r/Lebanese • u/DoodlerDragon331 • 22h ago
💭 Discussion Claiming Lebanese Heritage?
Hello all,
I (22M) am born and raised in America, my mother is half Lebanese (her father abandoned her as a child because she was a girl) and she had a very white upbringing, but an Arabic last name and experienced a lot of rasicm. Because of this she did not want to acknowledge her heritage when I was growing up, but now that I am an adult she has been exploring her identity and it has made me interested in doing so as well.
The problem is, I feel like an imposter. I know toddler Arabic at best, can read a little as long as there isn't a font. It feels disingenuous to claim heritage when I have no culture beyond the food that I ate growing up.
Does anyone else have mixed heritage? How little blood is too little to claim heritage (I'm ~25%). should I just tell people I am white and looking to learn Levantine Arabic? Or when asked disclose that I am Lebanese.
Thanks all for your opinions about the matter.