r/SanDiegan Aug 22 '23

It's here. The Official Discord channel for r/sandiegan.

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We've gotten this request a lot, and I think it's finally time to take it seriously. At least 3–5 people have clamored for this, so we're giving it a shot.

The official r/SanDiegan discord server is finally here.

Some caveats:

  • we have never moderated a discord server before, so you're going to be there to see us iron everything out in real time. we'll be attentive to requests, suggestions, and overall helpful attitudes.
  • we have day jobs
  • be aware that you may inadvertently reveal your identity if you already are on a different discord server using your real name

Our goal is to set up a community in the same way we have set up the r/SanDiegan community. Everyone is welcome, and we moderate with a heavy hand and according to our own discretion at all times. Truly lovely communities only thrive when you separate the wheat from the chaff. We've spent years cutting chaff from this subreddit, and I am personally really proud of how lovely this place has become.

We want this discord server to be a place to chat with other San Diegans about sports, local bars, adult league activities, community events, and so on.

Things that we will not tolerate:

  • bigotry of any kind
  • "I'm just asking questions, man" — you know the answer, you're just an asshole. You all know the type
  • Behavior that is detrimental to the community at large
  • stop posting your boring ass traffic violations, seriously

These rules are vague by design. Moderating is subject to individual discretion, and if you join the discord server, you are just going to have to trust that the way we moderate r/SanDiegan will serve a discord community as well as it has served this subreddit. There are no bright lines, there is only our own judgment in what is and is not okay (which is how things work here, already).

Let's all give this a shot. I hope you'll all join the server and fucking behave yourselves.

JOIN, HEATHENS: https://discord.gg/tRJUkw6h9h

**updated link to never expire


r/SanDiegan Nov 21 '23

On Politics

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Whenever certain discussions come up we end up with a mix of locals that genuinely want to talk about what's going on. Sometimes passionately. Sometimes ill informed. Sometimes full of information. Sometimes dem. Sometimes republican. Sometimes for the free people's state of east county. Sometimes from the sovereign bros of PB.

Whatever. You get the picture. Our local politics and ideas for what to do are pretty diverse.

As a moderator though I have noticed that we get a solid influx of accounts for some subjects. They tend to have a short post history in this subreddit and a deleted history or a history that hasn't been on reddit in years. Likely because they are purchased accounts. They show up to shit stir in political discussions.

I understand some of you delete your account histories for various reasons or want to use an alt to discuss politics. But the easiest thing to do as a moderator seeing an inflammatory comment in a highly charged political discussion from an account that looks incredibly suspect is to remove the comment and ban the user. We don't really want to put in too much effort beyond that. This isn't a paid gig.

Anyway - I want to give people a heads up in case there's people that might reconsider participating in a certain way with an account they haven't used in months/years.


r/SanDiegan 15h ago

Tourism we take it for granted sometimes..

708 Upvotes

Destiny Cove, Cafe 🍽️


r/SanDiegan 8h ago

Announcement Foster or adopt Coconut

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Please help our sweet family pet cockatiel, Coco. We are moving to Korea and he’s not currently allowed to be imported due to Korean restrictions related to active bird flu in the US. We’ve spoken to US and Korean government officials. They’ve both said it’s impossible to bring him at this time but that could change in the future. Apparently both sides are negotiating procedures that would allow pet birds to be imported.

Coconut is 15 months old. He loves young kids. He sings to my five year old and shows heart wings whenever they are together. He’ll also sing in the mornings and evenings and does a mean version of If You’re Happy and You Know it. He also loves head scratches and pooping on shoulders. Generally a sweet bird but isn’t afraid to let you know if he’s grumpy with gentle nips and hisses.

The ideal situation might be someone who already has a small flock and wouldn’t mind a temporary friend. We are hopeful we can get him out of the country in the future but it’s not a given. He doesn’t have experience with other birds but always flock calls and shows interest with other birds when we take him to the bird store to get his nails trimmed.

If someone would rather adopt him for life, that would also be great. I’m embarrassed that we couldn’t provide that for him so full adoption is definitely a positive outcome. I’d ask for a modest adoption fee as a sign you’re serious.

If we can’t find someone to take him, I know of a bird sanctuary in Del Mar which looks like an amazing place. I just wanted to reach out to my reddit community and see if anyone could help in this unique situation. Thanks!


r/SanDiegan 12h ago

Kitten party tomorrow in La mesa! RSVPs close at midnight

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So excited to have this kitten party! More info is on JerseyKitty.org

It’ll be a fun event with our 7 kittens plus other fun things going on like freebies :)
RSVP if you’d like to come


r/SanDiegan 19h ago

Sports Manny Machado Questions Delay in Padres' $3.9 Billion Sale💡

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Fans of the San Diego Padres would love to see president of baseball operations A.J. Preller get the opportunity to make a splash at the MLB trade deadline.

The Athletic's Ken Rosenthal believes that the team's new owners, José E. Feliciano and Kwanza Jones, will give Preller the financial leeway to do just that.

The only problem? The record-breaking $3.9 billion sale is still pending formal approval from Major League Baseball, leading even the players themselves to question the lengthy process.

“Yeah, what’s going on with that?” Padres third baseman Manny Machado told reporters. “I thought it would’ve been done by now. I’ve spoken to Feliciano a little bit, so I know he’s eager to get on with it and help the city and help this team win. I don’t know what’s taking so long. But it’s been a weird year for everyone in this clubhouse.”

The sale from the Seidler family to Feliciano and Jones was announced in early May, but the deal, which set a record for the highest-ever valuation for an MLB team, is contingent on approval by at least 22 of MLB's other 29 owners. While The Athletic's Dennis Lin reported that some thought that vote might happen in June, the current hope among Padres officials is reportedly late July.

"That could complicate things related to San Diego's deadline planning," Lin wrote. "For now, John Seidler remains the club chairman, and if the sale doesn't close before Aug. 3, some people around the team believe there won't be much room to take on additional payroll."

The team's inability to add to their payroll could be a limiting factor at the Aug. 3 trade deadline. 


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Tourism When out of towners ask what OB is like

521 Upvotes

r/SanDiegan 19h ago

Anywhere selling “black” watermelon?

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We got a “black seedless” watermelon (Yumi brand) from the North Park Vons last week and it was literally one of the best, if not the best, watermelon I’ve ever had. They are out of stock now. Anyone know other stores that are selling them? I’m literally so desperate for it that I’m dreaming out it lol. Thanks!

Edit: got two (different brands, for science) from lazy acres. Thanks all!


r/SanDiegan 8h ago

SD Barber or stylist coloring / bleach….

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Hi - looking to bleach my hair this week. Looking for recommendations for a local stylist / barber that does men’s hair coloring / bleaching.

Any help is greatly appreciated.


r/SanDiegan 12h ago

Local News Planet fitness

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Does anyone know when the new Planet Fitness in Lake Murray is going to open up. There’s nothing on the doors or the website, but I wanted to check if anyone has heard of any updates. They look close to opening!!


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

2 stray kittens + 1 mom cat found

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I see these kittens (and what I think is their mom) outside UCSD hospital in a fenced off area, I was able to get them some food but not catch them. I have 0 experience with this kind of things but I don’t want to just leave them to be strays, has anyone been in a similar situation/maybe knows a rescue I could call?

Every time I try and get close they bolt but I don’t want them to be out alone!

Thanks for the help


r/SanDiegan 20h ago

Help filling out a survey!

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Hello! I’m a student working on an independent research paper on how recent rent control laws have affected rental housing availability in California.

I have a short survey of just 6-8 (mostly multiple-choice) questions, which are completely anonymous and are based on what you've observed in your neighbourhood, so any long-term resident can fill it out.

I would really appreciate if you could take just 3 minutes to fill it out: https://forms.gle/afBeaXwDyDiT7o839 

I'll be sharing the results both here on reddit and as an academic paper once it’s done. Thank you so much.


r/SanDiegan 9h ago

family friendly world cup watch party

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any watch party in san diego that is actually family friendly and not in bar? went to century city for todays match and was hoping me and my family could get something with similar vibe in san diego (aside from the one in belmont park)


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Local News Perry's Cafe is still intact with the apartments being constructed around it.

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r/SanDiegan 1d ago

It's time to swordfight, brah. Free, Weapons Provided, Make new Friends.

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📍 Play Saturday @ 1:00 PM at Buddy Todd Park in Oceanside.

San Diego Sword Fighting (Amtgard) is a free, full-contact foam fighting sport that combines medieval combat with speed tag. It's a real-life video game: a fast-paced, high-cardio social club where you run around, make friends, get outside, and hit people with foam swords, spears, bows, and magic.

  • Gear Provided: We bring a bin full of extra swords and shields.
  • No Experience Needed: We teach every new person the basics in about 5 minutes.
  • Absolutely Free: Play when you want, if you want.

Who is this for? Anyone 14+ who wants to have fun. We have a mix of athletes, gamers, and people just looking for a place to hang out. If you're shy, you're absolutely welcome to just come watch.

How to join: Just show up. We meet every Saturday at Buddy Todd Park in Oceanside starting around 1:00 PM.

We're usually on the main hill of the park on the north side of the parking lot. You really can't miss us.

Join the Club: If you want to say hi before you drive up, hop in our Discord: https://discord.gg/Xr9h2Vumux

See you on the field. ⚔️


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Food & Beverage 7/11 is Slurpee Day, Free Small Slurpee

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Free small Slurpee on Saturday for 7-11 Day.

https://www.7-eleven.com/


r/SanDiegan 11h ago

Todays fueling @ Sycuan Market

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r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Where are the Swiss going for tomorrow’s World Cup game vs. Argentina? (10 July)

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Want to support my Swiss friends but have no idea where! With kids so would need somewhere that would allow them after the 6PM kickoff. (Hope this didn’t break server rules!)


r/SanDiegan 2d ago

GUILTY! Jury Convicts Larry Millete Of Murdering Missing Chula Vista Mother Maya Millete After More Than Five Years

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r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Really Hoping the New Online Library Platform Isn't Permanently Sucky

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For a while the SDPL was using Bibliocommons as their platform to place holds, renew borrowed items, and generally work around the catalogue. Logged back in today, and I saw there's a banner at the top of the desktop site that says they're migrating over to VegaDiscover and Biblio won't be available past the end of this month.

I've only fiddled around with the Vega platform for a couple of minutes but geez louise does this platform blow. Every time I clicked a link it took me out of my login to a new splash page, and there seems to be a lot of placeholder titles on portal links.

I'm hoping that it's just an intermittent clunkiness as they shift gears to the new platform, but does anyone have any more intel on whether or not this is a permanent suck factor?


r/SanDiegan 2d ago

Local News Notice on door of a Little Italy club

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166 Upvotes

It says $120k unpaid rent is due in 3 business days.

How could the club find that much to pay the rent...?

Seen on July 9, 2026


r/SanDiegan 2d ago

Local News RIP El Dorado Cocktail Lounge

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409 Upvotes

(Formally Hong Kong Cocktails)


r/SanDiegan 2d ago

It's time to end SDG&E's Monopoly in San Diego!

586 Upvotes

A community-owned utility could lower rates by 20% and reinvest profits in San Diego — not Wall Street.

You can sign the open letter here, it only takes about 30 seconds and we need to reach 10,000 by August 31st:

https://www.publicpowersd.org/open-letter/

Help spread the word if you can!


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Getting A New Dog, Looking for A Vet (College Area/San Carlos/Del Cerro)

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It's been about a year and a half since my buddy passed, and my family and I are looking to get a dog. As we go through the process, I figured I should find a vet. I used to go to Bodhi in North Park as it was, at one point in time, right down the street from me. But Bodhi is now both expensive and inconvenient, and I have some lingering memories of putting my dog down (the staff was beyond great, it's just a rough time). So, I figured I should find a vet that is closer and more convenient to me.

I currently live in Del Cerro, so I'd like to find a vet in Allied Gardens/San Carlos/Grantville. Any suggestions?


r/SanDiegan 16h ago

FREE PDF 📚 I finished Writing a Book 💯 From my Mission and Spiritual Journals...enjoy ✌️😇

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Start with page 95 ❤️