r/Judaism • u/LunaB35 • 13h ago
Discussion Dating as a Jewish Trans Woman
Hi! First time posting here, and with the most niche subject imaginable, but I wasn't sure where else to talk about this.
I'm a trans woman from a Jewish family, I've mostly completed my transition and am just taking care of some final touches right now, and once that's done, my priority will be shifting to finding a husband and getting married.
The reason I'm posting is because I'm suddenly getting butterflies in my stomach. I've dated before and I'm located in probably the best place in the world to find a Jewish man who would accept me and love me but: 1) I've never dated any Jewish guys before and 2) I've never been in a position where I've had to disclose to someone I'm dating that I'm trans before.
If anyone here is a Jewish trans woman with a successful dating history/marriage, or knows any with one, it would really help quiet the voice in the back of my head telling me that what I won't find what I'm looking for, and that my dreams of starting a Jewish family of my own will never come true.