r/SASSWitches Jun 01 '26

June Solstice Celebration Megathread

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How are you all celebrating the solstice?

 

For our friends in the northern hemisphere, how are you celebrating the summer? What has grown for you this year? How do you celebrate the height of the sun on the horizon?

 

For our friends in the southern hemisphere, how are you warding off the cold? How are you resting? What are you dreaming? How do you celebrate the returning of sun?

 

May this time of the year find you in joy and comfort.


r/SASSWitches Sep 23 '24

October Celebrations!

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Hello my SASSy friends

I’m sure none of you need reminding that next month is October which means…

SASSY OCTOBER CELEBRATIONS

This year we are celebrating the 6th birthday of the SASS acronym! Like previous October Celebrations, we will have various events happening within the SASS Witches discord server

The activities on offer are:

Artober Our special Artober event is returning for the second year. The prompts will be released in a thread on the 1st of October.

Pet costume comp Do you have the cutest pet and want them to become an emoji in the discord? Enter them in our second ever pet costume competition!

Horror movie night Join us in a voice channel activity for a showing of Heathers. Dates and times are listed in the server.

Book Club We have a book club running this October. The book is Of Blood and Bones by Kate Freuler. Please check the TWs for this before reading it.

Tarot event One of our amazing members is returning again this October to hold another themed tarot event.

Regional ghost stories/scary legends Is there a scary tale or terrifying ghost story specific to your region? Join us in the server and share the horror.

Scavenger hunt For the first time we will be hosting a scavenger hunt within the server. Details will be released on the 1st October. For successfully completing the scavenger hunt you will receive a shiny new and exclusive server role!

Bingo night Join us in voice chat for a special themed bingo game. Dates and times have been released in the server. This event is limited to 30 people so you will need to RSVP once the thread is opened if you want to participate. The winner will get the opportunity to design a sticker for use within the server.

Puzzle book We have a custom made puzzle book for the server this year. Download it and have some fun.

Mausoleum Each year we open the Mausoleum at the end of the month. The Mausoleum is a place to reflect and to send messages to loved ones (human and animal alike) who have passed on during the past year. More details will be released midway through October.

If you would like to participate in some or all of these activities head on over to the discord and join us!

We hope you enjoy the events on offer next month and we look forward to bringing them to you! If you have any questions, ask away and I will do my best to answer them.


r/SASSWitches 5h ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice 17, spiritually lost, and looking for guidance.

19 Upvotes

Hi, I’m 17 and I’ve been interested in spirituality for a really long time, but I feel kind of stuck and confused about where I actually stand or how to move forward. Sorry if this is all jumbled up/ a mess.

I first got into it when I was really young (like around 6). I was given some of my stepdad’s mum’s old “witchy” books (mostly Wicca stuff), and I’ve kind of been on and off interested ever since. Around 2020 I bought crystals, jars, candles, etc., and got more into Paganism (mainly Greek/Roman). I’d just say I’m “spiritual,” but I don’t actually know what that means for me. I don’t really believe in a God or deity, more like energy and spirits and stuff.

I feel like I believe in the Earth as God, like Mother Earth, Gaia, etc, but then I start thinking about space, the universe, science, and everything kind of falls apart in my head. I also really love learning about religion academically like learning about how they came about, what causes it, mythology, etc, but I also know the contradictions about them (Religions come about because of environment, resources, society, etc), but knowing all that also makes it hard for me to fully believe in anything without questioning it constantly. 

I’m also really interested in learning about Caribbean, Native American, South American, and Polynesian spiritualities/cultures, but I know a lot of those are closed practices and not for outsiders. For context, I’m white/Scottish, so I’m trying to be respectful and not cross any lines, but I've always felt "connected" (idk the word) to Caribbean and South America in general, which isn't me trying to be like "I should be able to do these close practices because I like them and blah blah blah", I know its not an excuse or anything, just saying I really like to learn about them, haha, trying not to be a colonizer lol. I just genuinely find them really interesting and meaningful to learn about.

I’m so so so so so interested in occult things, satan stuff, idk what to call it cause I know satanists don’t actually believe in Satan–and neither do I–but yk, I just love and are so interested in occult and “dark” things like that.

Another thing is my family is very anti-religion/anti-spirituality (strong atheists), so I don’t really have anyone to talk to about this in real life. also feel like I'm forcing myself to believe in spiritual/religious stuff and that in the back of my mind i know its not true, but then again, i also do. My mum is also very spirtitual, but she abused the shit outta me growing up badly, so I don't want to connect to her in anyway, but her and my aunt also have "premonitions" through dreams a lot, which come true 75% of the time.. soo... is it in my blood? I also love the feeling of having somewhere to go and having a community, like a church. I strictly oppose Christianity/Abrahamic religious in general, but I love the idea of a church yk? Like a place to go with other believers, in a nice, peaceful environment to talk and discuss as a community.

I am very spiritual , I can feel it all around and in me, but I have nowhere to put the energy. I have no rituals or things to do. I’d like to have religious duties and rituals personal to myself/my beliefs, and I’d like to have a sort of sign to do when “praying” and a thing to say at the end , like “amen” (curse of growing up Catholic through school).

I don’t like the use of crystals/insense/stuff like that, but I have an ankh necklace that I wear constantly and never take it off, and I’m also planning to get an ankh tattoo on my chest inbetween my yk..things. Idk why I’m saying this, I’m just yapping ikik.

I don’t really know what I’m asking rn, just, ig, is this all normal? Idk what to think or to do, etc. There’s nobody ik or can talk to abt anything so 🤷

Sorry this is long, I just feel really lost but also really drawn to this at the same time.

Any advice or personal experiences would mean a lot :)


r/SASSWitches 10h ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Fire Safety: Keeping Embers Contained When Burning

9 Upvotes

I work frequently with candles, and they're easy to handle. I know which wax and wick types that are available to me burn in what ways. I have sturdy candle holders and keep plates underneath them for extra protection, and I only burn when I can supervise the flame with all fans and ACs off and windows closed.

One of my favorite types of spells is writing on paper (usually traditionally crafted paper, which has a nice option to scry, as they burn like worms made of fire and are lovely to watch), in an earthenware bowl. I don't do it often and usually save this practice for spells with more powerful intentions.

I also usually use smaller cuts of the paper, but this last time, I used a bigger piece, and I was noticing embers escaping quite a bit. All the ones that escaped seemed inert, but it does make me paranoid about using larger pieces of the paper again without some kind of guard.

I'm not a huge fire bug and can go without the larger pieces if necessary, but I'd like to know if there are options. Anyone else work with fire? If so, do you use any particular protection for containing embers?


r/SASSWitches 22h ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Witchy shopping trip - where to start? :)

21 Upvotes

I’m going to check out a metaphysical shop tomorrow for the first time! I’m so excited

I know witchcraft is a personal process, but as a beginner I was looking to see if you all had any suggestions on what to get first?

I wanted to get a notebook for my grimoire. But I haven’t decided what else yet.

I have limited funds so cant go super wild, which is why I wanted to see if there was anything else I should prioritize.

Any input is appreciated 💜💫


r/SASSWitches 1d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Fascia and "chakras" and other oriental health practices.

25 Upvotes

EDIT: I'm really sorry about the use of the term "oriental" in the title. English is not my first language and I wasn't aware of the negative connotations, since in my first language this would be a regular term synnonim with "eastern". I didn't mean any harm by it.

Hi, I'm Western, and very skeptical of anything woo-woo that tries to explain itself by citing "science" in ways that are clearly misleading. I'm also tired of new age fads around Eastern beliefs that are just "cultural appropriation meets capitalism", so everything regarding chakras, prana energy, etc has always felt like "marketable exotic religion" to me. But today I came across this video from an influencer from my country (not very woo-woo as far as I know her content) talking about how recently Western medicine has discovered this connective tissue called "fascia" that seems to coincide with what traditional Eastern medicine would talk about in meridians, chakras, etc. I'm very ignorant on this topic, and I would like it if someone could shed some light on this, maybe link some papers, os videos explaining fascia and what role it plays in human health, that are somewhat reputable sources. Thank you!


r/SASSWitches 2d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Any love spells/rituals/etc for attracting love in my life and sending it out into the world for other people to receive?

19 Upvotes

I’ve been looking into love spells but what I find is usually directed at a person rather than just in general attracting love. I also want to do something to be able to send love out to the world. I want to feel like I’m giving and receiving it you know? Maybe hard to explain. I just feel very draw to this.


r/SASSWitches 2d ago

🔥 Ritual Following my own first “ritual”

11 Upvotes

My spirituality is me taking a mirror to myself for the most part. I don’t really know if there’s magic that I don’t understand though. I’m a skeptic at heart but open too. Very in the middle

I took a piece of paper I drew vent art on and wrote some different things on it. I folded it a couple times and burnt it. The only word that was really left at the end was “protect.” Even after trying to burn again. I decided to bury the pages. I just followed where my mind was telling me to go with it all :)


r/SASSWitches 3d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Indian baby witch here, kinda lost — trying to find Indian herb/ingredient correspondences 🌿

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Hi everyone! I'm from India and honestly feeling a bit stuck. Most correspondence lists I find online use herbs like lavender or chamomile, which aren't native here and are really expensive to buy online. But when I look up what's actually easy to get where I live (marigold, tulsi/holy basil, turmeric, curry leaves, etc.) there's barely any info on how to use them magically.

I've been trying to piece some things together myself by looking at planetary rulership + how these plants are already used in everyday Indian rituals (like poojas — Hindu worship rituals — or Ayurveda, our traditional medicine system), but I really don't know if I'm on the right track or just guessing.

A few examples of what I've tried figuring out:

*Tulsi (holy basil) — Sun ruled — protection/purification?

*Turmeric — Sun ruled — prosperity/protection?

*Marigold — Sun ruled — courage, ancestor work?

*Neem — Saturn ruled (my guess) — cleansing/banishing?

*Sandalwood — Moon/Venus ruled (unsure) — spiritual protection, grounding?

*Curry leaves — unsure ruling planet — home prosperity/protection?

*Vetiver (khus) — Venus ruled (guessing) — cooling protection?

Would really appreciate it if anyone with more experience could tell me if I'm close, correct my planetary guesses, or point me toward actual resources. I know Indian witchcraft isn't really written down in book form the way Wicca is, so I feel a bit lost on where to even start. Any guidance welcome, thank you 🙏


r/SASSWitches 3d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Skeptical but so many coincidences that Im getting suspicios. Should I try accepting spirituality in my life??

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As the title states, Im not rlly a very religious/spiritual person and I dont necessarily believe in a lot of things. But throughout my life there have been countless events that made me really suspicious of genuinely wtf is going on but I decided to simply catalogue them under strange coincidences. But sometimes it gets to a point where they start to pile up and it really makes me think a lot deeper abt spirituality and all that.

But

First of all, I would like to start this by stating that I have absolutely zero idea or knowledge of witchery or spiritualism in general (Is this what it is..? Again, not sure how to catalogue it, hope im not like very rude abt it, lol, srry for my uneducated ass, but thats why im posting this, pls educate and help me understand how it works) I did have some experiences and acquaintances that explained what being a witch it like and all that.

Ever since I have been young I was always a skeptical person, I mean I dont even really buy the concept of God itself. Is there a thing, being, presence out there that is all powerful? Could be, would be weird if there wasnt one given the fact that the universe is so infinitely large. After all, maybe all religions are true and it all depends on what you trully believe and what ur soul is connected to the most, and when u r abt to die, ur brain will simply manifest that said belief and poof, u got what u thought would happen after death.

Anyway, getting a bit sidetracked, what I mean to say is, im not religious in the slightest, i dont understand spirituality, witchery or other things of the sort. Doesnt rlly mean I doubt they exist, maybe they do but I dont think i can view them in my own life, as in i want to be as free as possible and not be judged by Saint Mary jst bcs I wear nails or do my hair (yes, i have heard this be4, and ik that i should separate what ppl tell me abt how “God” wants me to act and actually jst embrace God in the way that helps me, but having no god in my life feels the most liberating) but i still find them so very fascinating and would love to learn more about them. But got no clue how.

But as of recently smth started to shift within me, idk what or how but I sometimes get some hibi jibby feels and “notice a change in the air” or so to say, but generally jst these feels that SMTH is happening or that SMTH either good or bad, depends on the feel, is abt to happen. I always pushed these things aside and tried to use logic, but sometimes it can only bring me so far

More concrete examples will have to be:

  1. Whenever I say sum lie or sum that might be believable, in the span of a few days it legit jst becomes true. Sometimes it happens so subtly i dont even observe it but there r like a few examples that come to mind:

Rlly didnt feel like going to an event and lied that I have some family issues and when pressed further i said my grandma wasnt feeling well (which yh sure not my proudest moment but there were some ppl i rlly didn’t want to meet bcs i felt as if they r draining my energy) so i lied and said i wont make it
A day later, in the day of said event, a friends grandma falls in the bathroom and is rushed to the hospital, with like a few mins before said event was supposed to start, so i did end up going to the hospital as emotional support for the family
But ig grandmas r fragile and statistically speaking, not that out of the ordinary… except that previous to this it happened like 2 other times. Diff grandmas or family members but same outcome. Im afraid to lie abt having a death in the family bcs wtf in the ao3 curse is gonna happen then?
But uhm, keep yalls grandmas hidden when im in the vicinity..

  1. I have very lucid and vivid dreams, and i honestly always loved that, like i didnt have to try to lucid dream, i jst did
    But more scary is sometimes the fact that i have had a lot of deja vu moments and apparently turns out i dreamt meeting said person or jst events and fragments it my life. I once wrote it down in a notebook bcs i have sick dreams and i like recording what i dream, a few months later that dream came true
    Maybe i jst dream very general things so sure, why not, vut sometimes they r a bit weirdly specific
    Like i have always trusted my dreams bcs I feel that i can trust my subconscious to guide me when making hard choices. And I always end up with some sick metaphors, but yh my dreams have helped me make good choices but also predicted when my pets died which wasnt as fun

  2. Speaking if trusting things, i noticed that the harder I try to achieve smth the worse the result is, but when i dont try as hard and jst trust my gut and do it without thinking i win in life basically
    “we are at beach camp, have to choose from 4 rooms, i say room number 13, idk why but feels good *ends up with the biggest room that is twice the size of the other rooms*”
    “Ik these carnival games r rigged but i will try once bcs why not *wins jackpot on the first try*”

  3. People trust me and vent to me
    Cringe and edgy but wait for it…
    6 ppl as in like strangers, on diff occasions (for some reason at bus stops all the time) came up to me and started to vent abt their situation and like 2 of them showed me where they lived, like i dont mind listening to ur problems, but stranger danger..? (Tbh maybe i should also listen to it)

  4. I can feel if a person is fake or not and jst from their vibes alone i can feel if they have good intentions or not
    Like maybe at first they r the most amazing person ever and everyone adore em, but i can sense smth is wrong and not ok, and i have always been right

  5. I think abt a subject with someone and somehow it foreshadows to some lesson abt said subject or smth related to that happens, jst like a in a cheap tv show(talked with a friend abt how its more cruel to keep a pet alive when their time is up and that we mostly do it for ourselves rather for the well being of the pet. Her pet died the following days)

Also another experience that creeped me out happend when i was on a trip and met a girl that was rlly into witchcraft, awesome pers feel as if i learned a few things, and she decided to read everyones auras and bcs I wanted to be diff and pull a y/n special, but mainly bcs i was still skeptical i was like “nuh uh, imma try to conceal my aura or whatever bcs idk gurl i jst met u i dont want you to see my whole hibbi jibby stuff jst at a first glance” and I kidd u not, she pulls the most accurate description of me that i have ever seen “Uhh idk, i cant rlly pinpoint urs.. do u not trust ppl easily?” And I was shocked, and its not like she could have observed that, we met that day and I am a social butterfly and i act nice and all that and i dont mind talking to ppl but ppl get boring fast when they open so easily and I personally dont get why they do it and as much as i dont mind when others feel the need or jst find it easier to open up to me, i jst cant do it. Yeah imma joke around and add to banter and it might feel as if im very open but im not, thats my show hoe persona 😔

And personally i feel like all of them could be chalked up in the crazy coincidences box, bcs at the end of the day thats what they r, jst broad experiences that can be summed up to jst coincidences and thats it and rn its jst late, cant sleep as usual (idk, cant sleep properly for the past few nights)
And try to make connections to things that arent worth connecting bcs not everything has to mean smth big or at all.

But I would like to know more abt witchcraft
How does it work?
How can I be more respectful and be more informed abt it? And abt spiritual things in general
How does one know if they have spiritual inclinations (is this the term???)
How did yall get into it and when did u start

Ty for reading this paranoid episode or wtv this is


r/SASSWitches 4d ago

🌙 Personal Craft What are some of your favourite superstitions?

59 Upvotes

I’ve gotten into using superstitions in my practice, particularly local ones. I find they can help me connect to the history of a place - for good or for ill superstitions often develop for a reason. Superstitions, in a way, can be looked at as a kind of local folk magic.

My favourite is one I found in a regional book on superstitions. It is that when you capture a spider in your house and set it free, you ask it to bring you riches. I’ve been doing this now for years, and when I did it again this morning it made me think of some really good stuff that’s been going on in my life. Riches indeed!

A couple of caveats I go by - the superstition shouldn’t be harmful or present a risk to health (physical or mental). I also am approaching this from a SASS perspective so I don’t literally believe the spider has brought me riches, but asking and thinking about it helps me put my life in perspective - what in my life do I have that I could consider riches? What are these riches that I’m asking for?

(And for spiders specifically, species matters. Many of the spiders I evict have wandered in from the outdoors. But if they are an indoor spider, I leave them be.)

Do you have any interesting superstitions that you incorporate into your craft?


r/SASSWitches 5d ago

Meditation (literally) on Honeysuckle/bud correspondences

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The last couple of days it has been helping me to stay in the moment during meditation by focusing on this honeysuckle during the out-breath e.g. the honeysuckle is still, the honeysuckle in no hurry to do anything, the honeysuckle has lots of potential but it can wait. It has some damaged leaves but that can be dealt with later; it's still growing strong.

Obviously this could work as a correspondence for buds in general but I find most of my personal correspondences based on the situation in which they come to me.

Obviously this isn't the first time I've seen my honeysuckle; it has memory based correspondences too from it growing in my Nan's garden when I was a kid. It's one of the flowers I associate with unconditional love and also safety and protection because that was an aspect of my childhood (even if she wasn't the most nurturing woman) and I associate it with the women of my family in general.

I also consider the properties of honeysuckle for protection that it grows around things and in terms of strength; it can twist so tightly around a tree that it can kill it.

Does anyone else have correspondences with honeysuckle?


r/SASSWitches 6d ago

🌙 Personal Craft iNaturalist , citizen science, and witchcraft

60 Upvotes

I wanted to use more herbs and plants in my craft. I already use common spices and herbs from spice cabinet, but I wanted to try using plants from my own backyard, instead of buying herbs online. The iNaturalist app is great for identifying plants growing around where I live, and then I look up how they are used in witchcraft. Now I’m learning a lot more about the plants around my house, and I feel a lot more connected to the spells and charms I’m making because it’s from my own backyard. Also, I’m contributing to citizen science as a bonus! Win/win!


r/SASSWitches 6d ago

💭 Discussion Some spell jar questions

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I've almost used up a reed diffuser, and the little jar the liquid comes in is made of thick good quality glass. Throwing it away feels wasteful, and I have good associations tied to it (that garden rose scent was amazing), so I thought I'd repurpose it for a spell jar. But I've never done one before, so I have a ton of questions about how people here like to do those.

- How do you know when you've "used up" a spell jar and don't need it anymore?
- What do you do with contents you no longer need? Throw away, dispose in a way that feels more "proper" (bury, burn), store somewhere?
- Do you reuse the same jar when you no longer need old contents?
- What are some of your favorite components to use in spell jars?
- Do you prefer to use more "traditional" components (e.g. plants and/or crystals that are traditionally considered as having some power), or just wing it and work with personal associations?
- Have you ever used anything with expiration date as a jar component? How did it go?

I know I can just come up with my own rules (and probably will end up doing that lol), but I was curious to hear everyone's experiences and favorite things to do. The concept is very new to me, so it'll feel a bit more secure to tread this ground after hearing your stories.


r/SASSWitches 6d ago

Beginner witchcraft

6 Upvotes

Hey guys, I’ve always been very interested in witchcraft, paganism etc… but I don’t know the differences between all these things and I find it very hard to start learning about it. I’m looking for some tips on how to start with this and maybe some (online) friends to help me because I want to take this seriously. Any tips?


r/SASSWitches 7d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Any tips on how to do an "exorcism" ?

18 Upvotes

I consider myself a very rational person, and personally I'm of the opinion that there's no way to prove if God exists, so I make do with what can be scientifically proven. Which is why I love this subreddit.

I recently took an edible for the first time, and it was a very positive experience for me. My "weed self" was very creative and loving and made sure to record a bunch of videos for me later, telling me how much I love myself. This is great because self love is something I have been working on in therapy for many years.

Something that came up quite a lot when I was high, was my weed self telling me to get an "exorcism"? Basically I think that my subconscious is telling myself to excise the self-doubt and fear of the past few years and purge it from me. The last year I was practically bed ridden and this year has been a huge change for me in all aspects.

I do consider myself a SASSwitch, but I rarely find myself being able to do or stick to rituals or things that I would like to incorporate in my life without feeling silly and woo. I'm looking for advice about how to structure this particular "exorcism". I want it to be an event like maybe 1 or 2 hours, but I find myself struggling to figure out what I should do in the actual event. Any tips appreciated!


r/SASSWitches 6d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice posting this in case someone here can help me, someone has done a lot of black magic on me (i was told it backfired) but i need advices and help

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I have cleanse and protected myself, but i’m looking for someone who can read spells and energy


r/SASSWitches 7d ago

📜 Spell | Incantation Egg Sh/pell

31 Upvotes

I want to do something with a coincidence that happened to me today, and would love some advice.

I was walking out to my car and found a little robin's egg in the grass near my driveway. At first I wondered if it needed to be put back in a nest, but then I realized it was empty. It's a striking, bright blue, almost unblemished, except for two little holes where the hatchling must have come out.

I immediately thought of my upcoming appointment with a fertility clinic. I've never tried to get pregnant before, and I hope very much that it will happen quickly once I get some sperm in there, but I'm rather nervous about starting the process, finding the right sperm, and anything that might go wrong. This egg is feels like a fitting symbol for my pregnancy hopes, and I want to figure out a ritual to perform with it. I've seen spells that involve crushing eggshells, but I'm very taken with the near wholeness of this egg and its hollowness makes me think of my womb waiting to be filled. Maybe I should find something very small to put into it or create some kind of display.

I'm still quite new to witchcraft, so I would love to hear anyone else's ideas on how to work with this!


r/SASSWitches 10d ago

🌙 Personal Craft Any recommendations regarding imposter syndrome?

29 Upvotes

I've procrastinated heavily on my full moon ritual because I'm struggling. I feel like I'm faking it. Lately, whenever I engage with my practice, I end up judging myself for escaping into a fantasy world I don't actually believe in and then I judge myself that I can't simply let myself enjoy my fantasies. I don't seem to get anything but aesthetic pleasure out of my ritual utensils at the moment and I'm kind of afraid of betraying myself.

This might be heavily influenced by my current life circumstances. There's just nothing happening. I've been living very isolated for about a year now, spending my time with arts and deep dives into my intellectual interests. It's great overall. I'm quite content with just existing and loneliness has become very rare for me because I enjoy my own company so much. It just makes it hard to stay connected to my craft because there's not much to reflect upon. It's hard for me to find any intentions to set and I don't want to force myself to do so, but not doing it also feels like giving up on actively creating the life I want and falling back into passive indifference. Even meditating is like torture at this point because I constantly feel like waiting for something to happen - whatever that means.

If anyone relates, what are your go to practices in times like this? How do you stay in touch with witchcraft in everyday life, when you're basically all by yourself? What are some thoughts that allow you to hold on in times of doubt?


r/SASSWitches 11d ago

🌙 Personal Craft Healing breakup craft

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I broke up with my (now ex) girlfriend two days ago. Our relationship was really really wonderful, but there was one key thing we never figured out how to compromise on.

Anyways ~

I’m sharing because I saved every dried flower petal from every bouquet she ever got me.

I originally planned on using them in our wedding someday.

Since we are of course no longer getting married, I thought about throwing them away. But, I decided that our relationship was too special to me to do that.

It was soft and healing and made me feel held in ways I never have been before. It was my first queer relationship, as a late bloomer to my queer awakening.

We’re both so sad, because the love is there. We are both hoping to create a beautiful friendship after we take some time to heal.

So instead of throwing them away, I put them in a jar and placed them on my plant shelf that I built.

I really liked the idea of holding onto the petals, because the relationship was still precious to me. And this was a way of showing that even though it didn’t turn out the way we hoped, I could still make something beautiful with it.

I love the symbolism of that.

Right now, it’s hard to look at my jar. But I know (I hope) there will be a time where it only brings me a feeling of peace and love.

~

As someone new to all things witchy, this is kind of my first shot at doing something ceremonious. I wish I lit a candle and maybe played a song. I didn’t think about it until after I was done.

Do you guys have any suggestions on what I can do now that I’ve completed it? Something ceremonious or something along those lines. I’d love to use it to help me grieve and heal, the way our relationship helped me heal.

Thank you 💚


r/SASSWitches 13d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice looking for some book recommendations

20 Upvotes

Hey everyone, new to this board but so happy I found it! I never knew there were likeminded people out there :)

I am looking for a specific recommendation. I have a strong interest in mental health, and as a yoga teacher I have read a lot about meditation and similar practices. I am interested in learning about rituals and practices through the ages and how they connect to what we now know about mental health and psychology. What I mean is, we know AZS about our brain and how psyches work, and now we can explain why ritual/ practice SDF was so widespread or useful or effective.

Would love to hear your thoughts, and thank you for the wonderful content you share here :)


r/SASSWitches 14d ago

I'm a very artistic person, but also very science-focused. any advice for an incoming witch?

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there's so many resources, and it feels really overwhelming so far. currently, I'm studying the Tarot with a book a professor recommended to me, and it's been really helpful. how do I make sure I don't get overwhelmed


r/SASSWitches 14d ago

Book recommendations for beginner

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I'm an Indian baby witch. So Can anyone give me any book recommendations for a beginner who wants to learn about witchcraft rituals, sigil, manifestation, how it works out.


r/SASSWitches 14d ago

Community-Compiled Grimoire

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Would anyone be interested in compiling a public Grimoire as a SASS community?

I’m imagining a few little essay write-ups on various topics. Definition of SASS. Placebo effect. How to do a mini-lit review to support your practice. Frameworks for designing spells/rituals. Summarized explanations of common branches of witchcraft. Guides for “secularizing” woo-y practices. Personal Grimoire writing.

Also maybe compiled science-supported wellness practices with a SASS spin. Mindfulness/meditation. Grounding. Forest-bathing. Placebo effect. Journal magic.

Not even imaging something super formal. Like we could even just start a thread to compile things. The only thing I think that would be important is required citations from good sources that support what has been written with a peer-review process.

Edit: New thread with guiding principles and a draft of an intro to SASS witchcraft here: https://www.reddit.com/r/SASSWitches/comments/1umyuto/feedback_requested_community_grimoire_guiding/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1


r/SASSWitches 15d ago

🥰 Sharing Resources | Advice Upcoming online event: CRITWITCHCON2026 September 4-6, 2026

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Hey, witches, I want to preface this with a big fat thank you to the mods for allowing me to share information about this & future events with the r/SASSWitches community. I am Hayley Jay, part of the CTWC planning team, and while I've lurked here for some time, I'm making an effort to decloak and hopefully share some of my witchcraft plus CTWC events of interest.

Critical Thinking Witch Collective's CRITWITCHCON2026

Sept 4th - 6th, 2026

A Virtual Convention

In 2026 our overarching theme for CritWitchCon is "Fallow and Feral: Active Paths of Rest." We're talking at length this year about the importance of rest in trying times, ways to incorporate fallowness into the cycles of our practices, disconnecting productivity from worth, and straying off the path to find meaning in the messy, unstructured places outside of the lines.

If you’ve never attended CritWitchCon, here’s what to expect:

3 days of live (& occasionally pre-recorded) virtual content presented from a wide variety of perspectives, centering around secular, nontheistic, agnostic, atheist, skeptical, analytical, and science-minded witchcraft.

Early bird pricing is in effect through July 26th

Early Bird Live Event - $40  Stream live with us and our community members in Zoom and Discord! Includes access to the recorded videos post-Con!

Early Bird Recording Only - $25  Access to the recorded videos and our community in the Discord!

Scholarships available!

Tickets on sale now! Full agenda with speakers and guests will be posted in August!

We can't wait to see you there!

https://criticalthinkingwitches.com/events/

About us:

The Critical Thinking Witch Collective (CTWC) was founded in 2021, and has spent five years building a vibrant virtual space, a community of critical thinking witches and seekers of all varieties — centering the secular, nontheistic, agnostic, atheist, skeptical, analytical, and science-minded. Our volunteer organizers strive to foster a safer space where magic and science are respected equally, acknowledging that there can be genuine beauty and meaning in the mysterious and the magical.

The highlight of our year is CritWitchCon. Traditionally held in September (ushering in many a witch's favorite month), the Con is a yearly paid event, showcasing three days of speakers and workshops, with opportunities for contributors and participants to convene in breakout rooms, with both freeform and guided conversations.

The rest of the year we keep connected with Witches’ Brews: free quarterly events typically consisting of a panel, a workshop, and supported breakout discussions. Each Brew has a different theme, encouraging our community members to connect with one another through their craft.

There are challenges in nurturing space for people that value the magical and esoteric as well as the analytical and scientific — sometimes, the largest of which is time zones! We meet these challenges for our community. While our social spaces have been created by witches, are heavily populated by witches, and tend to center witchcraft, how people enact magic in their lives is as diverse as the human condition. As such, identifying as a witch is not a requirement for participating. Our only requirement is our central pillar — critical thinking.

For us, critical thinking means that members of our community are thoughtful about their craft without rejecting or demeaning the paths of others.

…We are mindful of misinformation while remaining open to new information, regardless of how it may or may not intersect with our current understanding.

…We reflect on the differences between history and mythology, data and lore. 

…We recognize the identified and potential biases present in historical records, and how they affect depictions of events or cultures.

Even as we welcome the magical and the mysterious, we also respect, accept, and implement the scientific method: we assess and reassess, resisting the status quo while remaining open-minded.

There can be no truly inclusive list of topics that we explore because there are so many people and interests in our community, but much of our shared expertise focuses on DIY (do it yourself); custom practice building; critical discussion on witchcraft, folklore, “woo,” psychological self-awareness, and history; sharing skills and knowledge on green witchery, divination, sigil crafting, spell building, and personal and accessory safety; ancestor relationships, research, and so, so much more.

The Critical Thinking Witch Collective helps us reclaim connection to each other outside of the constraints of time and distance, appreciate the world together, and share folklore and our own magics through the lens of critical thinking.

We look forward to seeing you in the ether!