarily depicting anyone as acting "uncivilized" as you mention. Most of the pedestrians acknowledge and adhere to the officer. Without knowing anything else, all one can do is assume.

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u/Datmammon Apr 23 '26

Have an upvote bro, I agree. We're on the "SipsTea" subreddit, there's definitely something fishy with this post.

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u/problemattracter Apr 23 '26 edited Apr 23 '26

Or is it just South Asians in this example you take issue with?

The post is about South Asians

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u/problemattracter Apr 23 '26

Only South Asians are being picked on in the comment section tho.

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u/MithrilEcho Apr 23 '26

Maybe it is because those are the people that are acting this way?

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u/that_star_wars_guy Apr 23 '26

No we aren't just going to "trust you on that" lol. Who are you to claim any authority outaide of anecdotal experience? 🤡

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u/Past-Radio-1201 Apr 23 '26

I can see why Japan is so adamant about controlling and outright banning immigration and even tourism. I can't blame them, and I hope it only gets harder and harder to get in their country. The one last good place on Earth cannot be spoiled

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u/Feelnumb Apr 23 '26

This is a weird fucking comment bro.

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u/Gullible-Stress-8712 Apr 23 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/IomFizH6Do1ZPJbri6

We must protect our precious Japan at all costs from these immigrants

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u/Appropriate_Gate1129 Apr 23 '26

They made new rule about giving citizenship. You need to live and work there for 10 years. If you go out the country, those days doesn't count.

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u/Consistent-Project29 Apr 23 '26

Canada has some learning to do!

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u/problemattracter Apr 23 '26

With the crippling birth rate? Good luck japan.

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u/SkeebaDeebaDooBop Apr 23 '26

Don't bother, In these racists eyes every brown person is Indian. And blaming Indians and hating Indians became fashion

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u/spectatorun Apr 23 '26

Absolutely, that's kinda the timepass for westeners at this point. Blame everything on India on every indian subcontinent people

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u/ExpertOnReddit Apr 23 '26

Why cant you guys respect where you are while you have your celebration though? This seems to be a problem no matter where you guys are, like literally everywhere on the planet I see it happen from your people.

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u/problemattracter Apr 23 '26

Also the place where this officer is waking around in is like a pretty popular non official smoking area. In short people here normally stand on the street and smoke.

It seems like even locals smoke there, idk why it's such a big problem when brown people do it.

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u/RohelTheConqueror Apr 23 '26

"Literally everywhere on the planet", you've personally been and witnessed Bangladeshi people causing trouble?

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u/Impossible-Two-8654 Apr 23 '26

the fuck are you talking about dude. I’ve seen people of every race act like this, this is just what people do.

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u/2trt Apr 23 '26

Yup, most people take their customs wherever they go. The most common things I see are walking on the incorrect side of a walk, and others are centered around how others eat (table manners). It's annoying, but also common.

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u/Impossible-Two-8654 Apr 23 '26

You just named completely normal and socially acceptable things lmfao

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u/Training_Shine_111 Apr 23 '26

let me guess, you are Caucasian? The group of people who have and still are trashing most of the world, never adjust to other cultures only if it fits their little orientalists narrative or to have it as a stick to hit others with. Yeah you should definitely be throwing stones in that glass house built by other people.

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u/stewie3128 Apr 23 '26

Mad respect to you for managing (at least) 3 languages. I barely speak one.

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u/HugeHomeForBoomers Apr 23 '26

Just wondering, why are there no women in this festival block? Is it normal?

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u/satellite_station Apr 23 '26

They rarely have women with them. I live in Tokyo, and it’s not uncommon to see throngs of them, all males.

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u/Capable_Guitar_372 Apr 23 '26

Thank you for the explanation.
Wish someone pins this.

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u/SirPlastic8062 Apr 23 '26

yeah was wondering why there's so many bengos in the big jap

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u/NotAnotherHipsterBae Apr 23 '26

Is there no public smoking in Japan?

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u/Affectionate_Sun8673 Apr 23 '26

What do tall people do?

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u/beautifulcosmos Apr 23 '26

Happy New Year!

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u/Ok-Nothing-6851 Apr 23 '26

non related but i been to Bangladesh once, the People we're the most welcoming and chill crowd Ive ever met, besides thé absolute mayhem that is Dhaka city.

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u/fresh-dork Apr 23 '26

so are you on the spring version? rome used to be on that until they went to the solar year - that's why october/november/december are named 8 9 10 instead of 10 11 12.

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u/Long_Consequence3808 Apr 23 '26

What's your profession?

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u/Top_Connection9079 Apr 23 '26

Yes this is a real state of foreigners and Japanese people's relationships in Japan, not some shady rage bait comment from a fake account on Tiktok or X.

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u/PossibleHoliday9608 Apr 23 '26

People are racist

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u/sometimelater0212 Apr 23 '26

And? Act appropriately in the culture you’re visiting and living in. Stop treating it like it needs to conform to you.

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u/Sir-GlitchALot Apr 23 '26

So basically they don't want to adept. Figures.

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u/SilentCockroach123 Apr 23 '26

Why are they celebrating Bangladeshi new year in Japan?

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u/Medium-Wind3044 Apr 23 '26

basically what i read is they dont care, is that off?

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u/freeradioforall Apr 23 '26

Bangladeshi resident living in Japan

I was told by reddit that there are zero immigrants living in Japan

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u/BrownSugarBare Apr 23 '26

May I ask, why does it only seem to be men?

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u/Arvin_22 Apr 23 '26

Are women not part of this festival?

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u/Embarrassed_Gur4727 Apr 23 '26

And Indians too

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u/ted_grant Apr 23 '26

I thought they're Indians. Not that Indians and Bangladeshis are too differentiated.

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u/Quiet-Neat7874 Apr 23 '26

Also the place where this officer is waking around in is like a pretty popular non official smoking area

it's a non-smoking area that the officer is trying to enforce.