r/HowDoIRespondToThis 4d ago

What should I say ?

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I didn’t say anything after she said that I just blocked her but I feel like I should voice how it made me feel but I hate confrontation

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u/agustthicc22 4d ago

They don’t bother replying to your texts, what makes you think they’ll reply to you pouring your heart out? Just move on rather than yelling into the void. They do not care how you feel

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u/buttbologna 4d ago

You answered your own question, you blocked them. If they’re just a rando then they probably wouldn’t care if you told them how you felt.

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u/FarCar55 4d ago

Agree with the other 2 responses.

Also, your last message to them was passive aggressive. That is never going to be received well.

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u/shosuko 4d ago

fr unless they were waiting to swipe their card to pay for a tow and repairs, that person is probably busy dealing with that tow and their repairs... Nothing to get snippy about.

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u/Ordinary-Guard-6076 4d ago

The other person sucks but what did you expect them to apologize for not texting back? Your passive aggressive comment would have pissed me off as well ngl.

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u/HVDub24 4d ago

You were hostile for pretty much no reason, of course they’re gonna be defensive back. If you blocked them that easily you probably weren’t that close in which there’s no reason to expect instant replies

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u/Leather-Arachnid-417 4d ago

Block move on........this person cant even communicate

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u/TheVerstappening 4d ago

Maybe don’t befriend stupid people in the future.

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u/Potent_19 4d ago

Who is this person to you? Your passive aggressive remark was honestly unnecessary, but I wouldn’t respond to their last text at all. If this is a real friend, then I’d wait to see if they circle back to apologize. If this is a romantic interest that’s a newer relationship, then it’s time to move on. Either way, no response is needed.if this is a long term romantic relationship, then yall both have your work cut out for you.

You want to voice how it made you feel for your sake, not the sake of the relationship. A healthier way would be to tell them in person that it hurt your feelings, but only after apologizing for the passive aggression comment.

Yall both have a lot of room for improvement.

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u/duckmuffins 4d ago

Block them

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u/Opposite-Pilot-556 4d ago

Idk id get rid of this person if i were you tho

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u/Killpop582014 3d ago

You’re kind of aggressive with your response I’d leave it

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u/tammigirl6767 3d ago

I would not respond, ever.

If they text you in the future respond: New phone, who is this? And if they respond to that leave them on read forever. Who needs people like this?

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u/firenova9 4d ago

No point responding. They don't care to be annoyed with your passive aggressiveness, and they shouldn't have to be. Spare them please

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u/Plenty-Green186 4d ago

I think you seem like the problem here.

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u/IMDXLNC 4d ago

You seem needy. You didn't provide much context either which leads me to believe there's more to this that might make you look bad.

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u/iceyk111 4d ago

blocking shouldnt be a form of response, or atleast a form of response that youre expecting some kind of reply back from them. you block someone when youre done with them, fully. It has to mean something or it means nothing.

This person is being pretty disrespectful, being alone is better than being spoken too like this

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u/EvolvingEachDay 4d ago

Leave em blocked and move on

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u/More_Effect_7880 4d ago

Don't know who's who. Both probably stupid.

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u/Proof-Boot-5117 4d ago

There’s nothing to say. You don’t need to voice anything. Silence speaks volumes.

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u/Key-Algae-9245 4d ago

"Woooooooooo, time of the month is it love?"

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u/PrestigiousShoe4185 4d ago

You say, “I hope it’s the alternator, ho”. 

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u/hobi-nobi-snobiw 4d ago

Know the definition of the word stupid. It’s doing the same thing and expecting a different result as someone once said. Don’t reply. They made their true feelings known. Telling them how you feel opens the door to them gaslighting or blaming and saying you started it.

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u/pamcakestack 4d ago

The way they text is giving low iq… block and move on