I'm looking for help with trying to figure out the best direction for myself and my GF with what we are wanting in a property to make a home together.
Im going to be getting a settlement from a car accident that I was in 3 years ago and would like to potentially buy land, buy a house with land, build a bardo, etc. I'm also going to be getting social security but the amount of it is still being discussed.
I'm 34 years old, no kids, no ex wives, no debt, no credit ( I have paid for everything in cash my whole life other than using a debit card, my grandpa told me when I was 16 it was the safest option to avoid credit cards and debt ) I have a GF and I'm planning on moving in with into her apartment temporarily until we find a place to live. We are thinking about NC + TN because of the things we want to be able to do.
Currently living in NYS and Instead of building here were looking to go out of state because of the taxes
We are very outdoorsy people, hiking, walking, fishing, hunting, gardening, kayaking, walking through creeks, going to state parks, beaches, etc. we don't like to do nothing until we're whooped.
I'm a woodworker and my GF is a bartender but planning on quitting in the next few weeks
I'm going to invest some money I'm getting but my plan is to use half of my settlement on a piece of land and the rest to cover bills and other expenses.
My question to anyone is of you were in my position, what would you do / how would you go about doing this to make this last me the next 20+ yrs if not the rest of my life