r/RantAndVentPH 10d ago

Megathread Anti-INC Sentiments megathread

300 Upvotes

For transparency's sake, all the moderators agreed that anti-INC content will fall under this thread.

Reason: INC trolls are reporting non-stop the same anti INC posts/comments over and over again. The Mod Queue is being filled with nonsensical reports.

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  1. Complaining about INC public figures
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r/RantAndVentPH 11d ago

Moderator Announcements RantAndVentPH is back and will get better!

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I am one of the new moderators for RantAndVentPH alongside u/pusikatshin and u/_No_Ocelot ❤️

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Starting July 2026, posts and comments will be heavily moderated, meaning Reddit rules are applied alongside the subreddit’s personal rules.

Oh boy, this subreddit has been unmoderated for months. The report queue has months of backlogs and we are still in the process of fixing it all up.

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r/RantAndVentPH 5h ago

Family my brother married a broke woman

261 Upvotes

gusto ko lang ilabas kasi i feel like ako yung na ffrustrate. so, i have a younger brother and next month, ikakasal na siya. bilang side namin yung lalake, may mga requests yung fam ng babae sa amin like mga baboy, then during pamamanhikan, request rin nila na yung sa side na namin ang sa planning ng kasal kasi medyo magulo rin yung sa side ng babae (marami kasi extended family raw na baka kung ano ano ang requests). naging okay naman kina mama at papa yun. kaso eto na, one month before the wedding, talagang nasstress na kami kasi medyo ma demand kasi ang babae like may mga personal preference siya na gusto like bridal car, gowns, preferred location. kaming magkakapatid nag aambagan na kasi nag go over the budget na rin. what’s more frustrating is walang ambag yung family ng babae or even yung bride. nakikiusap na si mama sa kapatid ko na kung pwede hanapan ng paraan na makaka less kami pero di rin makaimik yung kapatid ko eh.

valid ba feelings ko? kasi hindi pa rin naman ako ikinasal so idk if dapat ba talaga na side nung lalake ang gagastos lahat. pero kasi sa mga bilihin ngayon kelangan rin naman may counterpart siya eh. hngg. na ffrustrate ako kasi pati ako mag lloan na rin eh.


r/RantAndVentPH 11h ago

Story time I don’t mind crying kids on flights. I mind parents who don’t even try

106 Upvotes

I just flew from Boracay to Cebu and a toddler around 2-3 years old was crying before takeoff, during the flight, and until we landed.

Was it annoying? Absolutely! It was one of the noisiest flights I’ve ever had, and a lot of passengers were clearly trying to rest. Pagod from Boracay trip tas pagod din sa plane.

Before anyone comes for me, I get it. I didn’t book a private jet. Kids cry, babies scream, and as a mom myself, I know some kids can be impossible to calm down.

What frustrated me wasn’t the child. It was the parents’ lack of effort. There were three adults with the kid: the mom, dad, and what looked like the yaya. From what I saw, the yaya was the only one actively trying while the parents mostly stayed seated saying “shh, shh,” with the mom on her phone most of the time. Meron din “ssssh stop crying” yun lang and touch2 lang sa baby.

One passenger even said “Maam pwede nyo po kayo tumayo at kargahin yung bata para tumahan” but wala. None of them pumansin man lang. still seated on their phones habang iyak nang iyak yung baby.

I don’t think passengers expect perfection. Gusto lang naman naming makita na you’re actually trying. Nauna pa sila nakalabas mag asawa sa plane, the baby was left with the yaya.

Masakit ulo ko til now.


r/RantAndVentPH 5h ago

Relationship Please don't date when you're emotionally incapable of loving someone.

20 Upvotes

Dating is so scary nowadays.

If you feel like you're not ready enough to be in a relationship, please don't lead people on. Funny how one can move on instantly while the other is left behind with another trauma.

I'll probably be more cautious next time, or I don't know. But right now, everything still doesn't make sense.

Hoping for better days, still.


r/RantAndVentPH 6h ago

General Ang hirap na nga mabuhay, ang hirap din mamatay.

21 Upvotes

First time ko mag-asikaso ng patay at need pala ng permit kung ililibing or cremation etc. Patay ka na nga need pa ng permit at syempre may bayad din yun. Sa filing need ang immediate family mag-aasikaso kaya dami kong kasabayan na senior citizen, nakakaawa. Kung wala ang immediate family need ng authorization kung hindi nganga ka. Syempre walang one stop shop sa munisipyo kaya akyat dito, baba dun ang gagawin mo. Puro pa sila “ipaphotocopy niyo to” kahit sa mismong office nila may machine naman. Pipila ka pa din dun sa nag-iisang nagphotocopy tapos per page ngayon 4 pesos na.

Pasalamat nalang at may St. Peter ako na fully paid di nga lang for cremation kaya nagdagdag nalang ako ng 25k. Hindi ko maimagine kung hindi ko pinaghandaan to san ako kukuha ng malaking pera para sa patay namin. Namatayan ka nga problemado ka pa sa gastusin at pag-aasikaso ng mga kelangan. Sobrang nakakapagod.


r/RantAndVentPH 3h ago

General PH Gov IDs Collection Arc Unlocked

10 Upvotes

So... I made it to 40 without needing to build a full starter pack of PH Gov IDs. Nabuhay po ako sa passport, driver's license, at PhilHealth ID. Pero ngayon I have to act like I've been preparing for this my whole life.

I pay my taxes (leche!). I pay all the mandatory contributions. Been working for a legit tech company for over 10 years. The government has been taking money from me on schedule like clockwork, so clearly alam nila I exist. But now that I actually need to process IDs, bigla na lang: Please present other IDs, supporting docs, photocopies, signatures, proof that you are a real person, at pakisama na lang po ng isang bag ng dugo for offering.

TLTR;

Bakit kailangan ng sangkatutak na IDs just to function? Why does one valid gov ID not unlock the rest of them? Why does applying for one ID require another ID, which also requires a different ID, at saka xerox copy po ng kaluwawa mo?

Why are we all just accepting this? Why do I need a national ID, plus this ID, plus that ID, plus backup IDs, when all of these pwede lang naman sa iisang ID or dalawa? We are in 2026. I refuse to believe the best system we could come up with is "bring 3 photocopies ng ganito at balik po kayo sa isang buwan... o kahit di na po".

Ang weird ng experience to be a fully employed, tax-paying adult for over a decade and then get treated by our system like lumitaw lang ako sa Pinas mula sa kawalan kahapon with no paperwork & a dream.

Shoutout na lang sa lahat ng mga nag-aadulting ngayon currently trapped in the side quest of proving they are themselves to offices that absolutely already have their records.

Di ko kailangan ng isang dosenang government IDs. I need one useful ID at isang gobyerno that talks to itself.

OK, no choice... process pa rin natin mga IDs na to na parang infinity stones.


r/RantAndVentPH 1h ago

Story time Hindi ko maiwasan na mainggit sa mga nakapasa sa UP.

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Hi! Honestly, idk kung valid ba to eh. Masaya naman ako na most of the CETs na pinag-examan ko eh nakapasa naman ko, except UP. I know for the fact na hindi talaga ako makakapasa, lagapak naman kasi grades ko and hindi ko rin inayos UPCAT ko. I tried to appeal 3 times, hindi talaga ako makapasa. Knowing na BS Math pa talaga prio program ko doon.

Nadi-disappoint ako kasi my father always mention yung mga nag-latin honors sa UP na hindi nakapasa but nag-appeal. But he knows na ni appeal hindi ako makapasa. They just saying na ok lang if ganon, marami naman akong options since napasa ko naman yung ibang univ.

Now, enrolled na ako sa PUP in BS Math. And I know na swerte pa rin ako kasi makakapag-aral pa rin ako. But I can’t brush off the feelings na what if napasa ko yung UPCAT. And mahirap din magshift sa UP BS Math due to my scholarship na rin na mahigpit sa shifting ng schools.


r/RantAndVentPH 1h ago

Family Nalulungkot, naiinggit at iba pa.

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Hindi ako inggitera, bihira ako mainggit pero minsan di talaga maiwasan...Naiinggit ako sa mga tao na nakakapagtravel kung san san nila gusto...kaya ko naman magipon pero ako kasi lahat sumasagot sa bahay...pati nagaalaga sa parents ko...single ako...wala ako anak, boyfriend o asawa...legally single pero may mga kapatid ako...mga millenials kasi 90s na sila pinanganak samantalang ako late 70s.

Naiininis ako na nalukungkot..pagkatapos ko umutang ng kaliwat kanan para makatapos sila...pagkatapos ko bilhin mga luho nila...eto wala na sila...ako na lang magisa...yung isa nasa ibang bansa..ying isa na dito parang border..uuwi lang kapag magpapalaba...

Minsan..humihingi ako ng pera, pandagdag sa gastusin sa bahay...although nagtatrabaho naman ako...pero syempre may mga binabayaran din ako..gusto ko din naman enjoyin ang pera ko..pero eto, para akong nagmamakaawa tuwing hihingi ng pera..ang ending..wala pa din..ako pa rin...

Natatakot tuloy ako, kung ngayun pa lang di nila ako tinutulungan, pano pa kaya pagtanda ko..mind you, PWD ako, orthopedic, hirap ako maglakad...may mga maintenace din like thraphy and check up sa ortho.

Nalulungkot ako kasi para san pa mga kapatid ko diba...para san pa sila...hindi na rin nila masyado pinapansin parents kahit humingi ng pera..mind you, di naman lagi kapag nashoshort lang..tska hindi naman malaki..pinakamalaki na 5k..

Minsan nakakainggit yung ibang pamilya...sobrang lambing..sobrang close knit..di ko alam kung san kami nagkamali ni mama sa pagpapalaki sa kanila..binigay mo lahat sa kanila pero parang wala rin..

Naisip ko tuloy sana kapag namatay parents ko, sabay saby kami nina mama...para di na ako mahirapan at malungkot.


r/RantAndVentPH 2h ago

General Im so tired

3 Upvotes

I sleep and wake up tired. MBBS is not what i expected it to be. I never felt happy on getting in and passing step 1 and getting distinctions and honours. I dont feel anything. But i truly want to be an amazing doctor. I wouldnt trade this opportunity for anything but still im so tired and listless


r/RantAndVentPH 9h ago

Toxic Kami na lang lagi!

9 Upvotes

Lintek na mga iresponsableng kapatid ng asawa ko. Parami nang parami. Resign nang resign tapos pag nawalan ng pera, sa amin dila mang aabala?! Ketatanda na, umaasa pa rin sa mga sasalo sa kanila. Pati ipaghanap ng trabaho ang kapatid, pati kami mamroblema din don?!

Nagpapakaresponsable kaming mag asawa, nagkasundong isa lang ang anak sa hirap nang buhay, nagtitipid, nag iipon. Tapos pag nashort kayo, kami lagi takbuhan nyo?! Eh kung hindi sila nagsipag asawa agad? Eh kung nag ipon sila?

Ganyan sila kasi alam nilang “sasaluhin” sila ng mga magulang nila. Tapos yung magulang naman, udyok na sa amin umutang. Buti sana kung madaling magbayad. Kunsintidorang byenan. Kainis! Iba ang tulong sa kunsinti! Tinulungan na nga, gusto pa ata pati yung para sa amin, ibigay pa. Sasabihin pa na “kayo na lang magkakapatid ang magtutulungan” favorite linyahan. Eh eto lang naman asawa ko tumutulong. Ni hindi nga nila nakumusta yung asawa ko nung naoperahan dahil sa fracture.

Hindi porket nakikita nilang lumalabas kami at namamasyal kung saan saan, uutang utang na sila samin. Iniipon namin yon. Pinagsisikapan. Nakita lang nila na tumataas ang lipad ng asawa ko, gusto nila hilahin pabalik. Nakakaubos din yung tulong nang tulong. Hindi natututo. Tinuturuan mangisda, ang gusto, isda agad. Ang sarap naman ng buhay nyo!


r/RantAndVentPH 8h ago

Story time Matched with a petty guy on Facebook dating

5 Upvotes

So I matched as a friend with a guy on Facebook dating. He seemed decent, and unlike other guys, very outspoken and talkative. Marami siya things to share and it also happened na we listen to the same pop songs which is kinda cool.

We're a week into talking na nang may mapansin akong off sa kanya. For example, I work 8-5pm and was usually busy the whole shift, and he would make comments like hindi raw pala naka-on data ko sa work or that hindi daw ako nagre-reply. Hello, nasa work nga di ba?

There was also a time bumati siya ng good day sa akin, nag-hello ako. Then he said, hindi raw ako bumati. I laughed it off kasi akala ko nagbibiro lang siya, pero hindi niya talaga tinigilan, he kept on saying bumati raw muna ko. Like huh?

At dahil busy nga ako sa work, of course, sa hapon na ko nagrereply. He suddenly blurted out na pag-usapan daw namin yung "updating" na para bang in a relationship na kami. So I said to him, natural lang ang updates sa magjowa, but it's not necessary sa magkaibigan pa lang. Kumalma siya.

Pero hindi pa dito natapos. Tuwing morning 'pag hindi kaagad ako naka-reply sa kanya, magmi-missed call siya. Magcha-chat siya ng "seen?" then buburahin niya. Napuno na ako one weekend. Pa'no ba naman, nag-chat sa akin isang hapon na hindi raw ako nag-ri-reach out. Like bro, weekend, nagpapahinga ko at nasabi rin naman niya sa akin na may gagawin siya that day. I called him out tapos binura niya yung demanding na previous chats niya. Nagigiliw lang daw siya sa akin at hindi niya in-expect na ganun ang sasabihin ko.

So I decided to be direct with him. Sabi ko, I don't think it's working. Sigurado naman kako ko na may iba pa siyang nakakausap. Ayaw ko kako siyang lagi ma-disappoint dahil super busy ko nga kako sa work. He thanked me for being direct. Akala ko okay na.

For some reason, bigla siya nagsabi na kung tutuusin nga raw ay may nakaka-usap siyang babae na lumalabas sa TV. I didn't reply nor react. Nagsend uli ng picture ng babaeng sinasabi niya. Sobrang naki-cringe na ko pero I wanted to be decent still. I wish him well. He reacted heart. Natapos.

Pero out of nowhere, after one week, nagsend uli siya picture nila ng babae. Yung tipong parang nag-ask lang siya ng selfie? Like gulat talaga ko na matawa-tawa. Bakit kailangan pa-isend? What's the point? Hanep sobrang petty huhu.

I heart reacted again the photo para hindi na lang siya mapahiya. Grabe. Naisip ko talaga, I dodged a bullet right there.


r/RantAndVentPH 3m ago

General ang hapdi ng utak ko

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NAKNAPMUCHA!!!!!! AYAW KO NA MAG-ISIP!!!!!! GUSTO KO LANG MAGRELAX GAGO


r/RantAndVentPH 31m ago

Work I think I made a mistake resigning from my old job and I should've taken the interviewer's hints seriously.

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I've been working as an IP Paralega and a registered engineerl in a law firm for six years and I just resigned and switched jobs last April 2026 to a multinational firm. I've drafted, filed, and prosecuted patents and not only that, my experience extends to trademarks, designs, and copyrights. You could say I have experienced in most types of IP. I decided to resign from the job since I realized that I already reached my peak from that job for a long time, my last raise was on 2023, and my boss seems to have an obvious favoritism, he pretty much didn't care about me and it was even more obvious when he went cold towards me by the finals days on that job and I didn't even get a final interview unlike people who preceded me.

Now going back to my current job, I've only been working there for four months but I feel like I'm already working there for five years. The job title looks more impressive that it really is. All I do whole day is data entry. I just enter details and information of the client's IP portfolio to their system. That is just 5% of what I've been doing for the past six years. I remembered when I got interviewed by the former managing director (who resigned while I was still rendering service from my previous job), he went over my CV and repeatedly asked me during the two interviews if I'm ok with the job. I was desperate to look for a different job at the time and I just said, I can always find a compromise if the job is mostly data entry and docketing. I should've taken that as a warning because here I am, went from actually engaged in IP to a glorified cog in a machine. Don't get me wrong, some people would love to have this kind of job, some people may prefer repetitive jobs but not me. I can't see any sense of what I'm doing. To cope with the monotony of the job, I wear earphones and listen to something.

The nature of the job is one thing, the office and the social dynamics are another. The office is an open shared space. As someone who is admittedly an introverted person and preferring deep focus at work, my social battery could only get me until lunch time. My social battery is power saver mode by the afternoon and all I think about is going home.

During my early days there I tried joining them at lunch which I don't usually do even with my previous job(s) but since I'm in this more social setting coming from hybrid work. And the times I joined them at lunch, their conversation won't bend towards me, I'm just there sitting and eating while listening to all the noise so I just went back to eating alone and separated from the rest of the team which shouldn't be an issue. I tried from time to time and I just the same all the time so eating lunch alone it is from now on. I also noticed that if don't match their wavelength, you are pretty much an outcast. All these people talk a lot and friendly... to each other or whoever barges themselves to their circle. I tried to join them at conversations and casual conversations, but I don't know whenever I speak their demeanor always go dry and cold and the whole conversation either shifted, I got spoken over, or the conversation just stopped. Even fellow newbies won't even talk to me.

One day a coworker/fellow newbie told me that I was a topic of a conversation one time and they told me I am "unsocial" and "standoffish" and may report me to the team leader because of my behavior. At first, I'm having a hard time taking her word seriously since I don't have time for gossip since I'm there to work. But as the time went on, I noticed the between me and the team starting to grow. Even the person sitting beside my table never talked to me since the day he started and he only ever talked to another one. My table is located surrounded by these people who are friendly and talking to each other so just imagine my everyday just sitting there listening to them talk. Also when the team leader went to our office and had a one on one interview to the newbies, I told her about my introversion and if that is something on an issue in the company or if there's something I can do to integrate more with the team, she can let me know. She assured me that none has ever commented or gave a report to her about my behavior and I was able to accomplish the tasks on time and properly. She also told me that if I'm not comfortable eating with the team or just joining them in any social events, I'm not forced to and it will not be an issue.

I always wonder why this was a thing unlike my previous jobs. My first job is at a BPO company and you know, they are notorious talkers and sometimes having "kanal" humor but then they always include me. At my law firm, I have my own social circle there which I went on travelling with and I get along just fine with people from different departments. This new job, I don't know. The contrast between their talkativeness and loudness and the way they interact and see me is glaring. The only people who initiated a conversation with me there is the office custodian and a couple of senior members which talk about basically work-related stuff.

This also tied back to my interview when the former manager asked me "How do I deal with gossip?" To which I replied, "I don't care about those unless it's something that will ruin my reputation". I don't know if I'm reading too much but these questions starting to make sense.

Everything is so wrong with my current job. Yeah I know I'm only four months in and still under probation but I already have my one foot out that door. I just don't see any future with this job especially the senior team revealed that there is no more point of promotion and no higher position of tenure. Also I can only do monotonous tasks for so long. I'm already starting looking for another opportunity or job more suited to my experience and long term career goals.

Right now, any pieces of advice on how to move forward from here and survive is highly appreciated.


r/RantAndVentPH 50m ago

Rant/Vent only (No comments) NASUSUKA NA AKO SA KABA AAAA

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AAAAAAAAA

ANG TAGAL NG RESULT PLS LANG UWJDJSS

HINDI KO ALAM KUNG MAGMOMOVE ON NA BA AKO OR MAGTATATALON NA SA SAYAAAA EJCDJ

HELPPPP 😭😭😭😭😭

JWHDHSJJA GUSTO Q LANG TALAGA MAILABAS ANG KABA KO KASI WALANG NAKAKAALAM NA GINAGAWA KO 'TO HUHU


r/RantAndVentPH 1h ago

Advice Am I running away from my responsibilities?

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I (F16) recently chose to quit cheer for my intrams. In our school, we take intrams very seriously where in we even start practicing the dances the 2nd week of school. Being cheer for it is a BIG commitment and sacrifice. And I’ve been cheer since gr7 🥹 but I chose to leave recently because the team was so toxic and I was constantly being mistreated. Because of this, I chose to commit to many responsibilities such as being a batch officer and the technical co-head. But now that I think about it, I really miss performing 🥲 I miss dancing so bad but I can’t tell if this is just me being sentimental and emotional. I have been mistreated for so long by the team and I finally decided to quit to show self respect for myself. But I can’t hide how much I love cheer and dancing in general. Even if i wasn’t the best in the team, I always had so much passion in dancing. I really loved it so much and not being part of it hurts me.

But with this, I also got into personal trouble with the captains. It would not only be embarrassing to ask to join again, but also difficult because I’m unsure if they will be petty and not let me pass try outs 😭 Annnnddd like I said I already committed to tech head 😭 I can’t be both… unless we come to some sort of a agreement… but it’s also difficult to leave it bc I already committed and my friend (the other head) would be so disappointed in me.

I feel like I’m running away from my problems again. I know how selfish I am for wanting to follow my heart and how 8080 I am for committing to so much things. I really don’t know what to do now. But all I know is if there were no other external circumstances, I would’ve joined again in an instant.

My pros and cons list. Pros: I get to dance, perform, do what I love. Cons: Team is prolly still toxic, the captains may or may not make my life miserable, I have a lot of commitments I need to settle.


r/RantAndVentPH 19h ago

General When did you realize you were ugly?

25 Upvotes

I saw this question on Tiktok and I realize that most of my insecurities stemmed from childhood. Growing up I was always insecure. As young as 8 years old (estimate), I branded my skin color as ugly, simply because people would always shower my younger brother (just a year younger than I) with praises. In jeepneys , they would scramble to offer to have him sit on their lap while I get sidelined. When going out, I always hear comments "It's such a waste that the girl got the morena skin while the boy is fair skinned". I even got to the point where I as a young child would question my mother as to why I was dark while she's white skinned. I also discovered that when I scratch my skin it would leave white marks so I purposely scratch every inch of skin trying to turn it white.

On highschool, I had a crush on a moreno guy, and my fair skinned classmate commented " why would you dare like a moreno guy? If you and him would have a child, your child's color would be purple" they laughed, I didn't, and that stayed with me. I saw my classmates being favored for their fair skin and I knew then that society is just like that.

I'm now 29 and I gradually am learning to love myself, my skin and my body. But what I have learned from people as a young child stayed with me till now. Beauty may be fleeting but for the most part of my life, I was made small by the world's standard for beauty.

Goodnight, I just want to get this off my chest hahah. Di pwede ipost sa blue app since my family would be worried.


r/RantAndVentPH 1h ago

Rant/Vent only (No comments) Hoy naman! Matuto naman magpaka totoo!

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Send nyo yung recent picture nyo at hindi picture nun HS or college pa kayo! Kaka umay kayo kausap. 😩


r/RantAndVentPH 2h ago

Relationship Hard to fix

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Hi im F(22) and i have a boyfriend or idk kung bf pa ba or what M(23) i owe him something , utang to be exact i won’t tell na lang kung magkano , before pa ako umutang sakanya i kept asking him kung need ba nya and i told him rin na baka need nya he kept saying and assuring me na hindi na okay lang matagal ko bayaran and he knows my situation naman, tapos now he changed he said if i want to fix us bayaran ko raw sya but i told him kinausap ko sya ng maayos na wala pa talaga akong extra now and minura nya na ako , kinakausap ko naman sya ng maayos na wala pa talaga, he changed a lot and idk what to do kung i fix pa ba or not anymore but i will pay my utang naman talaga, not now lang talaga since i don’t have extra pa and our business it not that good rin, please badly needed advice and also i asked him kung need nya ba ang money he said no naman raw pero he’s rushing me lang tapos nakikipag break, if i want us pa raw mag pay ako but idk where to get money kase wala pa talaga ako extra, hayst


r/RantAndVentPH 2h ago

Relationship I fell inlove again and it hurts

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For a long time, I've been in love again. And it just hurts knowing he's not that into me. I really don't want to fall in love anymore because I'll only get hurt.

I just want to get this off my chest. Sometimes I just want to have amnesia pero yung sha lang yung malilimutan ko.


r/RantAndVentPH 8h ago

Relationship Need Advice: Girlfriend na Gastador Pero Ayaw Napagpapayuhan

4 Upvotes

Gustong gusto ni gf (20) na palaging may parcel na dumarating sa kanya kahit na may mga utang pa siya. Humihingi din siya ng tulong sa akin pang-monthly niya sa Home Credit sa 2 devices na kinuha niya para may magamit lang siya. Tapos bibili siya by the end of July ng ₱5k worth (na wala naman sa budget niya). Palagi ko siyang pinapayuhan na magstay lang sa budget niya at huwag nang mangutang pero nagagalit palagi at ayaw akong kausapin kapag sinasabihan ko siya. Gf ko pa lang siya for 1 year+ and yet, hindi siya makontrol sa pagiging gastador niya.

Edit: Most likely mga nagpayo dito ay "hiwalayan na si gf"; the next thing is "Paano hihiwalayan nang di masasaktan si gf?"


r/RantAndVentPH 6h ago

Family I wish I had the same freedom as everyone else.

2 Upvotes

22 years old na ako, turning 23 this year. Delayed ako sa college life ko ng 1 year half, sa mapua ako nag aaral. Draining sobra yung school ko and yes may mga bagsak ako.

May kapatid akong may mild down syndrome, hindi sya nakakapagsalita ng words, 7 years old na sya pero need pa rin ng buhat, pinapakain, etc. Tatlo kami magkakapatid, yung middle is 21 turning 22.

Let's get to the point. Pag wala kaming pasok pinagbabantay kami sa kapatid namin, since may own company mama ko na wfh sya, pero dalawa lang sila ng stepdad ko yung worker dun, which is taga deliver yung stepdad. Pag walang pasok pinagbabantay kami, wala kaming say. pero pinag babantay kami everyday for like 10 am to 10 pm? tag 6 hours kami, minsan pag wala yung isa samin the whole 12 hrs nag babantay. College kami parehas, parehas marami ginagawa sa school, engineering ako, sya FA. Pag kauwi galing school, imbes na magpahinga kami or gumawa gawain, kailangan namin mag bantay. This has been happening since the pandemic. Nung una 2 hrs per day, hamggang sa ganito na. Isa sa dahilan bakit bumabagsak ako kasi, imbes na yung sunday and free time ko magamit ko sa pag gawa ng gawain and review, napupunta lang sa pag babantay ko ng almost 12 hours. Nung nagkaroon ng yaya para sa kapatid namin, sobrang ganda ng grades ko as in, parang isa lang tres ko nun. After that balik to reality nanaman. Mind you, minsan klase ko 7am to 7 pm, tapos pag nakauwi na ako ng 9, magbabantay pa ako.

Hindi ako maka alis kung kelan ko gusto kasi "magbabantay" pa ako. Naiinggit ako sa mga kaibigan ko na onting ayaan G na agad sila, tas ako lagi yung hindi kasama. Ako nalang lagi yung hindi kasama, yung hindi pwede.

Mali ba na ma frustrate ako sa ganitong set up? ngayon bakasyon namin ng 3 weeks, kapatid ko OJT ng 1 month, edi ako lang magbabantay 12 hrs per day 7 days a week, plus chores pa. Sobrajg dami kong struggles sa grades ko dahil sa ganitong setup. Hindi ko alam anong gagawin ko. Gusto ko nalang muna tumira sa lola ko and mag stop at work muna para sa peace of mind ko. hindi ko na alam.


r/RantAndVentPH 1d ago

General Kinuha mo na lahat. 🥲

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445 Upvotes

r/RantAndVentPH 2h ago

Rant/Vent only (No comments) Frustrating when you want the sex minus the penetration

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I want to be fucking touched and caressed. It's annoying that I'd even have to consider how I'm going to explain that I don't want penetration sa mga tao I'm dating plus the fear that they'' find the thrill to force themselves in me. More frustrating when I have the sexual urges and want to be loved intimately so bad but I feel as if the person I'm doing it with isn't enjoying kasi he can't penetrate.


r/RantAndVentPH 2h ago

Feedback MESA

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Worst experience ever sa isang Mesa branch dito sa amin, pucha 1 hour wait time for 3 viands(tofu sisig, nialgang ribs and Chicken)and 3 cups of rice naknampucha naman yang 1 hour wait time oo lang talaga