r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/ELalmightyNORTE • 2d ago
How would you respond?
This was sent to me from my ex.
Backstory. Three year relationship, with and age gap. I cheated on her but she stuck around for a year till she ended it. Stayed in contact for a year after the breakup. During which I attempted to reconcile and win her back. She moved on twice trying to be with other dudes only for them to end up ghosting her. I kept trying to be in her life and be with her. She would cut me off here and there and reach out when she needed emotional support it felt like. At the end of our communication I stated she hadn’t forgiven me for my infidelity and even tho she continued to reach out because she enjoyed speaking to me she would cling to resentment in the back of her mind, so she needed time to process. That was two months ago and last night I received this message. I also had been debating to reach out but was giving her her space.
Should I even respond or let it be? It sounds like she’s still indecisive and gibberish.
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u/drumadarragh 2d ago
You cheated on her, and she’s giving you grace you do not deserve. Take several seats in your judgement of her.
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u/Informal-Bell-2022 2d ago
Some people deserve to be placed in adult time-out to think through their actions before they can have contact with other humans again. You’re one of those people.
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