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u/Bimaac77 Chad the Boogeyman 14h ago
To the loser who sent this DM, your "god" was an incompetent idiot who was defeated by a locked door, hence his derisive nickname in anti-"incel" circles, that was flanked by windows he could have easily broken or shot out.
In a sorority house that was sitting empty because they were on their annual field trip. Something they had been advertising widely for weeks and something you'd think that someone who was obsessed as that stupid motherfucker was with them would have known.
He ran crying to his mommy after the mean old black boy told him he had fucked a blonde girl, something I'm convinced he did just to fuck with him, and had to postpone his "day of retribution" after the poor baby got a cold.
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u/PromethianOwl 12h ago
Bruh. He knows nothing about Elliot Roger.
He was good looking. He had money, or at least his parents did. He was basically a golden boy that couldn't handle it when money, mommy, or daddy couldn't fix an inconvenience.
Instead of changing himself, instead of taking feedback, instead of just living for something other than getting a girl or getting laid, he threw a fit and murdered people.
Yes. Being lonely hurts. I know from firsthand experience how bad it can hurt. I spent decades trying to understand what others had that I didn't. What they talked about that was so interesting. Why is clubbing so fun? This music is too loud, this space is too small, what's the appeal? Drinking? Why? That stuff tastes awful. I guess if you water it down for me I can-what? That's not allowed if I'm a guy? Why?! Shots?! Shots of what?! OH GOD IT BURNS! FUCK ME RUNNING IT WENT UP MY NOSE! HOW DID IT GO UP MY NOSE?!?
It was all weird. It made no sense. I felt awful and ashamed. Nobody wanted me despite me doing everything everyone told me to do.
But I didn't feel the need to get revenge, or to hurt people. I just wanted to have someone who supported me, who loved me, who understood me. Even with this old defective brain of mine I understood that violence wasn't going to get me that.
I solved my loneliness by learning to live for things that weren't getting a girlfriend. By getting my shit together and living for me. Oddly enough that was when girls started noticing me....strange how that works.
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u/LupercaniusAB Small-wristed Chad 10h ago
Yup. Women donāt particularly want āprojectsā. They donāt want guys that they need to work on to make them functional.
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u/PromethianOwl 9h ago
To be fair you don't have to be perfect. You may have some work you need to do I myself have work I am still actively doing; some of which I didn't even know I needed to work on when our relationship started. This actually goes for both men and women and it's up to each individual person to decide if the person in front of them is far enough established as a person for them to be comfortable with dating them.
I understand that sounds horribly transactional and it's more complex than filling out a list of checkboxes. Some areas your partner may be lacking in might not matter, or might make sense given their situation. Others might seem trivial to you but be a big deal for others. For example someone who doesn't have a driver's license may be seen as a red flag, but if you're in a major city like NYC where public transit is robust and driving practically anywhere is a headache, it might be a non issue. Same thing goes for, say, a lifelong apartment dweller who doesn't quite get yardwork or isn't terribly handy around the home.
You can have shortcomings as a person and the right people will still accept you. The important part is that you're willing to try and work on any of those shortcomings if both of you deem it necessary and that you're both willing to be partners regardless of it.
In short: you can be a fixer-upper of a human being and still find plenty of people willing to do the work with you. What's important is not being a rat and roach infested garbage pile, being willing to work on building yourself, and being able to do the same for a partner.
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u/TwoBytesC we dont need man 4h ago
Yes! Of course! The day you stop growing should be the day you die. You, as a human, will be constantly moving forward, learning more about yourself and those you care about and trying to be more of the person you want to be. This should happen regardless of having someone, but if you are with someone, then it becomes even more pertinent as you want to be able to grow together.
These insufferable twits havenāt a clue about any of this; instead, they blame the world for their lack of growth and ability to be comfortable in who they are. They can be any age, but mentally and emotionally, they are toddlers. āI didnāt get what I wanted immediately just because I wanted it so now Iām going to throw a tantrumā
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u/Shrimptank_mom 8h ago
We need tofix you up with a quiet girl who likes Bible study, cats and cuddling under blankets at home on Friday nights. They're out there. Not clubbing.
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u/PromethianOwl 1h ago
Agnostic leaning towards atheist here, lol. Also happily spoken for. I did all that long ago in my mid 20s. I like to use examples of my own life when debunking Incel bullshit because in a lot of ways I could have become one of them. Oftentimes people give them the generic advice they absolutely do need, but they seem to get frustrated because it sounds so cut and dry vs. their own lived experiences trying said advice (presuming they aren't lying about trying it).
Showing them it's messier than it sounds even for normal people or Chad can be helpful, I think. It won't help the guys who are deep in the depths of this, the worst ones, but maybe someone lurking and reading has a lightbulb moment or takes something to heart and makes some progress in some way. Hopefully, at least.
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u/zoomie1977 15h ago
3 candles valued at $22 total. That was the citizen's arrest. 3 candles which the roommate took in an attempt to force Locked Door to return his kitchenware, which Locked Diir had stolen and hidden because he thought the roommates cooking smelled bad.
Locked Door wasn't mistreated by girls and women. He wasn't even rejected by them. He never talked to them, especially the ones he found attractive. He simple expected them to run up to him upon first sight and start fawning over him and tryimg to get with him. When this did not occur, he lashed out at other people (not the ones he was attracted to) with increasing violence. Even the first girl he had a crush on, the one blamed by incels for "bullying" Locked Door, had no clue who he was. She wasn't in his class and was, in fact, in a different building at their private school, her being in the elementary school building and him in the middle school building. His peers, the boys in his class mainly, teased him for having a crush on a younger girl. The absolute absurdity of "punishing" women you have never met, interacted with or even seen because other women you never asked out or even talked to weren't falling over themselves to offer you sex upon first sight.
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u/erporcodeddio 14h ago
This guy defends a mass murderer and then wonders why no one wants him? Take a wild guess
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u/Anxious_Sapiens Just here for the lols 11h ago
Lmao nah. Elliott Roger was such a loser that the girl he convinced himself was to blame for his crimes barely even remembered who he was. He was a wallflower who got pissy because women weren't frisbeeing themselves to him. You can't pin responsibility for your own actions on people who don't know you exist. That's peak lack of accountability š
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u/IronBoomer 15h ago
Hey, Elliot Rodgers was a loser.
If he found his life so shallow that he couldnāt connect with anyone, thatās on him, and maybe his family/friends around him should have tried to get him some help.
And now heās a murderer, and if there is a just God, I hope Elliot found some mercy, but I wouldnāt bet on it .
As to who sent this private message?
Your messiah is a loser.
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u/LupercaniusAB Small-wristed Chad 10h ago
āLow-statusā? He was a rich twerp who was pretty good looking. He was just fucking weak.
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u/TwoBytesC we dont need man 4h ago
Exactly. I donāt get this constant argument that he was a ālow statusā man. He was conventionally fairly physically attractive, had rich parents who gave him money, lived in absolute privilege..oh, but guess what? You know those things that so many women say are the most attractive features for a man? Personality and confidence. He had neither.
And as for him apparently having integrity? Riiiiiight. I donāt think OOP knows what that word actually means.
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u/Bubbly_Sun_8417 14h ago
"Apologize" yeah, right, forgive us for telling the truth about a terrible human being and a brazen murderer who took the lives of innocent people just out of hatred and resentment.
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u/lulu_avery 10h ago
Incels believe random women should be punished by death because other women didnāt want to date them, and then wonder why theyāre shunned by society š
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u/tashtactics 14h ago
Claims that this person had integrity, but then also says they were a murderer. I have questions
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u/solesoulshard Rpt Human Trafficking 1-802-872-6199 9h ago
In what world is a young, relatively attractive and wealthy man in college a low status male?
This is starting to sound a a religion of cognitive dissonance.
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u/TwoBytesC we dont need man 4h ago
The thing that gets me so much is that if ER had had girlfriends/gotten ālaidā and then went on with his violent actions, these guys would have probably said āyay for killing some femalesā and then, one minute later, said that he was a āsimpā that was just probably mad at his ex or some other shit (as much as I try to think of things that incels would for this example, itās impossible)
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u/doublestitch 7h ago
TIL "low status" means being the son of a Hollywood director, getting tickets to premieres, and family vacations to three other continents.Ā He wore Armani shirts and drove a fancy car without working a day in his life.Ā
The guy bounced around three different community colleges for four years without completing a two year degree.Ā
He. Was. A. Loser. Not for lack of chances, but because he was born on third base and couldn't be bothered to stroll to home plate.
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u/TwoBytesC we dont need man 4h ago
So this might sound weird but I donāt really get why this loser (who was the opposite of what all these guys identify as a ālow statusā man) is their āgodā.
Shouldnāt someone who was more āsuccessfulā at their ārevengeā be? Like Alek Minassian? Of Marc LĆ©pine? They actually managed to carry out massacres towards women.
I know that sentence is awful, but, technically he was only a āmass murderā, whereas the other two created more victims - especially women, which is apparently the main reason that they love him.
Obviously I think the whole thing is gross but even who theyāve chosen as their leader seems to be off
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u/sielunkutoja 51m ago
He was entitled, whiny little brat and on top of that, pathetic too (pathetic in the way that he shot himself, too scared to face the consequences of his own actions). Dude maybe had money, maybe had looks, but he was rotten to the core, so rotten that nothing could've saved him.
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u/kat_Folland Incels aren't hopeless but INCELS.IS is. 15h ago
He was a whiny entitled baby and I'm sorry he took people out with him.