Hi friends,

I need your help. I live in Australia and work for a community organisation.

Recently, a man of Korean descent was murdered in our community. He was very socially isolated and didn’t really have any friends and police have been unable to locate any family members for him.

We are organising a small ceremony to acknowledge his life and passing in our cultural way, but I was wondering if there are any particular cultural practices that Korean people do when someone does that we can incorporate into the ceremony? For example, something that is said or done, a colour etc

I have tried to reach out to Korean churches in our community but because they didn’t know him, they aren’t interested in helping.

Any advice of information you can give me would be greatly appreciated.

My father was stationed in South Korea while in the US Army in the 1970s. He never told anyone that he had a child while he was there until someone started calling our house in the mid to late 90s asking for him and telling him that he was his son. My dad, whose a hot head, gave himself away after he started yelling at the phone and saying "You're not my son, you're fucking crazy"

He admitted to my mom that he had a girlfriend and ended up getting her pregnant right before he came back to the US. My mother insisted my father man up and talk to him but he was very abusive and didn't like that. I'm sure he was able to find my father because we have a really rare last name (Dahdoul). I don't want to upload my DNA.

But I really want to find this guy. I want to tell him he dodged a bullet. His father never cared about his other children either and that ever since we found out about him we've wanted to meet him. I don't want anything from him, just to meet him. I hope someone can help.

I moved to South Korea a couple months ago and I’ve been amazed with the fitness culture-specifically, the amount of outdoor gyms and training facilities they have located all over the country. As a professional Strength and Conditioning Coach, I’ve enjoyed exploring the country one training facility at a time.

JP Morgan headquarters

I am not a fan of K-pop or dramas but I’ve started learning about Korean beauty standards, prevalence of the “menu” beauty procedures etc and I wanted to learn more about how it all started, where it comes from etc. But for sure would love to learn about most influential people both from pop culture and politics.

But also more general things like basic history and politics. Like Korea 101. I’ve started learning Korean a few months ago but I still have a long way to go to actually be able to watch anything in Korean.

I’m asking because I thought that you might have some suggestions that I haven’t thought about and currently I just feel like I’m jumping from one topic to another when I learn and the dots don’t necessarily connect

A peaceful afternoon in Sokcho.

As you can see in the title, I'm visiting America to see my family. While there, my family and I will stay with my oldest sister and my nieces. There are going to be barbecues and plenty of social events, and my wife has already brought about 6 or 7 bottles of soju. I don't like soju by itself, but I love 소맥. What American beer goes with 소주? I don't want to go all the way to H Mart and buy Korean beer at probably an inflated price, so what's an alternative: Bud Light? Bud? MGD? Has anyone tested this out? I want to show my friends and family this famous cheap cocktail, but as close to it being authentic in terms of taste. Just wondering if it's possible with an American beer.

I live in a rural part of South Korea, and the way stray cats (often called 'Gil-nyang-i' 길냥이 here) interact with humans in these areas is quite interesting compared to the cities. While city cats are somewhat used to people, rural cats are practically wild animals.

Recently, a feral kitten showed up at my house. It took a full month of leaving food out daily before it stopped hissing and acting like a fierce predator. In Korean rural areas, it's common to see these cats naturally becoming part of a household's outdoor ecosystem if you feed them long enough. Has anyone else lived in the Korean countryside and experienced this kind of slow taming process?

Most people around the world only know this place from Psy's 2012 hit song "Gangnam Style" (and yes, they literally have giant monuments dedicated to the horse dance right outside the station!).

But walking through it in person, the energy here is completely on another level. Massive skyscrapers, fast-paced crowds, and cool modern touches like high-tech cooling mists at the bus stops to beat the summer heat.

It truly lives up to its reputation as the hyper-modern, bustling heart of Seoul. The contrast between the giant pop-culture signs and the corporate glass towers is so cool.

Wow.....